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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wanted to start a young and hung group in London. So any couple or woman looking for men ages between 23 -28 please find this forum as I have found quiet a few have age restrictions on. So to make it easier to identify coupes or singles that want young and hung guys I have created this forum. I think we should be more open in welcoming the younger generation to understand the swinging nature. Please give some feed back and thoughts in the matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm no longer based in London but do visit from time to time, and this would be something I'm interested in definitely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sounds good hopefully we get some traction

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

We cannot for the life of us see why anyone would want to give free sex lessons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds good hopefully we get some traction "

traction or action?

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"Wanted to start a young and hung group in London. So any couple or woman looking for men ages between 23 -28 please find this forum as I have found quiet a few have age restrictions on. So to make it easier to identify coupes or singles that want young and hung guys I have created this forum. I think we should be more open in welcoming the younger generation to understand the swinging nature. Please give some feed back and thoughts in the matter. "

Why should we be more open in giving free sex to the younger generation?

We just dont get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the group is for the young then shouldn't it start from the age of 18?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanted to start a young and hung group in London. So any couple or woman looking for men ages between 23 -28 please find this forum as I have found quiet a few have age restrictions on. So to make it easier to identify coupes or singles that want young and hung guys I have created this forum. I think we should be more open in welcoming the younger generation to understand the swinging nature. Please give some feed back and thoughts in the matter.

Why should we be more open in giving free sex to the younger generation?

We just dont get it."

Give the guy a break,more traditional messaging hasn't seem to work so he's moving the goalposts n trying a new approach.not what we would want op,but good luck.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

OP, if you've found people have age restrictions on, you can search and tick the box that says you have to meet their age requirements.

We might not be as young as you, but we can educate you on using the internet.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanted to start a young and hung group in London. So any couple or woman looking for men ages between 23 -28 please find this forum as I have found quiet a few have age restrictions on. So to make it easier to identify coupes or singles that want young and hung guys I have created this forum. I think we should be more open in welcoming the younger generation to understand the swinging nature. Please give some feed back and thoughts in the matter. "

i dont quite understand you...you say some people have age restrictions?..that is surely up them? many people have upper or lower age limits...thats their decision..and who do you mean by the 'we' who should be more welcoming?

you could say the exact same thing about people who dont want to meet over 50's? why not just stick to messaging people who are looking for your age group! the tools for searching in certain age groups are already on here..

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"Wanted to start a young and hung group in London. So any couple or woman looking for men ages between 23 -28 please find this forum as I have found quiet a few have age restrictions on. So to make it easier to identify coupes or singles that want young and hung guys I have created this forum. I think we should be more open in welcoming the younger generation to understand the swinging nature. Please give some feed back and thoughts in the matter.

Why should we be more open in giving free sex to the younger generation?

We just dont get it."
I dont think he ment that ,sounds like hes just looking for people that like younger men

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"We cannot for the life of us see why anyone would want to give free sex lessons."

Why not?

Have you never met a man and thought wouldn't it be good if he knew what to do with what he has got?

Wish someone had taught him how to arouse a woman rather than just satisfy himself.

We think this is a good idea and may help others in the future, everyone has to learn somewhere

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is not free lessons in sex lol it's more the openness of swinging and it being a social group not as you say free sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is not free lessons in sex lol it's more the openness of swinging and it being a social group not as you say free sex "

i still dont understand what you are getting at?..do you mean you want to somehow circumvent peoples age preferences somehow..surely if someone wants someone over say, 35, having a thread with younger men on it won't make a difference to that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I apologise as some responses are rather aggressive. But I'm trying to understand what the age restriction is about whether it be mentality or just preference. Also yes I'm just trying to found people that share the same opinion. I understand some have put it on for reason they may not want to discuss and I have no problem with that but I do believe the forum is a place of which it can be discussed. I believe some are taking t to literal I don't mean educated in sex I mean in the swinging scene and advice on events and so on. I do not wish to target those that do not wish to entertain the conversation but highlighting those that do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I apologise as some responses are rather aggressive. But I'm trying to understand what the age restriction is about whether it be mentality or just preference. Also yes I'm just trying to found people that share the same opinion. I understand some have put it on for reason they may not want to discuss and I have no problem with that but I do believe the forum is a place of which it can be discussed. I believe some are taking t to literal I don't mean educated in sex I mean in the swinging scene and advice on events and so on. I do not wish to target those that do not wish to entertain the conversation but highlighting those that do. "

I think a lot of people including myself worry how mature younger men are going to be, a lot of young single male profiles also seem to be fake or quite pushy. You get lots of young single men who are only interested in a fuck and go with no thought for my husband and they treat me like I'm obligated for some reason. That may explain the filters.

