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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i have blocked quite a few, forget all the reasons, thinking i should unblock all and start a fresh block list

your thoughts please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep on blocking my list is huge... its usually

you live miles away

you have been on 12 months and no verifiactions

you have no pic's but want to see mine

you are straight but e mailing me

etc etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You blocked them for a reason !!

I would keep them on that list !!

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By *cjacoupleCouple
over a year ago

wakefield

R block list is too think we shud start again too lol

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By *awty40_xxWoman
over a year ago

north lanarkshire

No!! u blocked for a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have blocked quite a few, forget all the reasons, thinking i should unblock all and start a fresh block list

your thoughts please "

why unblock just to start again?

seems a bit odd to me...

just carry on regardless IMO

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

its like being in control of a nuke button the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You blocked for a reason. No way would I unblock and start again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

main reason i blocked is blank profiles demanding pics in first message to me, usually when i have not even looked or messaged them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have over 300 on my block list, some I don't remember why as they've been on there for years but mostly because of constant grumpy or abusive status updates, unattractive photos which mean I would not want to meet anyway and then those who don't take no for an answer. Is just another filter really so they are staying blocked!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

that makes good sense, sometimes i think oh i hope ive not upset by blocking you.. sometimes i think you deserve it

but happy on the whole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have hundreds on my list...

but I have found lately that people I thought I blocked over 2 yrs ago are messaging me again...

maybe they drop off after a certain number

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have hundreds on my list...

but I have found lately that people I thought I blocked over 2 yrs ago are messaging me again...

maybe they drop off after a certain number "
maybe or they have closed account and rejoined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our block list is massive, we can't stand the local club politics so one clubs groupies automatically get blocked as do many others for a number of reasons

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Keep on blocking my list is huge... its usually

you live miles away

you have been on 12 months and no verifiactions

you have no pic's but want to see mine

you are straight but e mailing me

etc etc etc "

Being on 12 months with no verifications seems a little harsh as a reason to block... many people take a long time to find their feet in the swinging world.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep on blocking my list is huge... its usually

you live miles away

you have been on 12 months and no verifiactions

you have no pic's but want to see mine

you are straight but e mailing me

etc etc etc

Being on 12 months with no verifications seems a little harsh as a reason to block... many people take a long time to find their feet in the swinging world.

Cal"

We'd block if they contacted us and been on over a year with no verifications, as either a fake, too much work to get a meet for us or just dreamers, in fact a month is plenty long enough for someone wanted to play to get a veri.....

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"i have blocked quite a few, forget all the reasons, thinking i should unblock all and start a fresh block list

your thoughts please "

Keep them blocked, you blocked for a reason!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You blocked them for a reason !!

I would keep them on that list !!"

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unblock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's it's easy to form an incorrect judgement on Fab. There are a few people who blocked us, I guess because they didn't like something I said on a forum. I'm pretty sure that if they ever met us in person, they would find us both very pleasant people, possibly even people they could have fun with.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i found myself also blocking the guys that looked at my profile more than 12 times that have people of my gender blocked from messaging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's it's easy to form an incorrect judgement on Fab. There are a few people who blocked us, I guess because they didn't like something I said on a forum. I'm pretty sure that if they ever met us in person, they would find us both very pleasant people, possibly even people they could have fun with.

Mrs"

yes that can be very true

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By *odelmasterMan
over a year ago

Rugby

I read your profile and blocked you as anything that starts stating with "your rules" and are more of a I don't want this over what you do like its a simple block and its a simple way to edit people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have hundreds on my list...

but I have found lately that people I thought I blocked over 2 yrs ago are messaging me again...

maybe they drop off after a certain number "

I find the same thing, but usually on closer inspection it is because they have gone UNLOS and started again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I read your profile and blocked you as anything that starts stating with "your rules" and are more of a I don't want this over what you do like its a simple block and its a simple way to edit people."
makes no odds to me we are no where near each other and more chance winning the lottery than meeting me x

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By *odelmasterMan
over a year ago

Rugby

Silly rebuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocked for reason keep them there and saves time in future and being blocked ain't such a bad thing apart from once blocked you can't block the blocker unless they sent you a message at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blocked for reason keep them there and saves time in future and being blocked ain't such a bad thing apart from once blocked you can't block the blocker unless they sent you a message at some point"

You can block someone who has blocked you. But why would you want to? Unless you feel there is a risk that person might unblock you in the future and make a nuisance of themselves with you?

Mrs

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By *magine all the peopleCouple
over a year ago

Perth

We just bock people we're unlikely to meet. It makes searching soo much simpler!

It's nothing against anyone, just another 'filter' for us. Ours runs into thousands. So does our hotlist!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Blocked for reason keep them there and saves time in future and being blocked ain't such a bad thing apart from once blocked you can't block the blocker unless they sent you a message at some point

You can block someone who has blocked you. But why would you want to? Unless you feel there is a risk that person might unblock you in the future and make a nuisance of themselves with you?

Mrs"
i did not know you could do that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i could not be pestered blocking someone that has blocked me in that way

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