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"Yeah because movies are always based on researched facts..." Bless, not seen it then obviously. | |||
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"Just leave people to there own thing and stop tryin to change and contorl people" In a nutshell!  | |||
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"Yeah because movies are always based on researched facts..." Well that one is, it being a true story and everything  | |||
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"Watch "Dallas buyers club" not only a fantastic movie, but it may make you gamblers think twice next time you want to just nudge it in..." isint it just about a bloke with aids way back in the 80s. | |||
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This thread is like going on an overeaters forum and talking about the film "What's Eating Gilbert Grape"
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"Watch "Dallas buyers club" not only a fantastic movie, but it may make you gamblers think twice next time you want to just nudge it in...isint it just about a bloke with aids way back in the 80s." Not the best review, it's about the way people thought about aids , he was a macho man (they're called knobheads these days) he thought it was a gay disease that wouldn't affect him because he wasn't gay and wasn't a druggie, I find the defensive attitude of some quite scary and thick! This whole , it's my life I'll do what I chose blah blah bollocks shows how people have learned fuck all! Since the 80s | |||
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"Watch "Dallas buyers club" not only a fantastic movie, but it may make you gamblers think twice next time you want to just nudge it in...isint it just about a bloke with aids way back in the 80s. Not the best review, it's about the way people thought about aids , he was a macho man (they're called knobheads these days) he thought it was a gay disease that wouldn't affect him because he wasn't gay and wasn't a druggie, I find the defensive attitude of some quite scary and thick! This whole , it's my life I'll do what I chose blah blah bollocks shows how people have learned fuck all! Since the 80s " Or they have learned a lot and moved on. Please don't project, not s nice trait. You have point op, just a tad outdated, and I say this, from my perception, awareness is not a bad thing in this world. | |||
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"Watch "Dallas buyers club" not only a fantastic movie, but it may make you gamblers think twice next time you want to just nudge it in...isint it just about a bloke with aids way back in the 80s. Not the best review, it's about the way people thought about aids , he was a macho man (they're called knobheads these days) he thought it was a gay disease that wouldn't affect him because he wasn't gay and wasn't a druggie, I find the defensive attitude of some quite scary and thick! This whole , it's my life I'll do what I chose blah blah bollocks shows how people have learned fuck all! Since the 80s Or they have learned a lot and moved on. Please don't project, not s nice trait. You have point op, just a tad outdated, and I say this, from my perception, awareness is not a bad thing in this world. " Outdated??? | |||
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"Watch "Dallas buyers club" not only a fantastic movie, but it may make you gamblers think twice next time you want to just nudge it in...isint it just about a bloke with aids way back in the 80s. Not the best review, it's about the way people thought about aids , he was a macho man (they're called knobheads these days) he thought it was a gay disease that wouldn't affect him because he wasn't gay and wasn't a druggie, I find the defensive attitude of some quite scary and thick! This whole , it's my life I'll do what I chose blah blah bollocks shows how people have learned fuck all! Since the 80s Or they have learned a lot and moved on. Please don't project, not s nice trait. You have point op, just a tad outdated, and I say this, from my perception, awareness is not a bad thing in this world. Outdated???" I think the OP's point is valid, HIV continues to be spread in the UK and in MY experience of the straight, bi and gay swinger worlds people are still of the opinion that it wont happen to them. HIV is controllable by drugs and there is a preventative medication called PrEP available but this only safeguards against HIV, look at the antibiotic resistant strain of Gonorrhoea doing the rounds, if everyone could practice safe sex then these diseases could be wiped out or at least minimised. The OP has used a very good film to raise awareness of a very nasty disease, without preaching, and has been denounced for it. Your casual partner may say they have been "recently tested" but just like a car MOT, its only really valid at the time of the test, you