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Couples - When do you respond to single men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So to all you couples... What makes you respond to a message, what are you looking for?

Personally I never cut and paste or copy messages, they're always personalised when possible and respectful (not let me fuck ur wife). No txt speak or anything like that, but I don't get many responses.

Its got to be my messages.

Couldn't possibly be my Will Smith looks

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By *arge Hardon ColliderMan
over a year ago

Not far away


"So to all you couples... What makes you respond to a message, what are you looking for?

Personally I never cut and paste or copy messages, they're always personalised when possible and respectful (not let me fuck ur wife). No txt speak or anything like that, but I don't get many responses.

Only a guess but I suspect many will just skip straight past silhouette profiles.

Do you send a face picture with first message? Or any picture?

Its got to be my messages.

Couldn't possibly be my Will Smith looks"

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By *otLips 69Woman
over a year ago

Here or There


"So to all you couples... What makes you respond to a message, what are you looking for?

Personally I never cut and paste or copy messages, they're always personalised when possible and respectful (not let me fuck ur wife). No txt speak or anything like that, but I don't get many responses.

Only a guess but I suspect many will just skip straight past silhouette profiles.

Do you send a face picture with first message? Or any picture?

Its got to be my messages.

Couldn't possibly be my Will Smith looks"

When they've something sensible to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So to all you couples... What makes you respond to a message, what are you looking for?

Personally I never cut and paste or copy messages, they're always personalised when possible and respectful (not let me fuck ur wife). No txt speak or anything like that, but I don't get many responses.

Its got to be my messages.

Couldn't possibly be my Will Smith looks"
They are very picky on here so your not the only who does not get much replies after trying for 4 years off and on and now the last five months

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We always enjoy playing with single guys in clubs (as long as they play straight) but never meet single guys through fab. If you want to play with couples, OP, you might fare better in a club.

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

I try to reply to everyone even if I'm not interested but if I ignore anyone it's the "I'm free later" "I'd love to play with your tits" messages

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I respond to 99% even though most aren't courteous enough to have read our profile and don't match at all what we are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I respond to 99% even though most aren't courteous enough to have read our profile and don't match at all what we are looking for. "

Snap

We reply to everyone out of courtesy and some just can't handle rejection - we can't fuck everyone ffs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we reply to most messages, the trouble is single guys tend to forget they're talking to a couple

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

A profile pic helps

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By *uck.Squeeze.Bang.BlowCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

We reply to all well written messages even if it's no thank you and delete the fancy a fuck messages.

We put in as much effort to the reply as they did the original message some messages just clicking the reply button is more effort than they have put in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So to all you couples... What makes you respond to a message, what are you looking for?

Personally I never cut and paste or copy messages, they're always personalised when possible and respectful (not let me fuck ur wife). No txt speak or anything like that, but I don't get many responses.

Its got to be my messages.

Couldn't possibly be my Will Smith looks"

if they read the first line of our profile and fit what we're looking for...it may ask for more information and lead to a dialogue, it may be to say that they're not for us...otherwise, we just delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before we even open a message we look at the persons profile to see if they fit our criteria. If there is something that suggests the person hasn't read our profile first then the message isn't even opened.

If the profile reads ok then we would look at the pictures to see if we like what we see. If all boxes are ticked then let the fun begin.

For us its a vetting process and believe me, as a couple who don't really ask for much it can be a tedious, time consuming task.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

OP, we normally have single guys filtered out from messaging. When we drop the filter, the immediate inrush of crap messages is astounding.

We'd reply to a 1/2 decent message, if the profile was also ok too. tbh a profile with no pics wouldn't get a reply though.

MrB

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We respond when we are looking for a meet .... but only if a face pic is available to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually respond to all messages where a modicum of effort has been made, but for lots of people the profile is really important and no pics and no real info about what you offer and want would mean no reply.

There's no excuse I can think of for not having a single public pic. There are plenty of possible shots that don't include any identifying features (unless you're covered head to toe in tats maybe) I'd wonder what someone with no pics was hiding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the time really, unless they have not made it past the first line of the text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So to all you couples... What makes you respond to a message, what are you looking for?

