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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

like to start this off for women to post what they want when it comes to getting messages

I have female friends on here and see the down right crude messages they get so obviously those sort of messages don't deserve a response

on the other hand the messages I send out myself are respectful and speak about meeting socially and yet it's rare I get responses even my females friends don't get it ????

so women voice your thoughts

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It won't work mate. There is no such thing as a perfect message or a message that includes things women want to hear. Each person is individual and your best bet at standing out from rhthe crowd is to be yourself cos you're unique.

Just show some interest be polite and reference their profile and show some humour and imagination. You can't go wrong if you have that approach.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's probably more a question of you being one among many although I don't know what your messages are like.

There is no one message that will guarantee a response because women are all different. But as a general rule I would say keep it brief, make sure your requirements tally with theirs and that you've read the profile. If they have a big list of criteria you need to match and request the use of special words in the message heading you probably have less chance of a response.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All makes sense

I'll still keep trying my luck

Good thing I have a life outside of this sight ha!

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

I always remember the Billy Connelly piece piece on that subject whenever this question comes up.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

For info on what they want,Look at my profile....

.... They want the complete opposite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me They just don't know it yet

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Funny, good pics, not a cook shot, broad shoulders, bright, local, single and can accommodate.

They don't exist though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply to all messages, apart from " Hi"

Or " Nice Tits" now.....

As a guy on here your damned if you do and damed if you don't... Just message with whatever you feel is right. You can't please everyone all of the time.... Especially Women lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to add that I AM A WOMAN lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women want someone to actually read their profile and "fit"their criteria. .e.g height, age, location etc etc. .too many guys see photos and don't bother reading profiles and just message. ..then they're surprised when it's just deleted. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to add that I AM A WOMAN lol "

Impressive one at that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women want someone to actually read their profile and "fit"their criteria. .e.g height, age, location etc etc. .too many guys see photos and don't bother reading profiles and just message. ..then they're surprised when it's just deleted. .."

But just because they meet" their criteria " doesn't mean it's a given they are interested...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to add that I AM A WOMAN lol

Impressive one at that "

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women want someone to actually read their profile and "fit"their criteria. .e.g height, age, location etc etc. .too many guys see photos and don't bother reading profiles and just message. ..then they're surprised when it's just deleted. ..

But just because they meet" their criteria " doesn't mean it's a given they are interested...

"

No. ..but it's a start in the right direction. ..

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By *ecretEscapes2Woman
over a year ago

worcester

I like a little humour, something that shows a personality .

oh don't 'copy and paste ' drives me nuts that does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women want someone to actually read their profile and "fit"their criteria. .e.g height, age, location etc etc. .too many guys see photos and don't bother reading profiles and just message. ..then they're surprised when it's just deleted. ..

But just because they meet" their criteria " doesn't mean it's a given they are interested...

No. ..but it's a start in the right direction. .."

True....

Unfortunately they always seem the furthest away lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women want someone to actually read their profile and "fit"their criteria. .e.g height, age, location etc etc. .too many guys see photos and don't bother reading profiles and just message. ..then they're surprised when it's just deleted. ..

But just because they meet" their criteria " doesn't mean it's a given they are interested...

No. ..but it's a start in the right direction. ..

True....

Unfortunately they always seem the furthest away lol"

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