FabSwingers.com forum: In a quandary

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am married, love my wife but she is no longer interested in being intimate, so am I supposed to lead a celibate life ? When I get a reply to a message which may lead to intimacy, I get the question "Are you married" and I give the honest answer that yes I am but then end up being blocked. I think there is a deal of hypocrisy here as married couples swap on here (at least I think they do) so what is the problem. Ok I am 71 but if Jagger can get it up as his age why not me?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Do the right thing... see a lady of the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the difference is that couples who swing have each other's consent. I can understand where you're coming from and hope I never find myself in your situation, but I also choose not to meet married men (if they don't tell me there's not much I can do) as I would hate to be "the other woman" and be involved in the break down of a marriage. Have you brought up the both of you on here together? Might re-light her fire as it were

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Her lack of interest in intimacy would indicate that she would not want to indulge plus she has said on many occasions that being bi is greedy which is shame as she is quite beautiful with ff boobs and I would love to see a woman giving/receiving pleasure with her.

I will see what other responses I get today so I can decide whether to delete my profile or not.

Thank you for your reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about consent and as you don't seem to have that, then that's why you are getting blocked

At least by telling them you are giving them an informed opinion of whether to meet you or not and most single women won't meet married men, it's as simple as that..

Why not message married women instead?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The answer to the last part of your reply is that I assume most couples are married and married women rarely stipulate they are married in their profile but I do take your point on consent.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Are you 67 or 71?

Just state you are married on your profile.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Maybe state in your profile that your married ,then people know from the start.

Its a choice that people can make,we wouldnt be comfortable meeting someone playing away,but some will.

I would suggest you put some work into your profile too if you want to attract interest.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Easy answer to that, I wish I was 27/37/47/57/67 but I am 71 and of course I will adjust my profile.

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Chin up mate,at least you are being honest with people.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"I am married, love my wife but she is no longer interested in being intimate, so am I supposed to lead a celibate life ? When I get a reply to a message which may lead to intimacy, I get the question "Are you married" and I give the honest answer that yes I am but then end up being blocked. I think there is a deal of hypocrisy here as married couples swap on here (at least I think they do) so what is the problem. Ok I am 71 but if Jagger can get it up as his age why not me?"

your profile says straight but verification is from a man admiring your cock

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I agree, be up front and just put it in the profile. There are loads of folks on here that are openly married and playing also those that don't care if someone else is. At the end of the day it's your burden to bear.

All the best

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have edited my profile as suggested and in respect of my orientation, as my profile show I had a bj from a member on here but that is as far as it went

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Her lack of interest in intimacy would indicate that she would not want to indulge plus she has said on many occasions that being bi is greedy which is shame as she is quite beautiful with ff boobs and I would love to see a woman giving/receiving pleasure with her.

I will see what other responses I get today so I can decide whether to delete my profile or not.

Thank you for your reply"

There are people on here who will meet married men or women and when you're at a club it's difficult to tell anyway.

I think its a shame that you're not sexually fulfilled I also think its a shame that you feel your wife is missing out somehow because she has no interest in your fantasy. Has she got a fantasy that you could help her fulfil or has she absolutely zero interest?

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"I have edited my profile as suggested and in respect of my orientation, as my profile show I had a bj from a member on here but that is as far as it went"

is that what people mean when they say fab straight?

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

I found myself in ur position in my 30s, 15y into a 20y relationship. Found it really difficult to deal with physically and mentally but never cheated.i chatted and flirted online towards the end but inside I was dieng. I feel for u fella and hope u make the right decision for u both whatever that may be

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