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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was wondering what is the attraction of older men to younger girls?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was wondering what is the attraction of older men to younger girls? "

Daddy issues, money, the fact they can reach for a better quality guy who is settling for a younger girl etc.

I mean most young girls with old guys have zero career prospects.

But the guys are ok woth that.

But a woman thier own age theyd be expecting a more equal partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plain and simple x

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By *ab_SparklesWoman
over a year ago

sparkle Surprised

I like older or few years younger than me, simply cause there ment to be more respectful in a normal life, on here just respect of boundaries and if they want a fiddle pay a escort...

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Plain and simple x"

Are you talking about the girls?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like about 5 years younger than me. I don't have any career prospects as I,m too old, so a rich young man will do me nicely (for sexual purposes of course) XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like about 5 years younger than me. I don't have any career prospects as I,m too old, so a rich young man will do me nicely (for sexual purposes of course) XXX"

Probably a great answer,to a completely different question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I grew up with three older brothers, the youngest being 5 years older than me.

Therefore I was used to mixing with guys older than me, by this I mean their friends. So up until my mid thirties there was always a minimum age gap in my choice of partner.

Now I have no preference either way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beats me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was wondering what is the attraction of older men to younger girls?

Daddy issues, money, the fact they can reach for a better quality guy who is settling for a younger girl etc.

I mean most young girls with old guys have zero career prospects.

But the guys are ok woth that.

But a woman thier own age theyd be expecting a more equal partner"

Totally not this hunny x

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By *omez42Man
over a year ago

gloucester

Experience

Not just in sex.

I get along very well with a lady 20 years my junior. She knows she can speak to me on any subject under the sun, and I will give her an honest, considered opinion. Likewise, I can get a younger perspective from her.

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By *illclimberMan
over a year ago

Bredon

I rarely post on here but having read some of the mindless drivel written above then I have to reply!

'Daddy issues', 'their money' 'no career prospects'?? Not generalising then eh?!

My wife is 22yrs younger than me, a gorgeous size 6 who worked at a pole dancing club in order to fun her university course .... ooh, hang on, no career prospects?

When we met (worked together) I was bankrupt following a messy divorce so she certainly wasn't after my money!

We have been together for 7 years, married for 3 and are incredibly happy ... intellectually equal, financially equal and have worked incredibly hard in order to be able to live the dream of living in the countryside .... at least out here we don't have to deal with the type of small minded jealousy and bigotry illustrated above!

An no, she doesn't call me Daddy!

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

There more understanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely post on here but having read some of the mindless drivel written above then I have to reply!

'Daddy issues', 'their money' 'no career prospects'?? Not generalising then eh?!

My wife is 22yrs younger than me, a gorgeous size 6 who worked at a pole dancing club in order to fun her university course .... ooh, hang on, no career prospects?

When we met (worked together) I was bankrupt following a messy divorce so she certainly wasn't after my money!

We have been together for 7 years, married for 3 and are incredibly happy ... intellectually equal, financially equal and have worked incredibly hard in order to be able to live the dream of living in the countryside .... at least out here we don't have to deal with the type of small minded jealousy and bigotry illustrated above!

An no, she doesn't call me Daddy!"

Of course its generalising its a question with about 1 billion subject couples.

I dont think fabs has the server space to quite a scenario specific answer to every one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm chatting to a 23 yr old on my twitter account at the moment. She absolutely craves sex with older guys. Not for money but just for the quality of the sex. Oh and she loves the dad bod too

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I'm chatting to a 23 yr old on my twitter account at the moment. She absolutely craves sex with older guys. Not for money but just for the quality of the sex. Oh and she loves the dad bod too "

Holy crap ! Do you need a wingman

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Was wondering what is the attraction of older men to younger girls? "

To simplistic a question that would take over the whole forum if explored fully.

Fantasy, money, gold digger, experience, something different, security,

but just as many if not more wouldn't touch an older guy as they prefer men there own age or maybe a couple of years older.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Slim has had a lifelong attraction to older guys, not a ££ thing at all, she likes being taken in hand by an older guy (better still, guys)and feels safe and wanted and responds in kind. Works for us

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"I rarely post on here but having read some of the mindless drivel written above then I have to reply!

'Daddy issues', 'their money' 'no career prospects'?? Not generalising then eh?!

My wife is 22yrs younger than me, a gorgeous size 6 who worked at a pole dancing club in order to fun her university course .... ooh, hang on, no career prospects?

When we met (worked together) I was bankrupt following a messy divorce so she certainly wasn't after my money!

We have been together for 7 years, married for 3 and are incredibly happy ... intellectually equal, financially equal and have worked incredibly hard in order to be able to live the dream of living in the countryside .... at least out here we don't have to deal with the type of small minded jealousy and bigotry illustrated above!

