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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do single guys assume that because you're on this site that you must be some desperate cocktail hungry girl, even if you're a couple?

Opened up the profile to single guys as a trial and there really are some absolute idiots out there.

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding


"Why do single guys assume that because you're on this site that you must be some desperate cocktail hungry girl, even if you're a couple?

Opened up the profile to single guys as a trial and there really are some absolute idiots out there. "
......never ever open your profile to single guys.......it causes a stampede....and blood rush to the cock....then the brain don't work the same....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

close it to them again and do the looking yourself. problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do single guys assume that because you're on this site that you must be some desperate cocktail hungry girl, even if you're a couple?

Opened up the profile to single guys as a trial and there really are some absolute idiots out there. "

In their defence; mrs is fucking sexy But yep, there are some complete idiots on here.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We're on here looking for guys and get a lot of messages, but in all honesty they're pretty much self-filtering. The FAF ones just get deleted , and the ones that clearly don't fit what we're after etc. Works ok, but if you had filters up and they worked before, OP, do that and search yourself

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"

Opened up the profile to single guys as a trial and there really are some absolute idiots out there.

"

You've been here "over a year" you really ought to know better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do single guys assume that because you're on this site that you must be some desperate cocktail hungry girl, even if you're a couple?

Opened up the profile to single guys as a trial and there really are some absolute idiots out there. "
the one liners from blank profiles are the worst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"close it to them again and do the looking yourself. problem solved "

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By *r on the EdgeMan
over a year ago

accrington

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By *r on the EdgeMan
over a year ago

accrington


"Why do single guys assume that because you're on this site that you must be some desperate cocktail hungry girl, even if you're a couple?

Opened up the profile to single guys as a trial and there really are some absolute idiots out there. "

You aren't looking for my age otherwise I would have shown you what a non-idiot guy is like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do single guys assume that because you're on this site that you must be some desperate cocktail hungry girl, even if you're a couple?

Opened up the profile to single guys as a trial and there really are some absolute idiots out there. the one liners from blank profiles are the worst"

Yeah this was one of the gripes. I guess we were hoping there'd be some wheat amongst the chaff. Guess not.

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name


"Why do single guys assume that because you're on this site that you must be some desperate cocktail hungry girl, even if you're a couple?

Opened up the profile to single guys as a trial and there really are some absolute idiots out there. "

Idiocy, unrespectfulness and self-centeredness are not exclusive to single guys though.....

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I've had some couples think that too

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By *atteriesnotIncludedMan
over a year ago

Buxton

Couples and some single women are just as bad......cannot blame just one section of people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *weetChariotMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe


"Why do single guys assume that because you're on this site that you must be some desperate cocktail hungry girl, even if you're a couple?

Opened up the profile to single guys as a trial and there really are some absolute idiots out there. ......never ever open your profile to single guys.......it causes a stampede....and blood rush to the cock....then the brain don't work the same....lol"

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"Couples and some single women are just as bad......cannot blame just one section of people on here."

Obviously because there are so many more blokes, the idiots are in much greater numbers compared to the other groups.

However, I wonder how the percentages of idiots to normal in each group would work out.

I strongly suspect the blokes would easily win, but the figures might be a bit closer...

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"Why do single guys assume that because you're on this site that you must be some desperate cocktail hungry girl, even if you're a couple?

Opened up the profile to single guys as a trial and there really are some absolute idiots out there. "

Sorry to hear that. I am polite and treat folk with respect...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the bad ones are giving single guys a bad name lol. I always try to be friendly and polite when messaging regardless of who it is, a little respect goes a long way.

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By *irm hand LukeMan
over a year ago

Berkshire/West Oxfordshire

Yes, there are "some" single guys who are idiots but there's a lot that are decent so I wouldn't call all guys out.

There's a lot of couple's and single girls that don't put themselves in a good light either. I'll refrain from giving some examples as I don't think it helps.

