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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is something that has always puzzled me as I enjoy a passionate kiss on a meet. Ive met quite a few women who wont kiss but are happy to suck my cock and swallow my cum!! I was wondering if others have had the same experience??

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I couldn't not kiss...

kissing is what starts my engines and if I didn't get to kiss the person I certainly couldn't do anything else...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't not kiss...

kissing is what starts my engines and if I didn't get to kiss the person I certainly couldn't do anything else... "
This

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I prefer having a snog with a lady during a meet to get things building up otherwise it doesn't feel as exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is something that has always puzzled me as I enjoy a passionate kiss on a meet. Ive met quite a few women who wont kiss but are happy to suck my cock and swallow my cum!! I was wondering if others have had the same experience??"
im one of those women.

Have you thought that maybe they just dont like too?? For me as a general rule kissing another man makes me feel uncomfortable and uneasy. Its a preference same as anal or cum on face etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love kissing -

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

A total no no for me if a profile says no kissing.

I respect the views and simply move on.. but seriously would be interested in finding out what this is about..

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By *taceylacyCouple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

I wouldn't let a guy fuck me unless he snogged me

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Some people I like to kiss and some I don't - depends on whether they come at me like a washing machine....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not kissing is generally limited to people who are one half of a couple.......it's a good sign.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So do they never kiss? I mean what about when you have sex?

I have to kiss and passionately. If the kissing is lame then in my opinion they either don't fancy me or they are crap at kissing

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"This is something that has always puzzled me as I enjoy a passionate kiss on a meet. Ive met quite a few women who wont kiss but are happy to suck my cock and swallow my cum!! I was wondering if others have had the same experience??"

Yeah, I didn't mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing definitely needed for me. Not met a guy yet who didn't want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So do they never kiss? I mean what about when you have sex?

I have to kiss and passionately. If the kissing is lame then in my opinion they either don't fancy me or they are crap at kissing "
no i never kiss a guy during sex. I managed this way for 18 years swinging. Only had 5 people refuse a a meet. And about the same number try to kiss me.

I kiss my partner but till we got together I didn't kiss partners either. I have to 100% trust someone to enjoy and get off on kissing them. Otherwise it can and does make me feel uneasy and very uncomfortable.

If I was a single lady id not kiss.. so it has nothing to do with keeping it for us. It just feels unnatural with anyone else and turns me off. I Have enjoyed playful kisses with a odd few people whom we have become friends with but even then not during sex and not full on.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I decided not to meet someone today because of a no kissing/No oral rule I was told about last night!!

No kissing, no point!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people I like to kiss and some I don't - depends on whether they come at me like a washing machine.... "

I'm sorry, can you please elaborate I so desperately want to laugh at this reply but have no clue as to how a washing machine would "come at you"

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Can't say I've kissed a man apart from my partner but I've kissed women on meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why ever not...

That first kiss tells so much the look in a girls eyes and that tingle when the kissing makes you both shiver with pleasure anticipation and the knowledge that both want the same thing with the same degree of wild driven need to kiss more kiss everywhere and knowing that there is so much more to share....

And even after bodies wrapped together kissing and sharing that mutual satisfaction soft kisses and whispered dreams...

Kissing....mmmmmmmmm always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is something that has always puzzled me as I enjoy a passionate kiss on a meet. Ive met quite a few women who wont kiss but are happy to suck my cock and swallow my cum!! I was wondering if others have had the same experience??"

On our first ever threesome T and I decided I wouldn't kiss him and keep it just for us. But as much as we had fun it just didn't have enough passion for me. Kissing is what really turns me on and excites me so since then it's always been a crucial part of our meets. I can understand couples deciding to keep it for themselves but are you talking single ladies here?

S x

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By *ild-1Woman
over a year ago

york


"I couldn't not kiss...

kissing is what starts my engines and if I didn't get to kiss the person I certainly couldn't do anything else... "

^^^^This^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So do they never kiss? I mean what about when you have sex?

I have to kiss and passionately. If the kissing is lame then in my opinion they either don't fancy me or they are crap at kissing no i never kiss a guy during sex. I managed this way for 18 years swinging. Only had 5 people refuse a a meet. And about the same number try to kiss me.

I kiss my partner but till we got together I didn't kiss partners either. I have to 100% trust someone to enjoy and get off on kissing them. Otherwise it can and does make me feel uneasy and very uncomfortable.

