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"Thanks Guys, for us i think the first question is, what is a "hotwife"? It seems to mean many different things to a lot of people. The wife is not looking to have single, long term lovers that she meets on her own. For us it's more of her having fun and acting like a bit of a whore with small groups of guys infront of me that is the attraction. She loves to show off and i love to watch. Maybe that's not "hotwife" at all...what do you think?? " I think what you are interested in is very much a Hotwifing, and is much of what we do. We, with select men, have taken it a step further and are arguably touching on polyamory. But I don't think that's the norm with Hotwifing. | |||
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"Thanks Guys, for us i think the first question is, what is a "hotwife"? It seems to mean many different things to a lot of people. The wife is not looking to have single, long term lovers that she meets on her own. For us it's more of her having fun and acting like a bit of a whore with small groups of guys infront of me that is the attraction. She loves to show off and i love to watch. Maybe that's not "hotwife" at all...what do you think?? I think what you are interested in is very much a Hotwifing, and is much of what we do. We, with select men, have taken it a step further and are arguably touching on polyamory. But I don't think that's the norm with Hotwifing. " Strigt to the point explanation | |||
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"I am hugely into the idea of 'hotwife' There is a famous online forum dedicated to it x" Famous....do tell.... | |||
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"I am hugely into the idea of 'hotwife' There is a famous online forum dedicated to it x Famous....do tell...." Sent you a PM :p | |||
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"Hi Guys, As far as i am aware a cuckold enjoys watching his wife with other guys whilst being humiliated in some form or another. Where as a "Hotwife" is more about a husband enjoying his wife playing with other guys but with a degree of involvement and certainly no humiliation? I'm sure there are many that would argue that is not correct but that's our take on it. " Sounds good to me. I couldn't humiliate someone as it's not in my nature, so cuckolding is out of the question. Pity there's not more hot wife couples near me. | |||
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"Please could you give us the name of this forum as we would like to investigate? thanks" Mailed it you x | |||
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"I love to both water heater my hot wife with others, and send her out on a meet, knowing she's with a guy... It's the anticipation of when she gets home and tells all that's the turn on... Besides, it's not fair to not share her... she loves the attention." Lolol watch my wife.. not heater heater !! Ffs!! | |||
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"Hi Guys, As far as i am aware a cuckold enjoys watching his wife with other guys whilst being humiliated in some form or another. Where as a "Hotwife" is more about a husband enjoying his wife playing with other guys but with a degree of involvement and certainly no humiliation? I'm sure there are many that would argue that is not correct but that's our take on it. " Exactly, the wife likes to take control and make him feel inadequate usually in cuck, whereas hotwifing is you being a slut but turning you both on, it doesnt have to be watched either, you could just go away for a weekend with permission and send him pics with a dick in your mouth or cum on your breasts. Just generally showing off what a hotwife you are but filthy too | |||
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" For us it's more of her having fun and acting like a bit of a whore with small groups of guys infront of me that is the attraction. She loves to show off and i love to watch. Maybe that's not "hotwife" at all...what do you think?? " I want the same thing | |||
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"We tend to concentrate on hotwife scenarios now more than regular swinging. It's just evolved that way & works well for us. We meet guys at clubs first but then if that goes well she will meet them on their own. Ideally her fantasy would be to go out for the night with me or on her own & be picked up in a bar by a guy or guys who are not swingers, just want to pick her up & take her somewhere to fuck. However we have tried to do this a few times without success so far. Maybe I need to set it up for her but without her knowledge to give it a nudge?" We try to go few times to hotel bars but haven't been success so far lots of eyes on wife but nothing else... | |||
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"We tend to concentrate on hotwife scenarios now more than regular swinging. It's just evolved that way & works well for us. We meet guys at clubs first but then if that goes well she will meet them on their own. Ideally her fantasy would be to go out for the night with me or on her own & be picked up in a bar by a guy or guys who are not swingers, just want to pick her up & take her somewhere to fuck. However we have tried to do this a few times without success so far. Maybe I need to set it up for her but without her knowledge to give it a nudge?" You may like the story I put in the stories and fantasies forum, called Hotel Bar | |||