don't know who might have given them what in the time since then. I have had unprotected casual sex, its awesome and I love it, but it is never worth the three months of worry waiting to get tested to see if I have HIV. I am happy to say that every test I have had has been negative for everything. The OP's post has made you think about it, that is a good thing, despite the negative replies, the OP is LOOKING OUT FOR YOUR HEALTH AND THE HEALTH OF YOUR PARTNERS, that is to be applauded, not decried. On another note, Matthew McConaughey shed 3st 7lb to play the role of Ron Woodroof, fair enough he got paid a shit load for it but that is dedication, he was 10st! Matt Mc is one of my favourite actors and in my list of three man crushes I have (with Ryan Reynolds and Zac Efron). Erm, that is all. Feel free to fulminate against my views. | |||
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"Watch "Dallas buyers club" not only a fantastic movie, but it may make you gamblers think twice next time you want to just nudge it in...isint it just about a bloke with aids way back in the 80s. Not the best review, it's about the way people thought about aids , he was a macho man (they're called knobheads these days) he thought it was a gay disease that wouldn't affect him because he wasn't gay and wasn't a druggie, I find the defensive attitude of some quite scary and thick! This whole , it's my life I'll do what I chose blah blah bollocks shows how people have learned fuck all! Since the 80s Or they have learned a lot and moved on. Please don't project, not s nice trait. You have point op, just a tad outdated, and I say this, from my perception, awareness is not a bad thing in this world. Outdated??? I think the OP's point is valid, HIV continues to be spread in the UK and in MY experience of the straight, bi and gay swinger worlds people are still of the opinion that it wont happen to them. HIV is controllable by drugs and there is a preventative medication called PrEP available but this only safeguards against HIV, look at the antibiotic resistant strain of Gonorrhoea doing the rounds, if everyone could practice safe sex then these diseases could be wiped out or at least minimised. The OP has used a very good film to raise awareness of a very nasty disease, without preaching, and has been denounced for it. Your casual partner may say they have been "recently tested" but just like a car MOT, its only really valid at the time of the test, you don't know who might have given them what in the time since then. I have had unprotected casual sex, its awesome and I love it, but it is never worth the three months of worry waiting to get tested to see if I have HIV. I am happy to say that every test I have had has been negative for everything. The OP's post has made you think about it, that is a good thing, despite the negative replies, the OP is LOOKING OUT FOR YOUR HEALTH AND THE HEALTH OF YOUR PARTNERS, that is to be applauded, not decried. On another note, Matthew McConaughey shed 3st 7lb to play the role of Ron Woodroof, fair enough he got paid a shit load for it but that is dedication, he was 10st! Matt Mc is one of my favourite actors and in my list of three man crushes I have (with Ryan Reynolds and Zac Efron). Erm, that is all. Feel free to fulminate against my views." Eloquently put.) | |||
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"Watch "Dallas buyers club" not only a fantastic movie, but it may make you gamblers think twice next time you want to just nudge it in...isint it just about a bloke with aids way back in the 80s. Not the best review, it's about the way people thought about aids , he was a macho man (they're called knobheads these days) he thought it was a gay disease that wouldn't affect him because he wasn't gay and wasn't a druggie, I find the defensive attitude of some quite scary and thick! This whole , it's my life I'll do what I chose blah blah bollocks shows how people have learned fuck all! Since the 80s Or they have learned a lot and moved on. Please don't project, not s nice trait. You have point op, just a tad outdated, and I say this, from my perception, awareness is not a bad thing in this world. Outdated??? I think the OP's point is valid, HIV continues to be spread in the UK and in MY experience of the straight, bi and gay swinger worlds people are still of the opinion that it wont happen to them. HIV is controllable by drugs and there is a preventative medication called PrEP available but this only safeguards against HIV, look at the antibiotic resistant strain of Gonorrhoea doing the rounds, if everyone could practice safe sex then these diseases could be wiped out or at least minimised. The OP has used a very good film to raise awareness of a very nasty disease, without preaching, and has been denounced for it. Your casual partner may say they have been "recently tested" but just like a car MOT, its only really