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 plus having not much free time means people get bored asking when we can meet  | |||
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"No we don't. Go for it, better to be rejected than always wonder " | |||
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"I get messages off men who I think oooo yes please! Some of them are even on my hotlist. But I don't reply as it's been that long since I had a meet rather a club night I wouldn't know what to do plus having not much free time means people get bored asking when we can meet "We are having the same issue at the moment | |||
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"i did that recently..checked out a guys profile a few times,sneakily obviously..way out of my league,but had a bit too much wine one night and sent a message..agonised over the wording for ages..and ive met him 3 times in 2 weeks now..turned out he'd looked at me a few times but thought i wouldnt be interested..so go for it!" Wow really? So were you both nervous at first when you met? | |||
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"Do you ever look at people's profiles over and over but never message as you dont want a rejection because you feel they probably wouldn't be interested because perhaps you wouldn't be there type? Or maybe your hesitant for another reason???" I'm sure this is the case for N especially after the some of the meets we have had. But I keep saying you will never know if you don't ask just go for it, if they say no it's there loss and just move on to someone else it's not like fab are short of members looking for fun
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"Do you ever look at people's profiles over and over but never message as you dont want a rejection because you feel they probably wouldn't be interested because perhaps you wouldn't be there type? Or maybe your hesitant for another reason??? I'm sure this is the case for N especially after the some of the meets we have had. But I keep saying you will never know if you don't ask just go for it, if they say no it's there loss and just move on to someone else it's not like fab are short of members looking for fun
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"i did that recently..checked out a guys profile a few times,sneakily obviously..way out of my league,but had a bit too much wine one night and sent a message..agonised over the wording for ages..and ive met him 3 times in 2 weeks now..turned out he'd looked at me a few times but thought i wouldnt be interested..so go for it!" Wow | |||
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"i did that recently..checked out a guys profile a few times,sneakily obviously..way out of my league,but had a bit too much wine one night and sent a message..agonised over the wording for ages..and ive met him 3 times in 2 weeks now..turned out he'd looked at me a few times but thought i wouldnt be interested..so go for it! Wow "it was very 'wow'..i'll have a bit more confidence now with people i think wouldnt be interested...at least, on here, the worst that can happen is a no thanks...apparently sometimes 30 somethings like dumpy middle aged women! | |||
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"i did that recently..checked out a guys profile a few times,sneakily obviously..way out of my league,but had a bit too much wine one night and sent a message..agonised over the wording for ages..and ive met him 3 times in 2 weeks now..turned out he'd looked at me a few times but thought i wouldnt be interested..so go for it! Wow
it was very 'wow'..i'll have a bit more confidence now with people i think wouldnt be interested...at least, on here, the worst that can happen is a no thanks...apparently sometimes 30 somethings like dumpy middle aged women!"Don't put yourself down. I am less likely to meet someone who is out of my league.. I get too nervous and know it probably wouldn't end up regular after seeing my naked body lol | |||
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"i did that recently..checked out a guys profile a few times,sneakily obviously..way out of my league,but had a bit too much wine one night and sent a message..agonised over the wording for ages..and ive met him 3 times in 2 weeks now..turned out he'd looked at me a few times but thought i wouldnt be interested..so go for it! Wow
it was very 'wow'..i'll have a bit more confidence now with people i think wouldnt be interested...at least, on here, the worst that can happen is a no thanks...apparently sometimes 30 somethings like dumpy middle aged women!
Don't put yourself down. I am less likely to meet someone who is out of my league.. I get too nervous and know it probably wouldn't end up regular after seeing my naked body lol "your pics are amazing!..but i know how you feel! but on here at least you just get a 'no' if someones not interested!..but then, whats 'out of our league'?..plenty of hot looking gym bunny guys that dont appeal to me at all on here.. | |||
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"Just go for it what's the worst thing that can happen most the message us men send get a 'no thanks' or just deleted (well I hope it's like that for most men lol) but you should never give up, the way I look at it is the rejections just make it better when you get a good response " it was the first time id messaged a guy first on here in about 2 years!..i may start doing it more often! | |||
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"Just go for it what's the worst thing that can happen most the message us men send get a 'no thanks' or just deleted (well I hope it's like that for most men lol) but you should never give up, the way I look at it is the rejections just make it better when you get a good response it was the first time id messaged a guy first on here in about 2 years!..i may start doing it more often!" Well I can pretty much guaranty positive responses | |||
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"Just go for it what's the worst thing that can happen most the message us men send get a 'no thanks' or just deleted (well I hope it's like that for most men lol) but you should never give up, the way I look at it is the rejections just make it better when you get a good response it was the first time id messaged a guy first on here in about 2 years!..i may start doing it more often! Well I can pretty much guaranty positive responses "i hope so!..definitely going to try it again!..im thick skinned enough to handle rejection! | |||
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"i did that recently..checked out a guys profile a few times,sneakily obviously..way out of my league,but had a bit too much wine one night and sent a message..agonised over the wording for ages..and ive met him 3 times in 2 weeks now..turned out he'd looked at me a few times but thought i wouldnt be interested..so go for it! Wow
it was very 'wow'..i'll have a bit more confidence now with people i think wouldnt be interested...at least, on here, the worst that can happen is a no thanks...apparently sometimes 30 somethings like dumpy middle aged women!