Choose wisely I would say, the good ones can be found if you look hard enough.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes, there are "some" single guys who are idiots but there's a lot that are decent so I wouldn't call all guys out.

There's a lot of couple's and single girls that don't put themselves in a good light either. I'll refrain from giving some examples as I don't think it helps.

Choose wisely I would say, the good ones can be found if you look hard enough."

Yep! Lack of tact is not confined to single men by any means

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do single guys assume that because you're on this site that you must be some desperate cocktail hungry girl, even if you're a couple?

Opened up the profile to single guys as a trial and there really are some absolute idiots out there.

You aren't looking for my age otherwise I would have shown you what a non-idiot guy is like "

I'm a monumental twat but sadly they're out of my range too otherwise I'd have joined the legions of idiots trying it on!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do single guys assume that because you're on this site that you must be some desperate cocktail hungry girl, even if you're a couple?

Opened up the profile to single guys as a trial and there really are some absolute idiots out there.

Idiocy, unrespectfulness and self-centeredness are not exclusive to single guys though.....

"

Agreed, but real world experience shows that you're about 50 times more likely to experience it from single guys.

There's plenty of single girls on here with terrible attitudes, they just tend not to be the type that message first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think the bad ones are giving single guys a bad name lol. I always try to be friendly and polite when messaging regardless of who it is, a little respect goes a long way. "

This is exactly what we were hoping for. Let's face it, we already know what we're mostly after from the site (I say mostly as saying all will rub someone up the wrong way), but it's still nice to think that manners matter, and that someone might want to get to know us at least a tiny bit before offering their dicks and asking if they can have her asshole next to them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I actually love this. Haha. I get it's a first world problem when you're even getting attention, but you can't expect us to be so grateful for any that we accept morons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i forgot myself couples never send messages assuming a meet instantly

i forgot all couples have halos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where all not idiots I've messaged you's btw

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i forgot myself couples never send messages assuming a meet instantly

i forgot all couples have halos "

I'm sure some do, but we see less of them. I'm actually really interested in the maths on this, as i don't know if these guys are the vocal minority, or it's just that widespread. We've never once had a couple be overly forward though. Touch wood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the bad ones are giving single guys a bad name lol. I always try to be friendly and polite when messaging regardless of who it is, a little respect goes a long way.

This is exactly what we were hoping for. Let's face it, we already know what we're mostly after from the site (I say mostly as saying all will rub someone up the wrong way), but it's still nice to think that manners matter, and that someone might want to get to know us at least a tiny bit before offering their dicks and asking if they can have her asshole next to them. "

I'm glad XD it does matter, I like to get to know people before I let things get any further it's all part of having that slight connection and helps with making things a bit more comfortable for everyone

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Why do single guys assume that because you're on this site that you must be some desperate cocktail hungry girl, even if you're a couple?

Opened up the profile to single guys as a trial and there really are some absolute idiots out there. "

Sometimes there's a very good reason why adults are single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i forgot myself couples never send messages assuming a meet instantly

i forgot all couples have halos

I'm sure some do, but we see less of them. I'm actually really interested in the maths on this, as i don't know if these guys are the vocal minority, or it's just that widespread. We've never once had a couple be overly forward though. Touch wood."
thats good then, i think a lot depends on profile pics, how long they been on here etc etc a get weired and odd messages from couples and singles, mostly singles though

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Why do single guys assume that because you're on this site that you must be some desperate cocktail hungry girl, even if you're a couple?

Opened up the profile to single guys as a trial and there really are some absolute idiots out there. "

Please don't tar us all with the same brush even though your poor experience with guys has rightfully given you that impression.

Some of us are honest, polite, none pushy who would treat you with respect given the opportunity to meet you or any other couple in the same situation

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name


"Why do single guys assume that because you're on this site that you must be some desperate cocktail hungry girl, even if you're a couple?

Opened up the profile to single guys as a trial and there really are some absolute idiots out there.

