FabSwingers.com forum: married person's home

By *ournemouthbusinessguy OP Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth

So here is a question, non judgemental! would you go to the home of a married/co habiting person if they admit the other person does not know and they want to be discreet? but they invite you over whilst the coast is clear for some Fab fun?

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

No.

But you know this thread is gonna get very judgemental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.

But you know this thread is gonna get very judgemental."

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By *ournemouthbusinessguy OP Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"No.

But you know this thread is gonna get very judgemental."

oh absolutely

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

I wouldn't fancy it tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.

But you know this thread is gonna get very judgemental.

oh absolutely

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guaranteed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well........i went round for some fun with a woman i knew was married and apparently her hubby knew she was playing and liked to hear about it....he walked in, unexpectedly as i was balls deep in her. It turned out he didnt know and was less than happy. I still had the condom on when i left the house minus my boxers and socks.......yes i take my socks off for sex. Would i risk it knowing the repercussions? i dunno. Depends how hot she was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

- Mrs. J -

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I have. It was awful and left me feeling so low. I compared my whe life to what he has there. Everything from the decor and furniture to the shampoo she used. I decided she was better than me. I fixated on her jacket that hung on the stairs and convinced myself I was complete whale and an ugly one at that compared to her. It still haunts me now.

I expect plenty to say it serves me right. It probably did. I cried the whole way home. He never really understood my awkwardness about the whole thing.

Ive spent years in competition with a woman who doesn't even know I exist and I will never win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit I did do this once but it was a fab couple and I thought she knew XXX

I wouldn't do it again, for fear of being caught and also I don't think it would be a nice thing to do XXX

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By *tevie1Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Yes if the offer was unsolicited but would not want to use the marital bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some will some won't... next question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So here is a question, non judgemental! would you go to the home of a married/co habiting person if they admit the other person does not know and they want to be discreet? but they invite you over whilst the coast is clear for some Fab fun?"

Absolutely not.

Imagine getting caught there.

No no no NO!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"well........i went round for some fun with a woman i knew was married and apparently her hubby knew she was playing and liked to hear about it....he walked in, unexpectedly as i was balls deep in her. It turned out he didnt know and was less than happy. I still had the condom on when i left the house minus my boxers and socks.......yes i take my socks off for sex. Would i risk it knowing the repercussions? i dunno. Depends how hot she was "

How uncomfortable! Shoes without socks and no undies......!!!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

No in fact a married person doing that the way the local curtain twitchers (every street as them) talk it's a pretty idiotic move on their part I'd say

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By *ournemouthbusinessguy OP Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"Some will some won't... next question. "

possibly the most pointless answer, i'm sure youre views are appreciated somewhere

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Yes if the offer was unsolicited but would not want to use the marital bed "

You're brave writing that!!

Hell fire and damnation lol...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No 100% not.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Yes if the offer was unsolicited but would not want to use the marital bed

You're brave writing that!!

Hell fire and damnation lol..."

I think he's daft writing that. I really don't think it would make much difference if it was the bed they shared together or the settee or the dining room table!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Absolutely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't... Purely for the fact that if they did come home early then you don't know how they will react... You've always got to think about your own safety when it comes to Fab meets...

In terms of judgement, il be honest I don't care, I'm not here to judge people, their circumstances or reasons for being on fab. We all have our secrets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have. It was awful and left me feeling so low. I compared my whe life to what he has there. Everything from the decor and furniture to the shampoo she used. I decided she was better than me. I fixated on her jacket that hung on the stairs and convinced myself I was complete whale and an ugly one at that compared to her. It still haunts me now.

I expect plenty to say it serves me right. It probably did. I cried the whole way home. He never really understood my awkwardness about the whole thing.

Ive spent years in competition with a woman who doesn't even know I exist and I will never win.

I admire your honesty with yourself. Your concience is well and truly tuned.

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

I am not judgmental about this only practicle. How is meeting in the other persons home while the wife hubbie is out remotly discreet?

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

or more importantly how big the hubby was, and i dont mean his dangly bit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not.

It's not my place to hinder anyone else's happiness knowingly or unknowingly.

Except my ex. He deserves it. Ha ha. Joking.

The problem with cheating is unless you're a completely emotionless person. There's repurcussions somewhere down the line. Whether it's the cheater or the cheated.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't ever put myself in that position, ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or more importantly how big the hubby was, and i dont mean his dangly bit lol

I'd have fancied my chances if it had come to blows but that wasn't really the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no way

id book a hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes the risk factor I do love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't meet someone who was cheating on their partner so no we wouldn't

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not meet a cheating piece of shit either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or more importantly how big the hubby was, and i dont mean his dangly bit lol

Or rather how fast he can cut your throat... That is, you can never know before hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it a couple of times as one offs. I felt a bit guilty afterwards but I suffer terribly from pussy blindness which renders me incapable of seeing anything wrong with it at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've done it a couple of times as one offs. I felt a bit guilty afterwards but I suffer terribly from pussy blindness which renders me incapable of seeing anything wrong with it at the time."

