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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is still a good site but the quality of females on here has dropped drastically recently . Is there a genuine reason why attractive women are not joining and staying anymore ? Btw I can not comment on the quality of the men in here as I dont look for or message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Fabswingers is sorry that the women fall outside of your high standards and do take your gripe seriously. Every efforts are made to ensure enough top quality totty is available for all to enjoy.

If you feel you're being let down, perhaps POF or Tinder would be a better choice for you.'

Your statutory rights are not affect should you choose to go UNLOS in the pursuit of primo quality pussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll get me coat...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"'Fabswingers is sorry that the women fall outside of your high standards and do take your gripe seriously. Every efforts are made to ensure enough top quality totty is available for all to enjoy.

If you feel you're being let down, perhaps POF or Tinder would be a better choice for you.'

Your statutory rights are not affect should you choose to go UNLOS in the pursuit of primo quality pussy.

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Do you agree that standards have fallen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabs open for anyone to join even fat ugly moos like me .thankfully there's lots of men that like fat and ugly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll get me coat... "

Why?? Is it cold outside ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they have too high standards for the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Fabswingers is sorry that the women fall outside of your high standards and do take your gripe seriously. Every efforts are made to ensure enough top quality totty is available for all to enjoy.

If you feel you're being let down, perhaps POF or Tinder would be a better choice for you.'

Your statutory rights are not affect should you choose to go UNLOS in the pursuit of primo quality pussy.

Do you agree that standards have fallen "

No

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe they have too high standards for the site. "

You could be right,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they have too high standards for the site. "

Exactly. I'm only here because I'm desperate. None of the other sites would have me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"'Fabswingers is sorry that the women fall outside of your high standards and do take your gripe seriously. Every efforts are made to ensure enough top quality totty is available for all to enjoy.

If you feel you're being let down, perhaps POF or Tinder would be a better choice for you.'

Your statutory rights are not affect should you choose to go UNLOS in the pursuit of primo quality pussy.

Do you agree that standards have fallen

No"

Fair enough, that is your opinion, am I entitled to my opinion ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is still a good site but the quality of females on here has dropped drastically recently . Is there a genuine reason why attractive women are not joining and staying anymore ? Btw I can not comment on the quality of the men in here as I dont look for or message them "

Excuse me. That's a bold statement. I think I'm quality. Maybe you are looking in the wrong place. Let me have a look at you and see what I think. Because I have very high standards

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is still a good site but the quality of females on here has dropped drastically recently . Is there a genuine reason why attractive women are not joining and staying anymore ? Btw I can not comment on the quality of the men in here as I dont look for or message them

Excuse me. That's a bold statement. I think I'm quality. Maybe you are looking in the wrong place. Let me have a look at you and see what I think. Because I have very high standards "

Who said I was specifically talking about you?? I said there was less quality not no quality .

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Maybe it goes had in hand with the "quality " of men on here .

Maybe it's just the ones that you choose to contact .

Maybe it's no different to real life and you'll find just a whole mix of folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is still a good site but the quality of females on here has dropped drastically recently . Is there a genuine reason why attractive women are not joining and staying anymore ? Btw I can not comment on the quality of the men in here as I dont look for or message them "

Jesus you should see the blokes...

Munters !!!

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By *wo-GoodCouple
over a year ago

South London


"This is still a good site but the quality of females on here has dropped drastically recently . Is there a genuine reason why attractive women are not joining and staying anymore ? Btw I can not comment on the quality of the men in here as I dont look for or message them

Excuse me. That's a bold statement. I think I'm quality. Maybe you are looking in the wrong place. Let me have a look at you and see what I think. Because I have very high standards "

Oh he isn't brave enough to show himself. Obviously fearful that his devastatingly good looks will make the Fab community collectively swoon

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe it goes had in hand with the "quality " of men on here .

Maybe it's just the ones that you choose to contact .

Maybe it's no different to real life and you'll find just a whole mix of folks "

I can only talk about my own experiences on here and the number of women I want to contact are dwindling at an alarming rate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is still a good site but the quality of females on here has dropped drastically recently . Is there a genuine reason why attractive women are not joining and staying anymore ? Btw I can not comment on the quality of the men in here as I dont look for or message them

Excuse me. That's a bold statement. I think I'm quality. Maybe you are looking in the wrong place. Let me have a look at you and see what I think. Because I have very high standards

Oh he isn't brave enough to show himself. Obviously fearful that his devastatingly good looks will make the Fab community collectively swoon"

Why are you getting upset?