Don't put yourself down. I am less likely to meet someone who is out of my league.. I get too nervous and know it probably wouldn't end up regular after seeing my naked body lol
your pics are amazing!..but i know how you feel! but on here at least you just get a 'no' if someones not interested!..but then, whats 'out of our league'?..plenty of hot looking gym bunny guys that dont appeal to me at all on here.."Anna you are gorgeous, have no worries about messaging guys, you will be well received I'm certain | |||
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"Just go for it what's the worst thing that can happen most the message us men send get a 'no thanks' or just deleted (well I hope it's like that for most men lol) but you should never give up, the way I look at it is the rejections just make it better when you get a good response it was the first time id messaged a guy first on here in about 2 years!..i may start doing it more often! Well I can pretty much guaranty positive responses
i hope so!..definitely going to try it again!..im thick skinned enough to handle rejection!"well I've had a look at your profile and if they reject you their heads would be a lot thicker than your skin needed to be | |||
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"No I just go for itit worst they can do is call me a fat cow and I'm kinda immune to those type of comments now " yes, with you on that..usually only get the horrible comments after theyve messaged me though! completely immune to them now! | |||
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"Just go for it what's the worst thing that can happen most the message us men send get a 'no thanks' or just deleted (well I hope it's like that for most men lol) but you should never give up, the way I look at it is the rejections just make it better when you get a good response it was the first time id messaged a guy first on here in about 2 years!..i may start doing it more often! Well I can pretty much guaranty positive responses
i hope so!..definitely going to try it again!..im thick skinned enough to handle rejection!"Wow babe, I didn't know you could make the first move, you see we are all very nice afterall xx | |||
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"Just go for it what's the worst thing that can happen most the message us men send get a 'no thanks' or just deleted (well I hope it's like that for most men lol) but you should never give up, the way I look at it is the rejections just make it better when you get a good response it was the first time id messaged a guy first on here in about 2 years!..i may start doing it more often! Well I can pretty much guaranty positive responses
i hope so!..definitely going to try it again!..im thick skinned enough to handle rejection!
well I've had a look at your profile and if they reject you their heads would be a lot thicker than your skin needed to be "thank you! | |||
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"No I just go for itit worst they can do is call me a fat cow and I'm kinda immune to those type of comments now yes, with you on that..usually only get the horrible comments after theyve messaged me though! completely immune to them now!" you can make the first move on me whenever you are ready | |||
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"Just go for it what's the worst thing that can happen most the message us men send get a 'no thanks' or just deleted (well I hope it's like that for most men lol) but you should never give up, the way I look at it is the rejections just make it better when you get a good response it was the first time id messaged a guy first on here in about 2 years!..i may start doing it more often! Well I can pretty much guaranty positive responses
i hope so!..definitely going to try it again!..im thick skinned enough to handle rejection!
well I've had a look at your profile and if they reject you their heads would be a lot thicker than your skin needed to be
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"Do you ever look at people's profiles over and over but never message as you dont want a rejection because you feel they probably wouldn't be interested because perhaps you wouldn't be there type? Or maybe your hesitant for another reason???" Go for it, your profile is very nice and I am sure they will accept you | |||
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"too much gin, and too many compliments!..both of which im very grateful for...im off to bed before i start messaging completely unsuitable people in a fit of alcohol fueled over-confidence!" goodnight, there will be a lot of men out there that would be happy with your d*unken messages lol | |||
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"too much gin, and too many compliments!..both of which im very grateful for...im off to bed before i start messaging completely unsuitable people in a fit of alcohol fueled over-confidence! goodnight, there will be a lot of men out there that would be happy with your d*unken messages lol "yes, but i might not be...might wake up to replies from strange people from the hebrides who live with their mum and 8 cats! | |||
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"too much gin, and too many compliments!..both of which im very grateful for...im off to bed before i start messaging completely unsuitable people in a fit of alcohol fueled over-confidence! goodnight, there will be a lot of men out there that would be happy with your d*unken messages lol
yes, but i might not be...might wake up to replies from strange people from the hebrides who live with their mum and 8 cats!"at least they'd know how to look after a pussy, sorry couldn't resist that one | |||
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"too much gin, and too many compliments!..both of which im very grateful for...im off to bed before i start messaging completely unsuitable people in a fit of alcohol fueled over-confidence!" Lol  | |||
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