So wrong

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

This thread is so interesting!

I have to say..... I don't care about this side of my meet's life either way... I have done this, and have no problem doing it...

Sure they might be a cheating bastard, but I'm there to fuck him not marry him, so.... I have zero investment in how moral a person he is.

But, like, I get that my sociopathic approach to this isn't necessarily a norm. Lol

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread is so interesting!

I have to say..... I don't care about this side of my meet's life either way... I have done this, and have no problem doing it...

Sure they might be a cheating bastard, but I'm there to fuck him not marry him, so.... I have zero investment in how moral a person he is.

But, like, I get that my sociopathic approach to this isn't necessarily a norm. Lol

Would you feel different if you had kids and\or were married/attached ,mortgage ? And your partner done it to you without your consent or knowledge ? Think outside the box here"

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By *mcouple1Couple
over a year ago

nr warrington

We don't care if your attached but play in the home you share . No Way.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"This thread is so interesting!

I have to say..... I don't care about this side of my meet's life either way... I have done this, and have no problem doing it...

Sure they might be a cheating bastard, but I'm there to fuck him not marry him, so.... I have zero investment in how moral a person he is.

But, like, I get that my sociopathic approach to this isn't necessarily a norm. Lol

Would you feel different if you had kids and\or were married/attrached mortgage ? And your partner done it to you without your consent or knowledge ? Think outside the box here"

Oh ya, I've definitely thought about this. Lol. (I love that you think I haven't

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And I come to 2 conclusions:

1. "what I don't know doesn't hurt me".

2. "Even if i am hurt by this, this isn't the responsibility of whoever my husband is fucking, to monitor and police. The hurting would be 100% be done by my husband." I'd have bigger problems than worrying about the individual woman, because if it isn't her, it's be someone else.

If I say no, it's not like the cheating husband I'm fucking is going to stop cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread is so interesting!

I have to say..... I don't care about this side of my meet's life either way... I have done this, and have no problem doing it...

Sure they might be a cheating bastard, but I'm there to fuck him not marry him, so.... I have zero investment in how moral a person he is.

But, like, I get that my sociopathic approach to this isn't necessarily a norm. Lol

Would you feel different if you had kids and\or were married/attrached mortgage ? And your partner done it to you without your consent or knowledge ? Think outside the box here

Oh ya, I've definitely thought about this. Lol. (I love that you think I haven't

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And I come to 2 conclusions:

1. "what I don't know doesn't hurt me".

If I say no, it's not like the cheating husband I'm fucking is going to stop cheating."

I agree I was talking about woman who fuck men knowing they are attached and cheating. Big difference if the woman didn't know

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I agree I was talking about woman who fuck men knowing they are attached and cheating. Big difference if the woman didn't know "

No, you may have misunderstood. Sorry, to make it a bit clearer, you asked me to think of it from a wife's pov, and the above was my response if I were the wife.

I do do it with full knowledge he's cheating on his wife with me.

I'm basically saying it's not my problem. It's not my responsibility to not fuck the husband. He's gonna cheat. Not my issue.

And I like beds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree I was talking about woman who fuck men knowing they are attached and cheating. Big difference if the woman didn't know

No, you may have misunderstood. Sorry, to make it a bit clearer, you asked me to think of it from a wife's pov, and the above was my response if I were the wife.

I do do it with full knowledge he's cheating on his wife with me.

I'm basically saying it's not my problem. It's not my responsibility to not fuck the husband. He's gonna cheat. Not my issue.

And I like beds."

Ahhh that's were I'll apologise then.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I agree I was talking about woman who fuck men knowing they are attached and cheating. Big difference if the woman didn't know

No, you may have misunderstood. Sorry, to make it a bit clearer, you asked me to think of it from a wife's pov, and the above was my response if I were the wife.

I do do it with full knowledge he's cheating on his wife with me.

I'm basically saying it's not my problem. It's not my responsibility to not fuck the husband. He's gonna cheat. Not my issue.

And I like beds.

Ahhh that's were I'll apologise then. "

Oh gosh, no need. Written communication is never clear.

And yeh.... civilised discussion of differing viewpoints is all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree I was talking about woman who fuck men knowing they are attached and cheating. Big difference if the woman didn't know

No, you may have misunderstood. Sorry, to make it a bit clearer, you asked me to think of it from a wife's pov, and the above was my response if I were the wife.

I do do it with full knowledge he's cheating on his wife with me.

I'm basically saying it's not my problem. It's not my responsibility to not fuck the husband. He's gonna cheat. Not my issue.

And I like beds.

Ahhh that's were I'll apologise then.

Oh gosh, no need. Written communication is never clear.

And yeh.... civilised discussion of differing viewpoints is all good.

Very , we all have different views etc, horses for courses hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Absolutely not!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I would find no joy being with someone who is cheating behind the back of their partner. I am not one to judge as life is complex and you dont really know someone elses perpective till you been in their shoes. But I also know the pain and deverstation a cheating partner can bring and destruction it can bring to a Family. I want no part in that.

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