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"Your post led me to look up the diffrence between cuckolding and hotwifing. Certainly learned something today. We are definitely in the hotwife category. While we happily play with couples from time to time, both of us definitely get more pleasure from watching a group of men fawning over A. Whether it is hands on her body, stroking her perfect backside as she stands at the bar or single guys trying (and often succeeding) to seduce her, and fuck her while I either watch or join in, this gives us both an enormous thrill. She feels incredibly empowered by the whole process, I love the fact that I am in love with a beautiful woman that men fall over themselves to try and seduce. We get so turned on by it and the sex that we have afterwards is always mindblowing. I constantly have to pinch myself to ensure that I am not dreaming and I really do have the sexiest woman who is so open to adventure. Our relationship has bloomed in the most wonderful way. " | |||
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"What's the difference between cuckolding and hotwifing (is that a word?) Id always considered my fantasy cuckolding but now I'm not sure. Not bothered about having a label just curious...." The simple differences are Hotwifing, the husband enjoys and encourages the wife to take on extra lovers. And so involved. Cuckolding, the husband has not say in what the does, can be humiliated by wife and lover. Also met not be having sex with the wife or in chastity. Not involved other than to be laughed at. | |||
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"Your post led me to look up the diffrence between cuckolding and hotwifing. Certainly learned something today. We are definitely in the hotwife category. While we happily play with couples from time to time, both of us definitely get more pleasure from watching a group of men fawning over A. Whether it is hands on her body, stroking her perfect backside as she stands at the bar or single guys trying (and often succeeding) to seduce her, and fuck her while I either watch or join in, this gives us both an enormous thrill. She feels incredibly empowered by the whole process, I love the fact that I am in love with a beautiful woman that men fall over themselves to try and seduce. We get so turned on by it and the sex that we have afterwards is always mindblowing. I constantly have to pinch myself to ensure that I am not dreaming and I really do have the sexiest woman who is so open to adventure. Our relationship has bloomed in the most wonderful way. " It is a shame you have blocked single guys | |||
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" It is a shame you have blocked single guys " Had forgotten that we did that. Was set ages ago. Preferences changed | |||
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"Your post led me to look up the diffrence between cuckolding and hotwifing. Certainly learned something today. We are definitely in the hotwife category. While we happily play with couples from time to time, both of us definitely get more pleasure from watching a group of men fawning over A. Whether it is hands on her body, stroking her perfect backside as she stands at the bar or single guys trying (and often succeeding) to seduce her, and fuck her while I either watch or join in, this gives us both an enormous thrill. She feels incredibly empowered by the whole process, I love the fact that I am in love with a beautiful woman that men fall over themselves to try and seduce. We get so turned on by it and the sex that we have afterwards is always mindblowing. I constantly have to pinch myself to ensure that I am not dreaming and I really do have the sexiest woman who is so open to adventure. Our relationship has bloomed in the most wonderful way. " Excellent post. In fact pinched this so I could vocalise to my wife why I love it so much. | |||
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"What's the difference between cuckolding and hotwifing (is that a word?) Id always considered my fantasy cuckolding but now I'm not sure. Not bothered about having a label just curious...." Cuckolding is more about the quality of the sex , often the female is in control , chooses the guy for his size, stamina etc has a select few guys who match her needs , it doesn't have to involve humiliation. Hotwifing is more about the female being slutty , having sex with many guys rather than a select few , often it's for the pleasure of her partner as well as hers . There are many other differences, I'd recommend doing a search " the difference between cuckold and hotwife" | |||
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"What's the difference between cuckolding and hotwifing (is that a word?) Id always considered my fantasy cuckolding but now I'm not sure. Not bothered about having a label just curious.... Cuckolding is more about the quality of the sex , often the female is in control , chooses the guy for his size, stamina etc has a select few guys who match her needs , it doesn't have to involve humiliation. Hotwifing is more about the female being slutty , having sex with many guys rather than a select few , often it's for the pleasure of her partner as well as hers . There are many other differences, I'd recommend doing a search " the difference between cuckold and hotwife" " nailed it. | |||
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"Hi Guys, As far as i am aware a cuckold enjoys watching his wife with other guys whilst being humiliated in some form or another. Where as a "Hotwife" is more about a husband enjoying his wife playing with other guys but with a degree of involvement and certainly no humiliation? I'm sure there are many that would argue that is not correct but that's our take on it. " We are totally with you on this definition! | |||
