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Hotwifing does it exist?/my fantasy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can anyone help me?

Absolutely love the idea of having a hot wife but for some reason can't set anything up.

My fantasy is to be filmed and pictures taken so that she may go back and tell her story with plenty of evidence!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it does I fucked a hot wife lady week several times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens quite a lot..... love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope! It's like unicorn pooh!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So how many hotwifes have you played with?

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

Croydon Area

There's one or two hiding on here.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how many hotwifes have you played with?"

In total.....? Not sure I could remember. Somewhere between many and lots....?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's one or two hiding on here....."

O hello a hotwife !! Nice to meet you! Great pictures

So any help/tips?

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

Croydon Area


"There's one or two hiding on here.....

O hello a hotwife !! Nice to meet you! Great pictures

So any help/tips? "

Approach and message a couple as a couple not just the female. Read their profile to see if you match what they're seeking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's one or two hiding on here....."

im looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a few of us about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone help me?

Absolutely love the idea of having a hot wife but for some reason can't set anything up.

My fantasy is to be filmed and pictures taken so that she may go back and tell her story with plenty of evidence!

"

Sorry for being a plonkaloid but what's a 'hot wife'?

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

Croydon Area


"Can anyone help me?

Absolutely love the idea of having a hot wife but for some reason can't set anything up.

My fantasy is to be filmed and pictures taken so that she may go back and tell her story with plenty of evidence!

Sorry for being a plonkaloid but what's a 'hot wife'?"

A married woman who has the feedom in her marriage to pursue sexual relationships with men other than her husband. Her husband has full knowledge of her activities and consents to them.

Got to love Urban Dictionary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah hot wifing does exist

;)

Even down in Devon...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I 'hot husband' then?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah hot wifing does exist

;)

Even down in Devon..."

Mine is in Ireland for 4 days and has a date saturday night!

...but has to report back with details.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah hot wifing does exist

;)

Even down in Devon...

Mine is in Ireland for 4 days and has a date saturday night!

...but has to report back with details.

"

So do you have to report back with details as well?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's one or two hiding on here.....

O hello a hotwife !! Nice to meet you! Great pictures

So any help/tips?

Approach and message a couple as a couple not just the female. Read their profile to see if you match what they're seeking. "

Very good advise still find it hard to setup though. Maybe I'm not going about it right

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over a year ago

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By *ebbsBamCouple
over a year ago

halifax

It does exist lol problem is too many single guys who mess people around by not turning up too meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It does exist lol problem is too many single guys who mess people around by not turning up too meets "

Always ass holes who spoil it for everyone else.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I could pretend to be married?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I could pretend to be married?"

Lol

Why not hey! Pm if you want to play the hotwife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes..I have to know she is safe, and she has to text or send pics of what's going on...

I'll finish her off when she get home

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

Croydon Area


"Yes..I have to know she is safe, and she has to text or send pics of what's going on...

I'll finish her off when she get home"

same conditions for us too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's the trust that I admire the most. Trust of sharing and then coming back to tell the tale.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could pretend to be married?"

My dinner isn't going to make itself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an idea that intrigues us but not up for it just yet, possibly give it a try in the not to distant future with someone we've met before together and are comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you be confident the photos won't go astray?

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I see plenty of it going on both with people I know and I see it at work too (work in a swingers club)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How can you be confident the photos won't go astray?"

You can always blur the faces/edit the photos at the same time to be discreet. There's gotta be trust and understanding in swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you be confident the photos won't go astray?"

Pics taken on mrs' phone only.

The guest has the memories we have the pics.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"How can you be confident the photos won't go astray?

Pics taken on mrs' phone only.

The guest has the memories we have the pics.

"

Makes sense. I see your gorgeous wife is over in the emerald Isle. Hope she is misbehaving over here!

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

Croydon Area


"How can you be confident the photos won't go astray?

Pics taken on mrs' phone only.

The guest has the memories we have the pics.