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

There's plenty of good looking women on here, plenty! A bit of a crass thing to say in our opinion but to answer your question, the 'quality' over the past four years for us hasn't changed at all. It's as great as ever.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's plenty of good looking women on here, plenty! A bit of a crass thing to say in our opinion but to answer your question, the 'quality' over the past four years for us hasn't changed at all. It's as great as ever. "

Fair enough, why haven't you met any then??

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

They want love, not sex

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By *wo-GoodCouple
over a year ago

South London


"This is still a good site but the quality of females on here has dropped drastically recently . Is there a genuine reason why attractive women are not joining and staying anymore ? Btw I can not comment on the quality of the men in here as I dont look for or message them

Excuse me. That's a bold statement. I think I'm quality. Maybe you are looking in the wrong place. Let me have a look at you and see what I think. Because I have very high standards

Oh he isn't brave enough to show himself. Obviously fearful that his devastatingly good looks will make the Fab community collectively swoon

Why are you getting upset? "

Upset? No. Laying here amused? Yup

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"There's plenty of good looking women on here, plenty! A bit of a crass thing to say in our opinion but to answer your question, the 'quality' over the past four years for us hasn't changed at all. It's as great as ever.

Fair enough, why haven't you met any then?? "

Er, we have and plenty. Temporary hiatus right now. Odd thread. smh

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Maybe it goes had in hand with the "quality " of men on here .

Maybe it's just the ones that you choose to contact .

Maybe it's no different to real life and you'll find just a whole mix of folks

I can only talk about my own experiences on here and the number of women I want to contact are dwindling at an alarming rate "

Then if you are not getting what you want here why stay ??

Surely make better sense to go to where you will find the quality of woman you want than waste your time here .

Oh and I'm afraid after this thread your chances with any ladies on here will be dwindling fast too .lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's plenty of good looking women on here, plenty! A bit of a crass thing to say in our opinion but to answer your question, the 'quality' over the past four years for us hasn't changed at all. It's as great as ever.

Fair enough, why haven't you met any then??

Er, we have and plenty. Temporary hiatus right now. Odd thread. smh "

Ah, the old 'we don't show our verifications' excuse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe it goes had in hand with the "quality " of men on here .

Maybe it's just the ones that you choose to contact .

Maybe it's no different to real life and you'll find just a whole mix of folks

I can only talk about my own experiences on here and the number of women I want to contact are dwindling at an alarming rate

Then if you are not getting what you want here why stay ??

Surely make better sense to go to where you will find the quality of woman you want than waste your time here .

Oh and I'm afraid after this thread your chances with any ladies on here will be dwindling fast too .lol "

The only people who will be offended by what I have said are the people I have no intention of meeting

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I can't say I have noticed that in all honesty. But it's right for you I'm certain about that.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

You still never answered the question. .. why stay here if you aren't finding what you want ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Fabswingers is sorry that the women fall outside of your high standards and do take your gripe seriously. Every efforts are made to ensure enough top quality totty is available for all to enjoy.

If you feel you're being let down, perhaps POF or Tinder would be a better choice for you.'

Your statutory rights are not affect should you choose to go UNLOS in the pursuit of primo quality pussy.

Do you agree that standards have fallen

No

Fair enough, that is your opinion, am I entitled to my opinion ?"

Where in my very tongue in cheek post did I suggest you weren't allowed an opinion?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You still never answered the question. .. why stay here if you aren't finding what you want ?

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I am finding what I want, if you re read my OP I state that it is still a good site, my only gripe is that the number of women I am attracted to is dwindling . Am I entitled to express this opinion?

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Think most will find your attitude not attractive lol.

First "look at me thread " but zero to actually look at pmsl !

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By * e coupleCouple
over a year ago

northeast

No problems with the quality of females on here . They are all gorgeous in their own way ..

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Haha love how you're all giving the OP his daily breadcrumbs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Haha love how you're all giving the OP his daily breadcrumbs "

You included

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As there are a lot less women on here than men it's going to be more difficult to find the women you want. I've been messaged by hundreds, maybe a thousand men, over the years, and only found a handful to my taste. If you're looking for something that is rare on here, it will obviously take longer to find. Bit like hunting legendary Pokémon.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Haha love how you're all giving the OP his daily breadcrumbs

You included "

How do they taste?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Haha love how you're all giving the OP his daily breadcrumbs

You included

How do they taste? "

Very salty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha love how you're all giving the OP his daily breadcrumbs "

Indeed. Looks like some one has gone fishing and caught a good catch.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Haha love how you're all giving the OP his daily breadcrumbs

Indeed. Looks like some one has gone fishing and caught a good catch. "

I disagree , I stand by what I have said , if some people get offended by what I say then they need to ask themselves why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor quality women.....what would be good quality in your opinion OP?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Haha love how you're all giving the OP his daily breadcrumbs

Indeed. Looks like some one has gone fishing and caught a good catch. "

That might explain the salty taste he's getting

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Hilarious

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Poor quality women.....what would be good quality in your opinion OP?"