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"Hi Guys, As far as i am aware a cuckold enjoys watching his wife with other guys whilst being humiliated in some form or another. Where as a "Hotwife" is more about a husband enjoying his wife playing with other guys but with a degree of involvement and certainly no humiliation? I'm sure there are many that would argue that is not correct but that's our take on it. " This is pretty close to how we view it. Absolutely love watching my partner enjoy herself while also being able to hold & kiss her at the same time. So erotic! | |||
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"One of the things we love about the whole scene is the psyscological aspects. Sometimes people watching can be really interesting within clubs and parties. The Hotwife and Cuck differentials are certainly one of them. We certainly see ourselves in the Hotwife bracket, we are both independent, confident and certainly not interested in humiliating or demeaning each other. But we love watching each other's pleasure...and enhancing it where possible. Our only advice to the potential +1 guys looking for suitable Hotwife cpls to join is to understand their situation and your role in it. You still have to seduce the lady, but also have her husband trust you enough so he is confident enough about her safety, security and wellbeing. This is especially important if the meet is to be unchaperoned. We love the total freedom that brings, along with the intensity of the unknown factor for the uninvolved party, but can only happen once that trust has evolved. With all that said of course.....If Rose calls me from a night out and says she's met a guy in a bar and wants to fuck him.......who am I to deny her " Best advice we have read so far guys | |||
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"One of the things we love about the whole scene is the psyscological aspects. Sometimes people watching can be really interesting within clubs and parties. The Hotwife and Cuck differentials are certainly one of them. We certainly see ourselves in the Hotwife bracket, we are both independent, confident and certainly not interested in humiliating or demeaning each other. But we love watching each other's pleasure...and enhancing it where possible. Our only advice to the potential +1 guys looking for suitable Hotwife cpls to join is to understand their situation and your role in it. You still have to seduce the lady, but also have her husband trust you enough so he is confident enough about her safety, security and wellbeing. This is especially important if the meet is to be unchaperoned. We love the total freedom that brings, along with the intensity of the unknown factor for the uninvolved party, but can only happen once that trust has evolved. With all that said of course.....If Rose calls me from a night out and says she's met a guy in a bar and wants to fuck him.......who am I to deny her " Hit the nail on the head. | |||
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"Your post led me to look up the diffrence between cuckolding and hotwifing. Certainly learned something today. We are definitely in the hotwife category. While we happily play with couples from time to time, both of us definitely get more pleasure from watching a group of men fawning over A. Whether it is hands on her body, stroking her perfect backside as she stands at the bar or single guys trying (and often succeeding) to seduce her, and fuck her while I either watch or join in, this gives us both an enormous thrill. She feels incredibly empowered by the whole process, I love the fact that I am in love with a beautiful woman that men fall over themselves to try and seduce. We get so turned on by it and the sex that we have afterwards is always mindblowing. I constantly have to pinch myself to ensure that I am not dreaming and I really do have the sexiest woman who is so open to adventure" Wish we had more time to explore this more. We love this | |||
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"Little Update for you guys who took the time to come back to us and say how interested you were in our little Hotwife idea! We now have two guys in a chat group that Tonic is getting to know and is happily showing herself too (very sexy to see). Maybe one more guy and then we will look at arranging a hotel meet!! Watch this space " Amazing ! Have fun you naughty pair The naked's Xx | |||
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"Little Update for you guys who took the time to come back to us and say how interested you were in our little Hotwife idea! We now have two guys in a chat group that Tonic is getting to know and is happily showing herself too (very sexy to see). Maybe one more guy and then we will look at arranging a hotel meet!! Watch this space " If you are still looking for the third........ MDgent on kik X | |||
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"We tend to concentrate on hotwife scenarios now more than regular swinging. It's just evolved that way & works well for us. We meet guys at clubs first but then if that goes well she will meet them on their own. Ideally her fantasy would be to go out for the night with me or on her own & be picked up in a bar by a guy or guys who are not swingers, just want to pick her up & take her somewhere to fuck. However we have tried to do this a few times without success so far. Maybe I need to set it up for her but without her knowledge to give it a nudge?" Well, if you want to set it up with me, I won't be complaining....... | |||
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