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Members who wink/friend request you, yet live hundreds of miles away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We seem to get a fair number of winks or friend requests from other members who live literally nowhere near us, in some cases hundreds of miles away.

While this is flattering ... I don't really see what they hope to get from this as a meet isn't practical is it, especially as we'd want a social first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pic hunters usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure. Maybe it's people who see the site as some sort of social media platform, or just chancers, or just bored.

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By *nglishdoodMan
over a year ago

Morristown

Maybe they think you're so fine they'd be prepared to travel?

I have every intention of visiting a couple of new friends on here that are the other end of the country. Is there a better reason for a fun weekend road-trip?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah pic hunters! Easily spottable, some are even brazen enough to message asking for pics too.

All mine are reserved for friends I've met, or people I'm arranging to meet, I have made one or two exceptions for people I would love to meet but if it doesn't look like that's going to pan out then they get deleted too.

Nothing worse than having friends on your list who don't actually speak to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pic hunters usually"

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

Some people do a lot of travelling! They might be trying to widen their social/play groups.

We tend to be all over the country and loving trying new clubs and meeting new protential play mates

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We've winked or messaged people who are a long way away before. Usually because we like their profile and want to say hi We travel around the UK a fair bit on weekends away so we would probably be able to travel to visit new friends.

Not so great for last minute meets, obviously, but we like to take our time getting to know people online first so the long game is good with us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travel with work a lot, if you can chat a few weeks before etc. But also you can never have too many friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our experiences as far as other couples go, half of these types of contacts are idle browsing and the other half will follow up to say they're planning a visit to Brighton soon!

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Yeah pic hunters! .....

Nothing worse than having friends on your list who don't actually speak to you "

I may digress here, but I'm fairly confident there are many things worse than this.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales


"Yeah pic hunters! .....

Nothing worse than having friends on your list who don't actually speak to you

I may digress here, but I'm fairly confident there are many things worse than this.

"

Accidentally cuts off leg

'Ah it could be worse - I could have friends on my fab list who don't speak to me'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they just like the cut of your jib and fancy chatting to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes they wink or message as they visiting the area soon - but yes ive had few from the states which is tooooo far

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

They want more pics or dirty chat for wank fodder. Just ignore them, leave the invite there and they can't send a new one.

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By *iking67Man
over a year ago

BP Auckland

Maybe just maybe they are just showing that they like your profile and find you interesting.

I know I have winked for this reason before.

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By *ecretEscapes2Woman
over a year ago

worcester

Why wink?

when a message says so much more!

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By *iking67Man
over a year ago

BP Auckland

thats my next step

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why wink?

when a message says so much more!

"

if time is tight i sometimes wink and hotlist and go back to messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a guy who admittedly has been on here and spent time perving they are probably after your pics to wank over!

I don't tend to friend request unless there is a slim chance of a meet or dialogue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why wink?

when a message says so much more!

"

I agree.

Even though it says on my profile I don't respond to winks people still do it. Bemuses me no end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have new fangled things called cars in that there London

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've had one or two lovely people actually message us to say they like our profile which is really nice. A message like that makes sense, not so sure about a random wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've had one or two lovely people actually message us to say they like our profile which is really nice. A message like that makes sense, not so sure about a random wink "

Some people wink because they're not sure what to say, or are shy or passive. Which I can sympathise with but on the other hand with swinging you need to grow a pair.

And yes you do have a great profile

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We just delete.

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