It is subjective

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Poor quality women.....what would be good quality in your opinion OP?"

And I didn't say 'poor quality, I said less quality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow you sound like the perfect man!

Unfucking real.

Sorry I'm literally struckdumb by this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Poor quality women.....what would be good quality in your opinion OP?

And I didn't say 'poor quality, I said less quality "

That is insinuating that most women are poor quality.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Poor quality women.....what would be good quality in your opinion OP?

And I didn't say 'poor quality, I said less quality

That is insinuating that most women are poor quality. "

And he of course knows that

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By *ofia2014Woman
over a year ago

Galashiels


"Haha love how you're all giving the OP his daily breadcrumbs

You included "

How rude

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Poor quality women.....what would be good quality in your opinion OP?

And I didn't say 'poor quality, I said less quality

That is insinuating that most women are poor quality. "

No it isn't, it is saying that the number of 'quality' women is dwindling , the overall number of women is also dwindling

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow you sound like the perfect man!

Unfucking real.

Sorry I'm literally struckdumb by this one "

Can you explain why you are 'struckdumb'?

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Sounds like youre having a breakdown buddy ..are you ok?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds like youre having a breakdown buddy ..are you ok?"

Yeah, I am doing great. Yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Poor quality women.....what would be good quality in your opinion OP?"

Btw do you meet every person who messages you??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the contrary OP; I'm chatting to, with a view to meeting, some very nice ladies of exceptional quality. Maybe I'm just more fortunate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On the contrary OP; I'm chatting to, with a view to meeting, some very nice ladies of exceptional quality. Maybe I'm just more fortunate. "

How many of them are 'real'

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"On the contrary OP; I'm chatting to, with a view to meeting, some very nice ladies of exceptional quality. Maybe I'm just more fortunate. "

Wait for a comment asking you how many aren't fake or similar

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Oh that predictable he beat me to it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On the contrary OP; I'm chatting to, with a view to meeting, some very nice ladies of exceptional quality. Maybe I'm just more fortunate.

Wait for a comment asking you how many aren't fake or similar "

To slow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow you sound like the perfect man!

Unfucking real.

Sorry I'm literally struckdumb by this one

Can you explain why you are 'struckdumb'?"

How you can publicly announce your opinion that the female element of the site is

Of a poor quality. What gives you the right to judge someone based on them not conforming to your ideals of perfection/quality:

Everyone is unique, and just because your personally not attracted to someone's individuality does not then mean they "lack quality"

Of course you must be the "perfect human" to be able to judge others in such a manner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the contrary OP; I'm chatting to, with a view to meeting, some very nice ladies of exceptional quality. Maybe I'm just more fortunate.

How many of them are 'real' "

So far, every single one - mainly as I'm sensible enough to spot nonsense from the outset as I'm not an idiot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh shit..if the ladies on this site are of poor quality ..i guess us old,over weight balding,wheezing moaning old gits better stay quiet in the naughty chair !!!xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow you sound like the perfect man!

Unfucking real.

Sorry I'm literally struckdumb by this one

Can you explain why you are 'struckdumb'?

How you can publicly announce your opinion that the female element of the site is

Of a poor quality. What gives you the right to judge someone based on them not conforming to your ideals of perfection/quality:

Everyone is unique, and just because your personally not attracted to someone's individuality does not then mean they "lack quality"

Of course you must be the "perfect human" to be able to judge others in such a manner "

Firstly , you need to read what I have written . Secondly I am entitled to my opinion . Thirdly , do you meet everyone that messages you??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On the contrary OP; I'm chatting to, with a view to meeting, some very nice ladies of exceptional quality. Maybe I'm just more fortunate.

How many of them are 'real'

So far, every single one - mainly as I'm sensible enough to spot nonsense from the outset as I'm not an idiot. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow you sound like the perfect man!

Unfucking real.

Sorry I'm literally struckdumb by this one

Can you explain why you are 'struckdumb'?

How you can publicly announce your opinion that the female element of the site is

Of a poor quality. What gives you the right to judge someone based on them not conforming to your ideals of perfection/quality:

Everyone is unique, and just because your personally not attracted to someone's individuality does not then mean they "lack quality"

Of course you must be the "perfect human" to be able to judge others in such a manner

Firstly , you need to read what I have written . Secondly I am entitled to my opinion . Thirdly , do you meet everyone that messages you?? "

No I do not, based on the fact there's

No attraction, but I would never, and I'm sure others would agree, elude to a dip in standards, its rude, and pretty bloody hurtful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow you sound like the perfect man!

