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"Surely if you find them attractive what part does age play.The age bracket thing is useful in profiles in that we all tend to categorise what we think certain age groups may look like but its a generalisation of course. If someone floats your boat but dont necessarily fall into that criteria folllow the current so to speak !!" Agreed !!!!!!!! but we mailed someone the other day and it stated why have you mailed me have you not read the profile??? we read again and the only box that we wcould see that didn't fit was the age 45 limit grrrrrrrr | |||
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"Looking at your pics, we don't think your Mrs' age would cause us any problems!" LOL have you just changed you profile to 47 limit lololol ONLY JOKING !! | |||
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"Looking at your pics, we don't think your Mrs' age would cause us any problems!" Totally agree.. lol.. (but does everyones faces become blurry after a certain age.. giggles and runs for their lives..lol) xx | |||
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"Looking at your pics, we don't think your Mrs' age would cause us any problems! Totally agree.. lol.. (but does everyones faces become blurry after a certain age.. giggles and runs for their lives..lol) xx " BIT EARLY FOR DRINKING lolololol | |||
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"Looking at your pics, we don't think your Mrs' age would cause us any problems! Totally agree.. lol.. (but does everyones faces become blurry after a certain age.. giggles and runs for their lives..lol) xx BIT EARLY FOR DRINKING lolololol " Hic... Hic... ave nor idea wat u r imp...hic...lyin sir | |||
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"Looking at your pics, we don't think your Mrs' age would cause us any problems! Totally agree.. lol.. (but does everyones faces become blurry after a certain age.. giggles and runs for their lives..lol) xx BIT EARLY FOR DRINKING lolololol Hic... Hic... ave nor idea wat u r imp...hic...lyin sir " LOL Nice one !!!!!!! | |||
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" well i have not missed the boat in 40s as feel 20s in my head and still having loads of fun xxxx its a number and you look fab xx " Thank you for the look fab!!! We have lots of fun BUT we wouldnt normally mail anyone we don't tick all the boxes.... that does not mean we don't like what we have seen just dont fit there profile which like we say can be a little frustrating as if we met one to one they MIGHT feel diffrent | |||
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" well i have not missed the boat in 40s as feel 20s in my head and still having loads of fun xxxx its a number and you look fab xx " We agree you are only as old as you feel, older we get more fun we are having | |||
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" well i have not missed the boat in 40s as feel 20s in my head and still having loads of fun xxxx its a number and you look fab xx We agree you are only as old as you feel, older we get more fun we are having " age thing dont come into it for me if i like the look of them ...... its fine .. younger or older i just have to like the look and how thay come across to me . | |||
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"Which fools are going to turn you two down? " You would be surprised lololol Mind you we do smoke and fully understand people not liking that!!!!! | |||
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" well i have not missed the boat in 40s as feel 20s in my head and still having loads of fun xxxx its a number and you look fab xx We agree you are only as old as you feel, older we get more fun we are having age thing dont come into it for me if i like the look of them ...... its fine .. younger or older i just have to like the look and how thay come across to me ." Agree | |||
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"Seems we have missed the boat here, so many profiles state the high end age bracket is 45 !!!!! MrsD is now 47 but does not look it!! everyone we seem to look at that we fancy the look of ends at the dreaded 45 years old. If you meet in a club and fancy someone would you ask there age to find out if they fall in your age brackets??? . We tend to go on if we fancy them!!! are they sexy!!! if they tick the box we would play sod there ages!!!! . " tip for you.... those who have "age ranges" of there own aren't really in a position to be complaining about someone elses... | |||
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"having a look at the pics on your profile 1 or 2 things stand out for me the male in the photo of the holiday snap of 2 people together (which i wud thought is you two together) and the male pic thats solo dont seem to match .. one is ALOT more tonned up that the other . this is something that would put me off " Check out The TattoosSame guy i can assure you | |||
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"Seems we have missed the boat here, so many profiles state the high end age bracket is 45 !!!!! MrsD is now 47 but does not look it!! everyone we seem to look at that we fancy the look of ends at the dreaded 45 years old. If you meet in a club and fancy someone would you ask there age to find out if they fall in your age brackets??? . We tend to go on if we fancy them!!! are they sexy!!! if they tick the box we would play sod there ages!!!! . tip for you.... those who have "age ranges" of there own aren't really in a position to be complaining about someone elses..." We have put our age range after much research as to the people that like to meet our age range...... have never rejected anyone because of age i can assure you BUT you do have a valid point maybe we should change it | |||
