FabSwingers.com forum: Body jealous

By *jbucks OP Couple
over a year ago

Bletchley

Do you ever see a well toned lad or a sexy lady and wish you could look like that? Just seeing if it's just us

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Sometimes...

But then think about how many million hours they must spend in the gym,

Or the food and drink pleasures that they cannot indulge in...

Flames

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the damn time. But I hate myself, so I do this for basically everyone haha

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I can guarantee it's not just you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life's too short. And all the food is too good to pass up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you ever see a well toned lad or a sexy lady and wish you could look like that? Just seeing if it's just us "

Yep - would love big muscles and to be ripped lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say that I do...

I'm very happy with how I look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the damn time but then i have a bag of crisps and i'm alright again

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"All the damn time but then i have a bag of crisps and i'm alright again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some seriously sexy women on here that I when I look I wish I looked a fraction as good as them but I know I'm a fat lump and look like a sack of potatoes compared to them ....so I try not to look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea quite a lot, I think those of us that have insecurities generally do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In an attempt to keep the thread a little positive it could be you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do, then realise I am too lazy and greedy to ever look like that.

So just open a bag of crisps instead...

(Goose)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm, I was gonna edit my last post but I can't

Just to add - the body is only a tiny part of a much bigger picture!

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I think that unless you're one of the lucky few who are completely happy in their own skin that it's human nature to compare yourself to others.

You need to remember though that 'fit' and 'sexy' are highly subjective terms depending on individual preference and it's therefore just as feasible that someone could be looking enviably at *your* body, wishing it was theirs!

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By *ruesome-twosomeCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I think that everyone has a little body jealousy at one time no matter how confident you are with yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yea quite a lot, I think those of us that have insecurities generally do

Yeah... And it's even worse when it's about the things I can't change. Like my height

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Hmm, I was gonna edit my last post but I can't

Just to add - the body is only a tiny part of a much bigger picture!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are some seriously sexy women on here that I when I look I wish I looked a fraction as good as them but I know I'm a fat lump and look like a sack of potatoes compared to them ....so I try not to look

I don't know what you're talking about cos you are seriously sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to yes! But now I'm happy and content I don't get so jel. I perv more now

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the damn time but then i have a bag of crisps and i'm alright again

Chuck in a mars bar as well for good measure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just removed all mirrors now I'm gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that unless you're one of the lucky few who are completely happy in their own skin that it's human nature to compare yourself to others.

Wise words x

I wish I could go back and tell my 20yr old self that the young body I had was beautiful!

I give less fucks now - and I love food - I'm happier ( and a lot fatter

) than I was all through my 20s and 30s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that unless you're one of the lucky few who are completely happy in their own skin that it's human nature to compare yourself to others.

Wise words x

I wish I could go back and tell my 20yr old self that the young body I had was beautiful!

I give less fucks now - and I love food - I'm happier ( and a lot fatter

) than I was all through my 20s and 30s "

You're hot so i'd say you're good.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Thousands of years ago there might have been one person in the village who was pretty, within the context of washing every year and having almost no teeth. That's the only attractive person you would see.

Now with TV, advertising and the internet there appears to be gorgeous people everywhere so our brains have difficulty coping. Plus of course tooth whitening, self tanning, hair straighteners and access to good exercise is more common.

Don't worry about appearances, plenty of people are bastards under the skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmm, I was gonna edit my last post but I can't

Just to add - the body is only a tiny part of a much bigger picture!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't wish I had the same body as someone else. I do know mine needs to carry less fat. I had a slim body up until I was 35, and don't feel any worse about how mine looks now. It's how it feels that I have the problem with.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Life's too short. And all the food is too good to pass up! "

Amen to that! I love getting a good food baby

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"Do you ever see a well toned lad or a sexy lady and wish you could look like that? Just seeing if it's just us "

I have and have either thought "fairplay" or if they were toned used it as inspiration to get my ass in the gym ("if that hustler can do it then so can I")

Not everyman can look like McGregor or woman like Jessica Ennis, but each of us has our unique physical potential if that's what you're after...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Life's too short. And all the food is too good to pass up! "

This and the wine can't forget the wine.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I don't tend to look at others and think I wish I had their body as such, although I do look at others with admiration.

I've got the body I was given and realise it's within my own hands (to an extent) as to how it looks, and actually right now I'm mostly comfortable with it and probably feeling passably attractive for the first time in my life.

What I do "wish" is that some of the changes I've made in the last couple of years (that led to losing three and a half stone, and ultimately that feeling of passable attractiveness) I'd made a lot earlier in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Life's too short. And all the food is too good to pass up!

This and the wine can't forget the wine. "

Omg the wine ...

