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By *hoenix Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northallerton

We are on fabs to meet single women who are in high demand and very hard to find. So that leaves us stagnant in terms of swinging although we do have fun in many other ways. Are there couples out there where the guy is content to watch? Does this happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me.

But then I'm lazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, lol

Watching bored hubby.....

Ask yourself why you can't just meet a couple and all play together?

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

I could understand a guy watching another chap see to his good lady. Watching said lady with a couple however doesnt compute. Of course everyones got their kink.

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By *hoenix Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northallerton


"Me.

But then I'm lazy "

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By *hoenix Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northallerton


"No, lol

Watching bored hubby.....

Ask yourself why you can't just meet a couple and all play together? "

Personal preference, guess we are all different

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By *hoenix Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northallerton


"I could understand a guy watching another chap see to his good lady. Watching said lady with a couple however doesnt compute. Of course everyones got their kink."

Indeed we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a message off a couple asking if I'd be prepared to wait downstairs at their home while they had fun with my wife upstairs , had to admire the cheek they didn't even ask if my wife liked the look of them ffs. I told them yes as long as they had a PlayStation I could use

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

Croydon Area


"We are on fabs to meet single women who are in high demand and very hard to find. So that leaves us stagnant in terms of swinging although we do have fun in many other ways. Are there couples out there where the guy is content to watch? Does this happen? "

We had this on our profile for months as I don't play (spectator only) and didn't really have much success so gave up.

Biggest issue is finding couples that Mrs is attracted to both the male and the female and where the female half is fully happy sharing her man fully.

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By *hoenix Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northallerton


"We had a message off a couple asking if I'd be prepared to wait downstairs at their home while they had fun with my wife upstairs , had to admire the cheek they didn't even ask if my wife liked the look of them ffs. I told them yes as long as they had a PlayStation I could use "

We got a PS4 and Xbox 360 with CoD and FIFA haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a message off a couple asking if I'd be prepared to wait downstairs at their home while they had fun with my wife upstairs , had to admire the cheek they didn't even ask if my wife liked the look of them ffs. I told them yes as long as they had a PlayStation I could use "

We've had a few of these requests we say hell thats fine as long as we can borrow the female to do the same, they soon back off lol don't think these people understand swinging....

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

No. I see no pleasure in watching an insecure man play with my wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I see no pleasure in watching an insecure man play with my wife. "

Hit the nail on the head.....

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By *hoenix Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northallerton


"We are on fabs to meet single women who are in high demand and very hard to find. So that leaves us stagnant in terms of swinging although we do have fun in many other ways. Are there couples out there where the guy is content to watch? Does this happen?

We had this on our profile for months as I don't play (spectator only) and didn't really have much success so gave up.

Biggest issue is finding couples that Mrs is attracted to both the male and the female and where the female half is fully happy sharing her man fully. "

Mrs P is a rare cuck queen

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By *hoenix Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northallerton


"We had a message off a couple asking if I'd be prepared to wait downstairs at their home while they had fun with my wife upstairs , had to admire the cheek they didn't even ask if my wife liked the look of them ffs. I told them yes as long as they had a PlayStation I could use

We've had a few of these requests we say hell thats fine as long as we can borrow the female to do the same, they soon back off lol don't think these people understand swinging...."

But surely their are 100's of couples who just want to meet single women. No understanding needed just personal preference?

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By *hoenix Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northallerton


"No. I see no pleasure in watching an insecure man play with my wife.

Hit the nail on the head....."

That's rubbish, what if the woman doesn't want to have another man? Personal preference?

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By *hoenix Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northallerton

Very interesting response. Respect all opinions as long as personal preferences are respected in return without judgement!

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

For us it would come accros that the guy is fine with fucking other women but insecure about his wife with other men so us personally would avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For us it would come accros that the guy is fine with fucking other women but insecure about his wife with other men so us personally would avoid."

In our experience, please note, in our experience this has been the issue, thus we avoid nowadays, we reiterate in our experience...