Unfucking real.

Sorry I'm literally struckdumb by this one

Can you explain why you are 'struckdumb'?

How you can publicly announce your opinion that the female element of the site is

Of a poor quality. What gives you the right to judge someone based on them not conforming to your ideals of perfection/quality:

Everyone is unique, and just because your personally not attracted to someone's individuality does not then mean they "lack quality"

Of course you must be the "perfect human" to be able to judge others in such a manner

Firstly , you need to read what I have written . Secondly I am entitled to my opinion . Thirdly , do you meet everyone that messages you??

No I do not, based on the fact there's

No attraction, but I would never, and I'm sure others would agree, elude to a dip in standards, its rude, and pretty bloody hurtful "

So you have standards? But everyone is unique?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

What floats your boat is different to what floats others boats, it doesn't mean they are not quality, they are just not quality to you...but I am guessing you know that

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

No nit-picking please

Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it. We want the forum to be open and friendly to newbies and everyone starts somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow you sound like the perfect man!

Unfucking real.

Sorry I'm literally struckdumb by this one

Can you explain why you are 'struckdumb'?

How you can publicly announce your opinion that the female element of the site is

Of a poor quality. What gives you the right to judge someone based on them not conforming to your ideals of perfection/quality:

Everyone is unique, and just because your personally not attracted to someone's individuality does not then mean they "lack quality"

Of course you must be the "perfect human" to be able to judge others in such a manner

Firstly , you need to read what I have written . Secondly I am entitled to my opinion . Thirdly , do you meet everyone that messages you??

No I do not, based on the fact there's

No attraction, but I would never, and I'm sure others would agree, elude to a dip in standards, its rude, and pretty bloody hurtful

So you have standards? But everyone is unique? "

Have I used the term standards? I don't have a tick list, and I've found myself attracted to different people qualities in different people. You're either attracted or your not, as in all walks of life whether it be a platonic friendship or a fab meet. Your attraction or lack there of does not give you grounds to question the so called "quality" of that person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I may wish to only meet David Boreanez on here Op. But certainly wouldn't start a thread whining that there's a lack of guys that weren't him on here lol! Or that other guys weren't as good because they weren't him lol. People are varied and if not to my taste then just move on to someone who is ...no fan fare or thread required.

If there's less and less people that interest you then you can either focus on the ones who do or leave .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow you sound like the perfect man!

Unfucking real.

Sorry I'm literally struckdumb by this one

Can you explain why you are 'struckdumb'?

How you can publicly announce your opinion that the female element of the site is

Of a poor quality. What gives you the right to judge someone based on them not conforming to your ideals of perfection/quality:

Everyone is unique, and just because your personally not attracted to someone's individuality does not then mean they "lack quality"

Of course you must be the "perfect human" to be able to judge others in such a manner

Firstly , you need to read what I have written . Secondly I am entitled to my opinion . Thirdly , do you meet everyone that messages you??

No I do not, based on the fact there's

No attraction, but I would never, and I'm sure others would agree, elude to a dip in standards, its rude, and pretty bloody hurtful

So you have standards? But everyone is unique?

Have I used the term standards? I don't have a tick list, and I've found myself attracted to different people qualities in different people. You're either attracted or your not, as in all walks of life whether it be a platonic friendship or a fab meet. Your attraction or lack there of does not give you grounds to question the so called "quality" of that person. "

But you are judging the 'quality' of that person every time you delete or don't reply to their message . Whether it is based on their looks , perceived intelligence or any number of various factors .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I may wish to only meet David Boreanez on here Op. But certainly wouldn't start a thread whining that there's a lack of guys that weren't him on here lol! Or that other guys weren't as good because they weren't him lol. People are varied and if not to my taste then just move on to someone who is ...no fan fare or thread required.

If there's less and less people that interest you then you can either focus on the ones who do or leave .

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Fair enough, if there are less and less forum threads that interest you then you can either focus on the ones that do or leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Poor quality women.....what would be good quality in your opinion OP?

Btw do you meet every person who messages you?? "

If we did we'd be meeting a few every day.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I may wish to only meet David Boreanez on here Op. But certainly wouldn't start a thread whining that there's a lack of guys that weren't him on here lol! Or that other guys weren't as good because they weren't him lol. People are varied and if not to my taste then just move on to someone who is ...no fan fare or thread required.