An no, she doesn't call me Daddy!"
does she know you are on here as a single guy? No mention of her on your profile .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slim has had a lifelong attraction to older guys, not a ££ thing at all, she likes being taken in hand by an older guy (better still, guys)and feels safe and wanted and responds in kind. Works for us"

See now woupd that come under the "daddy" issues catagory?

A older man providing a feeling of safety and security as a father would.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

To varying degrees I've always had older partners. At least ten years older since my 30s.

I love the maturity and experience, which applies to many things, including sex. I like to be treated like a lady and older guys understand this more than my own age and younger.

Also looks I'm attracted to older guys more.

As for money wow it's 2017. Thanks for the comments above, but I've worked from 16 and as an adult always being financially independent.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Erm, I think there are lots of reasons as to why they do... maybe ask one and find out their personal reason? Or just generalise using negative reasons That works too.

For me? I just do. I've thought about it a lot before.

I don't have daddy issues, my career is going great and I'm comfortable financially. My current partner is 15+years older than me and we work well together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely post on here but having read some of the mindless drivel written above then I have to reply!

'Daddy issues', 'their money' 'no career prospects'?? Not generalising then eh?!

My wife is 22yrs younger than me, a gorgeous size 6 who worked at a pole dancing club in order to fun her university course .... ooh, hang on, no career prospects?

When we met (worked together) I was bankrupt following a messy divorce so she certainly wasn't after my money!

We have been together for 7 years, married for 3 and are incredibly happy ... intellectually equal, financially equal and have worked incredibly hard in order to be able to live the dream of living in the countryside .... at least out here we don't have to deal with the type of small minded jealousy and bigotry illustrated above!

An no, she doesn't call me Daddy!"
so why are you on here with a single guys profile then

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By *illclimberMan
over a year ago

Bredon


"I rarely post on here but having read some of the mindless drivel written above then I have to reply!

'Daddy issues', 'their money' 'no career prospects'?? Not generalising then eh?!

My wife is 22yrs younger than me, a gorgeous size 6 who worked at a pole dancing club in order to fun her university course .... ooh, hang on, no career prospects?

When we met (worked together) I was bankrupt following a messy divorce so she certainly wasn't after my money!

We have been together for 7 years, married for 3 and are incredibly happy ... intellectually equal, financially equal and have worked incredibly hard in order to be able to live the dream of living in the countryside .... at least out here we don't have to deal with the type of small minded jealousy and bigotry illustrated above!

An no, she doesn't call me Daddy!does she know you are on here as a single guy? No mention of her on your profile ."

Yes she does, we had a couples profile for a couple of years but she is currently convalescing after breaking her back in a riding accident!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm chatting to a 23 yr old on my twitter account at the moment. She absolutely craves sex with older guys. Not for money but just for the quality of the sex. Oh and she loves the dad bod too

Holy crap ! Do you need a wingman "

I'm sure if she liked you she'd love to get to know you. You'd have to ask the young lady yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have smaller egos, are more willing to please at any lengths, they are acutely more aware this could be their last shag? Another reason is just a weird kink, (obvs money is the main reason why any young girl will go with any man)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They have smaller egos, are more willing to please at any lengths, they are acutely more aware this could be their last shag? Another reason is just a weird kink, (obvs money is the main reason why any young girl will go with any man)"

Slightly narrow minded if i'm honest but it's your opinion so i'll respect it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They have smaller egos, are more willing to please at any lengths, they are acutely more aware this could be their last shag? Another reason is just a weird kink, (obvs money is the main reason why any young girl will go with any man)

Slightly narrow minded if i'm honest but it's your opinion so i'll respect it "
Which bit, can I ask?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plain and simple x

Are you talking about the girls? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was wondering what is the attraction of older men to younger girls? "
their moobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm chatting to a 23 yr old on my twitter account at the moment. She absolutely craves sex with older guys. Not for money but just for the quality of the sex. Oh and she loves the dad bod too "

You don’t have a dad bod though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They have smaller egos, are more willing to please at any lengths, they are acutely more aware this could be their last shag? Another reason is just a weird kink, (obvs money is the main reason why any young girl will go with any man)

Slightly narrow minded if i'm honest but it's your opinion so i'll respect it Which bit, can I ask?"

The money bit. I agree there's a few young gold diggers out there but that's a bit ott of generalisation

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By *ust me and the spidersWoman
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I have always preferred older guys. Since I have joined this site I am astonished to see the sheer volume of younger guys who want experience with an 'older' woman. They ask daft things like ' Have I ever slept with a 27 year old ' errr, of course as I was 16 once. My total experience means that older men satisfy me. Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm chatting to a 23 yr old on my twitter account at the moment. She absolutely craves sex with older guys. Not for money but just for the quality of the sex. Oh and she loves the dad bod too

You don’t have a dad bod though "

Eh?

He has pretty much the definition if a dad bod.

A older guy who used to be powerfully built gone to seed.