If I was a single lady id not kiss.. so it has nothing to do with keeping it for us. It just feels unnatural with anyone else and turns me off. I Have enjoyed playful kisses with a odd few people whom we have become friends with but even then not during sex and not full on. "

Always interesting to read someone else's point of view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people I like to kiss and some I don't - depends on whether they come at me like a washing machine....

I'm sorry, can you please elaborate I so desperately want to laugh at this reply but have no clue as to how a washing machine would "come at you" "

Have you ever heard Gene Simmons' standard joke that his tongue has a "spin and dry cycle"? It's a simile about relentless tongue action (cf. aggressively shoving tongues in, men do this a lot), which nearly never makes for a pleasant kissing experience.

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

We only kiss each other with the exception of girl girl, with us it's one of them things where we keep it for just us

Suppose it's a bit different 1 on 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing but in my experience with some couples kissing is off limits.

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

Croydon Area

I never kiss guys on our meets and we still all have an amazing time

It's clearly stated on our profile so guys can choose if to meet us or not but we won't change our mind and accept it's our loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I decided not to meet someone today because of a no kissing/No oral rule I was told about last night!!

No kissing, no point!! "

No kissing or oral?? Wtf?? By the sounds of things just wanted to get his cock wet and leave?

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I have found that a large % of guys don't know how to kiss, they take the 'washing machine' approach to kissing - loads of slobber, stick their tongue down my throat and swirl it about

It is sometimes easier to say I don't kiss than to try and avoid drowning on another persons saliva.

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By *mcouple1Couple
over a year ago

nr warrington

Fem to fem kissing only here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So do they never kiss? I mean what about when you have sex?

I have to kiss and passionately. If the kissing is lame then in my opinion they either don't fancy me or they are crap at kissing no i never kiss a guy during sex. I managed this way for 18 years swinging. Only had 5 people refuse a a meet. And about the same number try to kiss me.

I kiss my partner but till we got together I didn't kiss partners either. I have to 100% trust someone to enjoy and get off on kissing them. Otherwise it can and does make me feel uneasy and very uncomfortable.

If I was a single lady id not kiss.. so it has nothing to do with keeping it for us. It just feels unnatural with anyone else and turns me off. I Have enjoyed playful kisses with a odd few people whom we have become friends with but even then not during sex and not full on. "

Wow i find that very strange indeed as kissing is the most pleasurable thing to do but understand for some it has to be in a relationship only.

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found that a large % of guys don't know how to kiss, they take the 'washing machine' approach to kissing - loads of slobber, stick their tongue down my throat and swirl it about

It is sometimes easier to say I don't kiss than to try and avoid drowning on another persons saliva."

Oh i love tongues and a little saliva but i do not get off on anyone who does the ole tongue tennis and just pokes not actual kissing. Or just lame kissers who dont know what passionate is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously for me. No kissing, no point. A good snog is what lights my fire..

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By *ootlecplxCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

I love kissing xx it's fun and builds everything up xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is essential. I wouldn't meet anyone who wasn't prepared to kiss me.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Couldn't agree more, ,kissing is such a massive turn on but I guess kissing is too intimate if you're a woman and too gay if you're a man. All other body juices accepted though, well expect.....and.....yuk.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I decided not to meet someone today because of a no kissing/No oral rule I was told about last night!!

No kissing, no point!!

No kissing or oral?? Wtf?? By the sounds of things just wanted to get his cock wet and leave? "

That's what I thought. Couldn't think of anything worse!! I'd rather play with my wand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So do they never kiss? I mean what about when you have sex?

I have to kiss and passionately. If the kissing is lame then in my opinion they either don't fancy me or they are crap at kissing no i never kiss a guy during sex. I managed this way for 18 years swinging. Only had 5 people refuse a a meet. And about the same number try to kiss me.

I kiss my partner but till we got together I didn't kiss partners either. I have to 100% trust someone to enjoy and get off on kissing them. Otherwise it can and does make me feel uneasy and very uncomfortable.

If I was a single lady id not kiss.. so it has nothing to do with keeping it for us. It just feels unnatural with anyone else and turns me off. I Have enjoyed playful kisses with a odd few people whom we have become friends with but even then not during sex and not full on.

Wow i find that very strange indeed as kissing is the most pleasurable thing to do but understand for some it has to be in a relationship only.

