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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think guys drop their standards on here for a fuck?

I mean some fems they wouldnt give a 2nd look at on the street but if they had a chance of a ride on here they are on it like a shot?

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By *apascouseMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think so definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think men in couples would do that too, if the wife/gf allowed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i reckon a lot do

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I think your probably right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've yet to do so and don't think I will

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By *apascouseMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


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What's up lovely??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is just a shag lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds a bit like sour grapes to me ?

Not getting many invites ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some will and some won't.

For me personally though I need to be attracted to someone to do anything with them and that does include personalty somewhat as well. So I wouldn't say I drop my standards if anything physical looks become more important if I'm looking to meet someone from here as it's more about fun sexy fun then anything else.

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By *ecretEscapes2Woman
over a year ago

worcester

if it was dark they might

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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no. because these same 'types' of people are also in relationships with each other.

you know what? most people are average looking and that's about it. don't act like your all that coz you expect sex with stunners and all you're getting is normal looking people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction comes in many forms its not just about what you see on the surface for me

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


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What's up lovely?? "

Well it's a bit of a shit thought isn't it that someone apparently drops their 'standards' when they message me,just for the sake of a shag! It's seriously putting me off sex this place,I just hate it when people start talking about standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given the ratio of males to females on here, if a single males wants a meet, unless he is perfect in every way, then he has to drop his standards altogether and just accept that he's holding none of the cards and any potential meet has all the aces.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't and do ok online and off but I'm sure a lot of men will probably go with anyone rather then no one it seems on here.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out "

...and there you go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty sure they do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Given the ratio of males to females on here, if a single males wants a meet, unless he is perfect in every way, then he has to drop his standards altogether and just accept that he's holding none of the cards and any potential meet has all the aces.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attraction comes in many forms its not just about what you see on the surface for me "

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By *apascouseMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

If you see someone on the street you take them ato face value where as you can get to know someone on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still like who I'm sleeping with to be good looking. Could go town on a night out or tinder and meet someone looking for sex. This site for me is more about people being honest wit fantasies etc and experiencing them so I wouldn't say I'd drop standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That will depend on the individual guy. Do they go for personality or veneer. I know a guy who goes for veneer every time. He says, I am not here to fuck their personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think guys drop their standards on here for a fuck?

I mean some fems they wouldnt give a 2nd look at on the street but if they had a chance of a ride on here they are on it like a shot?"

I assume you think we'd fuck anything. ..that includes someone dead drop gorgeous with little brains... well sorry I have standards and it's got little to do with looks and all to do with connection, a dirty mind, ability to communicate well, engagement ( not a couple word replies), someone who can and will give the attention required to make a meet happen, someone who hasn't got 3 others lined up a may change at the last minute.... finally... a very good kisser (which also has little bearing on looks). Now if she has drop dead gorgeous looks too then I'm leaving and taking her with me...

So less of the degrading assumptions and look at what really matters

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

...and there you go "

ignore him. he's on here looking for that kind of woman anyway or he can't pull on a night out either.

women are often lumped with the kids and that responsibility, not allowed to be overtly sexual (unless it's for a mans benefit), and being on the internet makes it easier to be ourselves without judgment (we can block any who do that but on here it's a given that men love 'sluts' or at least want servicing by them so it's rare that happens).

i'm sure people have no standards at all and so what? at least they're getting fucked and not got time to moan about shit.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Do you think guys drop their standards on here for a fuck?

I mean some fems they wouldnt give a 2nd look at on the street but if they had a chance of a ride on here they are on it like a shot?"

Most def ... a male friend of mine who is a hunk said if he had the same standards as in the vanilla world he wouldn't play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find on here its easier to find people with the same/match of sexual interests

rather than a night out hooking up with someone that is not right for you in bed, where by here you can chat arrNGE SEXX MEETS, SOCIAL MEETS and a whole lot more and you do not have to lower your standards to do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think guys drop their standards on here for a fuck?

I mean some fems they wouldnt give a 2nd look at on the street but if they had a chance of a ride on here they are on it like a shot?

I assume you think we'd fuck anything. ..that includes someone dead drop gorgeous with little brains... well sorry I have standards and it's got little to do with looks and all to do with connection, a dirty mind, ability to communicate well, engagement ( not a couple word replies), someone who can and will give the attention required to make a meet happen, someone who hasn't got 3 others lined up a may change at the last minute.... finally... a very good kisser (which also has little bearing on looks). Now if she has drop dead gorgeous looks too then I'm leaving and taking her with me...

So less of the degrading assumptions and look at what really matters "

Don't think there is anything more to add. Not all us guys are here to fuck anyone with a pulse.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

...and there you go

ignore him. he's on here looking for that kind of woman anyway or he can't pull on a night out either.

women are often lumped with the kids and that responsibility, not allowed to be overtly sexual (unless it's for a mans benefit), and being on the internet makes it easier to be ourselves without judgment (we can block any who do that but on here it's a given that men love 'sluts' or at least want servicing by them so it's rare that happens).

i'm sure people have no standards at all and so what? at least they're getting fucked and not got time to moan about shit."

sorry that last line should say some people.

i don't meet much now either. not impressed with the men on here at all (or any internet sites), think most of them are douches who haven't got a fucking clue about women.

fucks sake, we get all this shit outside of fab about standards we should be maintaining to be attractive to men, haha get a fucking clue mate.we are human being s and not pieces of shit to be moulded into your play things for your amusement.

i feel a feminist march coming on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are "standards" anyway, everyone is attracted to different things, shape sizes etc. I can say I don't drop my standards but then again someone who I consider really good looking might not do it for someone else.

Each to their own as long as everyones enjoying themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are "standards" anyway, everyone is attracted to different things, shape sizes etc. I can say I don't drop my standards but then again someone who I consider really good looking might not do it for someone else.

Each to their own as long as everyones enjoying themselves "

well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say it's lowering standards... I've chatted people on here that I wouldn't, as you say, give a second look to. However, when I get chatting to them they are really nice and that can be more of a turn on and we end up meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say it goes the other way too. I'd literally fuck anyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say it goes the other way too. I'd literally fuck anyone!"

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I'd say it goes the other way too. I'd literally fuck anyone!"

Someone with a 3" penis?!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

...and there you go

ignore him. he's on here looking for that kind of woman anyway or he can't pull on a night out either.

women are often lumped with the kids and that responsibility, not allowed to be overtly sexual (unless it's for a mans benefit), and being on the internet makes it easier to be ourselves without judgment (we can block any who do that but on here it's a given that men love 'sluts' or at least want servicing by them so it's rare that happens).

i'm sure people have no standards at all and so what? at least they're getting fucked and not got time to moan about shit.

sorry that last line should say some people.

i don't meet much now either. not impressed with the men on here at all (or any internet sites), think most of them are douches who haven't got a fucking clue about women.

fucks sake, we get all this shit outside of fab about standards we should be maintaining to be attractive to men, haha get a fucking clue mate.we are human being s and not pieces of shit to be moulded into your play things for your amusement.

i feel a feminist march coming on."

I'm with ya sister

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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What's up lovely??

