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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello to all, I have been on this site quite a while now, I am not unique, I am in a relationship but very keen to swing, I read many profiles of ladies with similar interests to me,they don't mind threesomes swopping etc.

The first thing they ask is " are you married" and then no further reply. Are some of these Ladies looking new partners or the fun of meeting new swingers.

I remain on the site in the hope of meeting like minded ladies, my private life should be just that...

Love to hear your thoughts.. Raythom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women don't like the idea of someone cheating on their partner, they just don't. Also it does make it a lot more complicated meeting up, then their partner might find out and come calling...whole lot of trouble.

Why do people stay in relationships which aren't fulfilling their needs?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i don't like the idea of cheating either, and an attached guy just won't turn me on.

i'm monogamous and just don't feel attracted to attached men, it puts me off and is a part of my morals.

i am looking for a relationship but never have done with anyone off fab, although friends i'd fuck who aren't emotionally unavailable would have been nice.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Many women have been cheated on by a partner and know how it feels so don't want to enable it. Many more just don't want any hassle or drama. Imagine a scorned partner finding out you were the "other woman" and turning up at your door. Very few are looking for relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not try looking for ladies who are already married, as they don't mind meeting men who are already in a relationship and are much less judgemental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello to all, I have been on this site quite a while now, I am not unique, I am in a relationship but very keen to swing, I read many profiles of ladies with similar interests to me,they don't mind threesomes swopping etc.

The first thing they ask is " are you married" and then no further reply. Are some of these Ladies looking new partners or the fun of meeting new swingers.

I remain on the site in the hope of meeting like minded ladies, my private life should be just that...

Love to hear your thoughts.. Raythom."

Set up a couples profile with your partner and get swinging.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Why not try looking for ladies who are already married, as they don't mind meeting men who are already in a relationship and are much less judgemental "

The OP could also try putting on his profile that he is in a relationship. Tell people upfront to allow them to make an informed choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many women have been cheated on by a partner and know how it feels so don't want to enable it. Many more just don't want any hassle or drama. Imagine a scorned partner finding out you were the "other woman" and turning up at your door. Very few are looking for relationship. "

This ^^^

People will always make excuses to cheat "can't leave her or him because or children " or whatever but doesn't wash with Me...yes there are always circumstances but I don't want in on that so my decision would be to not reply. .delete message etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not try looking for ladies who are already married, as they don't mind meeting men who are already in a relationship and are much less judgemental

The OP could also try putting on his profile that he is in a relationship. Tell people upfront to allow them to make an informed choice. "

True..,

I was just about to add that

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

This isn't a you shouldn't be on Fab comment.

But you know there are loads of web sites out there that are specifically designed for cheaters. If you use one of them then you are unlikely to get the disapproving silence when you answer that question, if it gets asked at all, in fact the lady on the other end is probably in the same boat.

Downside - those sites aren't free, unlike this one.

So pay for approval or put up with the silent (and sometimes not so silent) disapproval on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to all that replied, thought I was being Honest.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I'm confused does your partner know you're on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women don't like the idea of someone cheating on their partner, they just don't. Also it does make it a lot more complicated meeting up, then their partner might find out and come calling...whole lot of trouble.

Why do people stay in relationships which aren't fulfilling their needs?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks to all that replied, thought I was being Honest."
your only honest if your partner knows about the meets and being on here, if so, good luck to you op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't cheat, and I'd hate to be cheated on. Therefore I won't knowingly get involved with someone else who is lying, sneaking and betrayal his/her partner. I would feel disappointed in myself for potentially bringing pain to someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another UNLOS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another UNLOS "

I wonder was he caught

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Another UNLOS

I wonder was he caught "

probably realised he wouldn't get a fuck here so left.

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By *altnpeppaCouple
over a year ago

London

He is probably already reading the thread under a different username.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"He is probably already reading the thread under a different username. "

You don't even need to be a member to read the forums, they are public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't cheat, and I'd hate to be cheated on. Therefore I won't knowingly get involved with someone else who is lying, sneaking and betrayal his/her partner. I would feel disappointed in myself for potentially bringing pain to someone else. "

My sentiments exactly x

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Why not try looking for ladies who are already married, as they don't mind meeting men who are already in a relationship and are much less judgemental "

Of cheaters.

I'm sure cheaters are just as judgemental as everyone else when it comes to something that is not a reflection on their relationship status.

Judgemental seems to becoming the word of choice for stating people should not have an opinion or should refrain from having their own moral compass.

Personally I find people with opinions interesting and having a moral compass in Life is generally thought to be a good thing. I don't expect to agree with everyone I meet and people who just flip flop with whomever spoke last are damn irritating.

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