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By *portyNE OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Sensitive one!!!

I'm having regular lunchtime fun with one of the girls in my office! Last night I was browsing through the profiles in here and saw one of her best mates who is in the same circle of friends as a lot of my friends! She has her face blurred but has a very distinctive tattoo and I recognise the furniture in the house!

The girl at work doesn't know that I'm on here and I don't think it's her cup of tea before I get the "get her involved and have a threesome" messages

Do you think I should tell either of them?! To be honest the girl on here is amazing and would love to play with her but that maybe pissing in my pond a bit!!!

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By *portyNE OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Bump

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Is this a case of you actually wanting unbiased advice? Or are you just looking for us to support the decision to contact the woman on Fab?

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By *portyNE OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'm actually looking for unbiased advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would buy chocolates and leave a few missing and see what reaction you get before going any further

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By *portyNE OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Huh?!? Very confused?!

Chocolates??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them what?

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By *portyNE OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

About her mate being on here, maybe a nice conversation starter!!

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

The fact that you have asked the question suggests that you think it could get messy, and not in a good way! That said, how do you know she wouldn't be into swinging? As for the friend already on here; if you are interested in her, contact her through fab without letting on who you are. Approaching someone at work and telling them you know they are on fab may not be appreciated.

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford


"The fact that you have asked the question suggests that you think it could get messy, and not in a good way! That said, how do you know she wouldn't be into swinging? As for the friend already on here; if you are interested in her, contact her through fab without letting on who you are. Approaching someone at work and telling them you know they are on fab may not be appreciated. "

This. How about a wink?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Sensitive one!!!

I'm having regular lunchtime fun with one of the girls in my office! Last night I was browsing through the profiles in here and saw one of her best mates who is in the same circle of friends as a lot of my friends! She has her face blurred but has a very distinctive tattoo and I recognise the furniture in the house!

The girl at work doesn't know that I'm on here and I don't think it's her cup of tea before I get the "get her involved and have a threesome" messages

Do you think I should tell either of them?! To be honest the girl on here is amazing and would love to play with her but that maybe pissing in my pond a bit!!!"

No don't tell either of them, why would you?

Respect the privacy of the woman who is on here and don't go gossiping (for that is how your lunch time friend will see it).

You're free to contact anyone you like on here though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About her mate being on here, maybe a nice conversation starter!! "

That wouldn't be discreet of you would it. What would you hope to gain from it?

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"About her mate being on here, maybe a nice conversation starter!! "

For god sake fella don't do that!

Seriously don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP,

Some confront you why you ask the question . Others say don't do it.

Well, everyone is entitled to their opinion. Here is mine.

You are in an enviable position. Your colleagues are presumably pretty. Judging by your looks you are unlikely to settle for less. This is on the side lines.

I'd suggest that you tell the current lover that a friend or a colleague of yours told you about a sex site for swingers. You aren't a swinger and having her is all you need and want. But what would she say if you were to peek into what swingers do, just out of curiosity? Online only, no intention to meet. It would be fun to see how many from your work may be there too.... See her reaction. If she starts fuming, drop it and never mention.

If she agrees to give it ago, you may have to set up a new profile. Single or even couple's if she's a game.

Then stumble across your other colleague's profile...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP,

Some confront you why you ask the question . Others say don't do it.

Well, everyone is entitled to their opinion. Here is mine.

You are in an enviable position. Your colleagues are presumably pretty. Judging by your looks you are unlikely to settle for less. This is on the side lines.

I'd suggest that you tell the current lover that a friend or a colleague of yours told you about a sex site for swingers. You aren't a swinger and having her is all you need and want. But what would she say if you were to peek into what swingers do, just out of curiosity? Online only, no intention to meet. It would be fun to see how many from your work may be there too.... See her reaction. If she starts fuming, drop it and never mention.

If she agrees to give it ago, you may have to set up a new profile. Single or even couple's if she's a game.

Then stumble across your other colleague's profile... "
first thing would be ... whos the friend whats their name, how did that come up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP,

Some confront you why you ask the question . Others say don't do it.

Well, everyone is entitled to their opinion. Here is mine.

You are in an enviable position. Your colleagues are presumably pretty. Judging by your looks you are unlikely to settle for less. This is on the side lines.

I'd suggest that you tell the current lover that a friend or a colleague of yours told you about a sex site for swingers. You aren't a swinger and having her is all you need and want. But what would she say if you were to peek into what swingers do, just out of curiosity? Online only, no intention to meet. It would be fun to see how many from your work may be there too.... See her reaction. If she starts fuming, drop it and never mention.

If she agrees to give it ago, you may have to set up a new profile. Single or even couple's if she's a game.

Then stumble across your other colleague's profile... first thing would be ... whos the friend whats their name, how did that come up "

Oh, this isn't an interrogation in a police cell.

I got it somehow, not important how and from whom.

Mention it nonchalantly. If the lover shows teeth, dismiss the idea, never mention it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, would there be an update?

It's only now I noticed that you started the thread 2 weeks ago.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"About her mate being on here, maybe a nice conversation starter!!

For god sake fella don't do that!

Seriously don't "

That's the most succinct and best advice yet.

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By *portyNE OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I haven't said anything and think the best option should be to keep

Quiet!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't said anything and think the best option should be to keep

Quiet!!! "

You know best.

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