Shows the history and still remaining muscle but now with a small layer of fat over everything.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Never thought id end up with someone 22 years older than me. But 11 years are still together.

I certainly dont have daddy issues

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By *ocketman20Man
over a year ago

Douglas

A couple of years ago I had an FB for six months who was 11 years my junior.

She is stunning, smoking hot and couldn't for the life of me understand what she saw in me but I'm glad she did!

Still friends but she's in a steady relationship with a guy 8 years her junior. No, I can't figure it out either.....

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I like younger men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They have smaller egos, are more willing to please at any lengths, they are acutely more aware this could be their last shag? Another reason is just a weird kink, (obvs money is the main reason why any young girl will go with any man)

Slightly narrow minded if i'm honest but it's your opinion so i'll respect it Which bit, can I ask?

The money bit. I agree there's a few young gold diggers out there but that's a bit ott of generalisation "
well I could of listed more reasons I thought but I just wanted to try and highlight some reasons that hadn't been said and not repeat ones that had and also make my position clear on the most obvious reason money. I can add just general attraction and charm is that makes me seem broader

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never thought id end up with someone 22 years older than me. But 11 years are still together.

I certainly dont have daddy issues"

So you met him when your were 41?

Does that really count as younger woman and older guy or just two old people?

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"I rarely post on here but having read some of the mindless drivel written above then I have to reply!

'Daddy issues', 'their money' 'no career prospects'?? Not generalising then eh?!

My wife is 22yrs younger than me, a gorgeous size 6 who worked at a pole dancing club in order to fun her university course .... ooh, hang on, no career prospects?

When we met (worked together) I was bankrupt following a messy divorce so she certainly wasn't after my money!

We have been together for 7 years, married for 3 and are incredibly happy ... intellectually equal, financially equal and have worked incredibly hard in order to be able to live the dream of living in the countryside .... at least out here we don't have to deal with the type of small minded jealousy and bigotry illustrated above!

An no, she doesn't call me Daddy!"

Someone touched a nerve ?

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"Never thought id end up with someone 22 years older than me. But 11 years are still together.

I certainly dont have daddy issues

So you met him when your were 41?

Does that really count as younger woman and older guy or just two old people?

"

Rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like younger men "
I'm going to say on behalf of us younger men we appreciate that xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never thought id end up with someone 22 years older than me. But 11 years are still together.

I certainly dont have daddy issues

So you met him when your were 41?

Does that really count as younger woman and older guy or just two old people?

Rude "

Sorry "older".

When people talk about women with older guys lets face it they mean 18-mid twenties not somone in thier 40s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have always preferred older guys. Since I have joined this site I am astonished to see the sheer volume of younger guys who want experience with an 'older' woman. They ask daft things like ' Have I ever slept with a 27 year old ' errr, of course as I was 16 once. My total experience means that older men satisfy me. Simples "
awwww hey I'm slightly older wink wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never thought id end up with someone 22 years older than me. But 11 years are still together.

I certainly dont have daddy issues

So you met him when your were 41?

Does that really count as younger woman and older guy or just two old people?

Rude

Sorry "older".

When people talk about women with older guys lets face it they mean 18-mid twenties not somone in thier 40s

"

On here maybe but obviously not in the real world

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Never thought id end up with someone 22 years older than me. But 11 years are still together.

I certainly dont have daddy issues

So you met him when your were 41?

Does that really count as younger woman and older guy or just two old people?

"
well what else would you call it. Im just old hes really old

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like about 5 years younger than me. I don't have any career prospects as I,m too old, so a rich young man will do me nicely (for sexual purposes of course) XXX"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're experienced, articulate, can hold a conversation....and can still perform!!

(but cant spell, see above deletions!)

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By *illclimberMan
over a year ago

Bredon


"I rarely post on here but having read some of the mindless drivel written above then I have to reply!

'Daddy issues', 'their money' 'no career prospects'?? Not generalising then eh?!

My wife is 22yrs younger than me, a gorgeous size 6 who worked at a pole dancing club in order to fun her university course .... ooh, hang on, no career prospects?

When we met (worked together) I was bankrupt following a messy divorce so she certainly wasn't after my money!

We have been together for 7 years, married for 3 and are incredibly happy ... intellectually equal, financially equal and have worked incredibly hard in order to be able to live the dream of living in the countryside .... at least out here we don't have to deal with the type of small minded jealousy and bigotry illustrated above!

An no, she doesn't call me Daddy!

Someone touched a nerve ? "

Damn right! Some of the small minded generalisation above drives me insane!

I worry about the human race sometimes ... if people actually used their brains to think things through rather than relying on attitudes spawned out of watching way too much reality TV then we might have a chance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never thought id end up with someone 22 years older than me. But 11 years are still together.

I certainly dont have daddy issues

So you met him when your were 41?

Does that really count as younger woman and older guy or just two old people?

Rude

Sorry "older".

