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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good afternoon, ladies and gentlemen.

What do you ladies/couples think works as a great first message?

What are you looking to read, and see?

K.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No such thing as the perfect message so keep it simple.

Introduce yourself

Show you've read the profile of the recipient

Show how you fit what they're looking for

Send a decent face pic'

Be humorous

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You've got one chance to make a good first impression, don't waste it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say myself i never send one first i wait for them to message me saves wasting my time.

Be interesting to see though what does works instead of the usual moaning about single guys from some.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Obviously am not a Woman or a couple but I would say something short but makes them want to look at your profile,

If your pictures and profile stand out and you're what they are looking for they are more likely to reply to your message,

I didn't actually answer your question did I

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't say myself i never send one first i wait for them to message me saves wasting my time.

Be interesting to see though what does works instead of the usual moaning about single guys from some. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no magic formula pal. Just be yourself and not fake...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't say myself i never send one first i wait for them to message me saves wasting my time.

Be interesting to see though what does works instead of the usual moaning about single guys from some. "

Or moaning about people wasting your time?

It is a more positive question from the Op. your right.

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By *wo-GoodCouple
over a year ago

South London

Your profile is just as, if not more important than the message in our opinion. As others have said make sure you read the profiles and make sure you're what they're looking for. And please, for the love of God, avoid the generic 'Hi how are you?' opening message

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Your profile is just as, if not more important than the message in our opinion. As others have said make sure you read the profiles and make sure you're what they're looking for. And please, for the love of God, avoid the generic 'Hi how are you?' opening message "

^^Exactly, it gets so tiresome and boring

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

It's really very easy. Send a picture of yourself that they find attractive, and be the sort of person (or people) they want to meet, conveying this to them in your message and your profile.

The rest will take care of itself.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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one that says they want the same things i do. and i fancy the guy who sent it.

and by wanting the same things i do i don't just read the message, i use other things as well as the message to figure out if a guy is worth taking the time to talk to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"one that says they want the same things i do. and i fancy the guy who sent it.

and by wanting the same things i do i don't just read the message, i use other things as well as the message to figure out if a guy is worth taking the time to talk to."

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By *ina75Woman
over a year ago

Stone

Send me a message that gives me the opportunity to reply with more than a one word answer.

"how are you doing? “ fine.

"what you up to? " perving.

" Hi" hi

"your profile mentions bikes, what do you ride? How long have you been riding for, and do you ever go to events? " . . . . yeah, I ride a xxxxxxxxxxx.

Get the picture?

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