If there's less and less people that interest you then you can either focus on the ones who do or leave .

Fair enough, if there are less and less forum threads that interest you then you can either focus on the ones that do or leave "

Where did I say any threads weren't of interest to me exactly ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I may wish to only meet David Boreanez on here Op. But certainly wouldn't start a thread whining that there's a lack of guys that weren't him on here lol! Or that other guys weren't as good because they weren't him lol. People are varied and if not to my taste then just move on to someone who is ...no fan fare or thread required.

If there's less and less people that interest you then you can either focus on the ones who do or leave .

Fair enough, if there are less and less forum threads that interest you then you can either focus on the ones that do or leave

Where did I say any threads weren't of interest to me exactly ??

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Where did I say that I wanted to leave fab?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Poor quality women.....what would be good quality in your opinion OP?

Btw do you meet every person who messages you??

If we did we'd be meeting a few every day. "

Why don't you meet everyone, are they not up to your 'standards'?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Is tact and diplomacy a measure of quality I wonder?!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"You still never answered the question. .. why stay here if you aren't finding what you want ?

I am finding what I want, if you re read my OP I state that it is still a good site, my only gripe is that the number of women I am attracted to is dwindling . Am I entitled to express this opinion?"

Of course you are, but there's absolutely nothing the rest of us can do about it, and lots you can do about it.

TBH I am always surprised to see you posting on the forums as there was a post a few months ago where you said you'd had enough of us all and would never post here again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is tact and diplomacy a measure of quality I wonder?! "

No, it's purely aesthetic . Would you fuck someone you thought was ugly if they had tact and diplomacy

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Just said you have choice Op .

If something has got to the stage you are complaining theres less and less of the quality you want then hardly reason to stay . you have choice to accept it will be rare you'll get a meet or leave. Don't stay in a situation you are not happy with and gripe about it .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You still never answered the question. .. why stay here if you aren't finding what you want ?

I am finding what I want, if you re read my OP I state that it is still a good site, my only gripe is that the number of women I am attracted to is dwindling . Am I entitled to express this opinion?

Of course you are, but there's absolutely nothing the rest of us can do about it, and lots you can do about it.

TBH I am always surprised to see you posting on the forums as there was a post a few months ago where you said you'd had enough of us all and would never post here again."

No I didn't ,

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Love it Ms

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just said you have choice Op .

If something has got to the stage you are complaining theres less and less of the quality you want then hardly reason to stay . you have choice to accept it will be rare you'll get a meet or leave. Don't stay in a situation you are not happy with and gripe about it .

"

I am happy on here just less happy than I was a couple of years ago . I was sharing my observations .

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Is tact and diplomacy a measure of quality I wonder?!

No, it's purely aesthetic . Would you fuck someone you thought was ugly if they had tact and diplomacy "

Would you fuck a person just because they looked good and had zero personality or disgusting attitude op ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poking head round licking an ice cream

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is tact and diplomacy a measure of quality I wonder?!

No, it's purely aesthetic . Would you fuck someone you thought was ugly if they had tact and diplomacy

Would you fuck a person just because they looked good and had zero personality or disgusting attitude op ??"

Yes, most man say differently are liars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The "less quality" about women are not the words i would have chosen, it sounds pretty rude in my opinion..

You could have said : it's getting more difficult everyday for me to find the type of woman i'm looking for.

The quality thing makes you sound for the guy who loves himself and thinks he's a god in a world of Men.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Just said you have choice Op .

If something has got to the stage you are complaining theres less and less of the quality you want then hardly reason to stay . you have choice to accept it will be rare you'll get a meet or leave. Don't stay in a situation you are not happy with and gripe about it .

I am happy on here just less happy than I was a couple of years ago . I was sharing my observations . "

No with further comments you made about if others didn't like what you said they'd have to ask themselves why that is .. and only those you won't meet would take offence you are clearly trying to be inflammatory.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Is tact and diplomacy a measure of quality I wonder?!

No, it's purely aesthetic . Would you fuck someone you thought was ugly if they had tact and diplomacy

Would you fuck a person just because they looked good and had zero personality or disgusting attitude op ??

Yes, most man say differently are liars "

Well that says everything doesn't it lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The "less quality" about women are not the words i would have chosen, it sounds pretty rude in my opinion..

You could have said : it's getting more difficult everyday for me to find the type of woman i'm looking for.

The quality thing makes you sound for the guy who loves himself and thinks he's a god in a world of Men."

I agree , the wording wasn't the best, however People often talk about 'having standards' or 'being picky' which is basically the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is tact and diplomacy a measure of quality I wonder?!

