FabSwingers.com forum: Rejection

By *ilkchocolate87 OP Man
over a year ago

sw london

How much rejection should you accept before packing it in on this site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who know, as many times as it takes to shatter your ego/illusion/spirit/hopes (delete as appropriate)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm impatient, so I probably wouldn't stay more than a couple of months.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Till you have given up and cant accept no more knock downs or feel like this site is not for u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How much rejection should you accept before packing it in on this site?"

Just remember, unless you meet someone face to face they are not rejecting you but rejecting your fab profile . My advice is to blitz every profile that interests you with a generic but not cheesey copy and pasted massage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How much rejection should you accept before packing it in on this site?"

Its rough with smooth im afraid, dont take it to heart but think on your approach. Single guys do get it rough but be yourself, honest and considerate.

I never indulge in sexting or whatever its called, mainly because i like to get to know someone before playing.

Have you had any positives or is it just negative, as you say?

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP Man
over a year ago

sw london

Mainly just read messages and deletes even with a face pic.

Not getting Any matches on tinder etc. Not having much luck when I'm out in bars either.

Not sure what's going wrong really. But it's quite demoralising.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Just remember, unless you meet someone face to face they are not rejecting you but rejecting your fab profile .

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This is absolutely true. Great advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mainly just read messages and deletes even with a face pic.

Not getting Any matches on tinder etc. Not having much luck when I'm out in bars either.

Not sure what's going wrong really. But it's quite demoralising."

Do you ever change your profile? Or change your pics? Maybe try doing something different.

If it makes you feel shit it's not worth it. Maybe hide your profile for a while and do something else or just use the forums.

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By *vetteBondTV/TS
over a year ago

English Riviera

Try a tranny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just remember, unless you meet someone face to face they are not rejecting you but rejecting your fab profile . My advice is to blitz every profile that interests you with a generic but not cheesey copy and pasted massage.

This all over.

Depends how much it bothers you really. Personally I'm not that bothered, but that seems to be more indicative of myself in most aspects of life.

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Don't even let the rejection bother you, for example, there have been ladies who even blocked me on this site and when I met them face to face they played with me for hours and said I was sweet, we only discovered they had blocked me previously when I asked for their profile.

You must realise that there are ladies who got out of their houses into town and not even one guy says hello to them on the street, they come on fabs and get loads of attention, so yeah they might reject you on here but don't worry about it, if they reject you face to face , you need to look at that and see what you are doing wrong but not on fabs.

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