valid at the time of the test, you don't know who might have given them what in the time since then. I have had unprotected casual sex, its awesome and I love it, but it is never worth the three months of worry waiting to get tested to see if I have HIV. I am happy to say that every test I have had has been negative for everything. The OP's post has made you think about it, that is a good thing, despite the negative replies, the OP is LOOKING OUT FOR YOUR HEALTH AND THE HEALTH OF YOUR PARTNERS, that is to be applauded, not decried. On another note, Matthew McConaughey shed 3st 7lb to play the role of Ron Woodroof, fair enough he got paid a shit load for it but that is dedication, he was 10st! Matt Mc is one of my favourite actors and in my list of three man crushes I have (with Ryan Reynolds and Zac Efron). Erm, that is all. Feel free to fulminate against my views. Eloquently put.)" I think you spelt 'bloody great big wall of text' wrong  | |||
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"Seen Jesus Christ superstar, not been to church yer.... Do I need to converted? "Naw you are like us, beyond saving lol | |||
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"Watch "Dallas buyers club" not only a fantastic movie, but it may make you gamblers think twice next time you want to just nudge it in...isint it just about a bloke with aids way back in the 80s. Not the best review, it's about the way people thought about aids , he was a macho man (they're called knobheads these days) he thought it was a gay disease that wouldn't affect him because he wasn't gay and wasn't a druggie, I find the defensive attitude of some quite scary and thick! This whole , it's my life I'll do what I chose blah blah bollocks shows how people have learned fuck all! Since the 80s Or they have learned a lot and moved on. Please don't project, not s nice trait. You have point op, just a tad outdated, and I say this, from my perception, awareness is not a bad thing in this world. Outdated??? I think the OP's point is valid, HIV continues to be spread in the UK and in MY experience of the straight, bi and gay swinger worlds people are still of the opinion that it wont happen to them. HIV is controllable by drugs and there is a preventative medication called PrEP available but this only safeguards against HIV, look at the antibiotic resistant strain of Gonorrhoea doing the rounds, if everyone could practice safe sex then these diseases could be wiped out or at least minimised. The OP has used a very good film to raise awareness of a very nasty disease, without preaching, and has been denounced for it. Your casual partner may say they have been "recently tested" but just like a car MOT, its only really valid at the time of the test, you don't know who might have given them what in the time since then. I have had unprotected casual sex, its awesome and I love it, but it is never worth the three months of worry waiting to get tested to see if I have HIV. I am happy to say that every test I have had has been negative for everything. The OP's post has made you think about it, that is a good thing, despite the negative replies, the OP is LOOKING OUT FOR YOUR HEALTH AND THE HEALTH OF YOUR PARTNERS, that is to be applauded, not decried. On another note, Matthew McConaughey shed 3st 7lb to play the role of Ron Woodroof, fair enough he got paid a shit load for it but that is dedication, he was 10st! Matt Mc is one of my favourite actors and in my list of three man crushes I have (with Ryan Reynolds and Zac Efron). Erm, that is all. Feel free to fulminate against my views. Eloquently put.) I think you spelt 'bloody great big wall of text' wrong " brilliant | |||
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"Watch "Dallas buyers club" not only a fantastic movie, but it may make you gamblers think twice next time you want to just nudge it in...isint it just about a bloke with aids way back in the 80s. Not the best review, it's about the way people thought about aids , he was a macho man (they're called knobheads these days) he thought it was a gay disease that wouldn't affect him because he wasn't gay and wasn't a druggie, I find the defensive attitude of some quite scary and thick! This whole , it's my life I'll do what I chose blah blah bollocks shows how people have learned fuck all! Since the 80s " so because I would rather do my own research in the real world and not some movie about a "macho"dude with aids in the 80s then that makes me thick and defensive haha. aye no bother mate.also because my taste in movies isn't the same as yours that means I'm into bareback and I'm all dangerous and stuff. this place has all sorts an never fails to crack me up . | |||
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Just live your life and enjoy it, you are a long time dead.... | |||
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"People bareback? 
On a swingers site?