I prefer older guys as they seem to be more self-assured and obviously more experienced between the sheets. Hope that helps

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"I apologise as some responses are rather aggressive. But I'm trying to understand what the age restriction is about whether it be mentality or just preference. Also yes I'm just trying to found people that share the same opinion. I understand some have put it on for reason they may not want to discuss and I have no problem with that but I do believe the forum is a place of which it can be discussed. I believe some are taking t to literal I don't mean educated in sex I mean in the swinging scene and advice on events and so on. I do not wish to target those that do not wish to entertain the conversation but highlighting those that do.

I think a lot of people including myself worry how mature younger men are going to be, a lot of young single male profiles also seem to be fake or quite pushy. You get lots of young single men who are only interested in a fuck and go with no thought for my husband and they treat me like I'm obligated for some reason. That may explain the filters.

I prefer older guys as they seem to be more self-assured and obviously more experienced between the sheets. Hope that helps "

Very well put.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That helps a lot and is more constructive for me to take on board thanks. I guess I'm just mature and feel uncomfortable with being tarnished as the same as the rest. The respect boundaries are always to be adhere to and experience is gained by experience. Just something to think about ??

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"That helps a lot and is more constructive for me to take on board thanks. I guess I'm just mature and feel uncomfortable with being tarnished as the same as the rest. The respect boundaries are always to be adhere to and experience is gained by experience. Just something to think about ??"

The problem is a lot of young guys on here like to say that they are mature and different to all the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about the older guy and hung ??????

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

OP, you might be better just going to a social that is organised by others. You will be accepted for who you are, not your age.

Being unverified and trying to organise something for others to come to is going to be very difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That helps a lot and is more constructive for me to take on board thanks. I guess I'm just mature and feel uncomfortable with being tarnished as the same as the rest. The respect boundaries are always to be adhere to and experience is gained by experience. Just something to think about ??"

I do try not to tar everyone with the same brush so accept messages from younger males - one of the best meets I've had was with a lad younger than me (he'd even added an extra year on his profile- would have met him anyway) but I've probably got more time than most to sift through the guys who want to use me as a "free ride" hence why they just block them.

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

Croydon Area


"I apologise as some responses are rather aggressive. But I'm trying to understand what the age restriction is about whether it be mentality or just preference. Also yes I'm just trying to found people that share the same opinion. I understand some have put it on for reason they may not want to discuss and I have no problem with that but I do believe the forum is a place of which it can be discussed. I believe some are taking t to literal I don't mean educated in sex I mean in the swinging scene and advice on events and so on. I do not wish to target those that do not wish to entertain the conversation but highlighting those that do.

I think a lot of people including myself worry how mature younger men are going to be, a lot of young single male profiles also seem to be fake or quite pushy. You get lots of young single men who are only interested in a fuck and go with no thought for my husband and they treat me like I'm obligated for some reason. That may explain the filters.

I prefer older guys as they seem to be more self-assured and obviously more experienced between the sheets. Hope that helps "

agree

we encountered this so much that we got fed up with it and moved our age limits.

We did find a couple of younger guys that understood what we were seeking and had a great few meets with them, but as usual the constant grief outweighed the pros to allow younger guys to message so we set our age limits.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks it's helpful to understand the reason behide. Well I guess events would be a good way to start off my adventures. Keep the comments coming guys

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes, the best advice is to get yourself to a social. If you want to demonstrate you've got a mature outlook, meeting people outside a sexual swinging environment is probably best, as you'll find it easier to consequently be invited into a sexual one.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It seems to be a situation whereby your main 'selling point' is your age. As you know, there are lots of people with age restrictions and they haven't put them there without any thought. Yes, there any be the odd one or two who are mature for their age but, judging by comments in the forum over the years, the vast majority are not which, you be relieved to know, brings me to my point which is that if the ladies and couples want you, they will contact you. I don't think a mini forum just for younger guys will work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanted to start a young and hung group in London. So any couple or woman looking for men ages between 23 -28 please find this forum as I have found quiet a few have age restrictions on. So to make it easier to identify coupes or singles that want young and hung guys I have created this forum. I think we should be more open in welcoming the younger generation to understand the swinging nature. Please give some feed back and thoughts in the matter.

Why should we be more open in giving free sex to the younger generation?

We just dont get it."

No one's asking you twenty have what the bbw thread on its 20th edition the guy has just started a young guys thread.

If you're not into young guys it's not really for you

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"Wanted to start a young and hung group in London. So any couple or woman looking for men ages between 23 -28 please find this forum as I have found quiet a few have age restrictions on. So to make it easier to identify coupes or singles that want young and hung guys I have created this forum. I think we should be more open in welcoming the younger generation to understand the swinging nature. Please give some feed back and thoughts in the matter.

Why should we be more open in giving free sex to the younger generation?

We just dont get it.

No one's asking you twenty have what the bbw thread on its 20th edition the guy has just started a young guys thread.

If you're not into young guys it's not really for you"

Pardon?

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