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"i would like to know how people first got into bondage and how (if anyone does or is) becomes a master/mistress.i would like to have a master but dont know if i could submit myself to someone like that.any suggestions or tips?" Hi hun...where to start Many fet events have demoes where you cud give being tied a go ,without having to submit ,just to see if you enjoy the sensaation. My advice wud be to join the big 2 fet sites(pm me ) and get into the social side.Most areas have monthly socials and muches and it is a very welcoming community. Of course it needs to be...there are a lot of wasters,nutters and frankly dangerous men out there who must be avoided. Getting to know the scene will allow u to learn, meet and develop at your own speed. I am worried by what u think a Master is ,"someone like that". A good Master is someone you willingly give yourself too,body and soul,they care for and nurture their sub.A bully is not a Master.My relatioship is one of absolute trust for a man i respect,and like.If he wasn't my Master he wud still be one of my best friends. However many people explore their sub side without having a Master, its a broad spectrum...have fun | |||
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"i would like to know how people first got into bondage and how (if anyone does or is) becomes a master/mistress.i would like to have a master but dont know if i could submit myself to someone like that.any suggestions or tips? Hi hun...where to start Many fet events have demoes where you cud give being tied a go ,without having to submit ,just to see if you enjoy the sensaation. My advice wud be to join the big 2 fet sites(pm me ) and get into the social side.Most areas have monthly socials and muches and it is a very welcoming community. Of course it needs to be...there are a lot of wasters,nutters and frankly dangerous men out there who must be avoided. Getting to know the scene will allow u to learn, meet and develop at your own speed. I am worried by what u think a Master is ,"someone like that". A good Master is someone you willingly give yourself too,body and soul,they care for and nurture their sub.A bully is not a Master.My relatioship is one of absolute trust for a man i respect,and like.If he wasn't my Master he wud still be one of my best friends. However many people explore their sub side without having a Master, its a broad spectrum...have fun " awww damn it.. Miss Puddle beat me to it... she does like to beat me to things.. cali | |||
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"jem i do like the feeling of being tied up and teased, just not found anyone on here who i can trust to do it with yet." In my opinion its not something that you can just go out and get, a friendship that evolves is usually how you find the trust thing, as with the rest of the stuff you are looking for, some guys think of themselves as a dominant male but arent,some just want role play in the bedroom, some like the lifestyle, think carefully about your dos and donts and stick with it , good luck | |||
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"jem i do like the feeling of being tied up and teased, just not found anyone on here who i can trust to do it with yet." Trust in any situation takes time, between my Master first making me laugh in a chat room( and be v filthy with various fruit and veg ) and our first meeting to play was about 6 months. You stick to your guns and wait for the right person! | |||
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