Fair enough "
why strange. Some dont like oral. Some not anal ..some kissing. Get pissed off with all this judgement. Its a preference same as anything else

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Some people I like to kiss and some I don't - depends on whether they come at me like a washing machine....

I'm sorry, can you please elaborate I so desperately want to laugh at this reply but have no clue as to how a washing machine would "come at you"

Have you ever heard Gene Simmons' standard joke that his tongue has a "spin and dry cycle"? It's a simile about relentless tongue action (cf. aggressively shoving tongues in, men do this a lot), which nearly never makes for a pleasant kissing experience."

Yup! This!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"This is something that has always puzzled me as I enjoy a passionate kiss on a meet. Ive met quite a few women who wont kiss but are happy to suck my cock and swallow my cum!! I was wondering if others have had the same experience??"

Neither of us kiss our meets passionately. I (f) don't like receiving oral either. We make it clear on our profile so that people can avoid contact with us.

There have been a lot of these threads with the majority of answers expressing surprise at a simple preference.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Passionate kissing IS what sex is (for me at least). The fucking is a bonus. I could kiss a man for hours and have an orgasm (or three). Intercourse in that situation would be icing on the cake. On the other hand if a man came at me without any kissing or foreplay with a big cock and tried to enter me he'd find me less excited and not wet all. The only exception is a GB setting when one fuck after another is just heaven. But even then if one man kisses me while another fucks me I love it.

Of course, like everything else, it's a choice. For some, it's a not. For me it's a deal breaker.

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset

Yes, personal preference is fine.

My personal preference is to only meet kissers, essential to getting me going.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I couldn't not kiss...

kissing is what starts my engines and if I didn't get to kiss the person I certainly couldn't do anything else... "

Exactly this

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

For me swinging is about fulfilling my sexual fantasies - threesomes and moresomes and anonymous sex in particular - it's not about pseudodating, and kissing guys is not one of my fantasies. However satisfying my bi urges is a part of my fantasies and they include kissing other women. It's simply a matter of choice and if it puts people of so be it, but it hasn't so far.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So to some the situation is I'm quite happy for you to stick your cock in my mouth and I might swallow your cum!! But don't you dare stick that tongue anywhere near my mouth!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So to some the situation is I'm quite happy for you to stick your cock in my mouth and I might swallow your cum!! But don't you dare stick that tongue anywhere near my mouth!!! "
why such disdain... It makes me uncomfortable. I dont find it a turn on.... but yes i love to suck cock.. some dont like that but arent made to feel a freak for that preference.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I decided not to meet someone today because of a no kissing/No oral rule I was told about last night!!

No kissing, no point!! "

could not agree more its almost worse than going to bed with your socks on lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"So to some the situation is I'm quite happy for you to stick your cock in my mouth and I might swallow your cum!! But don't you dare stick that tongue anywhere near my mouth!!! "

That's about the sum total of it.

It's not that difficult to respect other people's preferences is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I decided not to meet someone today because of a no kissing/No oral rule I was told about last night!!

No kissing, no point!! "

Jesus Christ, I don't blame you!!

No oral/no kissing? You'd have more fun with a fooking cucumber.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own but a good snog is surely the start point for foreplay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own but a good snog is surely the start point for foreplay."
i find mouth on their cock works just fine, with a cheeky smile and look

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Each to their own but a good snog is surely the start point for foreplay."

I'm not being aggressively argumentative and you are in the majority with your opinion on this. However why assume that because a good snog is necessary for you that it's necessary for everyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So to some the situation is I'm quite happy for you to stick your cock in my mouth and I might swallow your cum!! But don't you dare stick that tongue anywhere near my mouth!!!

That's about the sum total of it.

It's not that difficult to respect other people's preferences is it?"

People's preferences are ok so long as they agree with mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is something that has always puzzled me as I enjoy a passionate kiss on a meet. Ive met quite a few women who wont kiss but are happy to suck my cock and swallow my cum!! I was wondering if others have had the same experience??"

Are there any sex acts that you won't do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own but a good snog is surely the start point for foreplay.

I'm not being aggressively argumentative and you are in the majority with your opinion on this. However why assume that because a good snog is necessary for you that it's necessary for everyone? "
I think we are flogging a dead horse expecting understanding here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no one has ever insisted on sucking my cock

kissing is a must for me but only if the other person is as good at it as I am, otherwise its a bit of a turn off tbh

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"So to some the situation is I'm quite happy for you to stick your cock in my mouth and I might swallow your cum!! But don't you dare stick that tongue anywhere near my mouth!!!

