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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, new to the scene so I'd like some advice please

I am a single male, but I'd like to visit a swingers club and experience more of what the scene can offer. But what do you Do?!? Are there any rules (bar the obvious respect and boundaries) that I need to know about? Any codes or anything similar to the ones used in dogging??

Sorry for the long post,

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look up what club(s) your interested in and then look on their websites

You can find lots of info in the club section on here.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Respect everyone.. dont be a male zombie

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Don't sit next to the single women and masturbate furiously. Really put me off my drink that did.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"Don't sit next to the single women and masturbate furiously. Really put me off my drink that did."

Brilliantly funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most clubs have a page of rules on their website. There are some obviously ones, but unfortunately not all single guys realise such a thing...

I'm sure some couples and single ladies will chime in with their own 2 cents, just remember that not everyone is the same so respect each different dynamic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get d*unk and be an arse, be sociable and flirty

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By *lubitMan
over a year ago

Telford

Sit down with a drink. Observe. Then after a bit. Talk to people. That's about it for me.

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By *wingtolifeCouple
over a year ago

who knows

We take a torch with us, we flash it when we want company

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

I think forget your at a swinging club and imagine it a works do, polite chat not d*unk not too needy or try hard, we have met some great guys at clubs and some who are too d*unk and some who seem to ... "struggle" with the environment and are too keen let's say don't go to get laid go to make friends if that makes any sense at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drink too much, ignore people all night, then when they start playing gradually ease yourself in and start touching without asking, make sure you only say "you don't kiss" or whatever strange statement you want to come out with deep into the play, causing all parties to feel uncomfortable, once you're done, get up, get dressed and scuttle off without saying a word, the joys of open play areas eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't turn into a wandering wanker, stick with a group and chat.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Hi, new to the scene so I'd like some advice please

I am a single male, but I'd like to visit a swingers club and experience more of what the scene can offer. But what do you Do?!? Are there any rules (bar the obvious respect and boundaries) that I need to know about? Any codes or anything similar to the ones used in dogging??

Sorry for the long post,

Thanks

"

Hey well done for taking the plunge! I'm sure you'll have lots of fun after you research the club scene before you jump in.

I've sent you a link to the hints and tips page on the BMFC website that helped me LOTS before my first club trip. I still refer to it even though I've been to more than a few clubs in my time!

Feel free to ask about any details you're not sure about. Hope this helps!

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By *uxinteriorMan
over a year ago

south west , continental

Relax, enjoy, chat, use facilities if they have spa or sauna. Mingle like at a party, chat to everyone, manners, be polite. Don't get d*unk, don't be a dick head and don't follow like a lost sheep. If you strike a rapport with a lady or a couple you will know.

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