FabSwingers.com forum: Bad friend or not?

By *ilkchocolate87 OP Man
over a year ago

sw london

So I went out with my mate to meet a girl he is seeing and her friends. Get on really well with one of the friends, she tells me she's anti men as every guy just tries to bang her on the first date after being single for the first time in 10 years.

We swap numbers towards the end of the night and I go home and arrange to meet up this week.

My friend takes the girl he's seeing home and the friend I spoke to went with as she lived close by. Find out the girl he's seeing didn't like him anymore, decides to sleep on the sofa and the friend id been chatting to was d*unk and just threw herself at him and sleeps with him.

is it me for is the girl rather hypocritical? Do you think my friend should of said no? Why are girls such mind fucks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe you should have stayed with them

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

"So I went out with my mate to meet a girl he is seeing and her friends. Get on really well with one of the friends, she tells me she's anti men as every guy just tries to bang her on the first date after being single for the first time in 10 years.

We swap numbers towards the end of the night and I go home and arrange to meet up this week.

is it me for is the girl rather hypocritical? Do you think my friend should of said no? Why are girls such mind fucks. "

Sounds like she just likes attention.

Anyone that moans about guys wanting to sleep with them is clearly semi boasting.

I'd avoid her if i was you, self obsessed no doubt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes you just need sex with no commitment.

It could be that she always fancied him and took a chance.

Your friend could have said no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can't help it. A confident man always gets what he wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We swap numbers towards the end of the night and I go home and arrange to meet up this week.

is it me for is the girl rather hypocritical? Do you think my friend should of said no? Why are girls such mind fucks. "

It's not just girls who are mind fucks, some men are just as bad too XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it takes 2 to tango

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they both on here

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP Man
over a year ago

sw london

This is why nice guys end up last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you ask if she is hypocritical what about the so called friend he must of know you liked yet he fucked her... and how do you know the girl through herself at him was this the mate who told you that or the girl

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

"This is why nice guys end up last"

Nah. Her comment to you about not wanting to have sex on a first date, and your politeness in respecting her wishes, shows that she thinks you're a nice guy, who she might want a relationship with, not a one-night stand.

Throwing herself at her mates new-ex, shows she was just using him for sex .... he's a d*unken one-night stand, you're a possible relationship.

Although I would think carefully about getting into a relationship with a girl who would screw her mates ex only hours after they broke up. That's against the Girl Code, in my book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its best left to jeremy kyle.. i will look out for you on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She might be regretting it terribly now. Alcohol has a lot to answer for.

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP Man
over a year ago

sw london

"This is why nice guys end up last

Throwing herself at her mates new-ex, shows she was just using him for sex .... he's a d*unken one-night stand, you're a possible relationship.

Although I would think carefully about getting into a relationship with a girl who would screw her mates ex only hours after they broke up. That's against the Girl Code, in my book.

Yea she was with someone for 10 years. Then my mate just made the most of the opportunity.

When I spoke to him he did say sorry I wasn't expecting my date to just tell me she wasn't into me. But like you said, it was just sex. We have slept with the same girls in the past but I thought this was a bit different as it more opportunist rather than deceitful.

Yeh I almost don't want her to text me. And I don't think she will.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Bit quick but technically they are both free agents.

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP Man
over a year ago

sw london

"Bit quick but technically they are both free agents.

True. Think I'm more annoyed as my dating life is going down hill. And I'm not interested in just a fuckbuddy anymore

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We swap numbers towards the end of the night and I go home and arrange to meet up this week.

is it me for is the girl rather hypocritical? Do you think my friend should of said no? Why are girls such mind fucks. "

I don't know what any of them should have done or if your friend is telling the truth. However just because she's sick of every guy who takes her out expecting sex doesn't mean that she isn't against making the first move herself.

If you're already doubting before you've been on a date don't take things any further. If you feel annoyed with your friend tell him he overstepped the mark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How well did he know you liked her? I'd say it was overstepping the Bro code if it was obvious you liked her and he knew you had taken her number!

Either way I'd just say this was a lucky escape!

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

You'll find someone who deserves you and treats you with respect. Just be patient.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"Bit quick but technically they are both free agents.

True. Think I'm more annoyed as my dating life is going down hill. And I'm not interested in just a fuckbuddy anymore "

Life is way too short, if there was something between you go for it.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

We swap numbers towards the end of the night and I go home and arrange to meet up this week.

is it me for is the girl rather hypocritical? Do you think my friend should of said no? Why are girls such mind fucks.

Sounds like she just likes attention.

Anyone that moans about guys wanting to sleep with them is clearly semi boasting.

I'd avoid her if i was you, self obsessed no doubt."

This

. What she said is a variant of "all the guys i meet are assholes" which means "i have a character flaw that doesn't deflect assholes".

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Either way I'd just say this was a lucky escape!"

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