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"Which fools are going to turn you two down? You would be surprised lololol Mind you we do smoke and fully understand people not liking that!!!!! " Ah well that would make me one of those fools then - I wouldnt meet smokers so its mebbes not an age thing? | |||
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"I am not saying change it at all....that then wouldn't reperesent the true you.. all I would say, however, is that be aware that others may have gone thru the same original thinking as you..... and that what you have now come across is one of those consequences of those "decisions" three words... such..... is....... life!" This thread was started more about the age cut off of 45 and why a LOT of people pick 45 ?? | |||
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"I am not saying change it at all....that then wouldn't reperesent the true you.. all I would say, however, is that be aware that others may have gone thru the same original thinking as you..... and that what you have now come across is one of those consequences of those "decisions" three words... such..... is....... life! This thread was started more about the age cut off of 45 and why a LOT of people pick 45 ?? " well you chose the age range of 35 to 55 on your profile.... so why did you "choose" that??? because the answer you give to that question is probably going to be the same answer you will recieve from a lot of people in regards to yours.... | |||
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" well you look good for a older bloke then i put a cut off age of 38 altho if someone is 45 ish and looks in good shape and looks 35-40 and has a nice personality then i wudnt mind so much its more the big fat beer belly 40 yr olds im not keen on " Totally Understand !!!!!!!! | |||
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" well you look good for a older bloke then i put a cut off age of 38 altho if someone is 45 ish and looks in good shape and looks 35-40 and has a nice personality then i wudnt mind so much its more the big fat beer belly 40 yr olds im not keen on " Bloody hell !!!!!!!!! Older bloke !!! lololol OMG i am | |||
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"Well I think you are both gorgeous... gosh why does she want to share you I wouldnt.... Im way above most peoples age range good job im only looking .." Thank You !!! i'll have to askher that question ??? never thought of it like that before lololol | |||
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"Seems we have missed the boat here, so many profiles state the high end age bracket is 45 !!!!! MrsD is now 47 but does not look it!! everyone we seem to look at that we fancy the look of ends at the dreaded 45 years old. If you meet in a club and fancy someone would you ask there age to find out if they fall in your age brackets??? . We tend to go on if we fancy them!!! are they sexy!!! if they tick the box we would play sod there ages!!!! . " I find sex with older women a big turn on anyway. I prefer sex with a 47 year old than with a 27 year old tbh. Especially one as sexy as MrsD. | |||
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"These forums make me smile: honestly they do. I've seen hapless young single men bemoaning the fact people don't want to meet them because of their age. Some people (on this thread) have ripped them a new one, telling them to get over themselves, stop bitching about other peoples preferences, no matter how hot you think you are you're not going to appeal to everone...and variations along those lines. A couple, indignant that people don't want to meet them post a whining, ego massaging seeking thread and lo and behold the sycophants are out in force! C'est la vie!" At the risk of being a sycophant..... (lol) I do kind of agree with most of this. People put want they want on their profiles to narrow the field and maximise their chances of finding a good match. It is reasonable and allowed that they do so. Most of the time it is just a guide but I do have to admit that I would rather give a incompatible detail on our profiles than say look I just don't fancy you...its kinder. There are usually exceptions to every rule but that is of course at the discetion of the mailee. They are afterall just stopping you from wasting your time on them if they aren't interested. Can only speak for us but we do look at people as individuals and if they dont fit one or two things we ask for but we still feel we could be good together we may meet for a social to see. Doesn't matter who you are or how attractive you are considered you just weren't a good match. Its tough for soft swap couples on here and meeting smokers isn't for everyone either. What I'm saying using far too many words is....likely it wasn't just the two year age discepancy. Its just human nature to prefer to believe it is. Clubs and parties are easier for sure. People don't need to assess whether or not arranging to meet would be a gamble too far. Maybe easier to swap numbers at parties. As for the bit about double standards sassy mentioned...well maybe that's due to the ages of the majority of posters being let's say at the more mature end of the age scale often not being prepared to meet young guys or couples. Just my opinion of course and I am generalising but its how I see it. Good luck to op anyway. Have a feeling you will find your fun one way or another! Mistress x | |||
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"Don't people know that life only starts after 45. Usually our kids are gone to live their own lives. I am 49 in around 4 weeks, and employ 3 under 25's and I am in before them, live after they are long gone. And have the stamina for party time at night. Well mostly. " when we meeting , lol xxxx kisses you xx | |||