"

Same for us. Although we happily share the edit/blurred footage with those involved.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How can you be confident the photos won't go astray?

Pics taken on mrs' phone only.

The guest has the memories we have the pics.

Same for us. Although we happily share the edit/blurred footage with those involved. "

Sounds fair do you film as well?

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

Croydon Area


"How can you be confident the photos won't go astray?

Pics taken on mrs' phone only.

The guest has the memories we have the pics.

Same for us. Although we happily share the edit/blurred footage with those involved.

Sounds fair do you film as well? "

Yes. We prefer to film as the camera can be mounted and forgotten about so the concentration can be on the fun. Although, some photos taken by the guy is a bonus.

But videoing isn't for everyone which is completely understandable. But if I'm present at the meet I make sure no faces/tattoos are captured, but harder to do on a solo meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you be confident the photos won't go astray?

Pics taken on mrs' phone only.

The guest has the memories we have the pics.

Makes sense. I see your gorgeous wife is over in the emerald Isle. Hope she is misbehaving over here! "

Haha... There's a good chance she will.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"How can you be confident the photos won't go astray?

Pics taken on mrs' phone only.

The guest has the memories we have the pics.

Makes sense. I see your gorgeous wife is over in the emerald Isle. Hope she is misbehaving over here!

Haha... There's a good chance she will.

"

Haha. Has she any meets planned or is not that kind of trip?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So who picks? Obviously she has to be attracted.

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

Croydon Area


"So who picks? Obviously she has to be attracted. "

Yes for us it's about mutual attraction. Vixen decides if she's attracted & they are what we're looking for but a meet will only take place if we're both happy.

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By *aayMan
over a year ago

harrow & Hatfield


"Yeah hot wifing does exist

;)

Even down in Devon...

Mine is in Ireland for 4 days and has a date saturday night!

...but has to report back with details.

"

Ahhh maaaaaan, that's the way it's done. Hopefully she will be texting you as she gets ready and meets with him and she may even call you whilst he's playing with your wife... enjoy it, all of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started exploring Hotwifing 4 years ago. In that time we've only found a handful of men who truely understand it. I don't think it's something any man can do.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you be confident the photos won't go astray?

Pics taken on mrs' phone only.

The guest has the memories we have the pics.

Makes sense. I see your gorgeous wife is over in the emerald Isle. Hope she is misbehaving over here!

Haha... There's a good chance she will.

Haha. Has she any meets planned or is not that kind of trip? "

Not planned..

But she got chatting to a guy over dinner.. and is meeting on Saturday for drinks and ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We started exploring Hotwifing 4 years ago. In that time we've only found a handful of men who truely understand it. I don't think it's something any man can do.

Mrs"

Yes, our thoughts are that if you need it explained in a lot of detail, you're never going to get it. Maybe a bit harsh, and we're still on the fence, but it's the way we're leaning.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"How can you be confident the photos won't go astray?

Pics taken on mrs' phone only.

The guest has the memories we have the pics.

Makes sense. I see your gorgeous wife is over in the emerald Isle. Hope she is misbehaving over here!

Haha... There's a good chance she will.

Haha. Has she any meets planned or is not that kind of trip?

Not planned..

But she got chatting to a guy over dinner.. and is meeting on Saturday for drinks and ??"

Oh the naughty minx. Hopefully it goes well. If you fancy chatting feel free to message me....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's the pics and recording that i love the idea of. Especially sending as it's happening. MAN I NEED A HOTWIFE

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We started exploring Hotwifing 4 years ago. In that time we've only found a handful of men who truely understand it. I don't think it's something any man can do.

Mrs"

So what is your understanding of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We started exploring Hotwifing 4 years ago. In that time we've only found a handful of men who truely understand it. I don't think it's something any man can do.

Mrs"

Our worry is get the wrong guy and he'll think more into it, hence the need for us both to be comfortable with him, after all it's for our pleasure and if he started contacting Missi all the time and trying to meet.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We started exploring Hotwifing 4 years ago. In that time we've only found a handful of men who truely understand it. I don't think it's something any man can do.