Well it's a bit of a shit thought isn't it that someone apparently drops their 'standards' when they message me,just for the sake of a shag! It's seriously putting me off sex this place,I just hate it when people start talking about standards. "

Exactly!

This sort of stuff just makes people feel like shit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say it goes the other way too. I'd literally fuck anyone!"

And yet your profile has age limits not meeting single guys and other requirements. You sure about that comment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood there's some bigger girls in here I would give a right porking but would be seen dead talking to them in the street.

And some girls on here I'd make her my long term given a chance everyone is different I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hang on a minute all these people with their various standards of yes to a fuck

if life was so good in the street and sex was abundance.. wtf are they on here for???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say it goes the other way too. I'd literally fuck anyone!

Someone with a 3" penis?!"

A penis only a butt can love and enjoy! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of guys seem to. Just as the majority of women set unrealistic standards and expectations (and yes I'm often guilty of this)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish some ladies would drop their standards and come meet me

I guess the key difference here is it's a casual sex site essentially (some may argue that's not what Swinging is, but this site ceased to be a pure Swinging site a long time ago!) and so people are looking for sex rather than a date or a partner. So the requirements may be different.

It doesn't necessarily mean LOWER, just DIFFERENT. So I think it's a gross generalisation to say people are all happy to lower their standards for a shag!

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

...and there you go

ignore him. he's on here looking for that kind of woman anyway or he can't pull on a night out either.

women are often lumped with the kids and that responsibility, not allowed to be overtly sexual (unless it's for a mans benefit), and being on the internet makes it easier to be ourselves without judgment (we can block any who do that but on here it's a given that men love 'sluts' or at least want servicing by them so it's rare that happens).

i'm sure people have no standards at all and so what? at least they're getting fucked and not got time to moan about shit.

sorry that last line should say some people.

i don't meet much now either. not impressed with the men on here at all (or any internet sites), think most of them are douches who haven't got a fucking clue about women.

fucks sake, we get all this shit outside of fab about standards we should be maintaining to be attractive to men, haha get a fucking clue mate.we are human being s and not pieces of shit to be moulded into your play things for your amusement.

i feel a feminist march coming on.

I'm with ya sister "

good.

it made me mad that someone upset you and then i got mad that men think it's their right to judge.

this rest of it's not for you personally but how i feel now.

every single judge a body/body part/looks topic is started by men.

imagine if we started doing the same to them? maybe we should and let them see what it's like being treated like nothing, like we're only body parts or fetishes or that we're unattractive if we don't fit whatever they're lauding about and wanking over.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

And I'm sure you'd be welcomed on any feminist march . I agree with one point you've made . Women generally do get lumped with the kids . So the internet is a form of escapism ... the rest of your sweeping generalisations are nonsense in relation to me !! As I said I can only speak about myself and MY standards not the obvious lack of your own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my own personal standards regarding what I find attractive, I also have my own personal standards on the quirkiness of someone's personality and intellect that make me zing. And I absolutely have standards regarding the attitudes people have regarding others, there are a smattering of posts in the thread above that fall woefully short of the latter.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I'd say it goes the other way too. I'd literally fuck anyone!

And yet your profile has age limits not meeting single guys and other requirements. You sure about that comment?"

I'm presuming it was maybe a joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I like what I like and that's that, no lowering of standards here, hence the 12 months without sex but still my standards remain

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

...and there you go

ignore him. he's on here looking for that kind of woman anyway or he can't pull on a night out either.

women are often lumped with the kids and that responsibility, not allowed to be overtly sexual (unless it's for a mans benefit), and being on the internet makes it easier to be ourselves without judgment (we can block any who do that but on here it's a given that men love 'sluts' or at least want servicing by them so it's rare that happens).

i'm sure people have no standards at all and so what? at least they're getting fucked and not got time to moan about shit.

sorry that last line should say some people.

i don't meet much now either. not impressed with the men on here at all (or any internet sites), think most of them are douches who haven't got a fucking clue about women.

fucks sake, we get all this shit outside of fab about standards we should be maintaining to be attractive to men, haha get a fucking clue mate.we are human being s and not pieces of shit to be moulded into your play things for your amusement.

i feel a feminist march coming on.

I'm with ya sister

good.

it made me mad that someone upset you and then i got mad that men think it's their right to judge.

this rest of it's not for you personally but how i feel now.

every single judge a body/body part/looks topic is started by men.

imagine if we started doing the same to them? maybe we should and let them see what it's like being treated like nothing, like we're only body parts or fetishes or that we're unattractive if we don't fit whatever they're lauding about and wanking over.

"

It's rubbish it,I don't see myself as being any better or any worse than any other woman on here,so when people start talking about standard's it annoys me.

I don't even know what these standard's are,is it when you don't find someone sexually or physically compatible. Like you say we're not just body part's,mindyou I suppose when somone starts talking like that I know damn well they're not for me.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"And I'm sure you'd be welcomed on any feminist march . I agree with one point you've made . Women generally do get lumped with the kids . So the internet is a form of escapism ... the rest of your sweeping generalisations are nonsense in relation to me !! As I said I can only speak about myself and MY standards not the obvious lack of your own "

in relation to you? women are allowed to have opinions, i will have mine.

and i'm sure any guy my opinion doesn't apply to knows it's nothing to do with him. and instead of sticking up for himself he should be saying how do we get guys to stop treating women like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *arge Hardon ColliderMan
over a year ago

Not far away


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What's up lovely??

Well it's a bit of a shit thought isn't it that someone apparently drops their 'standards' when they message me,just for the sake of a shag! It's seriously putting me off sex this place,I just hate it when people start talking about standards. "

The only thing I'd be dropping for you is my trousers certainly not my standards

I don't drop my standards here, although I can see why some may do.

Suppose it's a numbers thing.

I'm sure there are plenty of others that don't drop theirs too though

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say it goes the other way too. I'd literally fuck anyone!

And yet your profile has age limits not meeting single guys and other requirements. You sure about that comment?"

Yeah I was joking love.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Do you think guys drop their standards on here for a fuck?

I mean some fems they wouldnt give a 2nd look at on the street but if they had a chance of a ride on here they are on it like a shot?"

I would think some men and some women will drop their standards, on here. Each to their own.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

...and there you go

ignore him. he's on here looking for that kind of woman anyway or he can't pull on a night out either.

women are often lumped with the kids and that responsibility, not allowed to be overtly sexual (unless it's for a mans benefit), and being on the internet makes it easier to be ourselves without judgment (we can block any who do that but on here it's a given that men love 'sluts' or at least want servicing by them so it's rare that happens).

i'm sure people have no standards at all and so what? at least they're getting fucked and not got time to moan about shit.

sorry that last line should say some people.

i don't meet much now either. not impressed with the men on here at all (or any internet sites), think most of them are douches who haven't got a fucking clue about women.

fucks sake, we get all this shit outside of fab about standards we should be maintaining to be attractive to men, haha get a fucking clue mate.we are human being s and not pieces of shit to be moulded into your play things for your amusement.

i feel a feminist march coming on.