Personally I never cut and paste or copy messages, they're always personalised when possible and respectful (not let me fuck ur wife). No txt speak or anything like that, but I don't get many responses.

Its got to be my messages.

Couldn't possibly be my Will Smith looks"

We always reply to messages.

It depends on the content of the message weather they get a sensible reply or a silly reply

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

A one that stands out with a nice pic and not even one of a cock.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your feedback all.

I did have all my photos on public, but then some twat found my profile and started showing it around in the pub.

I do attach pics whenever I send a message though.

I was just wondering if I was being TOO polite. Maybe my messages were TOO long. I can imagine how many messages you couples must get on a daily basis, is something quick and to the point better?

I've also noticed I'm not in the best area either. You northerners seem to be having much more fun!

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We try to respond to every message we get though sometimes we do miss message. We think it only polite to do so even though Fab "rules" say it is not impolite to not answer messages

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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago

cheshire


"So to all you couples... What makes you respond to a message, what are you looking for?

Personally I never cut and paste or copy messages, they're always personalised when possible and respectful (not let me fuck ur wife). No txt speak or anything like that, but I don't get many responses.

Its got to be my messages.

Couldn't possibly be my Will Smith looks"
only when we want a meet or play. Thats it other than that theres no other use. Simple

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

We respond when we want a gorgeous fun guy to play. Very often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone has read our profile, has respect for us as a couple and yet not afraid to explore his imagination.... oh and doesn't send cock pics on his first message!

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

We always respond "Thanks but we don't meet singles as profile says"

As they've not read the profile it normally pulls them up short

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

When they're what were looking for and they're honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always enjoy playing with single guys in clubs (as long as they play straight) but never meet single guys through fab. If you want to play with couples, OP, you might fare better in a club."

im.hoping your wrist is Better S and I'll see you in quest soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try to reply to everyone even if I'm not interested but if I ignore anyone it's the "I'm free later" "I'd love to play with your tits" messages"

Totally agree, I (mrs) do exactly the same. Haha love those 'I can be there in half an hour' messages, without even a hello first! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try to reply to most, so the question should more be, what. Audra us to follow up a message. Firstly we would normally have to be actively looking, so that would tend to be when we're available to meet, but not getting much luck with regulars. Then we would normally look for the following before taking it further: face pic, no/minimal cock pics, verified by a number of MF couples (if verified by someone we know even better), well written and interesting profile/message.

Mrs

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By *appily marriedCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Never now, we've blocked single men because it's not what we're looking for and we were getting loads of single men still messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get a lot of messages from single guys and reject all of the one liners out of hand. If the bare min has been carried out on the profile again we reject these too. After all you want to fuck us so if you can't put in an effort with the above then we couldn't see what effort in understanding what we want you would be putting in. We also don't reply to people that don't read our profile . Ie. We want a bi guy so don't message if you are straight. At the end of the day there are thousands of single men on here so we can afford to be fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always reply if they've bothered to read our profile 1st - yeah it's a long one ! Lol, attached a pic and actually got something say with an element of humour and aimed at both of us ! Not much to ask for eh ? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always if only a polite not for me thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks again all, I don't think it's my messages after all lol.

Who doesn't like Will Smith

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London

When its clear from their opening message that they have taken the time to read our profile in full.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we reply to most messages, the trouble is single guys tend to forget they're talking to a couple "

This

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"So to all you couples... What makes you respond to a message, what are you looking for?

Personally I never cut and paste or copy messages, they're always personalised when possible and respectful (not let me fuck ur wife). No txt speak or anything like that, but I don't get many responses.

Its got to be my messages.

Couldn't possibly be my Will Smith looks"

Most of the time we are looking for couples, we have single men blocked because we are not wanting to be messaged by them. At times when we are looking for single guys, we will message the ones that Anita is interested in... or just Ho to a club where she can choose from the guys who show an interest.

Cal

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