When people talk about women with older guys lets face it they mean 18-mid twenties not somone in thier 40s

On here maybe but obviously not in the real world "

So if you heard the phrase "i like older men" what age would you expect that person to be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely post on here but having read some of the mindless drivel written above then I have to reply!

'Daddy issues', 'their money' 'no career prospects'?? Not generalising then eh?!

My wife is 22yrs younger than me, a gorgeous size 6 who worked at a pole dancing club in order to fun her university course .... ooh, hang on, no career prospects?

When we met (worked together) I was bankrupt following a messy divorce so she certainly wasn't after my money!

We have been together for 7 years, married for 3 and are incredibly happy ... intellectually equal, financially equal and have worked incredibly hard in order to be able to live the dream of living in the countryside .... at least out here we don't have to deal with the type of small minded jealousy and bigotry illustrated above!

An no, she doesn't call me Daddy!

Someone touched a nerve ?

Damn right! Some of the small minded generalisation above drives me insane!

I worry about the human race sometimes ... if people actually used their brains to think things through rather than relying on attitudes spawned out of watching way too much reality TV then we might have a chance! "
C'mon you know better than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was wondering what is the attraction of older men to younger girls?

Daddy issues, money, the fact they can reach for a better quality guy who is settling for a younger girl etc.

I mean most young girls with old guys have zero career prospects.

But the guys are ok woth that.

But a woman thier own age theyd be expecting a more equal partner"

What a pile of absolute kaka. Coming from a jealous younger guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was wondering what is the attraction of older men to younger girls?

Daddy issues, money, the fact they can reach for a better quality guy who is settling for a younger girl etc.

I mean most young girls with old guys have zero career prospects.

But the guys are ok woth that.

But a woman thier own age theyd be expecting a more equal partner

What a pile of absolute kaka. Coming from a jealous younger guy?"

Hardly a younger guy these days I'll be 30 in 2 years.

And what exactly am i meant to be jealous of?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men with experience are more wiser and respectful .Make pleasant company ,however it depends on the individual not all are the same .

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By *eppoMan
over a year ago

London Colney


"I rarely post on here but having read some of the mindless drivel written above then I have to reply!

'Daddy issues', 'their money' 'no career prospects'?? Not generalising then eh?!

My wife is 22yrs younger than me, a gorgeous size 6 who worked at a pole dancing club in order to fun her university course .... ooh, hang on, no career prospects?

When we met (worked together) I was bankrupt following a messy divorce so she certainly wasn't after my money!

We have been together for 7 years, married for 3 and are incredibly happy ... intellectually equal, financially equal and have worked incredibly hard in order to be able to live the dream of living in the countryside .... at least out here we don't have to deal with the type of small minded jealousy and bigotry illustrated above!

An no, she doesn't call me Daddy!"

Can I ask ....

Does she know ur on here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men with experience are more wiser and respectful .Make pleasant company ,however it depends on the individual not all are the same . "

Indeed just look at Donald trump. A beacon of wisdom and respect.

Then again I worry the figure head for my generation is Joey Essex so harsly cause for celebration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men with experience are more wiser and respectful .Make pleasant company ,however it depends on the individual not all are the same . "
As an older woman how many younger men have you shared company with like you would with an older man?

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford


"I rarely post on here but having read some of the mindless drivel written above then I have to reply!

'Daddy issues', 'their money' 'no career prospects'?? Not generalising then eh?!

My wife is 22yrs younger than me, a gorgeous size 6 who worked at a pole dancing club in order to fun her university course .... ooh, hang on, no career prospects?

When we met (worked together) I was bankrupt following a messy divorce so she certainly wasn't after my money!

We have been together for 7 years, married for 3 and are incredibly happy ... intellectually equal, financially equal and have worked incredibly hard in order to be able to live the dream of living in the countryside .... at least out here we don't have to deal with the type of small minded jealousy and bigotry illustrated above!

An no, she doesn't call me Daddy!

Can I ask ....

Does she know ur on here ?"

Read the thread, he's already answered that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to turn this on its head.

This is a conclusion from reading so many repetitive posts on fab.

The younger women have to go for older men.....because 90 odd % of younger men keep posting about their obsession with older women!

There aren't enough young guys for the young women on here....so they look for older.

(And the fact that our experience makes us so much better when it comes to sex?)

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By *illclimberMan
over a year ago

Bredon


"I rarely post on here but having read some of the mindless drivel written above then I have to reply!

'Daddy issues', 'their money' 'no career prospects'?? Not generalising then eh?!

My wife is 22yrs younger than me, a gorgeous size 6 who worked at a pole dancing club in order to fun her university course .... ooh, hang on, no career prospects?

When we met (worked together) I was bankrupt following a messy divorce so she certainly wasn't after my money!

