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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i've been on the site 8 months and sent hundreds of messages and had virtualy sod all success.anybody else finding there messages are unread,deleted,or replyed with a no? or a bit of interest which then turns into nothing? or you go to have a meet (which i finally got)and then nobody turns up and the phone calls remained unanswered? im sure theres a lot of successful meets on here.cant seem to find any myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i've been on the site 8 months and sent hundreds of messages and had virtualy sod all success.anybody else finding there messages are unread,deleted,or replyed with a no? or a bit of interest which then turns into nothing? or you go to have a meet (which i finally got)and then nobody turns up and the phone calls remained unanswered? im sure theres a lot of successful meets on here.cant seem to find any myself."

You may want to try update your profile telling us about yourself, not just what you want!

Also a nice smiley face pic would be better, you look thoroughly miserable in the pictures on there now! Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye what she said

A smile would do ya the power of good mate

Women hate miserable faces

Be more lighthearted in ya profile and tell em a bit about yaself

Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP: your thread is ten times longer than your profile!

If you can't put any effort into selling you, doesn't bode well for the effort you'll put into pleasing others.

Make an effort to improve your prospects!

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fully agree with all the advice above. You're a good looking guy so some smiley pics will definitely help plus you can accomodate which goes in your favour. Expand your profile a bit more. there are a lot of single guys on here so you need to make your profile stand out from the others. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hate smiling in pics and yeh ive had no success either but then ive only tried it on with a few

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Wants 1 or two single fems

Miserable as sin on pics

No profile text

Why do you think your not having much luck

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

And unless you are willing to have a pineapple shoved up your bottom, and give another guy head, then I'd take the no limits bit off your profile as well!!!

Trust me, you can never be sure what others will come up with if you state no limits!!!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"And unless you are willing to have a pineapple shoved up your bottom, and give another guy head, then I'd take the no limits bit off your profile as well!!!

Trust me, you can never be sure what others will come up with if you state no limits!!! "

Yup i'm still looking for someone to make that crucifixion porn!

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"And unless you are willing to have a pineapple shoved up your bottom, and give another guy head, then I'd take the no limits bit off your profile as well!!!

Trust me, you can never be sure what others will come up with if you state no limits!!!

Yup i'm still looking for someone to make that crucifixion porn! "

When I've tried out suspension in a few weeks time, I might get back to you on that!!!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"i've been on the site 8 months and sent hundreds of messages and had virtualy sod all success.anybody else finding there messages are unread,deleted,or replyed with a no? or a bit of interest which then turns into nothing? or you go to have a meet (which i finally got)and then nobody turns up and the phone calls remained unanswered? im sure theres a lot of successful meets on here.cant seem to find any myself."

fab swingers as far as i am aware haven't started charging by the word on profiles quite yet.... so why not start using some...

put yourself in the position of the people you are trying to attract... then ask yourself this:

"how would they know they were the person for me?...."

the answer is at the moment... They wouldn't!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont just rely on this site for meets get yourself along to a club

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"And unless you are willing to have a pineapple shoved up your bottom, and give another guy head, then I'd take the no limits bit off your profile as well!!!

Trust me, you can never be sure what others will come up with if you state no limits!!!

Yup i'm still looking for someone to make that crucifixion porn!

When I've tried out suspension in a few weeks time, I might get back to you on that!!!! "

ohhhh can we have a full report, pretty please xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

Don't beat yrself up about it. Happens to women as well

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By *hezzyMan
over a year ago

St.helens

Hmmm. . .i havent had much sucsess on here either, maybe due to the location im in, cambridgeshire, the big citys like birmingham seem to have more willing ppl on there. .oh well guess i gotta keep trying! -_-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm. . .i havent had much sucsess on here either, maybe due to the location im in, cambridgeshire, the big citys like birmingham seem to have more willing ppl on there. .oh well guess i gotta keep trying! -_-"

Great profile pics The text on the profile could do with some amending and lose the rant at the bottom as it's off putting even though it's probably true! Also, I don't think many women like being referred to as "chicks" but that might just be me being old fashioned lol. Good luck on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK i'll say it , who's cess ?

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"i've been on the site 8 months and sent hundreds of messages and had virtualy sod all success.anybody else finding there messages are unread,deleted,or replyed with a no? or a bit of interest which then turns into nothing? or you go to have a meet (which i finally got)and then nobody turns up and the phone calls remained unanswered? im sure theres a lot of successful meets on here.cant seem to find any myself."

You've been on here 6 months....... it takes some men a year to get a meet.

You've had a meet and it's been verified.

Stop whinging.... you sound like your profile looks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally agree with the comments your profile is too short and your picture choice is glum lol anyway you have managed one meet so cant be that bad site eh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry, but just to read your user name and then to look at the pictures... the name and the face don't really fit.

Maybe a mad crazy big grinning picture may help towards living up to your profile name, and some god damn details would help too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm. . .i havent had much sucsess on here either, maybe due to the location im in, cambridgeshire, the big citys like birmingham seem to have more willing ppl on there. .oh well guess i gotta keep trying! -_-"

I agree with Chezzy. I live in King's Lynn and see the same faces on here everytime i come on. There are a hell of a lot of timewasters here though. Chin up. If you get a meet you get a meet. If you don't, don't lose any sleep over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i've been on the site 8 months and sent hundreds of messages and had virtualy sod all success.anybody else finding there messages are unread,deleted,or replyed with a no? or a bit of interest which then turns into nothing? or you go to have a meet (which i finally got)and then nobody turns up and the phone calls remained unanswered? im sure theres a lot of successful meets on here.cant seem to find any myself."

I have to agree with the comments about you looking a bit 'glum'.

I wouldn't be expecting a 'fun' meet if we were going to spend some time with you... I'd be tempted to lie you down on the couch and ask you to tell me your woes!