That's about the sum total of it.

It's not that difficult to respect other people's preferences is it?

People's preferences are ok so long as they agree with mine.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Each to their own but a good snog is surely the start point for foreplay.

I'm not being aggressively argumentative and you are in the majority with your opinion on this. However why assume that because a good snog is necessary for you that it's necessary for everyone? I think we are flogging a dead horse expecting understanding here. "

Lol I don't mind if people don't understand a little acceptance and a dash of open mindedness wouldn't go amiss but I can live without it. As I say, we have it on our profile we can be avoided

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own but a good snog is surely the start point for foreplay.

I'm not being aggressively argumentative and you are in the majority with your opinion on this. However why assume that because a good snog is necessary for you that it's necessary for everyone? I think we are flogging a dead horse expecting understanding here. "

I wouldn't waste your time trying to explain. I don't kiss sometimes either but can't be arsed with people that dismiss my feelings about it in a rude way, like I'm deranged for not wanting to kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An often repeated subject, we don't meet non kissers, it's a big part of the fun for us...

For a number of reasons people don't kiss on meets and it's there choice, we've fallen foul of meeting non kissers and apart from feeling a little underwhelmed we've seen a pattern emerge of jealousy, insecurity and issues, that's our experience, now we take a view that if someone doesn't want to kiss us then why would we want to be used as playthings by them...,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't have disdain towards people that don't kiss on meets, I think I never quite understood why but I kind of understand now. To some it's obviously a very personal thing!! I totally respect that as we all have our own things we like to keep to ourselves.

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By *haznsteCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

We like kissing

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Each to their own but a good snog is surely the start point for foreplay.

I'm not being aggressively argumentative and you are in the majority with your opinion on this. However why assume that because a good snog is necessary for you that it's necessary for everyone? I think we are flogging a dead horse expecting understanding here.

I wouldn't waste your time trying to explain. I don't kiss sometimes either but can't be arsed with people that dismiss my feelings about it in a rude way, like I'm deranged for not wanting to kiss. "

That's not why you're deranged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own but a good snog is surely the start point for foreplay.

I'm not being aggressively argumentative and you are in the majority with your opinion on this. However why assume that because a good snog is necessary for you that it's necessary for everyone? I think we are flogging a dead horse expecting understanding here.

I wouldn't waste your time trying to explain. I don't kiss sometimes either but can't be arsed with people that dismiss my feelings about it in a rude way, like I'm deranged for not wanting to kiss. "
I once had a whole group at a party making little comments about how weird I was as the ice breaker was a kissing competition... I made light of it but I felt like a leper. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing = no meet, end of!

If you don't want my mouth, then you sure as hell aren't getting any other part of me. Kissing is a big part of sex for me, it's the match to my fuse!

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

No kissing ..no meet for us ..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Each to their own but a good snog is surely the start point for foreplay.

I'm not being aggressively argumentative and you are in the majority with your opinion on this. However why assume that because a good snog is necessary for you that it's necessary for everyone? I think we are flogging a dead horse expecting understanding here.

I wouldn't waste your time trying to explain. I don't kiss sometimes either but can't be arsed with people that dismiss my feelings about it in a rude way, like I'm deranged for not wanting to kiss. I once had a whole group at a party making little comments about how weird I was as the ice breaker was a kissing competition... I made light of it but I felt like a leper. X "

It goes to show that while lots of people would consider themselves open minded because they swing, they really aren't. If people can't respect such a simple preference I would be concerned about their ability to respect any preference at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing for both of us or it's just not happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is so few men actually even try to kiss me.. either im fugly, smell or many people say kissing is important but when offered a bj first they suddenly dont need to kiss.

Had 2 refusals from couples recently because i dont kiss but thats a lot in a year as normally the fact mr kisses and loves to.. they dont mind x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has preferences, personally I really don't like jump leads attached to my testicle, it's probably cost me a few meets, but thems the breaks

If it matters then ask before the meet

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Everyone has preferences, personally I really don't like jump leads attached to my testicle, it's probably cost me a few meets, but thems the breaks

If it matters then ask before the meet "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing, the tease the torment.

No kissing. It's a bit 80s pretty woman to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love kissing, the tease the torment.