How could I ever forget

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive never had a toned body but i do try and keep it within limits - when i feel the excess appearing i am extra careful with food and im happy with that - i try to maintain for health reasons as well not just looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I wished I had been a little more bothered about my body when I was younger so, now I am alot smaller, my skin fit me properly, as much as anything. But then I realised, for many reasons, I am ok with it really and not everyone prefers that body type in a partner or lover. It used to throw me a bit that some of the men I was playing with had amazing bodies and they didn't particularly want the same... I got over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Life's too short. And all the food is too good to pass up!

This and the wine can't forget the wine.

Omg the wine ...

How could I ever forget

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if it was not for food and wine. Oh and tangfantstics. I'd be mega slim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. I do get boob envy, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get boob envy! - jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Life's too short. And all the food is too good to pass up!

This and the wine can't forget the wine.

Omg the wine ...

How could I ever forget

if it was not for food and wine. Oh and tangfantstics. I'd be mega slim

Omg tangfantastics there my weakness!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time ..

Sigh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, i think most people arent happen with at least something on themselves but just try to make the most of what you have, play your strong hand,whether it be body or personality!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you ever see a well toned lad or a sexy lady and wish you could look like that? Just seeing if it's just us "

Yep. All the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Life's too short. And all the food is too good to pass up!

This and the wine can't forget the wine.

Omg the wine ...

How could I ever forget

if it was not for food and wine. Oh and tangfantstics. I'd be mega slim

Omg tangfantastics there my weakness! "
I had to stop eating them. They are too moorish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get boob envy! - jo"

you get boob envy?

Think how it is for me then!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get jealous, I see them as something to aspire to.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men's cock , wish I had bigger one all the time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I had a 8 inch cock . Instead of this big bastud

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

If you were here with me now I would give your lovely curvy bum a good smack !!! Nothing wrong with you .... anna xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah going by your pics youve no need to worry about anything you are seriously gorgeous and your mr is a very lucky guy

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Rather than focusing on body, focus on health. Although looking good and feeling good go hand in hand not in a vain way and everything in moderation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them potatoes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the time ..

Sigh..."

Absolutely no way you should be jealous mrs

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I do. I'm not gonna lie. A lot of the time it's because of something they are wearing that looks amazing and I just don't have the boobage for it. Yeah I'd love a perfectly flat tum and no wobbly bits, but, I do.... and it's ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah. I do get boob envy, though."

I bet there are plenty of women who are envious of yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it says something of the human condition to read so many comments of personal dissatisfaction from people who are all physically attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't go to the gym I occasionally go running and do some charity events like the manchester 10k/ half marathon but they're usually a last minute " I can do this and raise a little in the process" thought. It's never something I train for months for, I'm not perfectly comfortable with my body as I'm sure very few are but I'm a healthy weight and aesthetically I'd say I'm pretty average which is more than enough for me. I work full time and would much rather invest time in going socialising than going to a gym and getting ripped but that's a personal preference. The only thing I would like to be better is my skin as it is soft and ok for the most part my face however has many imperfections.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I was as big down below like some guys on here.

Does it affect me

I think most people wished they looked like someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish I was as big down below like some guys on here.

Does it affect me

I think most people wished they looked like someone else. "

This this this and this.

Get this man a beer

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

I don't get jealous of others bodies, I do sometimes wish I was in better shape but if I wasn't comfortable with my body then I could do something about it myself anything I cant sort with exercise I learnt to live with a long time ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to feel body confident on here I think but it's natural to drool over someone in betyer shape..... I do it often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish I was as big down below like some guys on here.

Does it affect me

I think most people wished they looked like someone else.

This this this and this.

Get this man a beer"

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im pretty insecure about my body. I get to the gym quite often but weekend food lets me down (and a torn cartilage in my right knee isnt helping...)

I like to think I'm an ok guy to hang out with and have a laugh with, so (hopefully) personality isnt an issue - therefore I suspect I'd get more meets with women if I were in better shape...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really although I'm sometimes envious of someone's height

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy with mine and if others don't like it it matters little to me....I'd only be interested in those who are interested in my mind as well. The body soon fades very quickly but the mind can stay sharp.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Not in the least.

Hubby wishes he could lose his growing pot belly but he enjoys his food too much to make a serious go of it. I am what I am and I'm ok with that.

Tbh though, we've met at clubs, some seriously buff couples and singles and neither of us wanted to pounce on them. He likes a nice size 12-14 and I like them chunky. Guys with too many muscles make me spend all my time thinking what's wrong with them wanting this chubby woman instead of enjoying what their giving me

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By *ouncy BabyWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

I'm a big girl in height and frame so when I see these beautiful size 10 women I get very jealous. BUT if we was all the same the world would be a boring place so embrace your sexiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a big girl in height and frame so when I see these beautiful size 10 women I get very jealous. BUT if we was all the same the world would be a boring place so embrace your sexiness

Embace what you are given and make it work.