We have been together for 7 years, married for 3 and are incredibly happy ... intellectually equal, financially equal and have worked incredibly hard in order to be able to live the dream of living in the countryside .... at least out here we don't have to deal with the type of small minded jealousy and bigotry illustrated above!

An no, she doesn't call me Daddy!

Can I ask ....

Does she know ur on here ?"

Yes, answered that above but I understand the reason for the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men with experience are more wiser and respectful .Make pleasant company ,however it depends on the individual not all are the same . As an older woman how many younger men have you shared company with like you would with an older man? "
I may be getting ahead of myself here but unless you have shared an alike time with an older man and a younger around the same time, at the age your around now, then surely your not qualified to give that statement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And all these negative and positive generalisations, none of them stand up to scrutiny their is no medium figure on girls who are gold diggers or older men have more experience so their better in bed these are all generalisations streaming from provocations instead of reality, if I gave you a 100 men could you tell me the figure of how many are good in bed? Or if I gave you a 100 women could you tell me how many are gold diggers absolutely not I'd say.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Men with experience are more wiser and respectful .Make pleasant company ,however it depends on the individual not all are the same . As an older woman how many younger men have you shared company with like you would with an older man? I may be getting ahead of myself here but unless you have shared an alike time with an older man and a younger around the same time, at the age your around now, then surely your not qualified to give that statement"
first guy.i.lived.with.was.15.years older. My husband same age as me. My now partner 22 years older.

I am.definetly.going.with an.older man for a relationship. But no.older than.50.on.here

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over a year ago


"Men with experience are more wiser and respectful .Make pleasant company ,however it depends on the individual not all are the same . As an older woman how many younger men have you shared company with like you would with an older man? "

I had met a few when I joined last time I was on who were younger than me. I was disappointed with them .However have met someone younger than me slightly and it's been great this time around.

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By *illclimberMan
over a year ago

Bredon


"And all these negative and positive generalisations, none of them stand up to scrutiny their is no medium figure on girls who are gold diggers or older men have more experience so their better in bed these are all generalisations streaming from provocations instead of reality, if I gave you a 100 men could you tell me the figure of how many are good in bed? Or if I gave you a 100 women could you tell me how many are gold diggers absolutely not I'd say."

At last, someone on my wavelength

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men with experience are more wiser and respectful .Make pleasant company ,however it depends on the individual not all are the same . As an older woman how many younger men have you shared company with like you would with an older man? I may be getting ahead of myself here but unless you have shared an alike time with an older man and a younger around the same time, at the age your around now, then surely your not qualified to give that statementfirst guy.i.lived.with.was.15.years older. My husband same age as me. My now partner 22 years older.

I am.definetly.going.with an.older man for a relationship. But no.older than.50.on.here"
this isn't meant at all in any negative way but you look like a women who likes her comforts and security and so an older man suits you perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men with experience are more wiser and respectful .Make pleasant company ,however it depends on the individual not all are the same . As an older woman how many younger men have you shared company with like you would with an older man? I may be getting ahead of myself here but unless you have shared an alike time with an older man and a younger around the same time, at the age your around now, then surely your not qualified to give that statementfirst guy.i.lived.with.was.15.years older. My husband same age as me. My now partner 22 years older.

I am.definetly.going.with an.older man for a relationship. But no.older than.50.on.here this isn't meant at all in any negative way but you look like a women who likes her comforts and security and so an older man suits you perfect. "
Because let's face it of your an older man you have already built a life or some life and it's all ready made

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By *nfinity1Man
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth


"Their money "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men with experience are more wiser and respectful .Make pleasant company ,however it depends on the individual not all are the same . As an older woman how many younger men have you shared company with like you would with an older man? I may be getting ahead of myself here but unless you have shared an alike time with an older man and a younger around the same time, at the age your around now, then surely your not qualified to give that statementfirst guy.i.lived.with.was.15.years older. My husband same age as me. My now partner 22 years older.

I am.definetly.going.with an.older man for a relationship. But no.older than.50.on.here this isn't meant at all in any negative way but you look like a women who likes her comforts and security and so an older man suits you perfect. "

Lol I'm no gold digger I have no insecurities and you don't know me at all to quote that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men with experience are more wiser and respectful .Make pleasant company ,however it depends on the individual not all are the same . As an older woman how many younger men have you shared company with like you would with an older man? I may be getting ahead of myself here but unless you have shared an alike time with an older man and a younger around the same time, at the age your around now, then surely your not qualified to give that statementfirst guy.i.lived.with.was.15.years older. My husband same age as me. My now partner 22 years older.

I am.definetly.going.with an.older man for a relationship. But no.older than.50.on.here this isn't meant at all in any negative way but you look like a women who likes her comforts and security and so an older man suits you perfect. Because let's face it of your an older man you have already built a life or some life and it's all ready made "

Wow...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Men with experience are more wiser and respectful .Make pleasant company ,however it depends on the individual not all are the same . As an older woman how many younger men have you shared company with like you would with an older man? I may be getting ahead of myself here but unless you have shared an alike time with an older man and a younger around the same time, at the age your around now, then surely your not qualified to give that statementfirst guy.i.lived.with.was.15.years older. My husband same age as me. My now partner 22 years older.