I'm with ya sister

good.

it made me mad that someone upset you and then i got mad that men think it's their right to judge.

this rest of it's not for you personally but how i feel now.

every single judge a body/body part/looks topic is started by men.

imagine if we started doing the same to them? maybe we should and let them see what it's like being treated like nothing, like we're only body parts or fetishes or that we're unattractive if we don't fit whatever they're lauding about and wanking over.

It's rubbish it,I don't see myself as being any better or any worse than any other woman on here,so when people start talking about standard's it annoys me.

I don't even know what these standard's are,is it when you don't find someone sexually or physically compatible. Like you say we're not just body part's,mindyou I suppose when somone starts talking like that I know damn well they're not for me."

you can only have your own standards, it's stupid to judge others coz they're based on a complex amount of things.

gonna go off here for a bit. everything is pissing me off right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

...and there you go "

I'd drop my standards for you xx

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


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i feel a feminist march coming on.

I'm with ya sister

good.

it made me mad that someone upset you and then i got mad that men think it's their right to judge.

this rest of it's not for you personally but how i feel now.

every single judge a body/body part/looks topic is started by men.

imagine if we started doing the same to them? maybe we should and let them see what it's like being treated like nothing, like we're only body parts or fetishes or that we're unattractive if we don't fit whatever they're lauding about and wanking over.

It's rubbish it,I don't see myself as being any better or any worse than any other woman on here,so when people start talking about standard's it annoys me.

I don't even know what these standard's are,is it when you don't find someone sexually or physically compatible. Like you say we're not just body part's,mindyou I suppose when somone starts talking like that I know damn well they're not for me.

you can only have your own standards, it's stupid to judge others coz they're based on a complex amount of things.

gonna go off here for a bit. everything is pissing me off right now."

I feel the same

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

...and there you go

I'd drop my standards for you xx"

Seriously don't bother

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Yeah I reckon so. Can't see some of the younger guys being interested in me in vanilla world. But then again, I wouldn't be interested in them either. So happy to meet for mutual sexual pleasure

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

I'm sorry but that's so contradictory seeing as your initial response was to ME and in fact taking unbrance to what I'd said . Was it not ? The very fact that I do have standards means exactly that . I don't wax lyrical or pay lip service just to get in a woman's knickers . And by that very fact alone means that I do not treat women as just a piece of meat or an object . So I'm sorry but your argument with me doesn't make sense , as anyone with an ounce of that would realise that by having standards . I treat women with respect and believe in equality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the question ought to be "would you have sex with somebody you didn't find attractive just so you could have sex". Having read some of the posts I apologise for my post at least. I didn't mean to make anybody feel bad. Saying standards is saying one lady is better than another but it's just a matter of taste. We all like different things in different people. If was put another way then no, I wouldn't have sex with somebody I didn't find attractive just so I could get sex.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Maybe the question ought to be "would you have sex with somebody you didn't find attractive just so you could have sex". Having read some of the posts I apologise for my post at least. I didn't mean to make anybody feel bad. Saying standards is saying one lady is better than another but it's just a matter of taste. We all like different things in different people. If was put another way then no, I wouldn't have sex with somebody I didn't find attractive just so I could get sex. "

That make's more sense to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a place where you find women who like naughty men. As a naughty man myself, I'm very appreciative of that and find it quite liberating. So all the women on here automatically get respect from me for being bonkers enough to be here.

After that there's a mix. There are some women I feel are very good looking who's approach to sex is incompatible with mine, some women I don't find so good looking who are totally on my wavelength, and a whole bunch in between. I respect them all but am only attracted to some.

The op seems to think of women as trophies. With the best looking being the gold. This is such a boring superficial outlook. This site is about finding people who share your kink and want to help you explore. I certainly wouldn't put myself in a position that I felt was degrading or beneath me. But on here that could just as easily happen with a woman you felt was good looking as with one you didn't.

Don't get me wrong. I'm very fussy. I just don't see it's very enlightened to rate women based solely on looks as the op is implying. For me it's definitely the whole package.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out "

Omg not all women on here can't get a lookin on the high street... not all women on here are munters!!

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By *arge Hardon ColliderMan
over a year ago

Not far away


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

...and there you go

I'd drop my standards for you xx

Seriously don't bother"

Pffff there's no pleasing some people, an offer like that and you shot him down!

.....What's the matter, doesn't he meet your "standards?"

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By *apascouseMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

Omg not all women on here can't get a lookin on the high street... not all women on here are munters!!"

I think it's better, you can see a person's personality on here and make an opinion of them withing a few messages. It deeper than going on looks alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It is actually the female half of the couple that posted this and i would not class myself as a trophy. Im an average looking lady that is posting after a bad experience with a single guy...


"This is a place where you find women who like naughty men. As a naughty man myself, I'm very appreciative of that and find it quite liberating. So all the women on here automatically get respect from me for being bonkers enough to be here.

After that there's a mix. There are some women I feel are very good looking who's approach to sex is incompatible with mine, some women I don't find so good looking who are totally on my wavelength, and a whole bunch in between. I respect them all but am only attracted to some.

The op seems to think of women as trophies. With the best looking being the gold. This is such a boring superficial outlook. This site is about finding people who share your kink and want to help you explore. I certainly wouldn't put myself in a position that I felt was degrading or beneath me. But on here that could just as easily happen with a woman you felt was good looking as with one you didn't.

Don't get me wrong. I'm very fussy. I just don't see it's very enlightened to rate women based solely on looks as the op is implying. For me it's definitely the whole package. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

...and there you go

I'd drop my standards for you xx

Seriously don't bother"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

Omg not all women on here can't get a lookin on the high street... not all women on here are munters!!

I think it's better, you can see a person's personality on here and make an opinion of them withing a few messages. It deeper than going on looks alone "

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

I agree but then the written word leaves a lot to be desired and is open to gross misinterpretation. Which seems to have been this case on this forum topic .

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By *rontmanMan
over a year ago

Derby and often London

I just love good sex! And you can have that with women of every shape and size!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think guys drop their standards on here for a fuck?

I mean some fems they wouldnt give a 2nd look at on the street but if they had a chance of a ride on here they are on it like a shot?"

Yes of course; guys only fuck me cos I'm easy

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

...and there you go

I'd drop my standards for you xx

Seriously don't bother "

There's nothing like a backhanded compliment is there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think guys drop their standards on here for a fuck?

I mean some fems they wouldnt give a 2nd look at on the street but if they had a chance of a ride on here they are on it like a shot?"

I believe so..especially when you've been here for quite a while without success you become very desperate for that first green tick

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Maybe the question ought to be "would you have sex with somebody you didn't find attractive just so you could have sex". Having read some of the posts I apologise for my post at least. I didn't mean to make anybody feel bad. Saying standards is saying one lady is better than another but it's just a matter of taste. We all like different things in different people. If was put another way then no, I wouldn't have sex with somebody I didn't find attractive just so I could get sex.

That make's more sense to me!"

Yes it reads better. I'd like to think the guys don't find me unattractive, but I'm not naive to think that they'd go out their way to look at me in the street

Then I know some would. Again, the same applies back from my point of view

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

...and there you go

I'd drop my standards for you xx

Seriously don't bother

Pffff there's no pleasing some people, an offer like that and you shot him down!

