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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have recently joined the in with the whole swinging scene because of my ridiculously high sex drive lol but finding it hard for women to take me seriously because of my age, thinking I'm

There for a quick empty which is far from the truth as I love sex and love watching the other person enjoy it. Any advice on how to be taking seriously?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

How old are you?

Three months is a very short time to be on fab as a single man. Message people whose requirements you "genuinely" fit, stick around the forum and try and get to a social.

One tip, women and generally suspicious if there are immediate and obvious discrepancies in information.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem to be doing ok despite the discrepancies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

27 isn't that young. XXX

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By *vetteBondTV/TS
over a year ago

English Riviera

Try a tranny

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By *wo-GoodCouple
over a year ago

South London

Your profile is poorly written and says you're 30 before saying you're 27 in the profile text.

Just a bit of constructive criticism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have recently joined the in with the whole swinging scene because of my ridiculously high sex drive lol but finding it hard for women to take me seriously because of my age, thinking I'm

There for a quick empty which is far from the truth as I love sex and love watching the other person enjoy it. Any advice on how to be taking seriously? "
I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile is poorly written and says you're 30 before saying you're 27 in the profile text.

Just a bit of constructive criticism "

Tbf he didn't ask for any so you should refrain from giving it

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Try a tranny "

but he's straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again, how can someone get their age wrong?

You know what year you were born right?

I really don't understand how someone can screw up entering their date of birth when setting up a profile.

I'd suggest either contacting admin (use report link on your own profile page) or delete and start again.

Seriously, if you can't get your age right, people will be wondering what else you're lying about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have recently joined the in with the whole swinging scene because of my ridiculously high sex drive lol but finding it hard for women to take me seriously because of my age, thinking I'm

There for a quick empty which is far from the truth as I love sex and love watching the other person enjoy it. Any advice on how to be taking seriously? "

probably arent getting took seriously as your age on your mini bio says 30 but your text says your 27

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By *wo-GoodCouple
over a year ago

South London


"Your profile is poorly written and says you're 30 before saying you're 27 in the profile text.

Just a bit of constructive criticism

Tbf he didn't ask for any so you should refrain from giving it"

He asked for advice. I gave him some. Shall I run my posts past you in future, just to make sure they're ok?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Your profile is poorly written and says you're 30 before saying you're 27 in the profile text.

Just a bit of constructive criticism

Tbf he didn't ask for any so you should refrain from giving it"

He's asked for advice on his perceived lackof success. Its relevant

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advise and I did not ask for criticism and I obviously know my age and was an accident and will not let me change back no need for sarci comments is ther? Just don't put anything if your going to me an arse about it and thankyou yo everyone els for advise, will take it on board x

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Welcome to the fab forums.

Nobody is criticising you. Yes some comments maybe sarcastic however its not abusive and within the forum rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advise and I did not ask for criticism and I obviously know my age and was an accident and will not let me change back no need for sarci comments is ther? Just don't put anything if your going to me an arse about it and thankyou yo everyone els for radvise, will take it on board x"

You can change your age once. If you have done that and got it wrong again. Contact admin

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Well that's me told

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By *wo-GoodCouple
over a year ago

South London


"Thanks for the advise and I did not ask for criticism and I obviously know my age and was an accident and will not let me change back no need for sarci comments is ther? Just don't put anything if your going to me an arse about it and thankyou yo everyone els for advise, will take it on board x"

There's a difference between nastiness and constructive criticism

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

OP wrote

"Any advice on how to be taking seriously?"

Advice - constructive criticism. Isn't it all the same.

Can't say I read any nasty replies.

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead


"I have recently joined the in with the whole swinging scene because of my ridiculously high sex drive lol but finding it hard for women to take me seriously because of my age, thinking I'm

There for a quick empty which is far from the truth as I love sex and love watching the other person enjoy it. Any advice on how to be taking seriously? "

Try joining a club, attend organised socials and continue to join in forums. Above all be yourself and be patient.

Meets aren't easy for single guys, as so many of us, also a lot of time wasters that spoil it, they talk the talk but bottle it went it comes to the deed.

I've been on here several yrs and just occasionally play but the ones I play with know I'm genuine & don't need to verify every time we meet.

Good luck

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP when people say they are struggling because of their age, ethnicity or one of the many other reasons I've seen on here, that is very rarely the case. In most instances it is because of something they are doing (or not doing). This could be the messages they are sending or their profile pictures and text isn't good.

Also many do need to manage their expectations a little better. A lot of people think they can just sign up and they will be knee deep in clunge before they know it.

Now, I'm not saying that is you. Without knowing what you are doing it is difficult to offer advice. If there is something specific you want us to help with then let us know - the forum users are quite nice really

I do actually think that you are doing ok to be honest. You have had 2 meets in the 3 months you have been on fab which is a lot better than most single men.

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By *vetteBondTV/TS
over a year ago

English Riviera


"Try a tranny

but he's straight "

They all say that hunni.

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By *asterPSubslutCouple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Stick with it , go to a club always a good way of meeting in person

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