Idiocy, unrespectfulness and self-centeredness are not exclusive to single guys though.....

Agreed, but real world experience shows that you're about 50 times more likely to experience it from single guys.

There's plenty of single girls on here with terrible attitudes, they just tend not to be the type that message first.

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Of course, because that could be the ratio men and couples/women. However, I fully understand your concerns. Couples and women's inbox get flooded constantly by men's messages.

I rarely send first messages. On the contrary, I often receive them from couples and girls. Sometimes, their messages reflect the way they treat men, seeming to make me a favour addressing me, imposing their conditions, as if they were my only option to get a shag...

This site is what it is, with its lights and shadows...

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By *nterracial2Couple
over a year ago

Ribble Valley

Couldn't agree anymore with OP, although it does make for comical reading sometimes. We're open to the idea of a single male but they need to be exceptionally laid back and respectful of our boundaries. Yet, we never come across them through fab, not yet anyway.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

To be honest I've found couples, specifically males halves to be worst!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why start a thread...just delete and crack on?? Did you really expect a flurry of charming bouncers to be bowled over by you. Look at the numbers on line at any given moment, a lot of men will automatically message women without a care as to what the profile or pic says. This site has great women, horrendous women, great men, horrendous men, not bad couples, and horrendous couples...it's part of the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are single guys with no tact as there are couples and singles ladies with no tact, Lack of tact isn't exclusive to single men. I'm open to the idea of meeting a couple but have them blocked as I've found all who approached me totally turned me off the idea with their attitudes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do single guys assume that because you're on this site that you must be some desperate cocktail hungry girl, even if you're a couple?

Opened up the profile to single guys as a trial and there really are some absolute idiots out there. "

I'm all for cocktails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where all not idiots I've messaged you's btw "

You's?????

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"We gave one guy a chance to meet us at a club a few weeks ago, strangely he was a "No show".

Made excuses but none that were real, mind you his profile does say that he's 30 and he reckons he's 43??

Today he's began the derogatory messages on KIK.

Guess what, BLOCKED!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest I've found couples, specifically males halves to be worst!"

The male halves of couples get cocky because they have been basking in the interest shown for their profiles, forgetting that without the woman they wouldn't be getting any messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me? I'm totally tactless. My opening message is along the lines of -You're a bit tasty, shall we chat and see if we fancy docking genitalia?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are single guys with no tact as there are couples and singles ladies with no tact, Lack of tact isn't exclusive to single men. I'm open to the idea of meeting a couple but have them blocked as I've found all who approached me totally turned me off the idea with their attitudes."

Good point my man... Any threads that single out one demographic is always flawed... Because it doesn't matter who you are - couple, single, TV, ts, cd, bi etc... There will be some of every pot that do this in some way..

It's the way of the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do single guys assume that because you're on this site that you must be some desperate cocktail hungry girl, even if you're a couple?

Opened up the profile to single guys as a trial and there really are some absolute idiots out there.

Sometimes there's a very good reason why adults are single. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *hitedoveWoman
over a year ago

Croydon


"Why do single guys assume that because you're on this site that you must be some desperate cocktail hungry girl, even if you're a couple?

Opened up the profile to single guys as a trial and there really are some absolute idiots out there. "

Really I find couples the worst. They assume singles are single because they are less than .... they are much ruder than men in my experience

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By *ammy-leeWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

I politely tried to say to a guy today sorry not interested and he sent me abusive messages like "you can't be that special if you are on here"

So now I am not saying anything and if they keep messaging I will block

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By *ofia2014Woman
over a year ago

Galashiels

Must be a week for it.... my block button been extra busy.... and I'm at the point of leaving because of it.... (live in an area where there are not many women and men still live in caves!!!)

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By *irm hand LukeMan
over a year ago

Berkshire/West Oxfordshire

Very interesting comments in this thread. Different experiences from different... Profiles I think... Good discussion.

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