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Why is it that girls get called slut, slag or worst still whore?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't understand why girls get a bad name for having casual sex with multiple partners and men get away with it?! Is it just the idea that it's okay for guys to fuck anything that moves because it's boyjust being boys? We need to change this mindset! Girls are just being girls as well! Thought people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand why girls get a bad name for having casual sex with multiple partners and men get away with it?! Is it just the idea that it's okay for guys to fuck anything that moves because it's boyjust being boys? We need to change this mindset! Girls are just being girls as well! Thought people?"

It's not uncommon to have a double standard. Same way women often earn less in same jobs etc

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By *odernLoveDublinMan
over a year ago

dublin

Cause some guys are petty idiots and cant handle (a) rejection or (b) the fact certain women just arent attracted to them, either mentally or physically or most often both

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By *hatty479Man
over a year ago

Lewisham

I do notice a lot of women call each other sluts in a negative way, when I talk privately with mates we really could care it's their chose so long as they are safe about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand why girls get a bad name for having casual sex with multiple partners and men get away with it?! Is it just the idea that it's okay for guys to fuck anything that moves because it's boyjust being boys? We need to change this mindset! Girls are just being girls as well! Thought people?"

I think its just another case of Double Standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like men who fk around but want a female in their relationship to be just theirs XXX

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I don't understand why girls get a bad name for having casual sex with multiple partners and men get away with it?! Is it just the idea that it's okay for guys to fuck anything that moves because it's boyjust being boys? We need to change this mindset! Girls are just being girls as well! Thought people?"

It's probably only a small percentage that use derogatory terms for a girl that loves sex and probably only when they are showing off in a group of guys

Pretty sure that girls have similar words for guys that fuck around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand why girls get a bad name for having casual sex with multiple partners and men get away with it?! Is it just the idea that it's okay for guys to fuck anything that moves because it's boyjust being boys? We need to change this mindset! Girls are just being girls as well! Thought people?"

Don't you actually reinforce this issue by putting on your profile " won't sleep my way through the site" do you care so much about getting a so called bad name? Why care? Why reinforce this backward ideal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree it's double standards. Why should a woman be labelled as a slapper for having multiple partners. Also when you take it if they did not then the same guys wouldn't be getting their leg over. It's the same as a lot of things the Victor writing the rules and with men being the alleged stronger sex they have won.

I personally think this sad habit of labelling needs to stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand why girls get a bad name for having casual sex with multiple partners and men get away with it?! Is it just the idea that it's okay for guys to fuck anything that moves because it's boyjust being boys? We need to change this mindset! Girls are just being girls as well! Thought people?

Don't you actually reinforce this issue by putting on your profile " won't sleep my way through the site" do you care so much about getting a so called bad name? Why care? Why reinforce this backward ideal? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women can be far worse. When we first got together and both had single profiles. Our verification tally was about the same but couples and women wouldn't meet us as a couple as "I" had been around and liked gangbangs...

Even though we both did gangbangs and my profile had a lot of social verifications... okay true number of people id met at that point would have been way more than my verifications but people wouldn't meet us as I was a slut... even though mr was meeting as much as me..

So i tamed down completely or no one would meet us or those that did judged that Lee wasn't good enough to keep me satisfied. So i stopped x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I would just call my self one that way if some one calls me one it just like there using a shortened version of my name lol

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row


"I don't understand why girls get a bad name for having casual sex with multiple partners and men get away with it?! Is it just the idea that it's okay for guys to fuck anything that moves because it's boyjust being boys? We need to change this mindset! Girls are just being girls as well! Thought people?

It's not uncommon to have a double standard. Same way women often earn less in same jobs etc"

The wage gap is a myth, you are virtue signalling i fear, trying to appease the women on the forum.

Clearly you haven't researched the wage gap waffle ever.

Stop reading buzzfeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand why girls get a bad name for having casual sex with multiple partners and men get away with it?! Is it just the idea that it's okay for guys to fuck anything that moves because it's boyjust being boys? We need to change this mindset! Girls are just being girls as well! Thought people?

It's not uncommon to have a double standard. Same way women often earn less in same jobs etc

The wage gap is a myth, you are virtue signalling i fear, trying to appease the women on the forum.

Clearly you haven't researched the wage gap waffle ever.