Mrs

Our worry is get the wrong guy and he'll think more into it, hence the need for us both to be comfortable with him, after all it's for our pleasure and if he started contacting Missi all the time and trying to meet......."

O I see, well me personally I would txt the husband out of respect that it's his wife. I'm thinking a hot wife to be as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We started exploring Hotwifing 4 years ago. In that time we've only found a handful of men who truely understand it. I don't think it's something any man can do.

Mrs

So what is your understanding of it? "

Me personally? I'm a married woman who likes to have lovers. My husband will have his thoughts, but I won't speak in his behalf. The single man needs to meet the needs of both husband and wife, not just the wife. On a higher level, and in an ideal world, there is a threeway dynamic and bond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We started exploring Hotwifing 4 years ago. In that time we've only found a handful of men who truely understand it. I don't think it's something any man can do.

Mrs

Our worry is get the wrong guy and he'll think more into it, hence the need for us both to be comfortable with him, after all it's for our pleasure and if he started contacting Missi all the time and trying to meet.......

O I see, well me personally I would txt the husband out of respect that it's his wife. I'm thinking a hot wife to be as a couple."

That is a good start. A lot of men mess it up by marginalising the husband. But it has to be more than that. The single man should want the husband there as part of the equation. Ideally the 2 men should be friends, partners in crime.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We started exploring Hotwifing 4 years ago. In that time we've only found a handful of men who truely understand it. I don't think it's something any man can do.

Mrs

Our worry is get the wrong guy and he'll think more into it, hence the need for us both to be comfortable with him, after all it's for our pleasure and if he started contacting Missi all the time and trying to meet......."

I wouldn't worry about getting the wrong guy. We've made many mistakes. It doesn't matter though.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"We started exploring Hotwifing 4 years ago. In that time we've only found a handful of men who truely understand it. I don't think it's something any man can do.

Mrs

So what is your understanding of it?

Me personally? I'm a married woman who likes to have lovers. My husband will have his thoughts, but I won't speak in his behalf. The single man needs to meet the needs of both husband and wife, not just the wife. On a higher level, and in an ideal world, there is a threeway dynamic and bond. "

That's it exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is more on here than you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We started exploring Hotwifing 4 years ago. In that time we've only found a handful of men who truely understand it. I don't think it's something any man can do.

Mrs

Our worry is get the wrong guy and he'll think more into it, hence the need for us both to be comfortable with him, after all it's for our pleasure and if he started contacting Missi all the time and trying to meet.......

O I see, well me personally I would txt the husband out of respect that it's his wife. I'm thinking a hot wife to be as a couple.

That is a good start. A lot of men mess it up by marginalising the husband. But it has to be more than that. The single man should want the husband there as part of the equation. Ideally the 2 men should be friends, partners in crime.

Mrs"

Bang on...i am part of a regular 3 for over 2 years and i love it when me and hubby alternate in fucking his wife. She loves it too....i get on extremely well.with hubby so for me its all about respect and never over stepping the mark. Must say that it is best mozt exciting sex i have ever had with us all involved....no cuck/bull rubbish

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By *az1Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Hi I'm looking for a couple for regular meets. I've been in this scene and the swinging lifestyle for a while now so am quite experienced and got plenty of ideas, some of which I've put on my profile if anyone would like to read x

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

Croydon Area


"Hi I'm looking for a couple for regular meets. I've been in this scene and the swinging lifestyle for a while now so am quite experienced and got plenty of ideas, some of which I've put on my profile if anyone would like to read x"

None of what you've put is for us as it reads like you want to take the wife away to explore what you want.

For us its the Mrs that decides what she wants to do with the guys that join us. But I'm sure there's many couples out there that will be extremely interested in what you have stated.

We wish you luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it like hotdesking?

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

We have done it in the past. The guy used to drop his wife off at our house for her to have a 3some with then pick her up later. She would then tell him all about what the 3 of us had done.

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

Plenty of Hotwife or Cuckold couples on here looking for guys.

