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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've wanted to ask this question for ages! If you and a fun buddy spend the whole night together, in the same bed, what is the etiquette around cuddling? Should you cuddle? Is it too intimate? Does it suggest a relationship that isn't there? Or is it just normal to snuggle down and sleep or chat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think so, if there's enough of a connection for sex then a snuggle afterwards is the bare minimum. Plus it can lead to...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Most guys I've met seem to like the post sex cuddling thing. I'm happy to oblige then as soon as they're asleep I wriggle out and make my own space

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a cuddle. . Nothing wrong with touching someone.

I've just had my cock in your mouth, and now you won't let me put my arm around you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a cuddle. . Nothing wrong with touching someone.

I've just had my cock in your mouth, and now you won't let me put my arm around you? "

You didn't say thank you. I felt so used

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah! I only spend all night with one 'friend' but we cuddle up and spoon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddles!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A whole night without wrapping yourself in the arms of the person next to you would be unthinkable!

I can't go half hour without wrapping someone or something in my arms

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love a good cuddle

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

It should probably start with cuddles too.

I love cuddling. Till I get too hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always go for cuddles. I wouldn't have sex with someone who was against cuddling

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I like cuddles afterwards. Would feel too cold for me personally just to fuck and go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spoons lead to forks.. nuff said lol

Nah, I love good cuddle, I'm not just after somewhere to park my penis though.. which I know isn't always the norm lol.

Its about a level on intimacy too, I want to be on the same level as someone too, it makes everything else so much better if there's some connection and I'm not going to get that at arms length

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a big fan of cuddling. It just feels nice afterwards

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

the post coital cuddle can be part of good sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love lots of proper bear hugs and holding each other tight, weather thats doing so standing up, in bed, on a sofa .. sitting on top of him.. i dont care. Cuddles are amazing

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I wouldn't want to spend thd night with a lady if she didn't want to cuddle and snuggle. That stuff's key for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't want to spend thd night with a lady if she didn't want to cuddle and snuggle. That stuff's key for me."

Ah .. at last a man who wants this .. gosh ..there are not many of you around you know.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I love cuddling up in bed. Though I find there are few men I can actually sleep with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on the connection between you two -

- fuck buddies more fucking and chilling and little hug/cuddles/kisses maybe during sex

- friends with benefits more intimate with fucking, chilling, kisses, hugs and cuddles and without sex to receive affection.

the trick to spooning to sleep: for a guy POV, place your arm under pillow with her head resting ontop of pillow and when you need to release from spooning or get a dead arm - slide out arm out from under pillow and she still resting on pillow

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I tend to meet during the day but still want to be held for a bit afterwards. On the odd time I've stayed overnight with someone we've cuddled for a bit but got too hot anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've spent the night with a couple of friends.... I'm happy to cuddle as I only stay overnight with people I'm friends with rather than one offs Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I might be the odd one out!

I'm not a cuddler, but do appreciate collapsing with someone until I've got my breath back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A whole night without wrapping yourself in the arms of the person next to you would be unthinkable!

I can't go half hour without wrapping someone or something in my arms

Peach x "

I'm volunteer...need it a lot now

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Part and parcel for me , I'm not one for a splash and dash so a long cuddle and a nice wake up is how I roll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Odd one. As singles we both enjoy cuddles but as a couple we like cuddling into each other exclusively after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think I might be the odd one out!

I'm not a cuddler, but do appreciate collapsing with someone until I've got my breath back

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Same ^ like cuddling with the other half but others no thanks. Don't mind a quick hug but a cuddle no thanks.

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love cuddling after sex and falling asleep in their arms makes me feel amazing and not used for sex x

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Most guys I've met seem to like the post sex cuddling thing. I'm happy to oblige then as soon as they're asleep I wriggle out and make my own space "

This I get too hot during the night

So it's a 5-10 min snuggle then... off I pop

I will wake you up in the morning some glory between your cheeks though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than brief cuddle is too hot. Stroking to sleep is good tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love cuddling after sex and falling asleep in their arms makes me feel amazing and not used for sex x"

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By *ellowbabesCouple
over a year ago

newport/cwmbran

I love cuddling after sex even when we don't I like me snuggly in is arms .mr loves same too..mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A whole night without wrapping yourself in the arms of the person next to you would be unthinkable!

I can't go half hour without wrapping someone or something in my arms

Peach x

I'm volunteer...need it a lot now "

My arms are always open for you foxy

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A whole night without wrapping yourself in the arms of the person next to you would be unthinkable!

I can't go half hour without wrapping someone or something in my arms

Peach x

I'm volunteer...need it a lot now

My arms are always open for you foxy

Peach x "

Double hug?

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A whole night without wrapping yourself in the arms of the person next to you would be unthinkable!

I can't go half hour without wrapping someone or something in my arms

Peach x

I'm volunteer...need it a lot now

My arms are always open for you foxy

Peach x

Double hug?

Fuzz"

Only if Peach would be in front of me and Fuzz behind me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No cuddling, and you better stay on your side of the bed too, I'll even put a pillow inbetween as an official wall!

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