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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, a bit of advice please, I've never been to a club and wondered if they are welcoming to single males?

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We probably wouldn't go to clubs if it wasn't for single males. As long as you are clean, smart, polite and not pushy you will be welcomed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We probably wouldn't go to clubs if it wasn't for single males. As long as you are clean, smart, polite and not pushy you will be welcomed"

Thank you for the advice

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

Banbridge

Worcs, I'll add my two pennith to this.

If you go to a club with very little expectations, you will do just fine. Aim to chat to lots of folks in the socialising area.... and chat to the hubby's as much as the wives! Be chatty, lots of gun flirting etc, likewise eye contact and a smile.

If you try this strategy, before you know it, you'll be invited to somewhere nice and quiet with new friends.

The very worst thing you could do is to hunt - doing laps in a vaim desperation to look for couples that will shag anything.... because 99.99% don't!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Some clubs are more welcoming to single males than others, just do your research before you go - many clubs have days for couples and single ladies only. Check the club website and phone them first. Single males are often very restricted in numbers so you need to get yourself on the guest list. Don't just turn up, you might get turned away at the door.

A general rule for anybody going to a club, regardless of gender, is don't be a Dick! Be polite and friendly and chat to people. Go for a good social experience with no expectations and if you get to play is a bonus.

Clubs are a great way to get yourself known among the swinging community. Go for it and have fun

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex


"We probably wouldn't go to clubs if it wasn't for single males. As long as you are clean, smart, polite and not pushy you will be welcomed"

Same !! We hate the fact that most clubs do not allow single guys most of the time

I think the swinging world forgets that not all of us want Couples or single fems only !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all, very helpful as it is really hard to break into the scene x

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