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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One for the guys that moan they can't get to chat or a meet off here x

You give a guy the time of day by chatting for days a connection is established you exchange contact details eager eager he can't wait to meet you then boom does he sent you a cheeky message to keep the banter and interest going ? no wrong his first mission is on here to see what else is available lol am still yet to get their logic x

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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you're apparently a sure thing now so he doesn't need to bother. just fuck him off, plenty more where he came from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One for the guys that moan they can't get to chat or a meet off here x

You give a guy the time of day by chatting for days a connection is established you exchange contact details eager eager he can't wait to meet you then boom does he sent you a cheeky message to keep the banter and interest going ? no wrong his first mission is on here to see what else is available lol am still yet to get their logic x"

So so sadly true. Plus the one meet wonders.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks 3sum queen x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol yes very true tigerli1y we've all had the same experiences x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all men are like that... well I hope I don't come across like that.

I'd just like to meet someone for regular fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One for the guys that moan they can't get to chat or a meet off here x

You give a guy the time of day by chatting for days a connection is established you exchange contact details eager eager he can't wait to meet you then boom does he sent you a cheeky message to keep the banter and interest going ? no wrong his first mission is on here to see what else is available lol am still yet to get their logic x"

I'd like to say I'm the opposite of who you describe there. Once I've a connection I meet and firmly believe the more meets the stronger that connection becomes and that equals better times together. I don't like shopping around for new meets.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Maybe ask for profile advice too, that might help attract men less prone to timewasting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do you not know op ,,none of the men are like that just ask them and they will all say its not them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree not all guys do it but a fair few I've chatted to have and yes that old cliche I'm not like that further down the line you get your answer lol x

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By *orkieboy 99Man
over a year ago

york


"I agree not all guys do it but a fair few I've chatted to have and yes that old cliche I'm not like that further down the line you get your answer lol x"
some spoil it for the rest

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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lol, we are wise to their ways now.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Not all men are like that... well I hope I don't come across like that.

I'd just like to meet someone for regular fun xx "

Unfortunately this is what most of them say to us, meet then never see again, I had this with one guy who realised it wasn't easy to get meets, he thought it would be as I gave him his first meet verification, he asked several times for subsequent meets and no, I haven't met him again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only input I have is that after a meet the chat & messages goes to almost nil!

This bothers me, as I'm a very chatty person so I like to chat to different people.

I have a few guys I've yet to meet but we chat everyday, I might do an experiment and see if they go the same way

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Not all men are like that... well I hope I don't come across like that.

I'd just like to meet someone for regular fun xx

Unfortunately this is what most of them say to us, meet then never see again, I had this with one guy who realised it wasn't easy to get meets, he thought it would be as I gave him his first meet verification, he asked several times for subsequent meets and no, I haven't met him again!"

most of my regular fab meets i saw every couple of months, they don't even live that far away, just too busy with their partner or looking for fucks with someone else in between.

only had one genuinely single guy, that i met elsewhere, who i consider a fuck buddy, a proper one. and one attached guy off here. i met both of those several times a week. everyone else is meh, cba to even reply to their messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I've had this with old meets too grass has been greener that fails them they think they can just send a message months later thinking game on again oh dear shame we were born with a brain x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a way reassuring to know that the one meet phenomenon isn't just me and my disagreeable nature and can happen to the hottest of women (looking at thread companions..).

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Yes I've had this with old meets too grass has been greener that fails them they think they can just send a message months later thinking game on again oh dear shame we were born with a brain x"

Weird that they seem to forget so quickly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One for the guys that moan they can't get to chat or a meet off here x

You give a guy the time of day by chatting for days a connection is established you exchange contact details eager eager he can't wait to meet you then boom does he sent you a cheeky message to keep the banter and interest going ? no wrong his first mission is on here to see what else is available lol am still yet to get their logic x"

ha he had you in the bag job done moved onto next one ........or so he thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know where I'm going wrong but it's hard enough to get women to talk to me in the first place.. lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol It tends to be me that won't meet a guy again because he's not prepared to put the effort in which from the start I tell a guy what I'm after to stop all this messing around x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Hunter/pray comes to mind...