I am.definetly.going.with an.older man for a relationship. But no.older than.50.on.here this isn't meant at all in any negative way but you look like a women who likes her comforts and security and so an older man suits you perfect. "
it was.him.i.fell in love with.not.his age. I could get.comfort.and security.from.someone.my own age.

But from.being in my relationship.now i know its for.me.

Doesnt everyone have comfort.and security.in.a relationship.no.matter the age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men with experience are more wiser and respectful .Make pleasant company ,however it depends on the individual not all are the same . As an older woman how many younger men have you shared company with like you would with an older man? I may be getting ahead of myself here but unless you have shared an alike time with an older man and a younger around the same time, at the age your around now, then surely your not qualified to give that statementfirst guy.i.lived.with.was.15.years older. My husband same age as me. My now partner 22 years older.

I am.definetly.going.with an.older man for a relationship. But no.older than.50.on.here this isn't meant at all in any negative way but you look like a women who likes her comforts and security and so an older man suits you perfect. it was.him.i.fell in love with.not.his age. I could get.comfort.and security.from.someone.my own age.

But from.being in my relationship.now i know its for.me.

Doesnt everyone have comfort.and security.in.a relationship.no.matter the age"
But what I'm saying is because he's older he's not still finding his feet when he met you, he was already ready to start a relationship with you.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Men with experience are more wiser and respectful .Make pleasant company ,however it depends on the individual not all are the same . As an older woman how many younger men have you shared company with like you would with an older man? I may be getting ahead of myself here but unless you have shared an alike time with an older man and a younger around the same time, at the age your around now, then surely your not qualified to give that statementfirst guy.i.lived.with.was.15.years older. My husband same age as me. My now partner 22 years older.

I am.definetly.going.with an.older man for a relationship. But no.older than.50.on.here this isn't meant at all in any negative way but you look like a women who likes her comforts and security and so an older man suits you perfect. it was.him.i.fell in love with.not.his age. I could get.comfort.and security.from.someone.my own age.

But from.being in my relationship.now i know its for.me.

Doesnt everyone have comfort.and security.in.a relationship.no.matter the age But what I'm saying is because he's older he's not still finding his feet when he met you, he was already ready to start a relationship with you."
no. Neither of us wanted a relationship we.just.grew together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men with experience are more wiser and respectful .Make pleasant company ,however it depends on the individual not all are the same . As an older woman how many younger men have you shared company with like you would with an older man? I may be getting ahead of myself here but unless you have shared an alike time with an older man and a younger around the same time, at the age your around now, then surely your not qualified to give that statementfirst guy.i.lived.with.was.15.years older. My husband same age as me. My now partner 22 years older.

I am.definetly.going.with an.older man for a relationship. But no.older than.50.on.here this isn't meant at all in any negative way but you look like a women who likes her comforts and security and so an older man suits you perfect. it was.him.i.fell in love with.not.his age. I could get.comfort.and security.from.someone.my own age.

But from.being in my relationship.now i know its for.me.

Doesnt everyone have comfort.and security.in.a relationship.no.matter the age But what I'm saying is because he's older he's not still finding his feet when he met you, he was already ready to start a relationship with you.no. Neither of us wanted a relationship we.just.grew together

"
oh right he sounds like the only man for you xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Men with experience are more wiser and respectful .Make pleasant company ,however it depends on the individual not all are the same . As an older woman how many younger men have you shared company with like you would with an older man? I may be getting ahead of myself here but unless you have shared an alike time with an older man and a younger around the same time, at the age your around now, then surely your not qualified to give that statementfirst guy.i.lived.with.was.15.years older. My husband same age as me. My now partner 22 years older.

I am.definetly.going.with an.older man for a relationship. But no.older than.50.on.here this isn't meant at all in any negative way but you look like a women who likes her comforts and security and so an older man suits you perfect. it was.him.i.fell in love with.not.his age. I could get.comfort.and security.from.someone.my own age.

But from.being in my relationship.now i know its for.me.

Doesnt everyone have comfort.and security.in.a relationship.no.matter the age But what I'm saying is because he's older he's not still finding his feet when he met you, he was already ready to start a relationship with you.no. Neither of us wanted a relationship we.just.grew together

oh right he sounds like the only man for you xx"
yes and his age had nothing to do with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey old or young its about a mans experience and the pleasure he enjoys giving not receiving

Younger guys take heed the more pleasure you give you get back

Don't just take

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I like about 5 years younger than me. I don't have any career prospects as I,m too old, so a rich young man will do me nicely (for sexual purposes of course) XXX

Probably a great answer,to a completely different question "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey old or young its about a mans experience and the pleasure he enjoys giving not receiving

Younger guys take heed the more pleasure you give you get back

Don't just take"
Your preaching to the choir sister, that's my whole area and makes my life incredibly frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely post on here but having read some of the mindless drivel written above then I have to reply!