.....What's the matter, doesn't he meet your "standards?" "

I've gone off men I just don't like them anymore,horrible creatures the lot of ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could step outside my car right this second, throw a stone in any direction and get a shag, well maybe not right now but at half 5 when all the offices shut, no actually I could cos there's a whole building site full of guys opposite me and even with flu I just had a whistle. Umm I dunno what point I'm trying to make now, oh yeah I'm lush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on my mood there's some bigger girls in here I would give a right porking but would be seen dead talking to them in the street.

And some girls on here I'd make her my long term given a chance everyone is different I guess"

Nice! Although not sure any bigger girls will be receiving your porking if they read this thread. Good luck with the monks

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

...and there you go

I'd drop my standards for you xx

Seriously don't bother

Pffff there's no pleasing some people, an offer like that and you shot him down!

.....What's the matter, doesn't he meet your "standards?"

I've gone off men I just don't like them anymore,horrible creatures the lot of ya!"

So you into women now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is actually the female half of the couple that posted this and i would not class myself as a trophy. Im an average looking lady that is posting after a bad experience with a single guy... "

Then my mind boggles as to why you'd equate having sex with women you don't find so good looking as lowering standards. I'm not alone in giving some very good looking women who aren't very nice people a wide berth. And I'm also not alone in finding supposedly average looking women blossoming into amazingly sexy women before my eyes as they let the real them out. Sex is so much about the person than the image imo

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"I think men in couples would do that too, if the wife/gf allowed it. "

My man wouldn't ! Quality over quantity for us

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out "

why are you on here then? doing all the ugly girls a favour? yeah right!

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

Yes but I bet it's not manflu!!!!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Depends on my mood there's some bigger girls in here I would give a right porking but would be seen dead talking to them in the street.

And some girls on here I'd make her my long term given a chance everyone is different I guess

Nice! Although not sure any bigger girls will be receiving your porking if they read this thread. Good luck with the monks "

I don't know who said that,but what an incredibly immature and horrid thing to say!

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By *arge Hardon ColliderMan
over a year ago

Not far away


"I could step outside my car right this second, throw a stone in any direction and get a shag, well maybe not right now but at half 5 when all the offices shut, no actually I could cos there's a whole building site full of guys opposite me and even with flu I just had a whistle. Umm I dunno what point I'm trying to make now, oh yeah I'm lush "

I hope they've got their hard hats on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

...and there you go

I'd drop my standards for you xx

Seriously don't bother

Pffff there's no pleasing some people, an offer like that and you shot him down!

.....What's the matter, doesn't he meet your "standards?"

I've gone off men I just don't like them anymore,horrible creatures the lot of ya!"

Ahh now come on, don't be like that, we're not all bad, are we?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

...and there you go

I'd drop my standards for you xx

Seriously don't bother

Pffff there's no pleasing some people, an offer like that and you shot him down!

.....What's the matter, doesn't he meet your "standards?"

I've gone off men I just don't like them anymore,horrible creatures the lot of ya!

So you into women now "

Yeah,but I'm not doing any rude stuff just holding hand's and a quick peck that kinda thing . I wish I was bisexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is actually the female half of the couple that posted this and i would not class myself as a trophy. Im an average looking lady that is posting after a bad experience with a single guy...

Then my mind boggles as to why you'd equate having sex with women you don't find so good looking as lowering standards. I'm not alone in giving some very good looking women who aren't very nice people a wide berth. And I'm also not alone in finding supposedly average looking women blossoming into amazingly sexy women before my eyes as they let the real them out. Sex is so much about the person than the image imo "

Yeah but can you fuck a personality?

I had an experience a few years back of a guy that was just perfect, his mind was everything I could ever think of. I was bat shit crazy to him cos he blew me off the first night of the World Cup when I cooked him sticky chicken skewers and done a nice spread for him. I went berserk cos he let me down, then HE apologised to me! Like I lost my shit big time but he just brushed it off and took it in his stride, said he understood I'm a bit crazy and would just say stuff like the most interesting people usually are, anyway he got me, my humour, my taste in music,films, EVERYTHING he was mentally my perfect match. When I finally met him in the flesh, poof, dreams shattered, he'd tricked me with black and white side profile pictures, wasn't handsome in the flesh, now his penis was huge but it's not enough even with a brilliant personality and he probably would have treated me like the high priestess of the universe, but nah, he was buzzing like.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Depends on my mood there's some bigger girls in here I would give a right porking but would be seen dead talking to them in the street.

And some girls on here I'd make her my long term given a chance everyone is different I guess

Nice! Although not sure any bigger girls will be receiving your porking if they read this thread. Good luck with the monks

I don't know who said that,but what an incredibly immature and horrid thing to say!"

haha don't think many of their inboxes will be full any time soon!

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

No I'm here to look for what I'm looking for ..... that's my standard ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite funny to see most men not displaying verifications from certain ladies on this site. Says it all about them really. The perfect block list filler!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I think men in couples would do that too, if the wife/gf allowed it.

My man wouldn't ! Quality over quantity for us "

Same here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think guys drop their standards on here for a fuck?

I mean some fems they wouldnt give a 2nd look at on the street but if they had a chance of a ride on here they are on it like a shot?"

Damn right..... lets face it a lot of munters on here.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

...and there you go

I'd drop my standards for you xx

Seriously don't bother

Pffff there's no pleasing some people, an offer like that and you shot him down!

.....What's the matter, doesn't he meet your "standards?"

I've gone off men I just don't like them anymore,horrible creatures the lot of ya!

Ahh now come on, don't be like that, we're not all bad, are we? "

No you're not thankfully,you make up for all the utter dicks that treat women like pieces of meat and then get vile when no-one wants to fuck them. I want a confident gentleman that treats a woman with respect and on an equal footing. Some men on here are clearly just women haters.

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over a year ago

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Do you think guys drop their standards on here for a fuck?

I mean some fems they wouldnt give a 2nd look at on the street but if they had a chance of a ride on here they are on it like a shot?

Damn right..... lets face it a lot of munters on here."

You're being called in for your tea!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Not sure why people are getting upset here. The standards men have for a one off sexual encounter are obviously lower than standards for a relationship, which in turn are lower than standards for a wife.

In the vanilla world it's more difficult to have true NSA sex without hinting it could lead to something more. So it's just basic logic that men would fuck women on here that they wouldn't date in the vanilla world, almost certainly women do the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

...and there you go

I'd drop my standards for you xx

Seriously don't bother

Pffff there's no pleasing some people, an offer like that and you shot him down!

.....What's the matter, doesn't he meet your "standards?"

I've gone off men I just don't like them anymore,horrible creatures the lot of ya!

Ahh now come on, don't be like that, we're not all bad, are we?

No you're not thankfully,you make up for all the utter dicks that treat women like pieces of meat and then get vile when no-one wants to fuck them. I want a confident gentleman that treats a woman with respect and on an equal footing. Some men on here are clearly just women haters."

Ahh thanks, I'm almost sure there's a compliment in there somewhere x

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

...and there you go

I'd drop my standards for you xx

Seriously don't bother

Pffff there's no pleasing some people, an offer like that and you shot him down!

.....What's the matter, doesn't he meet your "standards?"