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

As a male what I can't understand is, if you meet a lady on here and have good sex, why the hell would you not go back for more, given the chance

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"As a male what I can't understand is, if you meet a lady on here and have good sex, why the hell would you not go back for more, given the chance"

Because there are a lot that think the grass is greener then find out it's not, by that point we've moved on lol

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"As a male what I can't understand is, if you meet a lady on here and have good sex, why the hell would you not go back for more, given the chance"

most of the guys i've met were already attached so they're getting enough sex probably and just want something extra on the side.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very true Mrswoody x

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"As a male what I can't understand is, if you meet a lady on here and have good sex, why the hell would you not go back for more, given the chance

most of the guys i've met were already attached so they're getting enough sex probably and just want something extra on the side."

and of course a site like this is gonna appeal to the guys who wanna fuck everything in site so that's their actually intention...and that's what swinging is, not being sexual with one person anyway.

and, sorry to say this guys but it's the impression i get, some guys are not that popular and so one lady appeals coz at least that's something. then they fuck one lady, get a verification, next thing other ladies start getting interested so they fuck you off while becoming mr lover man, but thanks for the veri babes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all men are like that... well I hope I don't come across like that.

I'd just like to meet someone for regular fun xx "

don't tell me you're one of the genuine ones...and these others re ruining it for you?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"As a male what I can't understand is, if you meet a lady on here and have good sex, why the hell would you not go back for more, given the chance

Because there are a lot that think the grass is greener then find out it's not, by that point we've moved on lol"

Not a two way street? Thought that what was a core driver in swinging.

The fun of play, removal of domesticity.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Very true Mrswoody x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its the thrill of the chase for some, once they know you would meet them, they lose interest and move on to the next target

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Not all men are like that... well I hope I don't come across like that.

I'd just like to meet someone for regular fun xx

don't tell me you're one of the genuine ones...and these others re ruining it for you? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

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and, sorry to say this guys but it's the impression i get, some guys are not that popular and so one lady appeals coz at least that's something. then they fuck one lady, get a verification, next thing other ladies start getting interested so they fuck you off while becoming mr lover man, but thanks for the veri babes. "

Haha! Yep. Then you get post-veri remorse. I TAKE IT ALL BACK!!! There should be a 'Retract that shit' button on the veris you write.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"

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and, sorry to say this guys but it's the impression i get, some guys are not that popular and so one lady appeals coz at least that's something. then they fuck one lady, get a verification, next thing other ladies start getting interested so they fuck you off while becoming mr lover man, but thanks for the veri babes.

Haha! Yep. Then you get post-veri remorse. I TAKE IT ALL BACK!!! There should be a 'Retract that shit' button on the veris you write."

LOL

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"One for the guys that moan they can't get to chat or a meet off here x

You give a guy the time of day by chatting for days a connection is established you exchange contact details eager eager he can't wait to meet you then boom does he sent you a cheeky message to keep the banter and interest going ? no wrong his first mission is on here to see what else is available lol am still yet to get their logic x"

BLOCK him! He is so not worthy of you honey. I've had a social a few weeks ago, he had been chatting constantly with me on here, it was going well. At the end of the social he told me he had a social two evenings later and if it didn't work out with her he would be in touch! I literally went mad, told him he was a time waster abd to sod off, he raised his hand at me in the air, luckily it was a busy open plan venue thank goodness. As I walked away he was blocking me on Fab! This has made me very wary of constant messages now as the men are probably messaging lots more and edging their bets, or keeping their options open but I despise time wasters, my time is far too precious.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"One for the guys that moan they can't get to chat or a meet off here x

You give a guy the time of day by chatting for days a connection is established you exchange contact details eager eager he can't wait to meet you then boom does he sent you a cheeky message to keep the banter and interest going ? no wrong his first mission is on here to see what else is available lol am still yet to get their logic x