By the way

hello x

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By *ailburkeMan
over a year ago

near you

You should never run yourself down people find all body shapes and sizes sexy XxXx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think we all feel that pang of jealousy. I know I do when I see fellas in great shape.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

I look and think nice body etc.. but do I wish mine was like theirs.... no. If I did I should stop dreaming and do something about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not any more, I think I'm doing alright for a 50 year old with 3 kids.

Sure, there are things about my body that I don't like, especially the slack tummy skin from 3 pregnancies - no exercise is going to change that,but I don't look at anyone here and feel jealous - a healthy mind in a healthy body is my goal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I dont. I am very happy with my body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is difference between keeping toned and pumping muscle. Too much peer pressure going on these day. We should simply be happy who we are and get on with life no need to be jealous.

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By *rMrsNawtyCouple
over a year ago

north west

I'm not body confident at all I never have been but iv got my body from having kids and they are well worth it. I'm in the process of losing weight so will get there eventually. Some people are just more lucky with their bodies than others. And it would be very boring if we all looked the same. Mrs nawty xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

If i wanted to look like that I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's not so much in shape people, I do envy petite women, though. Small women with cute little feet etc. I'm 5'7'' and big built. Even if I get down to the bottom end of healthy weight I'll never be and never have been small and dainty. I wish I was.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Of course ... there are some amazingly sexy girls on here i would love to look like and sometimes not necessarily the ones that most other people would think are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep there are many fantastic bodies of all shapes and sizes on here, jeolousy doesn't come into it however, everyone is different and unique, revel in your own uniqueness x

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By *ustthe2ofusXXXCouple
over a year ago

coventry

"I just removed all mirrors now I'm gorgeous

I would need some of those mirror's from the fun fair to make me think any better about mine. M

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I don't tend to look at others and think I wish I had their body as such, although I do look at others with admiration.

Awesomeness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do,especially at this time of year when i don't have the time to hit the gym and all i do is drive for hours on end eating Greggs for lunch most days.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

The lady who does my double Total Body class at the gym - she looks so perfect I figure it's worth the pain she inflicts!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I admire other people's bodies and wish that mine was a bit slimmer, but I like my shape so try not to let it bother me that I'm bigger than I'd like. My body doesn't seem to put men off at all, so why should I be worried? For every person that you aspire to look like there's someone else that aspires to look like you!

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

"I admire other people's bodies and wish that mine was a bit slimmer, but I like my shape so try not to let it bother me that I'm bigger than I'd like. My body doesn't seem to put men off at all, so why should I be worried? For every person that you aspire to look like there's someone else that aspires to look like you!

I wouldn't mind your boobies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind your boobies

Thank you! They're my best feature but heavy to carry around!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. If I had someone else's body I'd soon find bits not to like. Ain't nobody perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course. Age is against me but I can't do anything about it so make the most of what God gave me.

The best way to be beautiful is to be yourself.

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By *ubSirVient-DefinitionCouple
over a year ago

dukinfield

I look at all the sexy women on here and I wish I had their gorgeous bodies, all over mine playing with my cock and sitting on my face while I pleasure em all!!!!

Although I do sometimes with I had a body in great shape. Then I remember, round is a great shape! Wheels make the world and they're round steering wheels steer the world and they're round. CAKES are round and they make everything great!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course. Age is against me but I can't do anything about it so make the most of what God gave me.

The best way to be beautiful is to be yourself. "

You have a hot bod xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not body jealousy but body envy maybe x

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Not body jealousy but body envy maybe x"

That's a better word for it

I have body envy many times mainly cos I wish I could have been doing all this 20 years ago ! Xx

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

Even the most toned Men and hottest Women want to keep improving themselves,

Seeing people with good shape bodies does make me want to go the gym to improve my fitness and bulk up but I need more motivation,

I'm too lazy, tired, haven't got the time etc etc to go the gym

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By *kultraCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

"it's therefore just as feasible that someone could be looking enviably at *your* body, wishing it was theirs!

Although that would be a nice thought I doubt anyone would be jealous of my body lol.

However I do agree that 'sexy' is a very subjective term

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

I think confidence is more sexy and more appealing than a perfect gym toned body

I know a few gym bunnies with hot bodies but they aren't very confident

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

Quite often. Quite often indeed. 'XX'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes, we are all beautiful to someone as it's true that beauty is in the eye of the beholder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a big girl in height and frame so when I see these beautiful size 10 women I get very jealous. BUT if we was all the same the world would be a boring place so embrace your sexiness

You know what ... I had the best advice given to me a few weeks hack and I've embraced it .. it was simply "find your audience"

Instead of trying to please a guy that is into gym bunnies.. feeling insecure with him..nervous to get naked etc.. I have simply changed the guys I go for .. meeting guys that clearly state I like curvy girls or guys that openly say they like bigger girls (at the moment I'm finding it tends to be black guys .im not stereo typing just from experience .. ) where some guys have been like shit Lea ..your ass is huge you may want to consider the gym" I've been going for the guys that say damn girl that fat ass is the one! I have found my audience .. there is someone for everyone .. and instead of trying to breathe in for mr wrong I'm wobbling for Mr right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a big girl in height and frame so when I see these beautiful size 10 women I get very jealous. BUT if we was all the same the world would be a boring place so embrace your sexiness

You know what ... I had the best advice given to me a few weeks hack and I've embraced it .. it was simply "find your audience"

Love this advice!