I've gone off men I just don't like them anymore,horrible creatures the lot of ya!

So you into women now

Yeah,but I'm not doing any rude stuff just holding hand's and a quick peck that kinda thing . I wish I was bisexual "

Every cloud you see. In the famous words of George Formby, turned out nice again int it

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Do you think guys drop their standards on here for a fuck?

I mean some fems they wouldnt give a 2nd look at on the street but if they had a chance of a ride on here they are on it like a shot?

Damn right..... lets face it a lot of munters on here."

I respect people and generally have a good attitude towards others.

cut and pasted from your profile! not very true is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is actually the female half of the couple that posted this and i would not class myself as a trophy. Im an average looking lady that is posting after a bad experience with a single guy...

Then my mind boggles as to why you'd equate having sex with women you don't find so good looking as lowering standards. I'm not alone in giving some very good looking women who aren't very nice people a wide berth. And I'm also not alone in finding supposedly average looking women blossoming into amazingly sexy women before my eyes as they let the real them out. Sex is so much about the person than the image imo

Yeah but can you fuck a personality?

I had an experience a few years back of a guy that was just perfect, his mind was everything I could ever think of. I was bat shit crazy to him cos he blew me off the first night of the World Cup when I cooked him sticky chicken skewers and done a nice spread for him. I went berserk cos he let me down, then HE apologised to me! Like I lost my shit big time but he just brushed it off and took it in his stride, said he understood I'm a bit crazy and would just say stuff like the most interesting people usually are, anyway he got me, my humour, my taste in music,films, EVERYTHING he was mentally my perfect match. When I finally met him in the flesh, poof, dreams shattered, he'd tricked me with black and white side profile pictures, wasn't handsome in the flesh, now his penis was huge but it's not enough even with a brilliant personality and he probably would have treated me like the high priestess of the universe, but nah, he was buzzing like. "

Charming lol. Of course it's a par off between different things. If a woman wants me to watch her have sex then I'd be pretty fussy about how she looked. If she wanted me to come into her office as if being interviewed and cum over her tits... well let's just say the scenario is horny enough that I'd be a lot less fussy about looks. Would I be dropping my standards? Absolutely not. A woman I find average looking who wants to do something super kinky will always win over one I find good looking who wants to do something dull. Of course good looking AND kinky trumps them allllll

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By *arge Hardon ColliderMan
over a year ago

Not far away


"Do you think guys drop their standards on here for a fuck?

I mean some fems they wouldnt give a 2nd look at on the street but if they had a chance of a ride on here they are on it like a shot?

Damn right..... lets face it a lot of munters on here.

You're being called in for your tea! "

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"I have my own personal standards regarding what I find attractive, I also have my own personal standards on the quirkiness of someone's personality and intellect that make me zing. And I absolutely have standards regarding the attitudes people have regarding others, there are a smattering of posts in the thread above that fall woefully short of the latter. "

To the point of me blocking someone for what they've posted...For the first time since finding the Forums

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

...and there you go

I'd drop my standards for you xx

Seriously don't bother

Pffff there's no pleasing some people, an offer like that and you shot him down!

.....What's the matter, doesn't he meet your "standards?"

I've gone off men I just don't like them anymore,horrible creatures the lot of ya!

Ahh now come on, don't be like that, we're not all bad, are we?

No you're not thankfully,you make up for all the utter dicks that treat women like pieces of meat and then get vile when no-one wants to fuck them. I want a confident gentleman that treats a woman with respect and on an equal footing. Some men on here are clearly just women haters.

Ahh thanks, I'm almost sure there's a compliment in there somewhere x"

There is! These type's of threads seem to bring out the slimeballs though. "I wouldn't be seen dead with that in public,but I'll shag ya behind closed door's" kinda mentality! Referring to women as munters etc,how infantile is that!

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Here we are getting upset and some quarelling disguised as discussing...and the OP not even make a statement after the initial post. That is such a troll like attitude

I bet he/she just enjoying the read.

As for meeting - whatever standard - it's a 2 way.

- if someone lowered his standard meeting me..it only means i have elevated my standard having met him (presumably hotter).

.

Shrugs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab Forums rarely reflect the truth on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure why people are getting upset here. The standards men have for a one off sexual encounter are obviously lower than standards for a relationship, which in turn are lower than standards for a wife.

In the vanilla world it's more difficult to have true NSA sex without hinting it could lead to something more. So it's just basic logic that men would fuck women on here that they wouldn't date in the vanilla world, almost certainly women do the same. "

I would agree with this.

One of my brothers friends likes me alot and I used to like him. We have tons in common including same careers. However... He will never ask me to be his girlfriend/partner for one reason only ... I already have kids. So im not good enough to be his girlfriend (even though I have alot I own in my life by my own achievements), but he admitted he would happily fuck me! Some cold hearted guys around that's for sure.

Another guy I know (at work) always tried it on from the time I first started there. I've always said no and always will. He's good looking but i never sleep with guys I work with and never will. Any way one day he randomly came over showed me this pic on his phone. It was of a woman wearing only a thong. He said she's now his gf and the only reason she is his gf is because I turned him down! How cold and bewildering is that?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

...and there you go

I'd drop my standards for you xx

Seriously don't bother

Pffff there's no pleasing some people, an offer like that and you shot him down!

.....What's the matter, doesn't he meet your "standards?"

I've gone off men I just don't like them anymore,horrible creatures the lot of ya!

Ahh now come on, don't be like that, we're not all bad, are we?

No you're not thankfully,you make up for all the utter dicks that treat women like pieces of meat and then get vile when no-one wants to fuck them. I want a confident gentleman that treats a woman with respect and on an equal footing. Some men on here are clearly just women haters.

Ahh thanks, I'm almost sure there's a compliment in there somewhere x

There is! These type's of threads seem to bring out the slimeballs though. "I wouldn't be seen dead with that in public,but I'll shag ya behind closed door's" kinda mentality! Referring to women as munters etc,how infantile is that!"

Yeah I know, theres just no need for any of that.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Not just men. I think i have done in the past too when i want a nsa 'dont ever txt me again' experience

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Not sure why people are getting upset here. The standards men have for a one off sexual encounter are obviously lower than standards for a relationship, which in turn are lower than standards for a wife.

In the vanilla world it's more difficult to have true NSA sex without hinting it could lead to something more. So it's just basic logic that men would fuck women on here that they wouldn't date in the vanilla world, almost certainly women do the same.

I would agree with this.

One of my brothers friends likes me alot and I used to like him. We have tons in common including same careers. However... He will never ask me to be his girlfriend/partner for one reason only ... I already have kids. So im not good enough to be his girlfriend (even though I have alot I own in my life by my own achievements), but he admitted he would happily fuck me! Some cold hearted guys around that's for sure.

Another guy I know (at work) always tried it on from the time I first started there. I've always said no and always will. He's good looking but i never sleep with guys I work with and never will. Any way one day he randomly came over showed me this pic on his phone. It was of a woman wearing only a thong. He said she's now his gf and the only reason she is his gf is because I turned him down! How cold and bewildering is that?!"

Interesting examples but I'm sure most of us have experienced similar things indirectly, we just weren't told so directly!