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

There was a time when this scenario was fine with me . I was a lazy swinger too , and suffered a bit if performance anxiety so it suited us at the time .

Problem was though it was way too contrived and the meets we had became dull and repetitive .

Fortunately we no longer seek the meets where I sit and watch , and as my wife has developed a bit of desire to watch me as much as I like seeing her , our swinging has become 100% more fun .

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By *hoenix Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northallerton


"For us it would come accros that the guy is fine with fucking other women but insecure about his wife with other men so us personally would avoid.

In our experience, please note, in our experience this has been the issue, thus we avoid nowadays, we reiterate in our experience..."

Fair comment, but not always the case

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"For us it would come accros that the guy is fine with fucking other women but insecure about his wife with other men so us personally would avoid.

In our experience, please note, in our experience this has been the issue, thus we avoid nowadays, we reiterate in our experience...

Fair comment, but not always the case "

yea can totally understand that to be the case .

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"For us it would come accros that the guy is fine with fucking other women but insecure about his wife with other men so us personally would avoid."

Yep , spot on .

We had loads of meets where this was the case .

Not just this , but on many an occasion you could see the guys wife wasn't comfortable when he was fucking my wife either .

You either have the mentality for this lifestyle or you don't . Simple really .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For us it would come accros that the guy is fine with fucking other women but insecure about his wife with other men so us personally would avoid.

In our experience, please note, in our experience this has been the issue, thus we avoid nowadays, we reiterate in our experience...

Fair comment, but not always the case "

But asking couples if the guy will just watch whilst your guy enjoys 2 women at once is unfair and to us not swinging, don't get me wrong we enjoy a FFM meet (see veris) but they are a rarity and MFMF meets will always in everyone being actively involved, he'll if you don't fancy any other guy on the planet and just want ladies just concentrate on finding single ladies

Equal way dynamics is the key....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For us it would come accros that the guy is fine with fucking other women but insecure about his wife with other men so us personally would avoid.

In our experience, please note, in our experience this has been the issue, thus we avoid nowadays, we reiterate in our experience...

Fair comment, but not always the case

But asking couples if the guy will just watch whilst your guy enjoys 2 women at once is unfair and to us not swinging, don't get me wrong we enjoy a FFM meet (see veris) but they are a rarity and MFMF meets will always in everyone being actively involved, he'll if you don't fancy any other guy on the planet and just want ladies just concentrate on finding single ladies

Equal way dynamics is the key...."

All a bit harsh on the op.

No one is forcing anyone to meet them,they are simply asking are there any couples out there where the male of the other couple is happy to watch.

Everyone has there own kink and what they would like to try,yes,it's a long shot,but it's their long shot,and their sexlife.they may find what they are looking for,they may not.

Quick ps to the op,my post earlier was firmly tongue in cheek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we lend your female and you just sit and read a book for the night in the corner please lol z

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By *hoenix Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northallerton


"For us it would come accros that the guy is fine with fucking other women but insecure about his wife with other men so us personally would avoid.

In our experience, please note, in our experience this has been the issue, thus we avoid nowadays, we reiterate in our experience...

Fair comment, but not always the case

But asking couples if the guy will just watch whilst your guy enjoys 2 women at once is unfair and to us not swinging, don't get me wrong we enjoy a FFM meet (see veris) but they are a rarity and MFMF meets will always in everyone being actively involved, he'll if you don't fancy any other guy on the planet and just want ladies just concentrate on finding single ladies

Equal way dynamics is the key....

All a bit harsh on the op.

No one is forcing anyone to meet them,they are simply asking are there any couples out there where the male of the other couple is happy to watch.

Everyone has there own kink and what they would like to try,yes,it's a long shot,but it's their long shot,and their sexlife.they may find what they are looking for,they may not.

Quick ps to the op,my post earlier was firmly tongue in cheek "

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By *hoenix Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northallerton


"Can we lend your female and you just sit and read a book for the night in the corner please lol z"

If only that's what she wanted to do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about a singke male whos willing to watch maybe touch take pictures and videos of the sexy couple going at it like rabbits!

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