FabSwingers.com forum: Is it selfish?

By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

When either sex literally won't give oral but demands and expects to receive lengthy oral themselves?

This isn't a judgement question at all as for example id be perfectly willing to give head to a man or female without expecting anything in return. That's my pleasure.

But technically, is it a bit selfish to demand it but not ever give it yourself?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think so yes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am also happy to give but not get in return...with a guy anyway...but for that to be expected is not on....anything being expected is kind of a turn off for me tbh

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By *oneDoeWoman
over a year ago

socially distanced

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you not rather they did something they wanted to?

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

"Would you not rather they did something they wanted to? "

You are correct, as I already said but you didn't read.

This isn't a judgement of them. . You're not being objective about the question.

You are virtue signalling.

The question is . . Isn't it technically a bit selfish.

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

"I think so yes!!"

I remember seeing those lush legs before!

Great profile my lady *tips hat*

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I think so yes!!

I remember seeing those lush legs before!

Great profile my lady *tips hat*

Why, thank you

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

We've had meets where guys and gals expect head from xx but don't return the favour. We don't return the meet

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Is it selfish ?

Yes

Do I care ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you not rather they did something they wanted to?

You are correct, as I already said but you didn't read.

This isn't a judgement of them. . You're not being objective about the question.

You are virtue signalling.

The question is . . Isn't it technically a bit selfish."

Oh definitely

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Strangely I have met a few women who made it clear they would not suck or fuck as they considered that unfaithful to their hubands but who were very happy to receive oral from me. Odd but I wouldn't call it selfish.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yep

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Extremely selfish!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A deal breaker really, ridiculous and selfish...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to demand yes - but if its talked over beforehand there may be good reason - if its not going to work that way then dont even go there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't come from Oral, but I enjoy it for like 5 mins or so.

Quite happy if the woman doesn't want it, whereas I'm like a pig in shit doing prolonged oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women tell me they could suck my cock all night.

So I let them.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

As others have said to demand/expect it without discussion is incredibly selfish and I probably wouldn't progress to a meet under those circumstances, but if it were discussed up front and agreed by all concerned it's somewhat different.

We all have our likes/dislikes etc and if giving oral happens to be a dislike for someone, even though they enjoy receiving it, I'm not going to complain if they've been open and honest about it from the start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely selfish!

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By *inifeggMan
over a year ago

BRISTOL

Definitely yes

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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago

streatham

In this setting, everyone is entitled to set out what they expect to receive and what they won't give. It's not selfish. Selfish is if they refuse to give you any sort of pleasure in return.

And I would rather someone not give me a certain act than do it begrudgingly..

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