No, it's purely aesthetic . Would you fuck someone you thought was ugly if they had tact and diplomacy

Would you fuck a person just because they looked good and had zero personality or disgusting attitude op ??

Yes, most man say differently are liars

Well that says everything doesn't it lol.

"

Does it?? Are you shocked to hear that most men would fuck a woman on a sex site based on her looks and not her personality ?

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

OP you have just confirmed your only standard is they look good lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I agree , the wording wasn't the best, however People often talk about 'having standards' or 'being picky' which is basically the same "

You've got a point here, but then, it's your standards and your expectations that went up ? Or just no luck and sadly all the women filling your boxes are leaving/gone ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just said you have choice Op .

If something has got to the stage you are complaining theres less and less of the quality you want then hardly reason to stay . you have choice to accept it will be rare you'll get a meet or leave. Don't stay in a situation you are not happy with and gripe about it .

I am happy on here just less happy than I was a couple of years ago . I was sharing my observations .

No with further comments you made about if others didn't like what you said they'd have to ask themselves why that is .. and only those you won't meet would take offence you are clearly trying to be inflammatory. "

But why would people take offence at what I have said?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Fabswingers is sorry that the women fall outside of your high standards and do take your gripe seriously. Every efforts are made to ensure enough top quality totty is available for all to enjoy.

If you feel you're being let down, perhaps POF or Tinder would be a better choice for you.'

Your statutory rights are not affect should you choose to go UNLOS in the pursuit of primo quality pussy.

"

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"'Fabswingers is sorry that the women fall outside of your high standards and do take your gripe seriously. Every efforts are made to ensure enough top quality totty is available for all to enjoy.

If you feel you're being let down, perhaps POF or Tinder would be a better choice for you.'

Your statutory rights are not affect should you choose to go UNLOS in the pursuit of primo quality pussy.

"

Or...just f*ck off from the site then!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I agree , the wording wasn't the best, however People often talk about 'having standards' or 'being picky' which is basically the same

You've got a point here, but then, it's your standards and your expectations that went up ? Or just no luck and sadly all the women filling your boxes are leaving/gone ?"

My standards haven't gone up, I just find the number of women who fit my criteria are more difficult to find . Some have left and others join then quickly leave ,however the number of couples I message and meet have increased .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"'Fabswingers is sorry that the women fall outside of your high standards and do take your gripe seriously. Every efforts are made to ensure enough top quality totty is available for all to enjoy.

If you feel you're being let down, perhaps POF or Tinder would be a better choice for you.'

Your statutory rights are not affect should you choose to go UNLOS in the pursuit of primo quality pussy.

Or...just f*ck off from the site then! "

Haha, why should I?

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Is tact and diplomacy a measure of quality I wonder?!

No, it's purely aesthetic . Would you fuck someone you thought was ugly if they had tact and diplomacy

Would you fuck a person just because they looked good and had zero personality or disgusting attitude op ??

Yes, most man say differently are liars

Well that says everything doesn't it lol.

Does it?? Are you shocked to hear that most men would fuck a woman on a sex site based on her looks and not her personality ?"

Where do I say I'm shocked ? Lol

Alot would fuck a hole in a doughnut given half a chance .

But also a lot who wouldn't and require substance in a meet .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I agree , the wording wasn't the best, however People often talk about 'having standards' or 'being picky' which is basically the same

You've got a point here, but then, it's your standards and your expectations that went up ? Or just no luck and sadly all the women filling your boxes are leaving/gone ?

My standards haven't gone up, I just find the number of women who fit my criteria are more difficult to find . Some have left and others join then quickly leave ,however the number of couples I message and meet have increased . "

There you go then, they've all got married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just said you have choice Op .

If something has got to the stage you are complaining theres less and less of the quality you want then hardly reason to stay . you have choice to accept it will be rare you'll get a meet or leave. Don't stay in a situation you are not happy with and gripe about it .

I am happy on here just less happy than I was a couple of years ago . I was sharing my observations .

No with further comments you made about if others didn't like what you said they'd have to ask themselves why that is .. and only those you won't meet would take offence you are clearly trying to be inflammatory.

But why would people take offence at what I have said? "

probably because it was very deliberately offensive..as you are very well aware..clearly you just want an argument for some reason...maybe the heat is getting to you..

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"This is still a good site but the quality of females on here has dropped drastically recently . Is there a genuine reason why attractive women are not joining and staying anymore ? Btw I can not comment on the quality of the men in here as I dont look for or message them

Excuse me. That's a bold statement. I think I'm quality. Maybe you are looking in the wrong place. Let me have a look at you and see what I think. Because I have very high standards

Oh he isn't brave enough to show himself. Obviously fearful that his devastatingly good looks will make the Fab community collectively swoon"

Or be sick...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just said you have choice Op .