BLOCK him! He is so not worthy of you honey. I've had a social a few weeks ago, he had been chatting constantly with me on here, it was going well. At the end of the social he told me he had a social two evenings later and if it didn't work out with her he would be in touch! I literally went mad, told him he was a time waster abd to sod off, he raised his hand at me in the air, luckily it was a busy open plan venue thank goodness. As I walked away he was blocking me on Fab! This has made me very wary of constant messages now as the men are probably messaging lots more and edging their bets, or keeping their options open but I despise time wasters, my time is far too precious. "

Lucky escape for you, hence why first meets should always be in public places!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One for the guys that moan they can't get to chat or a meet off here x

You give a guy the time of day by chatting for days a connection is established you exchange contact details eager eager he can't wait to meet you then boom does he sent you a cheeky message to keep the banter and interest going ? no wrong his first mission is on here to see what else is available lol am still yet to get their logic x"

Thrill of the chase over or bottled it.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"

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and, sorry to say this guys but it's the impression i get, some guys are not that popular and so one lady appeals coz at least that's something. then they fuck one lady, get a verification, next thing other ladies start getting interested so they fuck you off while becoming mr lover man, but thanks for the veri babes.

Haha! Yep. Then you get post-veri remorse. I TAKE IT ALL BACK!!! There should be a 'Retract that shit' button on the veris you write."

i've deleted my account for this very reason, just didn't want my veris showing on certain guys profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One for the guys that moan they can't get to chat or a meet off here x

You give a guy the time of day by chatting for days a connection is established you exchange contact details eager eager he can't wait to meet you then boom does he sent you a cheeky message to keep the banter and interest going ? no wrong his first mission is on here to see what else is available lol am still yet to get their logic x"

He probably decided that you are a time waster. You know, tit picture off the net, been on here for over a year without a single verification, profile name "x", same for profile text... hmm... And he spent days with you chatting???

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"One for the guys that moan they can't get to chat or a meet off here x

You give a guy the time of day by chatting for days a connection is established you exchange contact details eager eager he can't wait to meet you then boom does he sent you a cheeky message to keep the banter and interest going ? no wrong his first mission is on here to see what else is available lol am still yet to get their logic x

He probably decided that you are a time waster. You know, tit picture off the net, been on here for over a year without a single verification, profile name "x", same for profile text... hmm... And he spent days with you chatting??? "

Only a man can come back with such tripe as this...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fairness couples are just as rude.....chat for weeks even message on the day of the arranged meet.....then boom....kik messages unread and calls unanswered.

Think in equal measure there are timewasters in all areas single men, women, couples or maybe it's me and I've become too cynical and my time is up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One for the guys that moan they can't get to chat or a meet off here x

You give a guy the time of day by chatting for days a connection is established you exchange contact details eager eager he can't wait to meet you then boom does he sent you a cheeky message to keep the banter and interest going ? no wrong his first mission is on here to see what else is available lol am still yet to get their logic x

He probably decided that you are a time waster. You know, tit picture off the net, been on here for over a year without a single verification, profile name "x", same for profile text... hmm... And he spent days with you chatting???

Only a man can come back with such tripe as this...! "

Oh, come on, don't be sexist now. Reply in substance if you want a constructive dialogue. You are 49, you should've left the kindergarten by now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One for the guys that moan they can't get to chat or a meet off here x

You give a guy the time of day by chatting for days a connection is established you exchange contact details eager eager he can't wait to meet you then boom does he sent you a cheeky message to keep the banter and interest going ? no wrong his first mission is on here to see what else is available lol am still yet to get their logic x

He probably decided that you are a time waster. You know, tit picture off the net, been on here for over a year without a single verification, profile name "x", same for profile text... hmm... And he spent days with you chatting???

Only a man can come back with such tripe as this...!

Oh, come on, don't be sexist now. Reply in substance if you want a constructive dialogue. You are 49, you should've left the kindergarten by now. "

51 actually

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"One for the guys that moan they can't get to chat or a meet off here x

You give a guy the time of day by chatting for days a connection is established you exchange contact details eager eager he can't wait to meet you then boom does he sent you a cheeky message to keep the banter and interest going ? no wrong his first mission is on here to see what else is available lol am still yet to get their logic x

He probably decided that you are a time waster. You know, tit picture off the net, been on here for over a year without a single verification, profile name "x", same for profile text... hmm... And he spent days with you chatting???

