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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking to try fisting for the first time please no funny comments xxxxx thank u xx

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

You need two things and you need loads of both. Lube and patience. Go slowly and listen to your body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking to try fisting for the first time please no funny comments xxxxx thank u xx "

Inflatable dildo helps.

Lube and some.

Time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience, take it slowly, gradually work your way up from a finger or two, and if she tells you to stop then stop.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm thinking of getting one of them Hun will it definitely make me stretch more xxx

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By *unsters66Couple
over a year ago

Newport

A plastic Speculum with lots of Lube and take your time...it will happen....;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need two things and you need loads of both. Lube and patience. Go slowly and listen to your body. "

Oh, I was thinking the two things were a fist and a vagina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking to try fisting for the first time please no funny comments xxxxx thank u xx "

You should be in control, don't force it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience, take it slowly, gradually work your way up from a finger or two, and if she tells you to stop then stop."

I did not even realise this was being done to me the first time mr here did it, I was soooooo turned on by him playing with me that it was until after an all mighty orgasm he told me what he did, I never thought it could be such a turn on but he proved me wrong now I love it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm going to try and do it on my self see if I can get it all in and stretch my self xxxx

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By *he massage manMan
over a year ago

filey

I found as a guy a unbelievable erotic experience and the lady loved it. I found if you patient and gentle to start it's not as difficult as you would think !!!

Good luck I hope you enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to try and do it on my self see if I can get it all in and stretch my self xxxx "

The vagina is extremely stretchy have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm thinking of getting one of them Hun will it definitely make me stretch more xxx "

An inflatable? If so yes, it's what assisted the guy to fist me for my first ever time.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"I'm going to try and do it on my self see if I can get it all in and stretch my self xxxx "

That would be best to try first..

I've recently started fisting a new lady friend of mine, at her insistence. ...I never would have thought my hand would fit in there but with her guiding me in a finger at a time at the pace she was comfortable with I finally managed it... and her orgasm when she told me to wiggle my fingers was awesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

used to fist an ex regularly. message me guys and will see what we can do

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By *mooth tongue 4uMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Your in need of a good lube , patience and get yourself relaxed loads of foreplay trust in your partner if you say stop , make sure he does as he's tol

You can wear a latex or similar examination glove that helps too

Once in the orgasms are memorable !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to try and do it on my self see if I can get it all in and stretch my self xxxx "

Omg that's so erotic what a turn on

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By *orkieboy 99Man
over a year ago

york


"I'm going to try and do it on my self see if I can get it all in and stretch my self xxxx "
hope you enjoy it and have fun lots of lub

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I only got 4 fingers in on my self It hard to do xxxx

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By *xotic indianCouple
over a year ago

leicester

Relax good lube communication

One step at a time once the whole fist is in Get use to it before any movement

Yes if you play with your clit at same time that does help All the best doing right it can be real pleasurable and have intense orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My lover fists me regularly he gets me so turned on we don't need lube lol

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By *orkieboy 99Man
over a year ago

york


"I only got 4 fingers in on my self It hard to do xxxx "
lots of lub and nice and easy and play with your clit

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By *orkieboy 99Man
over a year ago

york


"My lover fists me regularly he gets me so turned on we don't need lube lol "
sounds good you like it

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Some while ago I was lucky enough to be able to fist a willing volunteer at a club. Just seemed to happen, loved being able to give her pleasure. I loved my part in it too.... !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone xxx I'm going to try again later xxxx

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

Banbridge

Theres a fab couple not far from you (rachel-graham) who should be able to give you some hints.

Rachel is quite bi and has shared with me some of her recent fisting experiences. I believe she has a photo in her profile doing just this!

Might be easier with another lady rather than just DIY.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a guy tried this with me and it just put me off for life!

Can't imagine it feeling nice or giving me an orgasm..felt like giving birth in reverse!!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"Thanks everyone xxx I'm going to try again later xxxx "

Well done, a little bit more each time while still being comfortable x

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

It kinda reminds me of a chicken and a box of paxo stuffing ..... I must be watching too many cookery programmes

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By *abcouple11Couple
over a year ago

Truro


"You need two things and you need loads of both. Lube and patience. Go slowly and listen to your body. "

Agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone xxx I'm going to try again later xxxx "

How did you get on??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had a fist in me before but would be curious to try this, i like being fingered deep. Have to have small hands though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly, don't think of it as "fisting" - a fast, aggressive approach will be painful, not erotic.

Also, don't approach it as a quest "today I want to be fisted ", just let it evolve.

I prefer to think of it as "honey pot-holing" is much more pleasurable for both parties - sensing those moments of further relaxation and not rushing. As a "honey pot-holer", that moment when your hand is inside and you can use all fingers and thumb to stimulate, is amazing. I'm guessing from my partners' reactions they enjoyed it too

Never needed lube - maybe I just have small hands and nimble fingers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking to try fisting for the first time please no funny comments xxxxx thank u xx "

Try your 1st fisting experience with a lady as they usually have smaller hands than men

Oh and lots of lube, oral to relax you and patience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm going to look for a other female to do it with me xxxx

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By *orkieboy 99Man
over a year ago

york


"I'm going to look for a other female to do it with me xxxx "
i can help you out if need other girls

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

I love seeing a woman being fisted it's looks so damn sexy. I have always wanted to do fisting but not been lucky enough to find a willing woman to do it too. Go for if girl take your time and enjoy maybe put some pictures on your profile when you manage it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its definitely better and easier if its done by a lady! Guys have big hands generally hehehe

Its a truly awesome feeling though, relaxing is key

Enjoy xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was very close last night xxx

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By *r 007Man
over a year ago

harrogate


"I was very close last night xxx "
going by your pic you are doing well xx

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By *orkieboy 99Man
over a year ago

york


"I was very close last night xxx "
you getting there and nice pics of it as well keep up the good work if you need a hand can message me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Still can't do it to my self as yet x love Hannah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi there Hannah. Mite be able to help you out . Message me if you like. Take care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only got 4 fingers in on my self It hard to do xxxx "

Yeah it sure is, your hand can't curve into you at the correct and most comfortable angle, I got wrist ache trying! Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still can't do it to my self as yet x love Hannah "

As a woman who enjoys this, let me tell you I can't do it to myself. Logistically it's just too hard, trying to bend etc. Have you tried with anyone else yet? A partner, fwb? It's likely not something you'll just do on a first meet (although I have, but it had been discussed before)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience, take it slowly, gradually work your way up from a finger or two, and if she tells you to stop then stop.

I did not even realise this was being done to me the first time mr here did it, I was soooooo turned on by him playing with me that it was until after an all mighty orgasm he told me what he did, I never thought it could be such a turn on but he proved me wrong now I love it "

Exactly the same about 6 weeks ago, I usually struggle with 3 fingers but my meet here had me dripping fingering me hard, I knew he was adding more fingers due to the pressure but I didn't know until after a MASSIVE orgasm that he had nearly his entire fist inside me, mmm what a feeling, he's since done it again and I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Power to the people.

Citizen smith

Full stretch fist in the air

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No Iv only been doing it on my self x as hubby as massive hands xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fisting can be fatal for the woman.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks xxx everyone xxx

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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago

Your wildest Dreams

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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago

Your wildest Dreams

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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago

Your wildest Dreams

Ive received and gave fisting.. Its like many hav sed, takes time and patience but it is THE most amazing orgasm wen I have it dun to me It is HOT AS FUCK watching urself as u fist a pussy! x

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