If something has got to the stage you are complaining theres less and less of the quality you want then hardly reason to stay . you have choice to accept it will be rare you'll get a meet or leave. Don't stay in a situation you are not happy with and gripe about it .

I am happy on here just less happy than I was a couple of years ago . I was sharing my observations .

No with further comments you made about if others didn't like what you said they'd have to ask themselves why that is .. and only those you won't meet would take offence you are clearly trying to be inflammatory.

But why would people take offence at what I have said?

probably because it was very deliberately offensive..as you are very well aware..clearly you just want an argument for some reason...maybe the heat is getting to you.."

Hi there, I hope you are having a nice day? Do we know each other?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Is tact and diplomacy a measure of quality I wonder?!

No, it's purely aesthetic . Would you fuck someone you thought was ugly if they had tact and diplomacy "

I would have the tact and diplomacy not to start a thread about not wanting to fuck certain people. That's the difference.

Someone's personality is part of what makes them attractive to me. Turned down some absolute stunners because they had a shit personality, met some guys who were not models and had the time of my life.

No one anywhere has said you have to fuck the people you don't like . I have no clue why you are asking that question of everyone who disagrees with you

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Just said you have choice Op .

If something has got to the stage you are complaining theres less and less of the quality you want then hardly reason to stay . you have choice to accept it will be rare you'll get a meet or leave. Don't stay in a situation you are not happy with and gripe about it .

I am happy on here just less happy than I was a couple of years ago . I was sharing my observations .

No with further comments you made about if others didn't like what you said they'd have to ask themselves why that is .. and only those you won't meet would take offence you are clearly trying to be inflammatory.

But why would people take offence at what I have said? "

Because that what you are aiming for with those comments and choice of words op

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is still a good site but the quality of females on here has dropped drastically recently . Is there a genuine reason why attractive women are not joining and staying anymore ? Btw I can not comment on the quality of the men in here as I dont look for or message them

Excuse me. That's a bold statement. I think I'm quality. Maybe you are looking in the wrong place. Let me have a look at you and see what I think. Because I have very high standards

Oh he isn't brave enough to show himself. Obviously fearful that his devastatingly good looks will make the Fab community collectively swoon

Or be sick..."

Hi there, I hope you are enjoying your day. Do we know each other

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just said you have choice Op .

If something has got to the stage you are complaining theres less and less of the quality you want then hardly reason to stay . you have choice to accept it will be rare you'll get a meet or leave. Don't stay in a situation you are not happy with and gripe about it .

I am happy on here just less happy than I was a couple of years ago . I was sharing my observations .

No with further comments you made about if others didn't like what you said they'd have to ask themselves why that is .. and only those you won't meet would take offence you are clearly trying to be inflammatory.

But why would people take offence at what I have said?

Because that what you are aiming for with those comments and choice of words op

"

He/she who takes offence when no offence was intended is a fool .And he/she who takes offence when offence was intended is a greater fool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is still a good site but the quality of females on here has dropped drastically recently . Is there a genuine reason why attractive women are not joining and staying anymore ? Btw I can not comment on the quality of the men in here as I dont look for or message them "

If they can't find any men they are attracted to then they will probably leave the site.

Nice thread OP. The forums love a Sunday rant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blame the decline in quality single guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I blame the decline in quality single guys. "

You could be right, it is a vicious circle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I blame the decline in quality single guys.

You could be right, it is a vicious circle. "

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over a year ago


"This is still a good site but the quality of females on here has dropped drastically recently . Is there a genuine reason why attractive women are not joining and staying anymore ? Btw I can not comment on the quality of the men in here as I dont look for or message them

Jesus you should see the blokes...

Munters !!!"
fuck off lol I'm a grunter not a munter x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"This is still a good site but the quality of females on here has dropped drastically recently . Is there a genuine reason why attractive women are not joining and staying anymore ? Btw I can not comment on the quality of the men in here as I dont look for or message them

Excuse me. That's a bold statement. I think I'm quality. Maybe you are looking in the wrong place. Let me have a look at you and see what I think. Because I have very high standards

Oh he isn't brave enough to show himself. Obviously fearful that his devastatingly good looks will make the Fab community collectively swoon

Or be sick...

Hi there, I hope you are enjoying your day. Do we know each other "

Thankfully fucking no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just said you have choice Op .

If something has got to the stage you are complaining theres less and less of the quality you want then hardly reason to stay . you have choice to accept it will be rare you'll get a meet or leave. Don't stay in a situation you are not happy with and gripe about it .