Only a man can come back with such tripe as this...!

Oh, come on, don't be sexist now. Reply in substance if you want a constructive dialogue. You are 49, you should've left the kindergarten by now. "

Actually I haven't the time for a dialogue with you yawn..!!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"One for the guys that moan they can't get to chat or a meet off here x

You give a guy the time of day by chatting for days a connection is established you exchange contact details eager eager he can't wait to meet you then boom does he sent you a cheeky message to keep the banter and interest going ? no wrong his first mission is on here to see what else is available lol am still yet to get their logic x

He probably decided that you are a time waster. You know, tit picture off the net, been on here for over a year without a single verification, profile name "x", same for profile text... hmm... And he spent days with you chatting???

Only a man can come back with such tripe as this...!

Oh, come on, don't be sexist now. Reply in substance if you want a constructive dialogue. You are 49, you should've left the kindergarten by now.

Actually I haven't the time for a dialogue with you yawn..!!"

Bored of boredom,.

Which is best:

Every silver lining has a cloud.

Or every cloud bad a silver lining?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One for the guys that moan they can't get to chat or a meet off here x

You give a guy the time of day by chatting for days a connection is established you exchange contact details eager eager he can't wait to meet you then boom does he sent you a cheeky message to keep the banter and interest going ? no wrong his first mission is on here to see what else is available lol am still yet to get their logic x

He probably decided that you are a time waster. You know, tit picture off the net, been on here for over a year without a single verification, profile name "x", same for profile text... hmm... And he spent days with you chatting???

Only a man can come back with such tripe as this...!

Oh, come on, don't be sexist now. Reply in substance if you want a constructive dialogue. You are 49, you should've left the kindergarten by now.

Actually I haven't the time for a dialogue with you yawn..!!"

Good night, gran!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh dear x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"One for the guys that moan they can't get to chat or a meet off here x

You give a guy the time of day by chatting for days a connection is established you exchange contact details eager eager he can't wait to meet you then boom does he sent you a cheeky message to keep the banter and interest going ? no wrong his first mission is on here to see what else is available lol am still yet to get their logic x

He probably decided that you are a time waster. You know, tit picture off the net, been on here for over a year without a single verification, profile name "x", same for profile text... hmm... And he spent days with you chatting???

Only a man can come back with such tripe as this...!

Oh, come on, don't be sexist now. Reply in substance if you want a constructive dialogue. You are 49, you should've left the kindergarten by now.

Actually I haven't the time for a dialogue with you yawn..!!

Good night, gran! "

Wow, such negative comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

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and, sorry to say this guys but it's the impression i get, some guys are not that popular and so one lady appeals coz at least that's something. then they fuck one lady, get a verification, next thing other ladies start getting interested so they fuck you off while becoming mr lover man, but thanks for the veri babes.

Haha! Yep. Then you get post-veri remorse. I TAKE IT ALL BACK!!! There should be a 'Retract that shit' button on the veris you write.

i've deleted my account for this very reason, just didn't want my veris showing on certain guys profiles. "

dont leave verifications -- problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've spoke to guy via the message system, chatted for some two weeks with the date and hotel in mind.

Chatted up to the day and then on the day of the meet, we got a message, "I need to cancel, the football match is on".

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"

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and, sorry to say this guys but it's the impression i get, some guys are not that popular and so one lady appeals coz at least that's something. then they fuck one lady, get a verification, next thing other ladies start getting interested so they fuck you off while becoming mr lover man, but thanks for the veri babes.

Haha! Yep. Then you get post-veri remorse. I TAKE IT ALL BACK!!! There should be a 'Retract that shit' button on the veris you write.

i've deleted my account for this very reason, just didn't want my veris showing on certain guys profiles. dont leave verifications -- problem solved"

i don't even meet anyone to leave them to. all my meet veris on this profile are previous fucks trying to get back in my pants again.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"One for the guys that moan they can't get to chat or a meet off here x

You give a guy the time of day by chatting for days a connection is established you exchange contact details eager eager he can't wait to meet you then boom does he sent you a cheeky message to keep the banter and interest going ? no wrong his first mission is on here to see what else is available lol am still yet to get their logic x

He probably decided that you are a time waster. You know, tit picture off the net, been on here for over a year without a single verification, profile name "x", same for profile text... hmm... And he spent days with you chatting???

