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"having sex with your partner/husband toally different to swinging and sleeping with a stranger . theres a risk swinging anytime but selfish to disread an unborn childs health just because you want to swing ." Exactly! | |||
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"theres risks still with soft swop .only safe sex is none sounds like you have already decided what yous want to do anyway " Agree that no sex is safe sex, as for playing while pregnant, each to their own. On a slant to the original post, what about couples that are trying for a baby. Even if playing safe surely there is a risk of having a child by either swing partner? | |||
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"i personally wouldnt swing while i was pregnant the only reason for this, if im honest is, i wouldnt risk my un born childs health, what if, and i know its only a what if but it could happen, you was having sex and the condom came off and the guy your playing with has, say, gonorrhea? Gonorrhea for you can be easily treated and your usually clear within two weeks of getting treatment, for a unborn and still developing child it could quite litterly be life changing Imagine how you'd feel if your child was born blinde and you had to spend the rest of your life wondering if that was your fault Thats why i wouldnt swing if i was pregnant" Was going to post, but you said it already. It is a personal decision,and some ppl will meet u , but i imagine not the majority. | |||
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"Thanks for your replies, this is my third child and would never risk anything however me and my partner wanted to try a club with maybe soft swap on the cards with the right couple. I would hate to turn up and be looked down on for bringing along a bump! lol " Whether you want to swing or not while pregnant is up to you but if you go to a club I would expect some people who disapprove to be forthright in telling you so. Don't go just to prove a point, but if you feel you really must visit a club I'd ring them first and ask them what their policy is. I'm assuming you're showing quite well by now. As for us, well, Siren is pregnant with our second child and swinging simply isn't on her radar. I'd love to watch her playing with another guy/couple but she simply won't entertain the idea. I accept that that's her choice and that my fantasies will just have to remain fantasies. Good luck whatever you decide. | |||
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" I was always ultra horny when pregnant.. Cali x" lol i was the opposite, id have gladly cut off any mans cock that came near me at the time but back to the OP.. just enjoy being pregnant its a special time for you and your partner. | |||
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"wouldnt fancey some other blokes bell end by my kids head. ha ha..." don't think anyone's got dick that big mate lol | |||
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"i personally wouldnt swing while i was pregnant the only reason for this, if im honest is, i wouldnt risk my un born childs health, what if, and i know its only a what if but it could happen, you was having sex and the condom came off and the guy your playing with has, say, gonorrhea? Gonorrhea for you can be easily treated and your usually clear within two weeks of getting treatment, for a unborn and still developing child it could quite litterly be life changing Imagine how you'd feel if your child was born blinde and you had to spend the rest of your life wondering if that was your fault Thats why i wouldnt swing if i was pregnant" I was going to say this ... some things can be passed to a unborn child its not fair on the baby inside so i would not swing. | |||
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" if i am honest, it made me cringe. Along the same lines as i do when i see a pregnant woman smoking or drinking." *Nods in agreement* | |||
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"Im new to swinging and 6 months pregnant but me and my hubby are raring to go. What are peoples opinions on it? " entirely your choice...weigh up the fors and against,there are more than enough views here to help if you need help to decide. soft swing if thats your preferred method. its a topic which shows how peoples views change to swinging. they are prepared to put themselves at risk at all other times and understandably not if pregnant. you could argue that perhaps people who are considering having kids should not swing at all because of these risks. you could argue that whilst pregnant should you get behind the wheel of a car and put yourself at even greater risk? life whether you agree or not is all about risk, however we have the intelligence to manage/deal with and minimise these risks and hopefully make the right decision for all concerned. That's all you can do unless you want to live in a bubble, which probably carries it's own risks! Oh and I forgot to mention it's also a special time for you as a couple. hope I've covered all views but probably not.. | |||
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"Im new to swinging and 6 months pregnant but me and my hubby are raring to go. What are peoples opinions on it? " If you feel comfortable and happy playing with others while pregnant, do it, if not, don't.... it down to personal choice. Not something I would have been comfortable doing but we don't judge those who do. Congratulations xxx | |||
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"Wrong. So wrong I'm surprised you even asked the question. A baby isn't something that other men need to be pawing over. In fact, I think it's so wrong that any man who isn't your husband who goes near you whilst pregnant should be branded a paedophile. " | |||
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"Wrong. So wrong I'm surprised you even asked the question. A baby isn't something that other men need to be pawing over. In fact, I think it's so wrong that any man who isn't your husband who goes near you whilst pregnant should be branded a paedophile. " | |||
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"Wrong. So wrong I'm surprised you even asked the question. A baby isn't something that other men need to be pawing over. In fact, I think it's so wrong that any man who isn't your husband who goes near you whilst pregnant should be branded a paedophile. " That is so wrong baby is perfectly secure inside its protective sack. But I would'nt play as being pregnant is such a special time. I would'nt suggest playing near your due date though as sex can bring on the birth or contractions. Maybe a good thing if your late though. Mmmm 12 days late with both of mine would have tried anything. But did not have a partner to help me out. | |||