No kissing. It's a bit 80s pretty woman to me. "
so those of us that dont kiss are like hookers .. does seem to be the general consensus. If I'd been paid for all my meets id have retired by now though

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By *thena400Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I couldn't not kiss...

kissing is what starts my engines and if I didn't get to kiss the person I certainly couldn't do anything else... "

Hear hear. No kissing = no play for me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I love kissing, the tease the torment.

No kissing. It's a bit 80s pretty woman to me. so those of us that dont kiss are like hookers .. does seem to be the general consensus. If I'd been paid for all my meets id have retired by now though "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet without kissing. I haven't had a meet since December and I've turned down 4 potential meets since then because they don't kiss.

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By *mcouple1Couple
over a year ago

nr warrington


"For me swinging is about fulfilling my sexual fantasies - threesomes and moresomes and anonymous sex in particular - it's not about pseudodating, and kissing guys is not one of my fantasies. However satisfying my bi urges is a part of my fantasies and they include kissing other women. It's simply a matter of choice and if it puts people of so be it, but it hasn't so far."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I wouldn't meet without kissing. I haven't had a meet since December and I've turned down 4 potential meets since then because they don't kiss. "

We've turned down many more because they insist on kissing. Freedom of informed choice is a good thing isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't meet without kissing. I haven't had a meet since December and I've turned down 4 potential meets since then because they don't kiss.

We've turned down many more because they insist on kissing. Freedom of informed choice is a good thing isn't it "

Yes it is, we all have our own 'thing' as it were and yours is no kissing.

There are worse things demanded by some on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't meet without kissing. I haven't had a meet since December and I've turned down 4 potential meets since then because they don't kiss.

We've turned down many more because they insist on kissing. Freedom of informed choice is a good thing isn't it "
yeah it is. And I stand by mine

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

There is no emotion without knowing if the guy can kiss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have different preferences depending on who I'm meeting.

Single man, TS-no kiss, no sex.

Single woman -prefer to not kiss, but might make an exception.

Couples-kiss the man only, or kiss both equally. Never just kiss the woman.

3somes with my long term partner - always kiss him, kiss the other person if he wants me to.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I wouldn't meet without kissing. I haven't had a meet since December and I've turned down 4 potential meets since then because they don't kiss.

We've turned down many more because they insist on kissing. Freedom of informed choice is a good thing isn't it

Yes it is, we all have our own 'thing' as it were and yours is no kissing.

There are worse things demanded by some on here"

There are indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how can you have sex, oral etc and not kiss?? for me its an absolute must

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I wouldn't meet without kissing. I haven't had a meet since December and I've turned down 4 potential meets since then because they don't kiss.

We've turned down many more because they insist on kissing. Freedom of informed choice is a good thing isn't it yeah it is. And I stand by mine"

That's great but I wasn't questioning your preference, I respect it

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"how can you have sex, oral etc and not kiss?? for me its an absolute must "

Its perfectly possible we've done it loads of times. Very few guys have tried to kiss me even when we didn't mention no kissing on our profile.

Maybe I give off a "don't even go there" vibe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how can you have sex, oral etc and not kiss?? for me its an absolute must

Its perfectly possible we've done it loads of times. Very few guys have tried to kiss me even when we didn't mention no kissing on our profile.

Maybe I give off a "don't even go there" vibe "
same here... guys rarely try to kiss ... funny no one calls me cold or passionless either...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I decided not to meet someone today because of a no kissing/No oral rule I was told about last night!!

No kissing, no point!! "

Couldn't have said it better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how can you have sex, oral etc and not kiss?? for me its an absolute must

Its perfectly possible we've done it loads of times. Very few guys have tried to kiss me even when we didn't mention no kissing on our profile.

Maybe I give off a "don't even go there" vibe same here... guys rarely try to kiss ... funny no one calls me cold or passionless either... "

maybe I just don't wait for them to kiss me first!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo got to kiss as its part of my name xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So to some the situation is I'm quite happy for you to stick your cock in my mouth and I might swallow your cum!! But don't you dare stick that tongue anywhere near my mouth!!! "

Hmmm I think giving oral or fucking is far more intimate but I understand for many so is kissing and it's to be shared only with those they love. Simple. Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find kissing to be very intimate so would rarely kiss on a meet, i sometimes do though.. and i like to get stuck in by pulling his pant down soon as the door is closed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like kissing during a swap but I would never have oral sex with anyone but my husband

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like kissing during a swap but I would never have oral sex with anyone but my husband

- Mrs. J -"
do you have a lot of husbands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like kissing during a swap but I would never have oral sex with anyone but my husband

- Mrs. J - do you have a lot of husbands "

No, just the one

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must for us both, it what gets us both turned on, love watching other women kiss my man and vice Versa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pucker up xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing no sex ..........as I like to be kissed all over again and again .. and I like doing it too.. Nothing like a good snog ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal preference, why knock it and judge it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own but a good snog is surely the start point for foreplay.