Only a man can come back with such tripe as this...!

Oh, come on, don't be sexist now. Reply in substance if you want a constructive dialogue. You are 49, you should've left the kindergarten by now.

Actually I haven't the time for a dialogue with you yawn..!!

Good night, gran!

Wow, such negative comments"

A form of bullying commenting on things on my profile when I've not asked about that which is against rules and it has been reported to admin.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"One for the guys that moan they can't get to chat or a meet off here x

You give a guy the time of day by chatting for days a connection is established you exchange contact details eager eager he can't wait to meet you then boom does he sent you a cheeky message to keep the banter and interest going ? no wrong his first mission is on here to see what else is available lol am still yet to get their logic x

He probably decided that you are a time waster. You know, tit picture off the net, been on here for over a year without a single verification, profile name "x", same for profile text... hmm... And he spent days with you chatting???

Only a man can come back with such tripe as this...!

Oh, come on, don't be sexist now. Reply in substance if you want a constructive dialogue. You are 49, you should've left the kindergarten by now.

Actually I haven't the time for a dialogue with you yawn..!!

Good night, gran!

Wow, such negative comments

A form of bullying commenting on things on my profile when I've not asked about that which is against rules and it has been reported to admin. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

....,,,

and, sorry to say this guys but it's the impression i get, some guys are not that popular and so one lady appeals coz at least that's something. then they fuck one lady, get a verification, next thing other ladies start getting interested so they fuck you off while becoming mr lover man, but thanks for the veri babes.

Haha! Yep. Then you get post-veri remorse. I TAKE IT ALL BACK!!! There should be a 'Retract that shit' button on the veris you write.

i've deleted my account for this very reason, just didn't want my veris showing on certain guys profiles. dont leave verifications -- problem solved"

Or block the person you verified. Your published verification vanishes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP

The logic is this, you have 1 picture, show no verifications and have no text in your profile, anybody in there right mind would "hedge there bets" if they arranged a meet based on your profile, of course we don't know the background, if you showed him more pics and veris etc, so we are just going on face value only. Sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a male what I can't understand is, if you meet a lady on here and have good sex, why the hell would you not go back for more, given the chance"

Yeah it baffles me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a male what I can't understand is, if you meet a lady on here and have good sex, why the hell would you not go back for more, given the chance

Yeah it baffles me too!"

Hell yeah beothers n sisters

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"lol, we are wise to their ways now. "

Sure are

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi new couplecamb

My lack of profile is a recent thing as not meeting so find no info less random messages which suits at the moment as just chatting to friends x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi new couplecamb

My lack of profile is a recent thing as not meeting so find no info less random messages which suits at the moment as just chatting to friends x"

Why not do the sensible thing and write

"Not meeting just here to chat" etc then you don't waste anyone's time, if people still message you that's there own fault x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like the "cheeky messages" and I don't expect anyone to not be on here just because he's talking to me about meeting. Did he put up a meet request for a day you were supposed to be meeting him?

My free time is sparse; I don't expect anyone to stop talking to others who may be available when I'm not. I'm not here to commander anyone's time.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Hi new couplecamb

My lack of profile is a recent thing as not meeting so find no info less random messages which suits at the moment as just chatting to friends x"

Maybe the guy you were messaging was hopeful of a meet with you, then when you told him this, his interest fell? Not sure what he's done wrong tbh.

MrB

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

OP, you have no profile or verifications.

Sorry I struggle with your comments.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"OP, you have no profile or verifications.

Sorry I struggle with your comments."

okay verified as real, sorry.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"OP, you have no profile or verifications.

Sorry I struggle with your comments."

