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By *aramelMINX OP   Woman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Had a meet arranged... turned up at the hotel and he wasnt what he the profile or pix were like... he invited me into the room and i saod i think ive got the wrong room and i left....

Eeek i do feel bad but i couldnt have gone through with it after seeing him as different ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plot twist - what if you did get the wrong room!!!!

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By *aramelMINX OP   Woman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

No he came out to get me it was the shittest excuse ever but i couldnt do it...blergh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No he came out to get me it was the shittest excuse ever but i couldnt do it...blergh"

Did you not say "excuse me, you look heck all like your picture "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame I'm not closer so I could take his place

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By *aramelMINX OP   Woman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

No it was the first meet in a while so

Argh sorry i feel awful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shame I'm not closer so I could take his place "

I was just going to say, it wasn't in Milton Keynes this hotel was it

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Don't feel bad.... not your fault if they don't match up to what their profile says.... and good job you met at their hotel and not the other way round... at least you could just politely decline and walk away...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it was the first meet in a while so

Argh sorry i feel awful"

Don't feel awful..,

I'd have done the same!

It's his fault for lying in the first place

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Poor man. But if you couldn't go through with it then its best to walk away. Have a stock excuse ready for future disappointments.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Dont feel awful... just put it to a learning experience for your next meet as to what not to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shame I'm not closer so I could take his place

I was just going to say, it wasn't in Milton Keynes this hotel was it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it was the first meet in a while so

Argh sorry i feel awful"

You shouldn't feel awful, the guy shouldn't have been dishonest.. its his own fault x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Why do you feel awful for turning up to meet a guy who had persuaded you there under false pretences?

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Yes don't blame yourself I would of done the same ......wtf I had a meet like that walked straight passed them the pi. Was over 25 years old he had hair and it was brown the one I passed was grey !!! Why can't people be honest? ???

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

Nothing to feel bad about. If he's using pics that don't look like him, on the hope that you'd not back out, then he deserves being stood up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing to feel bad about. You're not on here to sleep with anyone.

Your decision is final at any time during the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They should feel bad for the deception. You have nothing to feel bad about

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By *aramelMINX OP   Woman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Coz he musta paid a lot for the hotel room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coz he musta paid a lot for the hotel room "

Then he can enjoy it with someone else then

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"Coz he musta paid a lot for the hotel room "

That's his problem.... and he can have all the biccies to himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You shouldn't feel. Bad! You have the right to say no! Especially if he doesn't look like his photo! That's dodgy for a start! And I would suggest a social meet first next time, Stay safe. X

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

So much drama, so little action, just happens lady, unfortunately a lot.

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By *aramelMINX OP   Woman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Coz he musta paid a lot for the hotel room

That's his problem.... and he can have all the biccies to himself"

Lol ok

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By *orkieboy 99Man
over a year ago

york


"Had a meet arranged... turned up at the hotel and he wasnt what he the profile or pix were like... he invited me into the room and i saod i think ive got the wrong room and i left....

Eeek i do feel bad but i couldnt have gone through with it after seeing him as different ...

"
theres a lot who dont have own pics so have to be carful should always ask for them in text or kik and put a mark on them but sorry to here you had to go

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Coz he musta paid a lot for the hotel room "

Most likely being paid for by work, so he thought he'd chance his arm, use a fake profile and wing it.

Wouldn't have got as far as his room though??

You have nothing to feel bad about, you go girl x

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Had a meet arranged... turned up at the hotel and he wasnt what he the profile or pix were like... he invited me into the room and i saod i think ive got the wrong room and i left....

Eeek i do feel bad but i couldnt have gone through with it after seeing him as different ...

"

To take the step forward in meeting again after a break , to turn up at a hotel to meet a total stranger based on his pics was a brave step .

Sorry it turned out so bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't feel bad.... not your fault if they don't match up to what their profile says.... and good job you met at their hotel and not the other way round... at least you could just politely decline and walk away..."

this - and good on you for walking away - i would have chatted to him though and said why

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By *aurenkaWoman
over a year ago

London

Feel bad for you, OP!

So it was like completely different person, or lighter/fitter /younger him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coz he musta paid a lot for the hotel room

That's his problem.... and he can have all the biccies to himself

Lol ok "

if he had been honest from the off he wouldnt be alone in his room now would he --- do not feel bad about it - you done nowt wrong

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Coz he musta paid a lot for the hotel room "

He should have thought about that before he sent you misleading photos.

I honestly don't know why you feel bad when you've been deceived.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Oh dear, not good and it's not your fault. Maybe arrange a social next time....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing to feel bad about just because you meet someone there should be never be any obligation to sleep with them

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