Personally i've noticed the level of interest i got from women (before i married) was broadly proportional to my income. As in i had fuck all interest from girls my age at university despite having a ripped six pack and... well a six pack. But rather a lot of interest by 26 when my career started taking despite the six pack being a casualty of the desk job. In my heart i know the majority of those women weren't remotely interested in me when we were both 20.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I have my own personal standards regarding what I find attractive, I also have my own personal standards on the quirkiness of someone's personality and intellect that make me zing. And I absolutely have standards regarding the attitudes people have regarding others, there are a smattering of posts in the thread above that fall woefully short of the latter.

To the point of me blocking someone for what they've posted...For the first time since finding the Forums "

You will find you will do this a lot, the longer you are in here!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Do you think guys drop their standards on here for a fuck?

I mean some fems they wouldnt give a 2nd look at on the street but if they had a chance of a ride on here they are on it like a shot?

Damn right..... lets face it a lot of munters on here."

Hope you're not referring to the people who have verified you on here!

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

I suppose the reason all the girls are 'sorry that I'm not their type' is because they UP their standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose the reason all the girls are 'sorry that I'm not their type' is because they UP their standards."

Or you're not local and do not fit their profile. Some times, it's not all about the looks.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Do you think guys drop their standards on here for a fuck?

I mean some fems they wouldnt give a 2nd look at on the street but if they had a chance of a ride on here they are on it like a shot?

Damn right..... lets face it a lot of munters on here."

And there are plenty delusional men on here

Some think so highly of themselves they adopt names like, sexy, hunk, handsome, which is very much subjective, but then they open their mouths and let their personalities shine through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant speak for anyone else, I only speak for me.

No, I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I don't and do ok online and off but I'm sure a lot of men will probably go with anyone rather then no one it seems on here. "

You will be an "anyone" to someone.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"

Or you're not local and do not fit their profile. Some times, it's not all about the looks. "

Yet you have updated your status within the last hour that you can't find a suitable man..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Or you're not local and do not fit their profile. Some times, it's not all about the looks.

Yet you have updated your status within the last hour that you can't find a suitable man.."

Local/nearby man and one who's actually single and lives alone. Read properly. Stop being personal and dragging your rejected inbox messages into public forums by trying to shame people!

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"I have my own personal standards regarding what I find attractive, I also have my own personal standards on the quirkiness of someone's personality and intellect that make me zing. And I absolutely have standards regarding the attitudes people have regarding others, there are a smattering of posts in the thread above that fall woefully short of the latter.

To the point of me blocking someone for what they've posted...For the first time since finding the Forums

You will find you will do this a lot, the longer you are in here! "

We're not forum newbies but normally I'd either fire back with something cutting/sarcastic or just pass on by while shaking my head but this time it had to be a block. Don't know if I'm becoming more cynical or less tolerant but last four years or so we blocked eight people and so far this year we've trebled the list

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Do you think guys drop their standards on here for a fuck?

I mean some fems they wouldnt give a 2nd look at on the street but if they had a chance of a ride on here they are on it like a shot?"

fucking hope so...its how i used to get most of my fucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say a big % do.

For a lot of fellas on here any hole is a goal and they'll tell you anything you want to hear to get that goal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think guys drop their standards on here for a fuck?

I mean some fems they wouldnt give a 2nd look at on the street but if they had a chance of a ride on here they are on it like a shot?"

No but I think females do, they fuck men coz they feel sorry for them. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, not these days.. I think the nature of the place can lead to an expectation for men to drop their standards as women who they'd probably not look at twice in public suddenly become 'picky', but not for me personally.

I don't struggle in real life and honestly, I'd rather go without.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think k people have too high a standard and based on their own looks and personality are expecting way too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out "

So umm, are men also here because they too can not get a look in on the high street or night out?

Come on a night out with me and we will soon see who gets more of a look in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

3rd post!!!!! Some of has to work lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

So umm, are men also here because they too can not get a look in on the high street or night out?

Come on a night out with me and we will soon see who gets more of a look in. "
I'd win because all the guys would say how's that ugly cunt pull that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ever been that desperate......can't figure I ever would be!

But it's clear that many do....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think guys drop their standards on here for a fuck?

I mean some fems they wouldnt give a 2nd look at on the street but if they had a chance of a ride on here they are on it like a shot?"

Interesting thread? A few points here.

A lot of men will just shag anyone on here or on a night out?

How can you tell how attractive someone is from pics on a screen? I've met women who look better than there pics and women who look worse?

Is mental connection just as important as looks? My best meets have been with women I get on well with?

I've met a variety of women, in reality some I would date, some I wouldn't, some have been out of my league, all of them had there good and bad qualities?

Standards? First thing for me is we get on well n can have a drink in the pub, sit and have a cuppa, enjoy good company. Maybe it's cause I'm older but looks are probably number 2 on my list when it comes to deciding to meet and that doesn't mean I don't have standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Standards? It's not a meat factory. It's people looking for relationships and fun. I find it disrespectful even entertaining that thought.

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By *atteriesnotIncludedMan
over a year ago

Buxton


"Nope, not these days.. I think the nature of the place can lead to an expectation for men to drop their standards as women who they'd probably not look at twice in public suddenly become 'picky', but not for me personally.

I don't struggle in real life and honestly, I'd rather go without."

Me too mate

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By *roblemfactoryMan
over a year ago

Blanchardstown

The people a man fucks... meet his standards. They may say that their standards are higher than they actually are, but your standards are based on what you're actually willing to do, not what(who) you say you're willing to do. If you reject someone, they might not meet your standards, though there are other reasons to reject someone as well. If you fuck someone willingly, that person clearly met your standards at that point in time. I'm not sure that conciously lowering your standards is a logical possibility, if you think you've done that, your standards are just lower than you're willing to admit, and maybe you're a bit of a cunt about it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

...and there you go

I'd drop my standards for you xx"

Perhaps she won't drop her standards for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think guys drop their standards on here for a fuck?

I mean some fems they wouldnt give a 2nd look at on the street but if they had a chance of a ride on here they are on it like a shot?

Damn right..... lets face it a lot of munters on here."

An incredible amount... Probably 99.9% male.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The people a man fucks... meet his standards. They may say that their standards are higher than they actually are, but your standards are based on what you're actually willing to do, not what(who) you say you're willing to do. If you reject someone, they might not meet your standards, though there are other reasons to reject someone as well. If you fuck someone willingly, that person clearly met your standards at that point in time. I'm not sure that conciously lowering your standards is a logical possibility, if you think you've done that, your standards are just lower than you're willing to admit, and maybe you're a bit of a cunt about it too. "

Interesting point.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out "

What a crock of shite..

This comes from someone with no visible photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of guys seem to. Just as the majority of women set unrealistic standards and expectations (and yes I'm often guilty of this) "

Pretty much this. Its a sex site so it shouldnt be much of a surprise that men compromise on their standards for a shag. If this was a site where verifiable rich and powerful men looked for mates then you would, likewise, so more compromise on the part of the woman.

Ultimately (the majority of) men and women desire slightly different things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

What a crock of shite..