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"Seems we have missed the boat here, so many profiles state the high end age bracket is 45 !!!!! MrsD is now 47 but does not look it!! everyone we seem to look at that we fancy the look of ends at the dreaded 45 years old. If you meet in a club and fancy someone would you ask there age to find out if they fall in your age brackets??? . We tend to go on if we fancy them!!! are they sexy!!! if they tick the box we would play sod there ages!!!! . " but we are all different, i have met many guys i have liked but turned down due to their age i feel wierd playing with guys under 30 and even if i have met them in the flesh and they have been nice guys ive got on with i still wouldnt play with them based purely on their age And i turn guys down on here on a daily basis just because of their age be them older or younger than what im looking for its all about choice | |||
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"Don't people know that life only starts after 45. Usually our kids are gone to live their own lives. I am 49 in around 4 weeks, and employ 3 under 25's and I am in before them, live after they are long gone. And have the stamina for party time at night. Well mostly. " I would agree with that as I, for my second job, work shifts in a pub, the young ones all drink energy drinks like its water, I rely on my own energy and stamina | |||
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"I find the age limits frustrating too I Hit 48 on the 27th July but most people say I look younger and I am bloody fit for may age as I do workd out and do a lot of activity. yet My age puts people off. Yes i do send a polite message to people with a 45 cut off date often to get a rude reply about my age. So unfortunatly yes age does seem to mtter on this site. " I would agree with that too about age mattering. However on the other hand, those that look older than their years, have not been worth a 2nd visit, on the other hand those that don't get many more. As to your age mattering, for me it doesn't, only the distance does | |||
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"Seems we have missed the boat here, so many profiles state the high end age bracket is 45 !!!!! MrsD is now 47 but does not look it!! everyone we seem to look at that we fancy the look of ends at the dreaded 45 years old. If you meet in a club and fancy someone would you ask there age to find out if they fall in your age brackets??? . We tend to go on if we fancy them!!! are they sexy!!! if they tick the box we would play sod there ages!!!! . tip for you.... those who have "age ranges" of there own aren't really in a position to be complaining about someone elses..." Brilliant! lol | |||
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"These forums make me smile: honestly they do. I've seen hapless young single men bemoaning the fact people don't want to meet them because of their age. Some people (on this thread) have ripped them a new one, telling them to get over themselves, stop bitching about other peoples preferences, no matter how hot you think you are you're not going to appeal to everone...and variations along those lines. A couple, indignant that people don't want to meet them post a whining, ego massaging seeking thread and lo and behold the sycophants are out in force! C'est la vie!" +1..... | |||
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"I find the age limits frustrating too I Hit 48 on the 27th July but most people say I look younger and I am bloody fit for may age as I do workd out and do a lot of activity. yet My age puts people off. Yes i do send a polite message to people with a 45 cut off date often to get a rude reply about my age. So unfortunatly yes age does seem to mtter on this site. " see the irony of that is that you have an upper age limit of 57.... so is it okay for you the have some sort of limit but not others..... and that was the point i was trying to make to the OP and the other people in this thread who have complained... you have your reasons for deciding age ranges... others have theirs.... respect theirs and they would respect yours just live and let live..... | |||
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"I have been playing with the swinging/adult nsa field for most of my adult life and I agree that once you hit 40 (especially as a single male) you either become invisible or fall outside most peoples search criteria. I neither feel my age, nor look it (I am often told this) and get frustrated by this almost invisible 40+ barrier." and again another one who had an upper limit, this time 48 on your profile..... so again i would ask the same question... is it okay for you to have limits but not for others????? another for the box marked irony..... | |||
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"I have been playing with the swinging/adult nsa field for most of my adult life and I agree that once you hit 40 (especially as a single male) you either become invisible or fall outside most peoples search criteria. I neither feel my age, nor look it (I am often told this) and get frustrated by this almost invisible 40+ barrier. and again another one who had an upper limit, this time 48 on your profile..... so again i would ask the same question... is it okay for you to have limits but not for others????? another for the box marked irony....." Come on now Fabio: haven't you realised yet that some people are allowed preferences whilst others are...as long as it doesn't exclude them! | |||
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