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When one half of a couple wants you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So iv had this where the woman wants me but the man doesn't know or want me. How would you go about this?

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By *ehind closed curtainsCouple
over a year ago

East Midlands

We have a rule between us, based on experience - neither of us takes one for the team

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Has to be two yes's from us or we walk away. I wouldn't recommend intervening between a couple that can't agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh don't get me wrong. I would never try to play in this circumstances but what I mean is I guess is that do you ignore them? Do you stay social and forget it's happened or wanted? Do you tell the other half?

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Oh don't get me wrong. I would never try to play in this circumstances but what I mean is I guess is that do you ignore them? Do you stay social and forget it's happened or wanted? Do you tell the other half? "

She's put it on you but he doesn't know ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh don't get me wrong. I would never try to play in this circumstances but what I mean is I guess is that do you ignore them? Do you stay social and forget it's happened or wanted? Do you tell the other half?

She's put it on you but he doesn't know ? "

Yh and I don't believe he knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So iv had this where the woman wants me but the man doesn't know or want me. How would you go about this? "

Do you know why he doesn't? Maybe you can change his mind with a friendly chat with the 3 of you. If that doesn't work, walk away.

Alternatively are you sure it's not a case of letting you down lightly "I would but Mr isnt happy."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So iv had this where the woman wants me but the man doesn't know or want me. How would you go about this?

Do you know why he doesn't? Maybe you can change his mind with a friendly chat with the 3 of you. If that doesn't work, walk away.

Alternatively are you sure it's not a case of letting you down lightly "I would but Mr isnt happy." "

Pretty sure kissing me and asking me to play isn't letting me down lightly lol

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Oh don't get me wrong. I would never try to play in this circumstances but what I mean is I guess is that do you ignore them? Do you stay social and forget it's happened or wanted? Do you tell the other half?

She's put it on you but he doesn't know ?

Yh and I don't believe he knows "

Not good at all ! That puts you in an awkward situation and isn't fair

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh don't get me wrong. I would never try to play in this circumstances but what I mean is I guess is that do you ignore them? Do you stay social and forget it's happened or wanted? Do you tell the other half?

She's put it on you but he doesn't know ?

Yh and I don't believe he knows

Not good at all ! That puts you in an awkward situation and isn't fair

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Very awkward. And I don't want to tell anyone cause then it be even worse. It's hard enough as it is with all the politics going about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's not a swinger I take it? Walk away, not worth it.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

It doesn't look like your short of interest OP. I would give this one a wide berth. If he doesn't know and finds out, it could get nasty for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She's not a swinger I take it? Walk away, not worth it. "

Both swingers but something just doesn't feel right. Don't want to say too much cause their on the site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It doesn't look like your short of interest OP. I would give this one a wide berth. If he doesn't know and finds out, it could get nasty for you. "

So would u say avoid socialising if possible?

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Are you very different to all the other single guys they play with ?

I mean i know you and you look great (pay me later) Haha

Maybe he feels threatened ?

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"It doesn't look like your short of interest OP. I would give this one a wide berth. If he doesn't know and finds out, it could get nasty for you.

So would u say avoid socialising if possible?"

From what you've said - yes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you very different to all the other single guys they play with ?

I mean i know you and you look great (pay me later) Haha

Maybe he feels threatened ? "

Most men are threatened by young single blokes who workout. Cause most the time in couples it's the women that look good. It's rare to find a couple where the man and woman are both hotties lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It doesn't look like your short of interest OP. I would give this one a wide berth. If he doesn't know and finds out, it could get nasty for you.

So would u say avoid socialising if possible?

From what you've said - yes!"

I think your right mate.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Are you very different to all the other single guys they play with ?

I mean i know you and you look great (pay me later) Haha

Maybe he feels threatened ?

Most men are threatened by young single blokes who workout. Cause most the time in couples it's the women that look good. It's rare to find a couple where the man and woman are both hotties lol "

That is certainly more the scenario I come across but whatever way you look at it a couple should be truthful with each other what they want out of swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So iv had this where the woman wants me but the man doesn't know or want me. How would you go about this? "

Have you politely asked them as a couple, since the kiss, if they'd like to play with you? Whatever they say as a couple is the final answer and if they've blocked you or told you to f off that's the final answer too. It's not rocket science

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"So iv had this where the woman wants me but the man doesn't know or want me. How would you go about this? "

We would walk away. We don't do other people's drama for that's what this will turn out to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds like a prick tease to me - when playing as a couple all parties need to like

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It sounds all wrong and has a great potential for trouble. Walk away and don't look back would be my advise.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"So iv had this where the woman wants me but the man doesn't know or want me. How would you go about this? "

If your straight and the husband is straight why should he want you?

If he is happy for his wife to play with other men then go ahead.

He may simply enjoy seeing his wife having sex with other men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't look like your short of interest OP. I would give this one a wide berth. If he doesn't know and finds out, it could get nasty for you.

So would u say avoid socialising if possible?

From what you've said - yes!

I think your right mate. "

I get this a fair bit mate. Run, run like the wind. Avoid sociallising stop all contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh don't get me wrong. I would never try to play in this circumstances but what I mean is I guess is that do you ignore them? Do you stay social and forget it's happened or wanted? Do you tell the other half?

She's put it on you but he doesn't know ?

Yh and I don't believe he knows "

Walk away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a rule between us, based on experience - neither of us takes one for the team"

Yep - same for us! Exactly as it should be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think I agree with most above. Going to avoid at all cost. It's a shame tho cause I enjoy the social more then the fun and things like this ruin social

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"I think I agree with most above. Going to avoid at all cost. It's a shame tho cause I enjoy the social more then the fun and things like this ruin social "

Don't let it ... there's loads of lovely friends to socialise with and plenty Couples / single fems to play with Haha

They won't last long in the scene if they can't be true to each other ... just get the popcorn ready

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I agree with most above. Going to avoid at all cost. It's a shame tho cause I enjoy the social more then the fun and things like this ruin social

Don't let it ... there's loads of lovely friends to socialise with and plenty Couples / single fems to play with Haha

They won't last long in the scene if they can't be true to each other ... just get the popcorn ready "

Yh your right x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So iv had this where the woman wants me but the man doesn't know or want me. How would you go about this? "

Fuck the mrs anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So iv had this where the woman wants me but the man doesn't know or want me. How would you go about this?

Fuck the mrs anyway "

Your a bad man lol

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