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"Wrong. So wrong I'm surprised you even asked the question. A baby isn't something that other men need to be pawing over. In fact, I think it's so wrong that any man who isn't your husband who goes near you whilst pregnant should be branded a paedophile. That is so wrong baby is perfectly secure inside its protective sack. But I would'nt play as being pregnant is such a special time. I would'nt suggest playing near your due date though as sex can bring on the birth or contractions. Maybe a good thing if your late though. Mmmm 12 days late with both of mine would have tried anything. But did not have a partner to help me out." i was thinking the same. why would u need to swing during such a special time. plus the risk of an STI isnt worth it. u have more than 1 person to think about now | |||
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"Wrong. So wrong I'm surprised you even asked the question. A baby isn't something that other men need to be pawing over. In fact, I think it's so wrong that any man who isn't your husband who goes near you whilst pregnant should be branded a paedophile. " | |||
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"Wrong. So wrong I'm surprised you even asked the question. A baby isn't something that other men need to be pawing over. In fact, I think it's so wrong that any man who isn't your husband who goes near you whilst pregnant should be branded a paedophile. " While it may not be everyones choice to play whilst pregnat/with a pregnant woman, there is nothing about such play which comes anywhere near paedophilia - Pedophilia is the act or fantasy on the part of an adult of engaging in sexual activity with a child or children | |||
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"Wrong. So wrong I'm surprised you even asked the question. A baby isn't something that other men need to be pawing over. In fact, I think it's so wrong that any man who isn't your husband who goes near you whilst pregnant should be branded a paedophile. While it may not be everyones choice to play whilst pregnat/with a pregnant woman, there is nothing about such play which comes anywhere near paedophilia - Pedophilia is the act or fantasy on the part of an adult of engaging in sexual activity with a child or children" And surely if a man is getting pleasure from feeling and caressing a baby bump rather than the woman then yes it is..... There's always someone out there who has that fantasy and unfortunately for this lady, she can't pick out ones that are from the one's that aren't. So, if she wants to play whilst pregnant then that's between her and her husband. But this is my opinion. Respect it. | |||
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"surly no man would want to shag a woman that is 6 months pregnant???? I think its wrong, but also think any bloke that would be up for it is a bit wrong in the head also..... shocking!" | |||
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"Some mums smoke during pregnancy some mums drink alcohol, some take drugs. Nowhere does it say that you should'nt have sex infact all the midwifes encourage it." Yes, but not with half of fab swingers. | |||
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"surly no man would want to shag a woman that is 6 months pregnant???? I think its wrong, but also think any bloke that would be up for it is a bit wrong in the head also..... shocking! " My point exactly. | |||
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"surly no man would want to shag a woman that is 6 months pregnant???? I think its wrong, but also think any bloke that would be up for it is a bit wrong in the head also..... shocking! My point exactly. " Your point in agreement with my then? I thought so! | |||
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"Some mums smoke during pregnancy some mums drink alcohol, some take drugs. Nowhere does it say that you should'nt have sex infact all the midwifes encourage it." midwifes DONT encourage shagging different men on swinging sites! load of old bollocks! its completly different if she is having sex with her own partner, you always take a risk meeting people off the net, and in my opinion you should never risk a unborn baby, as much as you wouldnt risk a new born | |||
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"Some mums smoke during pregnancy some mums drink alcohol, some take drugs. Nowhere does it say that you should'nt have sex infact all the midwifes encourage it. Yes, but not with half of fab swingers. " heheheh | |||
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"Also.. who says im looking to shag other men? If you read my profile it says it all." They can't be going off to read your profile, otherwise they couldn't tell you off for being so wrong (in their opinion only that is)! | |||
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"Some mums smoke during pregnancy some mums drink alcohol, some take drugs. Nowhere does it say that you should'nt have sex infact all the midwifes encourage it. midwifes DONT encourage shagging different men on swinging sites! load of old bollocks! its completely different if she is having sex with her own partner, you always take a risk meeting people off the net, and in my opinion you should never risk a unborn baby, as much as you wouldnt risk a new born" Of course they don't lol but they do encourage sex. As long as the lady is safe and she is only after soft swap then whats the problem. | |||
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"You are 6months pregnent, and you joined fabs 4weeks ago looking to meet MF couples! you do the math!" But did you actually read the profile text and not just perve the pregnant pics? | |||
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"You are 6months pregnent, and you joined fabs 4weeks ago looking to meet MF couples! you do the math!" Paha. | |||
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"You are 6months pregnent, and you joined fabs 4weeks ago looking to meet MF couples! you do the math! But did you actually read the profile text and not just perve the pregnant pics? " I didnt even look at her pics! pregnent women does nothing for me! | |||
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"Thanks.. im flattered. Haha" lol dont take to much offence, I wouldnt find Angelina Jolie attractive if she was pregnent | |||
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"You are 6months pregnent, and you joined fabs 4weeks ago looking to meet MF couples! you do the math! But did you actually read the profile text and not just perve the pregnant pics? I didnt even look at her pics! pregnent women does nothing for me! " I believe ya didn't even have a wee look, thousands wouldn't, but you have found a believer in me! PS - I did look, before anyone asks! | |||
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"Thanks.. im flattered. Haha lol dont take to much offence, I wouldnt find Angelina Jolie attractive if she was pregnent " different if it was my wife tho | |||
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"please read the countless other threads on this subject ...its been done to death ." And it's being done again. We don't all come on here every second of the day. | |||
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"please read the countless other threads on this subject ...its been done to death . And it's being done again. We don't all come on here every second of the day. " | |||
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