FabSwingers.com forum: My profile is not working WHY?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My profile seems to not work any help ladies please ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My profile seems to not work any help ladies please ???"

Pictures arent very flattering try some better lot ones and more flattering poses

Text really needs bulking out on the personality side.

Give some nice simple things that people can use as ice breakers.

"Hi I am here to enjoy a women as she should be enjoyed.

I am also here to help her enjoy her body and my body together as one"

And i dont know about the women but those two lines made my skin crawl, They come across creepy in text.

One thing I will ay is all those overt references to sex, pleasure, or what you're gonna do to a woman never work.

They come across weird, go for more normal conversarion.

If you wouldn't say it within 10 mins of meeting somone for the first time in a bar dont put it in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and this will be a major negative reaction from the forum, But the forum isnt the majority of the site.

Hide your veries.

Just leave the tick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok was just trying to be nice I guess I need to work on it then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok was just trying to be nice I guess I need to work on it then "

You have to remeber it won't be read in the tone you wrote it.

It will be read in the readers head.

So take a more light hearted aproach.

You want them smiling as they read it.

And you want them to be able to make a very easy comment in return to you (also good if theres a lil in conversation)

So pick something thats a bit unusual about you that you could see Hugh grant saying in a Rom com

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Your profile text suggests to me that you feel you know better than the woman herself what she will enjoy and are intent on showing her. Sex is a two way thing and almost every woman on here is pretty sure of what she's after.

Just write a little about what you're after and what you can offer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Working ???

Its you that needs to put the effort in .... attend socials etc ..

You can't bang up too below average pictures and complain it isn't "working "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So what type of pictures?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

want to go to a club if you will take me - hmmmmm ladies dont want to be a cheap ticket into a club

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

I would take out the bit saying 'I won't reply to all'.

Unless you're inundated with messages of course, which is unlikely as you wouldn't have started this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not reading as creepy now so im guessing that bit was changed,but now it's a tad bland and generic... it needs some personality

Occasionally accommodate = married in the mind of most, that won't help

Pics, I think the nicest way of putting it is to do the best with what you have.. being fairly honest about your appearance is great but that topless pic really isn't.

I have one a bit like that I thought twice about posting....and we're in very different shapes

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