No way! "Omg the shock | |||
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"People bareback?
On a swingers site?
No way!
Omg the shock"Who'd a thought it huh | |||
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"People bareback?
On a swingers site?
No way!
Omg the shock
Who'd a thought it huh "Next there will be people posting in the forums about it xxx | |||
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"People bareback?
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Omg the shock" | |||
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"No one is trying to change other people or what they do,I certainly don't judge, just not for me! everyone of us has our own opinion that's what makes us individuals. Freedom of speech and all that!" ???? It's not judging? I'm merely saying after watching a movie Based on a true even it made me realise how horrific the disease is, Christ in the 80s everyone was petrified, however once it's out of the limelight its business as usual, I personally don't give a shit who or what you fuck, I just find some flippant and childish attitudes terrrifying, but what the hell? Crack on | |||
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"Yeah because movies are always based on researched facts..." OK I got that wrong, but a lot has changed since the 80's. If nothing else who know what AIDS is and are more informed about stds. I personally will 'glove it to love' it and had to bollock a mate who was afraid to touch materials handled by a friend who was diagnosed HIV+ after being r* (attacked). Some consolation was that she was cleared 6 months later. | |||
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well in my world.... | |||
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"Sorry Ive had some great bateback dynamics, however, they were checked by both parties, in one case three. At a club it is safer for everyone to use protection, however some dynamics become more than a quick shag and develop to a different level. So please from your "film" perspective don't, and I say this from my perspective, try to project something that's not true to those who are careful and honest. Marketing is marketing, nort always the truth.... well in my world...."Mmm..interesting, so by raising awareness on a site like this, I'm the 'bad guy' if you look at the op I mentioned before taking a gamble as in a quick fuck. I never brought relationships into it and quite frankly again I'm amazed that you are referring to it as 'marketing' No doubt I'll receive a time out some time soon, but I find it amazing and sickening that adults can't discuss it in a rational way, I don't see the reason for people to be so defensive and patronising But out of curiosity which part of my projection was 'not' true? | |||
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"Sorry Ive had some great bateback dynamics, however, they were checked by both parties, in one case three. At a club it is safer for everyone to use protection, however some dynamics become more than a quick shag and develop to a different level. So please from your "film" perspective don't, and I say this from my perspective, try to project something that's not true to those who are careful and honest. Marketing is marketing, nort always the truth.... well in my world....
Mmm..interesting, so by raising awareness on a site like this, I'm the 'bad guy' if you look at the op I mentioned before taking a gamble as in a quick fuck. I never brought relationships into it and quite frankly again I'm amazed that you are referring to it as 'marketing'
No doubt I'll receive a time out some time soon, but I find it amazing and sickening that adults can't discuss it in a rational way, I don't see the reason for people to be so defensive and patronising
But out of curiosity which part of my projection was 'not' true?"watch a film | |||
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"Watched Dallas buyers club!! Who'd a thought you could catch Hiv from normal sex wow!! I see the light now I will no doubt be sticking a johnny on my tongue the next time I venture south on a lady!! In fact I'm never gonna have sex again!!! "Brilliant, nice mature approach there, nice that you're allowed to stay up late to contribute such worthwhile banter. | |||
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"Sorry Ive had some great bateback dynamics, however, they were checked by both parties, in one case three. At a club it is safer for everyone to use protection, however some dynamics become more than a quick shag and develop to a different level. So please from your "film" perspective don't, and I say this from my perspective, try to project something that's not true to those who are careful and honest. Marketing is marketing, nort always the truth.... well in my world....
Mmm..interesting, so by raising awareness on a site like this, I'm the 'bad guy' if you look at the op I mentioned before taking a gamble as in a quick fuck. I never brought relationships into it and quite frankly again I'm amazed that you are referring to it as 'marketing'
No doubt I'll receive a time out some time soon, but I find it amazing and sickening that adults can't discuss it in a rational way, I don't see the reason for people to be so defensive and patronising
But out of curiosity which part of my projection was 'not' true?watch a film "Sorry, can you rephrase that, so an educated adult can understand how to respond? | |||
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We're all grown ups here and we all know the risks and how to protect ourselves.