'Daddy issues', 'their money' 'no career prospects'?? Not generalising then eh?!

My wife is 22yrs younger than me, a gorgeous size 6 who worked at a pole dancing club in order to fun her university course .... ooh, hang on, no career prospects?

When we met (worked together) I was bankrupt following a messy divorce so she certainly wasn't after my money!

We have been together for 7 years, married for 3 and are incredibly happy ... intellectually equal, financially equal and have worked incredibly hard in order to be able to live the dream of living in the countryside .... at least out here we don't have to deal with the type of small minded jealousy and bigotry illustrated above!

An no, she doesn't call me Daddy!"

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over a year ago

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over a year ago


"Hey old or young its about a mans experience and the pleasure he enjoys giving not receiving

Younger guys take heed the more pleasure you give you get back

Don't just take"
Hey, if I wanted to be really pretentious I could say I'm like a hospitality savant catering to the female needs.

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over a year ago


"I'm chatting to a 23 yr old on my twitter account at the moment. She absolutely craves sex with older guys. Not for money but just for the quality of the sex. Oh and she loves the dad bod too

You don’t have a dad bod though

Eh?

He has pretty much the definition if a dad bod.

A older guy who used to be powerfully built gone to seed.

Shows the history and still remaining muscle but now with a small layer of fat over everything.

"

Wow, talk about stereotypes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm chatting to a 23 yr old on my twitter account at the moment. She absolutely craves sex with older guys. Not for money but just for the quality of the sex. Oh and she loves the dad bod too

You don’t have a dad bod though

Eh?

He has pretty much the definition if a dad bod.

A older guy who used to be powerfully built gone to seed.

Shows the history and still remaining muscle but now with a small layer of fat over everything.

Wow, talk about stereotypes! "

What? What the he'll is a dad bod if not a stereotypical body type?

What is your definition of dad bod?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm chatting to a 23 yr old on my twitter account at the moment. She absolutely craves sex with older guys. Not for money but just for the quality of the sex. Oh and she loves the dad bod too

You don’t have a dad bod though

Eh?

He has pretty much the definition if a dad bod.

A older guy who used to be powerfully built gone to seed.

Shows the history and still remaining muscle but now with a small layer of fat over everything.

Wow, talk about stereotypes!

What? What the he'll is a dad bod if not a stereotypical body type?

What is your definition of dad bod?"

I don't have one !

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By *edLionScotMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Some of these comments are a bit harsh, and probably comes from which end of the telescope you're looking through.

When I was 23, fit, muscular, there's no way I would have thought 20yrs later, real life, a stressful career, and a serious car accident would have left me in the shape I'm in.

From my limited experience, I can offer any woman (younger or older), an escape from normal life. It's not just sex, although sometimes it is. I'm more attentive, less inclined to fuck and go, So I could get down the pub and get some bragging rights with my mates. If I find a girl I click with, I'm more inclined to spend more time with (not money).

I can't see someone every night, so it's definitely quality over quality. I'm more open-minded, more experienced, more patient, and with fewer hang-ups. I have enough stress in my life, so don't need to be pushy, or arsey.

Try looking down the other end of the telescope.

We're all different. We all have different needs and wants at different times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm chatting to a 23 yr old on my twitter account at the moment. She absolutely craves sex with older guys. Not for money but just for the quality of the sex. Oh and she loves the dad bod too

You don’t have a dad bod though

Eh?

He has pretty much the definition if a dad bod.

A older guy who used to be powerfully built gone to seed.

Shows the history and still remaining muscle but now with a small layer of fat over everything.

Wow, talk about stereotypes!

What? What the he'll is a dad bod if not a stereotypical body type?

What is your definition of dad bod?

I don't have one ! "

Dear lord, well the rest of the world does.

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=Define+dad+bod

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By *edLionScotMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

And, apparently, for men, the golden rule is half your age plus 7.

So, ladies, if you're reading this, check those age filters!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard many reasons why some women prefer older men..most covered here...we have a 17 year age gap and have been together 9 years now... ours definitely is not a daddy relationship or a gold digging/money relationship having been together through some lean times. What I would say is that some younger women feel that an older man is less likely to stray or be unfaithful to her..so she has stability in a relationship..plus he is often a more experienced and attentive lover less chances he is out for self satisfaction bit more mutual pleasures.

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By *edLionScotMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

And, #2, while I'm on a role, I suspect girls can be attracted to guys, who are assertive, confident, self-assured. These just happen to be traits of males and females who maybe doing quite nicely, thank you very much.