Stop reading buzzfeed."
sorry but it is still there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand why girls get a bad name for having casual sex with multiple partners and men get away with it?! Is it just the idea that it's okay for guys to fuck anything that moves because it's boyjust being boys? We need to change this mindset! Girls are just being girls as well! Thought people?

It's not uncommon to have a double standard. Same way women often earn less in same jobs etc

The wage gap is a myth, you are virtue signalling i fear, trying to appease the women on the forum.

Clearly you haven't researched the wage gap waffle ever.

Stop reading buzzfeed."

... Ouch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand why girls get a bad name for having casual sex with multiple partners and men get away with it?! Is it just the idea that it's okay for guys to fuck anything that moves because it's boyjust being boys? We need to change this mindset! Girls are just being girls as well! Thought people?

It's not uncommon to have a double standard. Same way women often earn less in same jobs etc

The wage gap is a myth, you are virtue signalling i fear, trying to appease the women on the forum.

Clearly you haven't researched the wage gap waffle ever.

Stop reading buzzfeed. sorry but it is still there. "

The economists disagree, devil is in the detail. Google it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand why girls get a bad name for having casual sex with multiple partners and men get away with it?! Is it just the idea that it's okay for guys to fuck anything that moves because it's boyjust being boys? We need to change this mindset! Girls are just being girls as well! Thought people?"

I would never call a girl slag slut or whore unless its what they want in the bedroom I think there is a fine line a women or a man that has casual fun is just having fun but I also think it comes down to being safe whilst having fun and where you are having fun

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row


"I don't understand why girls get a bad name for having casual sex with multiple partners and men get away with it?! Is it just the idea that it's okay for guys to fuck anything that moves because it's boyjust being boys? We need to change this mindset! Girls are just being girls as well! Thought people?

It's not uncommon to have a double standard. Same way women often earn less in same jobs etc

The wage gap is a myth, you are virtue signalling i fear, trying to appease the women on the forum.

Clearly you haven't researched the wage gap waffle ever.

Stop reading buzzfeed. sorry but it is still there.

The economists disagree, devil is in the detail. Google it "

I fear you sir shut use Google.

Explain to me why business's don't try to hire more women than men if they are such cheap labour?

Also 2 people walk into a job at a call center. . One male one female.

Guess what. .they earn the same wage.

Simple maths really.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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men are allowed to be in control sexually, women are not.

that's not true of course but the men who think we are sluts for doing what they do/wanna do think we are not here for our own sexual needs but are here for theirs, and so men are in control of all sexuality.

they don't respect sexual women either. we are looked down on because we fuck them. we are their cum dumps. we have been objectified to such a degree that we are not even human. they cannot see that they are lesser than us for using us, and so they project their own inadequacy onto us and we are now shit instead of themselves.

they are superior for having penetrated us, some cum dump that is not a person like themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought " a key that fits many locks is a Master key" A lock that many keys fit is a shitty lock?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I thought " a key that fits many locks is a Master key" A lock that many keys fit is a shitty lock? "

yeah but it's always presumed the key is the penis, when we all know it's easier for women to get sex so therefore actually hold the key.

all you gotta do is call the lock the penis and say that's shitty and then it's not so funny for men any more is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand why girls get a bad name for having casual sex with multiple partners and men get away with it?! Is it just the idea that it's okay for guys to fuck anything that moves because it's boyjust being boys? We need to change this mindset! Girls are just being girls as well! Thought people?"

Where have you been for the last 51 years?

Women get a better deal these days than they ever have, still not totally equal tho!

I couldn't give a monkey's what people I don't know think of me. It's what I think of me that counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought " a key that fits many locks is a Master key" A lock that many keys fit is a shitty lock?

yeah but it's always presumed the key is the penis, when we all know it's easier for women to get sex so therefore actually hold the key.

all you gotta do is call the lock the penis and say that's shitty and then it's not so funny for men any more is it?"

I don't think a woman who has had many partners is a slut etc, It's just a daft comment. I look at it this way. A women has had 100 hundred different sexual partners in her lifetime, she's had sex 100 times. A woman has been married to the same guy for 10 years and had sex with him twice a week, she's been shagged 1040 times, who's the slut/slag/whore now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand why girls get a bad name for having casual sex with multiple partners and men get away with it?! Is it just the idea that it's okay for guys to fuck anything that moves because it's boyjust being boys? We need to change this mindset! Girls are just being girls as well! Thought people?