Get some nice cheerie pics up and expand your profile to help increase your chances. Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% success rate for me as a single guy, I've sent out no pleading messages and received no messages back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There may be something in the fact that the three guys saying they are having no success all have pics of them looking as miserable as sin!

Come on guys do yourselves a favour, you make Jack Dee look happy!

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By *arewithmeMan
over a year ago

Craven Arms

Its not all about pics, i send pics out with my messages as i'm sure lots of other guys do... People are a long way up themselves and cant even be bothered to give a short reply to very nice messages that are sent to them.....

Its called, Lack of Manners .......

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"

Its called, Lack of Manners ......."

its called CHOICE .........

Do you answer all the junk mail and cold call telephone messages you get?

No........ your choice.

Or do you have a distinct lack of manners because you don't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its called lack of reading the tips and tricks section where its fully explained xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

m8 if you look on sum other thread's....im giving a master class on how not 2 be on here if you wanna b successfull.....have a gander and learn from my mistake's ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know quite a few single guys on here who have worked out how to get the best from the site and from swinging and they get meets quite successfully.

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By *hezzyMan
over a year ago

St.helens


"Hmmm. . .i havent had much sucsess on here either, maybe due to the location im in, cambridgeshire, the big citys like birmingham seem to have more willing ppl on there. .oh well guess i gotta keep trying! -_-

Great profile pics The text on the profile could do with some amending and lose the rant at the bottom as it's off putting even though it's probably true! Also, I don't think many women like being referred to as "chicks" but that might just be me being old fashioned lol. Good luck on here."

cheers, ive just edited my profile a bit

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By *arewithmeMan
over a year ago

Craven Arms

Junk mail is a totally differant thing to what i'm talking about, i'm talking about people putting together a nice polite message to others, not just a couple of words that say dou you want a fuck, so if someone has put together a polite message its only polite to give a short reply to them, it costs nothing ..........

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"Junk mail is a totally differant thing to what i'm talking about, i'm talking about people putting together a nice polite message to others, not just a couple of words that say dou you want a fuck, so if someone has put together a polite message its only polite to give a short reply to them, it costs nothing .........."

But someone has taken the time to put together those well thought out leaflets that come through your door, or money into training those annoying people who ring you up just as you are getting down to the final stroke, so why do you not politely answer them???

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By *arewithmeMan
over a year ago

Craven Arms

I didn't sat i dont answer them politly, what i was saying was when someone puts together a nice polite message to another profile its polite to answer them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't sat i dont answer them politly, what i was saying was when someone puts together a nice polite message to another profile its polite to answer them..."

No it's not!

When I was meeting my profile was very specific regarding the type of man I was looking for. I even had I wouldn't respond to anyone outwith my criteria. It didn't stop them writing...and I didn't answer.

If someone met my criteria, had written a nice message but I didn't want to meet for whatever reason, then I'd write back!

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By *arewithmeMan
over a year ago

Craven Arms

I agree with you, ifyou have written your likes and dislikes and they totally take no notice thats bad manners and dont deserve a repy.

But there are some really short profiles with no clues as to likes and dislikes so the only way of finding out is to write a good message. So when thats done its good manners to give a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one is being bad mannered or discurtious for not replying to unsolicited mail.

Why don't all you guys write and reply to each other?

Would that make you feel better?

Every day we get these threads, and every day we see loads of advice given out, but it seems that not many guys take a blind bit of notice.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I agree with you, ifyou have written your likes and dislikes and they totally take no notice thats bad manners and dont deserve a repy.

But there are some really short profiles with no clues as to likes and dislikes so the only way of finding out is to write a good message. So when thats done its good manners to give a reply"

Glad to see u know how the site shud be run better than the owners

Do u reply to the pizza shop who send you a flyer ?

No,why not ,if it is so bad mannered ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope, not me, fighting them off with a shitty stick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wants 1 or two single fems

Miserable as sin on pics

No profile text

Why do you think your not having much luck "
Harsh but true!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one is being bad mannered or discurtious for not replying to unsolicited mail.

Why don't all you guys write and reply to each other?

Would that make you feel better?

Every day we get these threads, and every day

we see loads of advice given out, but it seems

that not many guys take a blind bit of notice. 8-

)"
that's because they only do it for the sympathy vote but don't realise it does themno favours whatsoever, I can't stand whingers!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with you, ifyou have written your likes and dislikes and they totally take no notice thats bad manners and dont deserve a repy.

But there are some really short profiles with no clues as to likes and dislikes so the only way of finding out is to write a good message. So when thats done its good manners to give a reply"

1300 messages in 2 weeks, if you received that many would you reply with said,good manners?

Some solo women get that type of volume of messages/asks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"100% success rate for me as a single guy, I've sent out no pleading messages and received no messages back. "
You've also been on fab over a year and still not had a meet.....

100% success rate . . . . keep dreaming!!!

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Irony is wasted on some people

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

from a womans prospective ive looked at your profile and have to ask what would make you stick out from the thousands of other guys on here ?? be serious ..if i got ten single guys mesage me today why would i mail you back over the others or mail you at all ?? if youve put zero effort in on your profile then why should i spend any time or effort messaging you back??the guys ill replie to are the ones that grab my interest .so as people have said use your profile to stand out from the herd and entice people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do u reply to the pizza shop who send you a flyer ?

pizza for delivery please. Well would be rude not to ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah... I'm having no luck from site meets either. It's a pain in the rump.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As said above, the sheer volume of messages that single ladies receive on here makes it almost impossible to reply to every message and when you do you reply with a polite "thanks but no thanks" it often results in replies trying to negotiate with you, persuade you that a 200 mile round trip with a random stranger is a good use of my time or abuse for having had the nerve to reject them.

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