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Do you ever see a well toned lad or a sexy lady and wish you could look like that? Just seeing if it's just us "

Ohh definitely not just you.

I have an especially twisted mind in that I see female I want to look like and also males i'll like to look like lol

With the males and females its the same thought though:

damm he/she would look good in a dress I wish I had his/her bod lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure most people feel that way!

I see many guys on here and wish I had their abs etc. However I know it does take a tremendous amount of effort to reach that final ripped look!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not really. I'm 60 I know it would take hours in the gym to be toned and I try to be happy with me as I am in all respects while being realistic.

I do occasionally wish I had a washboard stomach though I won't lie and recently had a small strop about it. Not enough to take any action though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this predominantly a female trait? I've never really done that.. I'm critical enough of myself without comparison lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Is this predominantly a female trait? I've never really done that.. I'm critical enough of myself without comparison lol "

Not in my experience. Younger men feel they have much to live up to.

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over a year ago

"Is this predominantly a female trait? I've never really done that.. I'm critical enough of myself without comparison lol

Not in my experience. Younger men feel they have much to live up to.

Unless it's me in which case I just wing it, same as every other aspect of life. Body wise I aspire to eat and not really change so just the balance to stay at a healthy weight is all I am too fussed about.

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over a year ago

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"Is this predominantly a female trait? I've never really done that.. I'm critical enough of myself without comparison lol

Not in my experience. Younger men feel they have much to live up to.

Good!

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over a year ago

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"I'm a big girl in height and frame so when I see these beautiful size 10 women I get very jealous. BUT if we was all the same the world would be a boring place so embrace your sexiness

You know what ... I had the best advice given to me a few weeks hack and I've embraced it .. it was simply "find your audience"

Nice approach

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"I'm a big girl in height and frame so when I see these beautiful size 10 women I get very jealous. BUT if we was all the same the world would be a boring place so embrace your sexiness

You know what ... I had the best advice given to me a few weeks hack and I've embraced it .. it was simply "find your audience"

Nice approach

Feel so much happier and confident meeting guys that embrace curves as opposed to trying to please others and feeling shitty at the same time

Find your audience ladies xx

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over a year ago

God yes (male here). Trying to lose some weight.....

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By *icecouple561Couple
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"I'm a big girl in height and frame so when I see these beautiful size 10 women I get very jealous. BUT if we was all the same the world would be a boring place so embrace your sexiness

You know what ... I had the best advice given to me a few weeks hack and I've embraced it .. it was simply "find your audience"

Nice approach

Feel so much happier and confident meeting guys that embrace curves as opposed to trying to please others and feeling shitty at the same time

Find your audience ladies xx"

I broadly agree but I'd put it another way. Finding your audience is relying on men for your self esteem. I would say know yourself and your worth and only go for men who appreciate that.

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"I'm a big girl in height and frame so when I see these beautiful size 10 women I get very jealous. BUT if we was all the same the world would be a boring place so embrace your sexiness

You know what ... I had the best advice given to me a few weeks hack and I've embraced it .. it was simply "find your audience"

Nice approach

Feel so much happier and confident meeting guys that embrace curves as opposed to trying to please others and feeling shitty at the same time

Find your audience ladies xx

I broadly agree but I'd put it another way. Finding your audience is relying on men for your self esteem. I would say know yourself and your worth and only go for men who appreciate that.

Yeah that's kind of what I meant

I wouldn't say rely on men for self esteem rather meet those thatake you feel food about yourself .... in my younger years I'd meet gym freaks that wanted the perfect doll.... I'd end up insecure and paranoid with them..I just mean find the guys that appreciate what you are xx

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over a year ago

Can't see anyone being jealous of my body....but it's the only one I've got....

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over a year ago

"Do you ever see a well toned lad or a sexy lady and wish you could look like that? Just seeing if it's just us "

No, very happy with what I've got (although there's always room for improvement - I'm still confident about my fitness and appearance.

You look very sexy, Jordan - I wouldn't hesitate if I had the chance to undress you - and Adam looks pretty normal (as a str8 male, I am not one to be able to judge his appearance.). Nice, normal couple.

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