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By *iAndyP OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Hi every one,I need some advice ive got a mate he's 36 and gay been in a relationship with a man since he was 16.We were discusing fantasies and his biggie is he wants to have sex with a woman.From what he has said it would have to be a mmf 3some as hes worried he wont be able to perform on a one to one.Do you think I would be wrong to try to find him a willing woman or a couple to fulfill his fantasy as a surpize ? All replies welcome this is a genuine question.

Cheers Swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the point he's gay he says he can't even get it up with a woman and lets be honest more interested in the man plus he's 36 and has a bf so seems a daft idea.

It's fantasy thats all.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I think he'd have more success paying for it. His chances as a single male are pretty slim to start with and being inexperienced with women is unlikely to help his cause. That said, if you look long enough and ask enough people then someone will go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the point he's gay he says he can't even get it up with a woman and lets be honest more interested in the man plus he's 36 and has a bf so seems a daft idea.

It's fantasy thats all."
agree there if he cannot get it up no point unless he takes viagra or gets bummed while stuck up here or he could try a strap on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think he'd have more success paying for it. His chances as a single male are pretty slim to start with and being inexperienced with women is unlikely to help his cause. That said, if you look long enough and ask enough people then someone will go for it"

Pretty much this.

I don't know any woman who would be happy to fuck a guy who says he might not even be able to get turned on by her. I'm sure if you look hard enough, but still....

Fantasies are sometimes best left as fantasies.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No it's not wrong just so long as everyone knows what's what including his partner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he will not know until he try it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant understand why he wants to try it if he is gay. Surely a Mmm threesome would be better to try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope this doesn't go down wrongly, or seem "politically incorrect ".... but maybe a convincing TV could be a kind of half-way house?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope this doesn't go down wrongly, or seem "politically incorrect ".... but maybe a convincing TV could be a kind of half-way house?"
thats even harder to find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant understand why he wants to try it if he is gay. Surely a Mmm threesome would be better to try "
its like many a thing some lesbians want to go through child birth to experience the ... but never have sex with a man

many a thing is around i suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant understand why he wants to try it if he is gay. Surely a Mmm threesome would be better to try its like many a thing some lesbians want to go through child birth to experience the ... but never have sex with a man

many a thing is around i suppose"

That is different as they dont have to interact with anyone sexually during the pregnancy or childbirth.

But I guess we all have our kinks. Just find it odd, like so many things. that get posted on these forums lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm not sure if the guy would be interested in the lady. Maybe he could watch?

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I don't see the problem with this at all. It's no different to anyone else wanting to explore what is effectively a bi-curious fantasy for the first time.

As for the performance issue, I know of a few straight blokes who have failed to become aroused with a woman. Sexuality had nothing to do with it then so why should him being gay be a reason not to try?

OP, would your friend be looking for a couple where the male is bi? Or is it just a 1-1 encounter with a woman he's after? He'd probably stand a better chance with a couple such as that, assuming he'd be happy to play with the guy too.

Best of luck to him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see the problem with this at all. It's no different to anyone else wanting to explore what is effectively a bi-curious fantasy for the first time.

As for the performance issue, I know of a few straight blokes who have failed to become aroused with a woman. Sexuality had nothing to do with it then so why should him being gay be a reason not to try?

OP, would your friend be looking for a couple where the male is bi? Or is it just a 1-1 encounter with a woman he's after? He'd probably stand a better chance with a couple such as that, assuming he'd be happy to play with the guy too.

Best of luck to him! "

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