I'm not being aggressively argumentative and you are in the majority with your opinion on this. However why assume that because a good snog is necessary for you that it's necessary for everyone? I think we are flogging a dead horse expecting understanding here.

I wouldn't waste your time trying to explain. I don't kiss sometimes either but can't be arsed with people that dismiss my feelings about it in a rude way, like I'm deranged for not wanting to kiss.

That's not why you're deranged "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own but a good snog is surely the start point for foreplay.

I'm not being aggressively argumentative and you are in the majority with your opinion on this. However why assume that because a good snog is necessary for you that it's necessary for everyone? I think we are flogging a dead horse expecting understanding here.

I wouldn't waste your time trying to explain. I don't kiss sometimes either but can't be arsed with people that dismiss my feelings about it in a rude way, like I'm deranged for not wanting to kiss.

I once had a whole group at a party making little comments about how weird I was as the ice breaker was a kissing competition... I made light of it but I felt like a leper. X "

That's so rude of them! Ice breakers make me shudder, just your description of a kissing competition freaks me out. No way I'd join in. Wish I'd been there, we could be lepers together. But I'd cheer you up, their attitude wouldn't bother me cos it says more about them than me/ us. x

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We both enjoy kissing but understand that for some kissing on the lips is something to save for a partner or relationship.

It certainly wouldn't be a deal breaker... As long as we get to kiss other areas

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own but a good snog is surely the start point for foreplay.

I'm not being aggressively argumentative and you are in the majority with your opinion on this. However why assume that because a good snog is necessary for you that it's necessary for everyone? I think we are flogging a dead horse expecting understanding here.

I wouldn't waste your time trying to explain. I don't kiss sometimes either but can't be arsed with people that dismiss my feelings about it in a rude way, like I'm deranged for not wanting to kiss.

I once had a whole group at a party making little comments about how weird I was as the ice breaker was a kissing competition... I made light of it but I felt like a leper. X

That's so rude of them! Ice breakers make me shudder, just your description of a kissing competition freaks me out. No way I'd join in. Wish I'd been there, we could be lepers together. But I'd cheer you up, their attitude wouldn't bother me cos it says more about them than me/ us. x"
its not a one off. My weird not kissing has caused much amusement at parties and clubs. I am mostly quite happy with my weirdness

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Kissing for me please

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By *rontmanMan
over a year ago

Derby and often London

I love kissing so much! Nothing better than 2 hot mouths and tongues connecting

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By *mcouple1Couple
over a year ago

nr warrington


"Each to their own but a good snog is surely the start point for foreplay.

I'm not being aggressively argumentative and you are in the majority with your opinion on this. However why assume that because a good snog is necessary for you that it's necessary for everyone? I think we are flogging a dead horse expecting understanding here.

I wouldn't waste your time trying to explain. I don't kiss sometimes either but can't be arsed with people that dismiss my feelings about it in a rude way, like I'm deranged for not wanting to kiss.

I once had a whole group at a party making little comments about how weird I was as the ice breaker was a kissing competition... I made light of it but I felt like a leper. X

That's so rude of them! Ice breakers make me shudder, just your description of a kissing competition freaks me out. No way I'd join in. Wish I'd been there, we could be lepers together. But I'd cheer you up, their attitude wouldn't bother me cos it says more about them than me/ us. x its not a one off. My weird not kissing has caused much amusement at parties and clubs. I am mostly quite happy with my weirdness "

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By *mcouple1Couple
over a year ago

nr warrington


"We both enjoy kissing but understand that for some kissing on the lips is something to save for a partner or relationship.

It certainly wouldn't be a deal breaker... As long as we get to kiss other areas

Nita"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, kissing is pretty erotic and we both love it.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

All of the kisses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is imperative so sexy

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