I should know, I've met wrote a few of them

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By *andm288Couple
over a year ago

oxford

It's a very popular lifestyle choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately not as many singiel guys who understand hotwife scenario...

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By *epaWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Hubby enjoys hot wifing me to fit guys. Had one for two years and a few other one off meets.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Yes my wife is a hot wife .and I like nothing better than watching her get a good seeing too . But we only play at club now , where she can pick who she wants and how far or how many times she wants or how many she is in mood for ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all sounds like a lot of fun!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Nope! It's like unicorn pooh! "

Oi!!!! you saying i am unicorn poo!!!! lol

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By *az1Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Hi I'm looking for a couple for regular meets. I've been in this scene and the swinging lifestyle for a while now so am quite experienced and got plenty of ideas, some of which I've put on my profile if anyone would like to read x

None of what you've put is for us as it reads like you want to take the wife away to explore what you want.

For us its the Mrs that decides what she wants to do with the guys that join us. But I'm sure there's many couples out there that will be extremely interested in what you have stated.

We wish you luck. "

I don't not mean to come across the wrong way. Ovcourse the lady and the husband will always have the final say and choose what she would like to do.

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

Croydon Area


"Hi I'm looking for a couple for regular meets. I've been in this scene and the swinging lifestyle for a while now so am quite experienced and got plenty of ideas, some of which I've put on my profile if anyone would like to read x

None of what you've put is for us as it reads like you want to take the wife away to explore what you want.

For us its the Mrs that decides what she wants to do with the guys that join us. But I'm sure there's many couples out there that will be extremely interested in what you have stated.

We wish you luck.

I don't not mean to come across the wrong way. Ovcourse the lady and the husband will always have the final say and choose what she would like to do. "

Of course. But you've clearly stated what scenarios you're seeking which isn't for everyone (like us) that's the point I was trying to make. Some may read what you've put and be put off. Wouldn't it be best to perhaps get talking to couples and the run past some scenarios with them. Just an idea.

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over a year ago

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By *eicloafersCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Definitely exists,and there's lots of fun to be had lol.we like to arrange someting for when we go away,it just adds to the thrill.

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead


"Can anyone help me?

Absolutely love the idea of having a hot wife but for some reason can't set anything up.

My fantasy is to be filmed and pictures taken so that she may go back and tell her story with plenty of evidence!

"

Yes it happens, but you have to remember the ratio of men who like this to the availability of couples that want this.

Good luck, just keep trying & checking the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Michelle entertains guys at our home when I'm at work, so I suppose that makes her a hotwife.

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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago

VALENTINES

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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago

VALENTINES

I've had fun with two or three lol.

Cat X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been invited to meet a 'hotwife' couple on Tuesday; they definitely exist.

He wants to meet me then is going to leave us to enjoy each other's company. They sound lovely and she looks great.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I've been a hotwife even before they had a name for it

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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago

cheshire


"We started exploring Hotwifing 4 years ago. In that time we've only found a handful of men who truely understand it. I don't think it's something any man can do.

Mrs"

i love watching wife with other guy. I realy carnt get enough of it. Is this hotwifing Or has she got to go on her own. Shes bieng in private rooms with a guy in a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone help me?

Absolutely love the idea of having a hot wife but for some reason can't set anything up.

My fantasy is to be filmed and pictures taken so that she may go back and tell her story with plenty of evidence!

"

It happens a lot, i have a few current hotwives that I meet and it's great,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mmm with this thread I should consider a hot wife list to start my search.

Anyone want to add themselves too it?

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By *ustthe2ofusXXXCouple
over a year ago

coventry


"Am I 'hot husband' then?!"

You sure are x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife here is what they would call a hotwife.

Keep an eye out for her anklets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I 'hot husband' then?!

You sure are x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspct they're all fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup hotwife here also, only play in clubs though now.

Doll x

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

They so exist and a couple of very hot wife's on fabs with very cool other halfs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep most definitely !

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