Another aspect as to why males and females are attracted to partners who maybe more financially comfortable, is that they know their partner isn't going to be spongeing off them.

Just a thought.

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By *obupMan
over a year ago

blackburn


"I like about 5 years younger than me. I don't have any career prospects as I,m too old, so a rich young man will do me nicely (for sexual purposes of course) XXX

Probably a great answer,to a completely different question "

Ha ha yes so true x

What was the question again???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like about 5 years younger than me. I don't have any career prospects as I,m too old, so a rich young man will do me nicely (for sexual purposes of course) XXX"

That has blown my chances then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey old or young its about a mans experience and the pleasure he enjoys giving not receiving

Younger guys take heed the more pleasure you give you get back

Don't just take"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If any younger ladies want to chat lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One last reason why older men are a preferred choice is a summation of all my points and that is older men have had more out of life and therefore by nature itself that brings it's own rewarding qualities.

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

Older men are fabulous..but don't ask us to do anything too energetic, or past our bed times, or when Gardeners World is on, or Countryfile for that matter.

Certainly don't expect a response to a question ( we won't have heard ) and never get us talking about 'the good old days' or TV shows of our youth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One last reason why older men are a preferred choice is a summation of all my points and that is older men have had more out of life and therefore by nature itself that brings it's own rewarding qualities."

If that's the case then younger men should ignore all this advice to emulate older men.

As they'll miss out on those very experiences that have shaped the older men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely post on here but having read some of the mindless drivel written above then I have to reply!

'Daddy issues', 'their money' 'no career prospects'?? Not generalising then eh?!

My wife is 22yrs younger than me, a gorgeous size 6 who worked at a pole dancing club in order to fun her university course .... ooh, hang on, no career prospects?

When we met (worked together) I was bankrupt following a messy divorce so she certainly wasn't after my money!

We have been together for 7 years, married for 3 and are incredibly happy ... intellectually equal, financially equal and have worked incredibly hard in order to be able to live the dream of living in the countryside .... at least out here we don't have to deal with the type of small minded jealousy and bigotry illustrated above!

An no, she doesn't call me Daddy!"

This is all fine except at the end part. I'd suggest you are generalising with regards to people who don't live in the countryside. They're not all small minded, jealous bigots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older guy....just sat quietly...

Smiling ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One last reason why older men are a preferred choice is a summation of all my points and that is older men have had more out of life and therefore by nature itself that brings it's own rewarding qualities.

If that's the case then younger men should ignore all this advice to emulate older men.

As they'll miss out on those very experiences that have shaped the older men.

"
Well hit sir!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm older but still keep fit x

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Slim has had a lifelong attraction to older guys, not a ££ thing at all, she likes being taken in hand by an older guy (better still, guys)and feels safe and wanted and responds in kind. Works for us

See now woupd that come under the "daddy" issues catagory?

A older man providing a feeling of safety and security as a father would. "
In our case, you couldn't be more wrong, the daddy thing doesn't work at all. She simply responds well to older guys. Difficult to explain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely post on here but having read some of the mindless drivel written above then I have to reply!

'Daddy issues', 'their money' 'no career prospects'?? Not generalising then eh?!

My wife is 22yrs younger than me, a gorgeous size 6 who worked at a pole dancing club in order to fun her university course .... ooh, hang on, no career prospects?

When we met (worked together) I was bankrupt following a messy divorce so she certainly wasn't after my money!

We have been together for 7 years, married for 3 and are incredibly happy ... intellectually equal, financially equal and have worked incredibly hard in order to be able to live the dream of living in the countryside .... at least out here we don't have to deal with the type of small minded jealousy and bigotry illustrated above!

An no, she doesn't call me Daddy!"

Well said and a lucky guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was wondering what is the attraction of older men to younger girls? "

I wasn't aware there was any younger girls who liked older men...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was wondering what is the attraction of older men to younger girls?

I wasn't aware there was any younger girls who liked older men...

"

Just ask Hugh Hefner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was wondering what is the attraction of older men to younger girls?

I wasn't aware there was any younger girls who liked older men...

Just ask Hugh Hefner "

Ahhh...the fabulously wealthy Hugh Hefner you mean...

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slim has had a lifelong attraction to older guys, not a ££ thing at all, she likes being taken in hand by an older guy (better still, guys)and feels safe and wanted and responds in kind. Works for us

See now woupd that come under the "daddy" issues catagory?

A older man providing a feeling of safety and security as a father would. In our case, you couldn't be more wrong, the daddy thing doesn't work at all. She simply responds well to older guys. Difficult to explain"

Very well said & fascinating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was wondering what is the attraction of older men to younger girls?

I wasn't aware there was any younger girls who liked older men...

Just ask Hugh Hefner

Ahhh...the fabulously wealthy Hugh Hefner you mean... "

Yes, he of the mysterious yet apparently irresistible appeal to nubile young women

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