I am happy on here just less happy than I was a couple of years ago . I was sharing my observations .

No with further comments you made about if others didn't like what you said they'd have to ask themselves why that is .. and only those you won't meet would take offence you are clearly trying to be inflammatory.

But why would people take offence at what I have said?

Because that what you are aiming for with those comments and choice of words op

He/she who takes offence when no offence was intended is a fool .And he/she who takes offence when offence was intended is a greater fool"

So your intention was to cause offence?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"

He/she who takes offence when no offence was intended is a fool .And he/she who takes offence when offence was intended is a greater fool"

If you had worded your OP differently you wouldn't have got the reactions you have had, but I think you know that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not think that the quality of females has changed. I do think that the volume of men has changed and that means that most females get bombarded with a percentage of idiots which means that they are more likely to meet at clubs. Having met men previously I can say that even bi blokes get hit by messages such as 'meet now' or 'fancy a fuck' when they have not even read my profile. As an experiment (I used to promote my own dating sites) I set up a womans profile on here and on POF and within a week both had over 150 messages, most where blunt and pathetic and not even with replying to, to futher the experiment. Of course about 10-15% where great. It is no better on POF as a guy. I have had like 3 dates in 2 years, most women do not reply and many reply with one word. Some also do not read my profile at all! Hence I am still single and looking. I think that a) there is a high expectation to meet and b) swinging and dating has become normalized online so that people get saturated with messages.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Just said you have choice Op .

If something has got to the stage you are complaining theres less and less of the quality you want then hardly reason to stay . you have choice to accept it will be rare you'll get a meet or leave. Don't stay in a situation you are not happy with and gripe about it .

I am happy on here just less happy than I was a couple of years ago . I was sharing my observations .

No with further comments you made about if others didn't like what you said they'd have to ask themselves why that is .. and only those you won't meet would take offence you are clearly trying to be inflammatory.

But why would people take offence at what I have said?

Because that what you are aiming for with those comments and choice of words op

He/she who takes offence when no offence was intended is a fool .And he/she who takes offence when offence was intended is a greater fool

So your intention was to cause offence? "

To be fair, he's being pretty consistent.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is still a good site but the quality of females on here has dropped drastically recently . Is there a genuine reason why attractive women are not joining and staying anymore ? Btw I can not comment on the quality of the men in here as I dont look for or message them

Excuse me. That's a bold statement. I think I'm quality. Maybe you are looking in the wrong place. Let me have a look at you and see what I think. Because I have very high standards

Oh he isn't brave enough to show himself. Obviously fearful that his devastatingly good looks will make the Fab community collectively swoon

Or be sick...

Hi there, I hope you are enjoying your day. Do we know each other

Thankfully fucking no."

Ah, do you often make judgements on people you don't know ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just said you have choice Op .

If something has got to the stage you are complaining theres less and less of the quality you want then hardly reason to stay . you have choice to accept it will be rare you'll get a meet or leave. Don't stay in a situation you are not happy with and gripe about it .

I am happy on here just less happy than I was a couple of years ago . I was sharing my observations .

No with further comments you made about if others didn't like what you said they'd have to ask themselves why that is .. and only those you won't meet would take offence you are clearly trying to be inflammatory.

But why would people take offence at what I have said?

Because that what you are aiming for with those comments and choice of words op

He/she who takes offence when no offence was intended is a fool .And he/she who takes offence when offence was intended is a greater fool

So your intention was to cause offence? "

Was it? Either way if you have taken offence you are a fool

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

When people post can you not discuss the OP profile as it is against rules

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do not think that the quality of females has changed. I do think that the volume of men has changed and that means that most females get bombarded with a percentage of idiots which means that they are more likely to meet at clubs. Having met men previously I can say that even bi blokes get hit by messages such as 'meet now' or 'fancy a fuck' when they have not even read my profile. As an experiment (I used to promote my own dating sites) I set up a womans profile on here and on POF and within a week both had over 150 messages, most where blunt and pathetic and not even with replying to, to futher the experiment. Of course about 10-15% where great. It is no better on POF as a guy. I have had like 3 dates in 2 years, most women do not reply and many reply with one word. Some also do not read my profile at all! Hence I am still single and looking. I think that a) there is a high expectation to meet and b) swinging and dating has become normalized online so that people get saturated with messages."

Very good points .

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


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Was it? Either way if you have taken offence you are a fool "

And you are breaking forum rules by abusing people. We shall leave it there now.

Next time you post a provocative thread make sure you don't abuse people when they answer you

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