Is OP asking for feedback on their profile? I don't recall they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never do that it's just plain rude and disrespectful and would guarantee to make the lady change her mind x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP

The logic is this, you have 1 picture, show no verifications and have no text in your profile, anybody in there right mind would "hedge there bets" if they arranged a meet based on your profile, of course we don't know the background, if you showed him more pics and veris etc, so we are just going on face value only. Sorry x"

I said the same earlier. Someone took offence after hurling a bit of an insult first. I gather now, I've been reported!?!

Some people are weird

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By *eek12Man
over a year ago

lakenheath


"you're apparently a sure thing now so he doesn't need to bother. just fuck him off, plenty more where he came from. "

**Raises hand high**

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't know where I'm going wrong but it's hard enough to get women to talk to me in the first place.. lol "
trybstarting with yiur profile and pictures no wonder you get no where

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By *hriswillings3Man
over a year ago

bideford ex39

Horny cock in Devon desperately seeking fun so horny

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By *hriswillings3Man
over a year ago

bideford ex39

Horny cock in Devon keen join sexxy fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So hang on after "days" If messaging and wanting to meet the messages trail off?

Is this after the meet or has no meet happened?

Could just be after days of messaging he figured it was never going to happen and so started to get bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One for the guys that moan they can't get to chat or a meet off here x

You give a guy the time of day by chatting for days a connection is established you exchange contact details eager eager he can't wait to meet you then boom does he sent you a cheeky message to keep the banter and interest going ? no wrong his first mission is on here to see what else is available lol am still yet to get their logic x

He probably decided that you are a time waster. You know, tit picture off the net, been on here for over a year without a single verification, profile name "x", same for profile text... hmm... And he spent days with you chatting???

Only a man can come back with such tripe as this...! "

How is it tripe?

It's the exact advice any woman would be given if asking about a potential male.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One for the guys that moan they can't get to chat or a meet off here x

You give a guy the time of day by chatting for days a connection is established you exchange contact details eager eager he can't wait to meet you then boom does he sent you a cheeky message to keep the banter and interest going ? no wrong his first mission is on here to see what else is available lol am still yet to get their logic x"

we are not all the same 'their logic' looking at your one pic which looks amazing by the way ,you just have to see it that the guys a fool people do foolish things but maybe he was a really good looking popular guy himself and the women were all after him ,its same old same old bit like a kid in a candy shop .......too much choice doesn't know what to pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Horny cock in Devon desperately seeking fun so horny "

Desperation is always a desirable trait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

....,,,

and, sorry to say this guys but it's the impression i get, some guys are not that popular and so one lady appeals coz at least that's something. then they fuck one lady, get a verification, next thing other ladies start getting interested so they fuck you off while becoming mr lover man, but thanks for the veri babes.

Haha! Yep. Then you get post-veri remorse. I TAKE IT ALL BACK!!! There should be a 'Retract that shit' button on the veris you write."

you can its called block think it disapears or so ive been told but if you delete account i know it does go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Horny cock in Devon desperately seeking fun so horny

Desperation is always a desirable trait "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I've had this with old meets too grass has been greener that fails them they think they can just send a message months later thinking game on again oh dear shame we were born with a brain x"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

....,,,

and, sorry to say this guys but it's the impression i get, some guys are not that popular and so one lady appeals coz at least that's something. then they fuck one lady, get a verification, next thing other ladies start getting interested so they fuck you off while becoming mr lover man, but thanks for the veri babes.

Haha! Yep. Then you get post-veri remorse. I TAKE IT ALL BACK!!! There should be a 'Retract that shit' button on the veris you write."

There is - it's the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

....,,,

and, sorry to say this guys but it's the impression i get, some guys are not that popular and so one lady appeals coz at least that's something. then they fuck one lady, get a verification, next thing other ladies start getting interested so they fuck you off while becoming mr lover man, but thanks for the veri babes.

Haha! Yep. Then you get post-veri remorse. I TAKE IT ALL BACK!!! There should be a 'Retract that shit' button on the veris you write.