This comes from someone with no visible photos "

He's kinda got a point. Dont get ahead of yourself, or caught up in the fact that some people dont have pictures. I know two guys who looking very fucking impressive in real life who dont have photos.

Some of you seem to get way to caught up in your Fabswingers reality and think it dictates the whole world. Plenty of reasons why people opt out of having publicly accessible pictures, I have found that on here looks are not always the justification for someone lurking in the shadows.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

What a crock of shite..

This comes from someone with no visible photos

He's kinda got a point. Dont get ahead of yourself, or caught up in the fact that some people dont have pictures. I know two guys who looking very fucking impressive in real life who dont have photos.

Some of you seem to get way to caught up in your Fabswingers reality and think it dictates the whole world. Plenty of reasons why people opt out of having publicly accessible pictures, I have found that on here looks are not always the justification for someone lurking in the shadows. "

I am fully aware it doesn't dictate the whole world and pictures can be deceptive.

There are many reasons people hide in the shadows.

But to say fab is for women who can get a look in on a night out is really insulting.

Women choose to be on fab for many reasons as do men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a place where you find women who like naughty men. As a naughty man myself, I'm very appreciative of that and find it quite liberating. So all the women on here automatically get respect from me for being bonkers enough to be here.

After that there's a mix. There are some women I feel are very good looking who's approach to sex is incompatible with mine, some women I don't find so good looking who are totally on my wavelength, and a whole bunch in between. I respect them all but am only attracted to some.

The op seems to think of women as trophies. With the best looking being the gold. This is such a boring superficial outlook. This site is about finding people who share your kink and want to help you explore. I certainly wouldn't put myself in a position that I felt was degrading or beneath me. But on here that could just as easily happen with a woman you felt was good looking as with one you didn't.

Don't get me wrong. I'm very fussy. I just don't see it's very enlightened to rate women based solely on looks as the op is implying. For me it's definitely the whole package. "

Youre not enlightened, nor are you clever. Men desire beauty and will rank women accordingly. We can complain about it all we like but every aspect of just about every patriarchal society ranks women according to their beauty.

Equally, men are ranked according to their wealth, status and resources. Everywhere in a patriarchal society men will be demarcated according to numerous measures of monetary value (interestingly, matriarchal societies are actually a good deal worse in this respect). Women will also rank these men according to their monetary value with those at the top of society reaping the most rewards.

Human beings are only human and will adhere to the desires and traits that make them human. You're no better or more enlightened for your claims that you "dont rank women". In fact, I often find that people who say this often simply end up being full of shit and will happily exercise the same sexual opportunism the moment a chance presents itself.

Fab forumites really need to chill with the faux wisdom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

What a crock of shite..

This comes from someone with no visible photos

He's kinda got a point. Dont get ahead of yourself, or caught up in the fact that some people dont have pictures. I know two guys who looking very fucking impressive in real life who dont have photos.

Some of you seem to get way to caught up in your Fabswingers reality and think it dictates the whole world. Plenty of reasons why people opt out of having publicly accessible pictures, I have found that on here looks are not always the justification for someone lurking in the shadows.

I am fully aware it doesn't dictate the whole world and pictures can be deceptive.

There are many reasons people hide in the shadows.

But to say fab is for women who can get a look in on a night out is really insulting.

Women choose to be on fab for many reasons as do men.

"

Hmmm. You know I have no idea. Whilst I agree that not everyone on here is lacking in real life attention, I had a playmate tell me a few years ago that she thought Fab attracted a lot of women who were in the late 30s-40s and were in the period of declining sexual interest and thus turned to swinging as a way to compete.

Sounds fucked up, but there is a strong element of truth. Sex exists in a marketplace...and there is a pretty good reason why you dont find that man Instagram model lookalikes on here. Gotta be honest.

As I have said before I actually found that women in couples tend to be way more easier to get along with than the single crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yawn!

I'm just a fat slut who only meets men that are lowering their standards on that day ...

It's a good job that us fat sluts ignore the men with bruised egos that choose to be offensive because some "fat bitch" has rejected them.

Cunts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The word 'standard' seems to rub people up the wrong way. Perhaps it should be rephrased to 'going far outside one's usual taste/preferences' in order to get a shag (bearing in mind that we all have different tastes). And yes I think a hell of a lot of men on Fab fuck someone they wouldn't look twice at in regular. Those men who don't fall in that camp don't need to be offended because I'm not referring to them. And men who will fuck anybody, whether they like them, also don't need to be offended because not being fussy is their choice.

I admit that Fab is an ego boost for a middle aged woman like myself. Hot young men, who would never notice me on the beach, take an interest here. But I'm not going to lower my standards by fucking a guy who does like me. It's a good ego boost, but I avoid batting above my station. The men we have met are typically not indifferent to the men I would date in regular life, therefore nobody is dropping their standards.

Mrs

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

What a crock of shite..

This comes from someone with no visible photos

He's kinda got a point. Dont get ahead of yourself, or caught up in the fact that some people dont have pictures. I know two guys who looking very fucking impressive in real life who dont have photos.

Some of you seem to get way to caught up in your Fabswingers reality and think it dictates the whole world. Plenty of reasons why people opt out of having publicly accessible pictures, I have found that on here looks are not always the justification for someone lurking in the shadows. "

Are you on here because you can't get a look in on the high street,or is it totally different for men?

I'll answer that shall I,yes all men are on here because women won't give you all a second glance on the street. Thankfully for the men on here we women 'will' lower our standard's and just about shag anything with a faint pulse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes have chatted to fellas who said if its there they will often fuck it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of guys seem to. Just as the majority of women set unrealistic standards and expectations (and yes I'm often guilty of this) "

Spot on there's a lot of folk expecting James Bond to appear at there door "elite males"

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow

this is why I've blocked all men from messaging me....

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By *roblemfactoryMan
over a year ago

Blanchardstown

They are cunts. "I went below my standards"... is a horrible way to think about someone who was nice enough to put your dick in their mouth. It's easy to have a bit of respect and not be a piece of shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest I think your probably right."

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow


"They are cunts. "I went below my standards"... is a horrible way to think about someone who was nice enough to put your dick in their mouth. It's easy to have a bit of respect and not be a piece of shit. "

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"They are cunts. "I went below my standards"... is a horrible way to think about someone who was nice enough to put your dick in their mouth. It's easy to have a bit of respect and not be a piece of shit. "

It seems impossible for some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will never lower my standards and meet a guy who thinks like some of the men on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'd say any man woman or couple who fucks someone then they are in there usual standards as you have just fucked them.

I think men seem to think they are doing the women a favour on here and forget the women are out numbered by men.

This is why the rest of us decent men don't get replays to our messeges or a 2nd look because the number of men that can't take "sorry not for us" is untrue.

The first shit reply that a man sends for getting rejection they should be barred from using the site on the same hand this should go to women and couples who send shitty messeges back when a man sends one polite messege.

Far to many keyboard warriors on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The word 'standard' seems to rub people up the wrong way. Perhaps it should be rephrased to 'going far outside one's usual taste/preferences' in order to get a shag (bearing in mind that we all have different tastes). And yes I think a hell of a lot of men on Fab fuck someone they wouldn't look twice at in regular. Those men who don't fall in that camp don't need to be offended because I'm not referring to them. And men who will fuck anybody, whether they like them, also don't need to be offended because not being fussy is their choice.

