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How to spot a time waster?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anybody have any top tips as we are are starting to loose the will here!.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

What do you class as a time waster?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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if they ask about the meet, like what you wearing or what will happen, then they are wanking.

honestly, if you're offering anything other than a spontaneous meet that involves sex right there and then then you'll probably get a lot of time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found that couples tend to be the time wasters for me..

Usually just the guy... no female??

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Veris, veris and veris.

Or go to clubs, all the people there are real and have turned up

MrB x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody have any top tips as we are are starting to loose the will here!."
It's sometimes tricky to tell at 1st but as you continue talking to them you could workout if there genuine or not!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have had messages from a few couples, have general chats about our interests and experience etc.. all very positive and engaging, then when we suggest meeting for a drink, radio silence ensues..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah....when your on your way there or actually there and they are not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Veris, veris and veris.

Or go to clubs, all the people there are real and have turned up

MrB x"

I think you may be right

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"We have had messages from a few couples, have general chats about our interests and experience etc.. all very positive and engaging, then when we suggest meeting for a drink, radio silence ensues..

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majority of people on here only want sex, or sex chat.

clubs, as has already been suggested, might be the best way? people do socialise in them as well as meet for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody have any top tips as we are are starting to loose the will here!."

If they ask for more pics, wont talk on the phone (fem to fem), have no veris, or wont send a face pic (first if they approached you)- fake. Some people wont give out a mobile number which is pretty suspect because when they havent confirmed on the day of a meet or even in the hours before the meet the last thing they want is you pesteting them on the phone.

It's such a shame but when you meet the good guys it's more than worth it. X

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By *requent_FerryersCouple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)


"We have had messages from a few couples, have general chats about our interests and experience etc.. all very positive and engaging, then when we suggest meeting for a drink, radio silence ensues.."

Again, verifications, the willingness to arrange another means of contact and even that girl/girl phone call. All help confirm they are genuine.

Oh! We would never waste your time!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there's no real way of spotting a time waster's we just go with our gut feeling's but every now and then one slips through but we try and not let it bother us anymore just move on and keep looking plenty on here who dont mess around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried few times for meets,

Have curious side, tried couple and guys been let dow many times, even offered to pay Hotel if gotta Travel, I must sound desperate ??

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By *umptuous DuoCouple
over a year ago

Teesside

We prefer arranging meets in clubs as we like the atmosphere of the club environment plus if the meet doesn't turn up the night is not wasted as theres still an opportunity to meet new people and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks but nervous going club alone first time round lol , am 42 sound like 18 lol

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By *erfumedpornovampireWoman
over a year ago

Swindon


"We prefer arranging meets in clubs as we like the atmosphere of the club environment plus if the meet doesn't turn up the night is not wasted as theres still an opportunity to meet new people and have fun."

I'd like to go to clubs but as I don't drive I can only do our local one and I would prefer not to that alone! Thank goodness for vanilla munches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody have any top tips as we are are starting to loose the will here!.

If they ask for more pics, wont talk on the phone (fem to fem), have no veris, or wont send a face pic (first if they approached you)- fake. Some people wont give out a mobile number which is pretty suspect because when they havent confirmed on the day of a meet or even in the hours before the meet the last thing they want is you pesteting them on the phone.

It's such a shame but when you meet the good guys it's more than worth it. X"

We dont send face pics and rarely give out a number but we arent fake.

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

Never understood why so many singles/couples time waste like this!

I don't think I ever not replied or failed to turn up to a meet.

I guess you are just talking to the unrealistic fakes! Hah

I'm sure it is annoying but real people are not hard to find in Fab, you just need to speak to them.

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By *ilth emojiCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent


"Anybody have any top tips as we are are starting to loose the will here!."

Keeps repeating " I am genuine "

Or poor grammar

Had enough of these pic collectors

Christ just online to porn sites lol

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