It's not uncommon to have a double standard. Same way women often earn less in same jobs etc

The wage gap is a myth, you are virtue signalling i fear, trying to appease the women on the forum.

Clearly you haven't researched the wage gap waffle ever.

Stop reading buzzfeed. sorry but it is still there.

The economists disagree, devil is in the detail. Google it

I fear you sir shut use Google.

Explain to me why business's don't try to hire more women than men if they are such cheap labour?

Also 2 people walk into a job at a call center. . One male one female.

Guess what. .they earn the same wage.

Simple maths really."

I'm agreeing with you. The gender wage gap is bullshit.... A rough average taken out of context by wiley feminist-centric media

Maybe isolated cases of course but on the whole when corrected for hrs worked worked, role and tenure pay is the same

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By *rixieswTV/TS
over a year ago

S.Westerly


"I don't understand why girls get a bad name for having casual sex with multiple partners and men get away with it?! Is it just the idea that it's okay for guys to fuck anything that moves because it's boyjust being boys? We need to change this mindset! Girls are just being girls as well! Thought people?"

I agree. If you were with me, I would treat you as an equal and encorage you to explore fully x

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I thought " a key that fits many locks is a Master key" A lock that many keys fit is a shitty lock?

yeah but it's always presumed the key is the penis, when we all know it's easier for women to get sex so therefore actually hold the key.

all you gotta do is call the lock the penis and say that's shitty and then it's not so funny for men any more is it?

I don't think a woman who has had many partners is a slut etc, It's just a daft comment. I look at it this way. A women has had 100 hundred different sexual partners in her lifetime, she's had sex 100 times. A woman has been married to the same guy for 10 years and had sex with him twice a week, she's been shagged 1040 times, who's the slut/slag/whore now? "

yep it's a stupid comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Becase they are thick, stupid little dickheads

- Mrs. J -

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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago

south west !

Hate those words

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

The king and i film musical. Original with yul brynner and debra kerr. The bee and flower ditty sums this up. Great film on a side note.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I do notice a lot of women call each other sluts in a negative way, when I talk privately with mates we really could care it's their chose so long as they are safe about it "

Spot on, from experience slut shaming has generaly been a female thing.. most men simply couldn't give a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here it may be for a few reasons. Misogyny is one. Ignorance is another. And then there is also the fact that you will find a not inconsiderable amount refer to themselves in that way because they get turned on by it.

Tricky eh?

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

Bloody slags

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I don't understand why girls get a bad name for having casual sex with multiple partners and men get away with it?! Is it just the idea that it's okay for guys to fuck anything that moves because it's boys just being boys? We need to change this mindset! Girls are just being girls as well! Thought people?"

This attitude cuts both ways, and has nothing in relation to the ideal of swinging fun; a 'popular' guy who has lots of veris is often called a 'player', and indeed, I have received knock-back messages from people with the words "Sorry, you're too active for me". It's not all one-sided

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand why girls get a bad name for having casual sex with multiple partners and men get away with it?!"

Personally, I can't stand the use of those words. Women are to be appreciated, not degraded.

We're in the 21st Century now, nothing wrong with either gender enjoying sex, or multiple partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are far more judgemental of other women! On here and in real life.

I love a woman to be exactly what she wants to be and if she likes to play the slut in the bedroom then good on her.

life is far too short to go worrying about what someone else thinks, others will run you're life if you let them.

Given the choice of a lady or a slut in the bedroom, give me the slutty one everytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because everyone is allowed to have an opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand why girls get a bad name for having casual sex with multiple partners and men get away with it?! Is it just the idea that it's okay for guys to fuck anything that moves because it's boyjust being boys? We need to change this mindset! Girls are just being girls as well! Thought people?"

The old adage is sex for a woman in natural terms comes with consequences. A promiscuous female before protection engaging in intercourse had some fairly non attractive options to prevent pregnancy and/or social stigma.

It's a relatively new phenomenon that we can have unlimited unprotected sex with (relatively) little risk of pregnancy and/or other complications. Society (generally, this site is clearly different!) hasn't caught up with this sexual liberation completely plus sexism is still moderately prevalent.

That said I feel double standards will always apply. Like men make the first move (and have to be 'original' whereas when women make the first move it's seemingly fine to say 'hi ' and so on); and women can discriminate a man's height whereas god forbid a man discriminates a woman's weight and so on and so on. But that's another post..

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