I admit that Fab is an ego boost for a middle aged woman like myself. Hot young men, who would never notice me on the beach, take an interest here. But I'm not going to lower my standards by fucking a guy who does like me. It's a good ego boost, but I avoid batting above my station. The men we have met are typically not indifferent to the men I would date in regular life, therefore nobody is dropping their standards.

Mrs"

An ego boost? Good lord so many men have the any hole's a goal mentality here that they don't care if their goal has a penis.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Considering attraction is an individual thing, I don't think anyone on the outside can judge that...

i.e: I find nothing attractive about Channing Tatum or Tom Hardy (I'd jump Hugh Jackman in a heartbeat though! Mmmmm!) .

But I am actually rather attracted to John.C Reilly and Justin Fletcher, which boggles some people.

Get my jist?

I have no doubt some people will do anything to get a shag though, but if somebody is "lowering their standards" for me, I have to say, it's them I feel sorry for...

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will never lower my standards and meet a guy who thinks like some of the men on this thread "

Likewise.

Also, the men I meet are happy to meet in public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can only speak for myself and say I'd rather go without than compromise myself . However it's more than obvious that if you read the amount of bilge that people put in verifications and then you look at the woman's profile , the blokes either got cataracts or he's desperate . Let's have it right FAB is mainly for women that can't get a look in on the high street on a night out

What a crock of shite..

This comes from someone with no visible photos

He's kinda got a point. Dont get ahead of yourself, or caught up in the fact that some people dont have pictures. I know two guys who looking very fucking impressive in real life who dont have photos.

Some of you seem to get way to caught up in your Fabswingers reality and think it dictates the whole world. Plenty of reasons why people opt out of having publicly accessible pictures, I have found that on here looks are not always the justification for someone lurking in the shadows.

I am fully aware it doesn't dictate the whole world and pictures can be deceptive.

There are many reasons people hide in the shadows.

But to say fab is for women who can get a look in on a night out is really insulting.

Women choose to be on fab for many reasons as do men.

Hmmm. You know I have no idea. Whilst I agree that not everyone on here is lacking in real life attention, I had a playmate tell me a few years ago that she thought Fab attracted a lot of women who were in the late 30s-40s and were in the period of declining sexual interest and thus turned to swinging as a way to compete."

The women I know, inc myself, reach their peak at this age and cannot get enough sex.

If a woman's interest in sex is declining, she'll turn away from it, not compete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are cunts. "I went below my standards"... is a horrible way to think about someone who was nice enough to put your dick in their mouth. It's easy to have a bit of respect and not be a piece of shit.

It seems impossible for some people "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't confuse standards and inhibitions

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

What is all the offensive language about on this thread ?

It seems to be ok for all these people to call others cunts and all sorts over their personal choices .

Let's face it , swinging is supposed to be fun , well it is for us anyway . Of course we know that plenty of people we have had sex with wouldn't normally look twice at us in the street . But it was what we all wanted at the time , and it was fun . End of ...... what's up with that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends.

Guys who need to drop their "standards" to get any might do if they are desperate enough.

Guys who don't need to drop their standards aren't likely to.

Personally I'm on here for quality times and can honestly say some of the hottest ladies I have been with I met through fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some, standards are only of the physical nature; possibly to boost their own self worth and reassure themselves that they aren't unattractive.

Confident and self-assured people don't need that boost and will happily have sex with someone who doesn't fit the physically attractive higher standards of others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It all depends.

Guys who need to drop their "standards" to get any might do if they are desperate enough.

Guys who don't need to drop their standards aren't likely to.

Personally I'm on here for quality times and can honestly say some of the hottest ladies I have been with I met through fab."

If they were too high in the first place they have no opinion but to drop them.

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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago

streatham

My cummy fingers and ass and hint of face get me loads of offers to meet on here.

My smiley face on vanilla sites don't get me a single reply from men I message.

Meh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It all depends.

Guys who need to drop their "standards" to get any might do if they are desperate enough.

Guys who don't need to drop their standards aren't likely to.

Personally I'm on here for quality times and can honestly say some of the hottest ladies I have been with I met through fab.

If they were too high in the first place they have no opinion but to drop them. "

Yes if they want any they might, other option is not to lower their standards (whatever standards are ) and go without out.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

In all honesty I've no idea whether the guys I meet drop their standards when meeting me - you'd have to ask them!

All I WILL say though is that most of us - both male and female- have an entirely different 'tick list' on here than we do in the real world!

The guys I meet are great to look at and they're nice guys - but I wouldn't want to enter into a 'real' relationship with them - and vice versa I'm sure!

The MASSIVE advantage for guys of meeting women from fab is that we're here because we ENJOY NSA SEX and many of us are bloody good at it too - and in the real world that makes us as rare as unicorn shit!!

I'm sure the hot young guys I meet are happy to forgo pert DD tits (in my case) for loads of giggles, fantastic sex and no expectation of a relationship afterwards! That in itself is sexy to guys on fab - which is why they're here I think? Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We won't clog up the thread by responding to all of you, but:

Mrs Lib

Gloswingers

Sapiosexual_fodder

All great points

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"In all honesty I've no idea whether the guys I meet drop their standards when meeting me - you'd have to ask them!

All I WILL say though is that most of us - both male and female- have an entirely different 'tick list' on here than we do in the real world!

The guys I meet are great to look at and they're nice guys - but I wouldn't want to enter into a 'real' relationship with them - and vice versa I'm sure!

The MASSIVE advantage for guys of meeting women from fab is that we're here because we ENJOY NSA SEX and many of us are bloody good at it too - and in the real world that makes us as rare as unicorn shit!!

I'm sure the hot young guys I meet are happy to forgo pert DD tits (in my case) for loads of giggles, fantastic sex and no expectation of a relationship afterwards! That in itself is sexy to guys on fab - which is why they're here I think? Xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of people who think that way have a delusionally (if thats even a word) high opinion of themselves

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"In all honesty I've no idea whether the guys I meet drop their standards when meeting me - you'd have to ask them!

All I WILL say though is that most of us - both male and female- have an entirely different 'tick list' on here than we do in the real world!

The guys I meet are great to look at and they're nice guys - but I wouldn't want to enter into a 'real' relationship with them - and vice versa I'm sure!

The MASSIVE advantage for guys of meeting women from fab is that we're here because we ENJOY NSA SEX and many of us are bloody good at it too - and in the real world that makes us as rare as unicorn shit!!

I'm sure the hot young guys I meet are happy to forgo pert DD tits (in my case) for loads of giggles, fantastic sex and no expectation of a relationship afterwards! That in itself is sexy to guys on fab - which is why they're here I think? Xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind of a biased post to be fair..... what if the lady meets the single guy and drops her standards because she doesn't like him or he's not to her taste .....all women are beautiful, if they are polite enough to give you conversation or want to meet up with you, you should see that as a good quality... it's not all looks it's an initial start but there's thing way beyond that which make the heart grow fonder

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