There is - it's the block button "

never use it its like burning bridges

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I've had this with old meets too grass has been greener that fails them they think they can just send a message months later thinking game on again oh dear shame we were born with a brain x"

Oh god Yes. No messages for weeks after then out of the blue he messages you he's feeling horny and wants to see you. Jog on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I've had this with old meets too grass has been greener that fails them they think they can just send a message months later thinking game on again oh dear shame we were born with a brain x

Oh god Yes. No messages for weeks after then out of the blue he messages you he's feeling horny and wants to see you. Jog on. "

So equally youve not messaged him for weeks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I've had this with old meets too grass has been greener that fails them they think they can just send a message months later thinking game on again oh dear shame we were born with a brain x

Oh god Yes. No messages for weeks after then out of the blue he messages you he's feeling horny and wants to see you. Jog on.

So equally youve not messaged him for weeks...

"

Yes I would have done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Threads that criticise a particular trait or behaviour and associate it with one demographic are always a strange one to me as that trait is always found in all demographics as we are all people.

Whatever behaviour you criticise men for there will be women and couples who do exactly the same thing and vice versa

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the comments and yes I agree it works both ways too women probably do the same to men plus I did say in one of my posts my profile now has limited info and pics as only chatting to friends again all about people's choices x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had the same a couple of times too. Set a date to meet (it was 2 weeks later due to me being away) and not another word. I messaged twice and then went silent since he had been on here, had read my messages and just didn't bother to reply. It's something that puts some of us off, difficult to explain but it's like a switch in me that goes into off about that person and I totally lose interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Threads that criticise a particular trait or behaviour and associate it with one demographic are always a strange one to me as that trait is always found in all demographics as we are all people.

Whatever behaviour you criticise men for there will be women and couples who do exactly the same thing and vice versa"

Its only because a female started the thread that women are responding. Of course women are the same.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Had the same a couple of times too. Set a date to meet (it was 2 weeks later due to me being away) and not another word. I messaged twice and then went silent since he had been on here, had read my messages and just didn't bother to reply. It's something that puts some of us off, difficult to explain but it's like a switch in me that goes into off about that person and I totally lose interest. "

Yeah I have the same switch lol, it's entirely involuntary, I just find something repels me.

I have to know that someone is interested in me personally before I will meet at all now, so I avoid the ones that meet once and bugger off. But I guess some people could say that about me when in fact I refuse a second meet because I just didn't enjoy the first one enough to do it again! !

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"One for the guys that moan they can't get to chat or a meet off here x

You give a guy the time of day by chatting for days a connection is established you exchange contact details eager eager he can't wait to meet you then boom does he sent you a cheeky message to keep the banter and interest going ? no wrong his first mission is on here to see what else is available lol am still yet to get their logic x"

Well thank you for drawing my attention to your gorgeous boobs!

Perhaps you could look for a more mature guy?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Threads that criticise a particular trait or behaviour and associate it with one demographic are always a strange one to me as that trait is always found in all demographics as we are all people.

Whatever behaviour you criticise men for there will be women and couples who do exactly the same thing and vice versa

Its only because a female started the thread that women are responding. Of course women are the same. "

Not all women are the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Threads that criticise a particular trait or behaviour and associate it with one demographic are always a strange one to me as that trait is always found in all demographics as we are all people.

Whatever behaviour you criticise men for there will be women and couples who do exactly the same thing and vice versa

Its only because a female started the thread that women are responding. Of course women are the same.

Not all women are the same "

Whoops I meant that. There's always one who has to correct ya lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's funny, I have a friend who says that previous men have always seemed to be looking for their next conquest so it's obviously not uncommon.

So I'd just like to say... cheers lads, it worked out pretty damn well for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you're apparently a sure thing now so he doesn't need to bother. just fuck him off, plenty more where he came from. "

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Threads that criticise a particular trait or behaviour and associate it with one demographic are always a strange one to me as that trait is always found in all demographics as we are all people.

Whatever behaviour you criticise men for there will be women and couples who do exactly the same thing and vice versa

Its only because a female started the thread that women are responding. Of course women are the same.

Not all women are the same

Whoops I meant that. There's always one who has to correct ya lol "

Sorry re. the correction; I'm one of those guys who reads every word (and profiles)

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