People harping on about films depicting people dying if AIDS isn't raising awareness- it's a whole other thing I don't have words for
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"This post is depressing OP
We're all grown ups here and we all know the risks and how to protect ourselves.
People harping on about films depicting people dying if AIDS isn't raising awareness- it's a whole other thing I don't have words for
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"Sorry Ive had some great bateback dynamics, however, they were checked by both parties, in one case three. At a club it is safer for everyone to use protection, however some dynamics become more than a quick shag and develop to a different level. Could,, however you lost meat aduu So please from your "film" perspective don't, and I say this from my perspective, try to project something that's not true to those who are careful and honest. Marketing is marketing, nort always the truth.... well in my world....
Mmm..interesting, so by raising awareness on a site like this, I'm the 'bad guy' if you look at the op I mentioned before taking a gamble as in a quick fuck. I never brought relationships into it and quite frankly again I'm amazed that you are referring to it as 'marketing'
No doubt I'll receive a time out some time soon, but I find it amazing and sickening that adults can't discuss it in a rational way, I don't see the reason for people to be so defensive and patronising
But out of curiosity which part of my projection was 'not' true?watch a film
Sorry, can you rephrase that, so an educated adult can understand how to respond?"lost me at adult.., | |||
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"This post is depressing OP
We're all grown ups here and we all know the risks and how to protect ourselves.
People harping on about films depicting people dying if AIDS isn't raising awareness- it's a whole other thing I don't have words for
The doors not locked."What ... Are you a god botherer? | |||
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"This post is depressing OP
We're all grown ups here and we all know the risks and how to protect ourselves.
People harping on about films depicting people dying if AIDS isn't raising awareness- it's a whole other thing I don't have words for
The doors not locked.
What ...
Are you a god botherer?
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"Well it's seems not many people understood the intention of this thread as they have shown, ignorance, aggression, and fear at having the right to have unprotected sex questioned. As I said, fuck who and what you want, I personally feel people that have unprotected sex with strangers are playing Russian roulette, but that's my opinion, I sincerely hope you all have long happy sexual adventures. My message was and remains, you never think it will happen to you, please think twice before risking a quick fuck. Take care or stay stupid." Solidarity brother. | |||
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"Yeah because movies are always based on researched facts... Bless, not seen it then obviously." Bear in mind being a film based on a true story does not make it a documentary. According to America they cracked the Enigma project.... | |||
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"Yeah because movies are always based on researched facts... OK I got that wrong, but a lot has changed since the 80's. If nothing else who know what AIDS is and are more informed about stds. I personally will 'glove it to love' it and had to bollock a mate who was afraid to touch materials handled by a friend who was diagnosed HIV+ after being r* (attacked). Some consolation was that she was cleared 6 months later." Care to elaborate on somebody being diagnosed HIV+ then cleared 6 months later? That would be a world first!! | |||
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"Yeah because movies are always based on researched facts... Bless, not seen it then obviously. Bear in mind being a film based on a true story does not make it a documentary. According to America they cracked the Enigma project...." yes that movie annoyed the shit out of me lol. | |||
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"We would never do bareback with another couple however I don't really give a crap what other people do in the privacy of their own homes. Everyone knows the risks and everyone has the right to make their own minds up, these kinds of preachy threads achieve nothing." | |||
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"Yeah because movies are always based on researched facts... OK I got that wrong, but a lot has changed since the 80's. If nothing else who know what AIDS is and are more informed about stds. I personally will 'glove it to love' it and had to bollock a mate who was afraid to touch materials handled by a friend who was diagnosed HIV+ after being r* (attacked). Some consolation was that she was cleared 6 months later. Care to elaborate on somebody being diagnosed HIV+ then cleared 6 months later? That would be a world first!!" No it wouldn't | |||
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