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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

...winks?

I know some profiles state they never do, but what do you say?

Do you check them from time to time?

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

I love a wink from a lady or a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no I get thousands so never look

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

not really...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...winks?

I know some profiles state they never do, but what do you say?

Do you check them from time to time? "

Occasionally I will but not generally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until recently I did but to be fair it seems that different people use them for different reasons. I've lost count of how many times I've responded to a wink with a message only to be completely ignoref and so I've now taken the view that many others seem to have adopted and now I just delete them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't bother looking,if people were interested they would message I just take a wink to mean ....like your profile but that's it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope mass delete every day or every time I log in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! But some of us arent as stun as Mikki or a real girl so we need to work it to get laid. I also check out who has fabb'd my pix.

Im shy, honest, and wink or fab pix to check someones attention. Clearly a message works better...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always. I know some people dislike them, and if I were receiving hundreds I'm sure I would too, bit the few I get, I'm always flattered. It's a non intrusive was of saying, hey, I liked your profile. I anyways take a look and wink back of I like the look of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only to see who thinks we're going to be bothered messaging when they aren't.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I do. You never know there could be a little gem winking at you.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We do! Normally they're from people we aren't interested in but every now and then we'll contact one who takes our fancy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I both send and receive winks. Saves so much time and hassle. If interested wink. If the recipient is interested then they will get back to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I never check mine to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just delete them now. I used to get winks from couples, I'd send a message and get no reply. I came to the conclusion that it was a pointless exercise.

I don't wink at others. It seems a lazy way of communicating. I'd just send a message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A wink is like an eye contact in a bar. If it's mutual, I can move to a conversation.

Way less intrusive that starting a chat straight away.

Obviously, when people don't check winks or deem them as lazy, the opportunity to utilise winks is lost.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

No we just bulk delete but we do say this in our profile so people know there's no point.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I do. You never know there could be a little gem winking at you. "

agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the rare occasion I get one I will look at it. I find it flattering

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By *mokey_KinksMan
over a year ago

Essex

i do it can break the ice, plus i love to get a wink for people

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine females will get 100 for every 1 I get, so I look!

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Winks ,,, fabs and messages. Quite frankly any attention I can get x

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Yeah I check them and wink back at people that interest me, it's an easier method in telling who, if you were to message them, would respond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do. I'm ocd I can't have any notifications on any site or app unread lol

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

I do usually send one back if I get one xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no i do not or send any winks

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By *oemc9Man
over a year ago

town

Never get any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we check them and also reply if interested

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Occasionally yeah, why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do, yes. I sometimes even wink back. I know, I know... shock horror!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never get any"

Try winking first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do, yes. I sometimes even wink back. I know, I know... shock horror!! "

I was going to put you to the test, but I failed to hack your filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore winks.

A well thought out message is much better.

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford


"On the rare occasion I get one I will look at it. I find it flattering "

This

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Sometimes

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I get so few I do actually look at them when I get them, think I've only ever reacted to one or two though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I check winks occasionally

I do quite like a cheeky wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do if there's any sent we take a look

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"...winks?

I know some profiles state they never do, but what do you say?

Do you check them from time to time? "

Always look at them, but rarely respond unlesd we're really interested.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we do, and always respond to them, though, more often that not as a "no thank you" as a wink often seems as lazy as the profile that sent it.

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

I like getting winks. Sometimes I wink back or message if I like the look of a profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A wink is like an eye contact in a bar. If it's mutual, I can move to a conversation.

Way less intrusive that starting a chat straight away.

Obviously, when people don't check winks or deem them as lazy, the opportunity to utilise winks is lost. "

Exactly my sentiments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A wink is like an eye contact in a bar. If it's mutual, I can move to a conversation.

Way less intrusive that starting a chat straight away.

Obviously, when people don't check winks or deem them as lazy, the opportunity to utilise winks is lost.

Exactly my sentiments"

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We always look, if it's from someone we think we might like to meet, we wink back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look but I don't delete them

Same with friends requests as if you delete they can keep sending them to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I look but I don't delete them

Same with friends requests as if you delete they can keep sending them to you "

Winks can be sent every 30 days irrespective if it's been deleted or not.

I'm not sure about the friends request.

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By *atural-born-thrillerMan
over a year ago

oulton broad

Well I didn't know that' if you delete winks they can still send them again ( only guys wink ) ....thanks for tip X

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By *hynot5642Man
over a year ago

Southampton


"A wink is like an eye contact in a bar. If it's mutual, I can move to a conversation.

Way less intrusive that starting a chat straight away.

Obviously, when people don't check winks or deem them as lazy, the opportunity to utilise winks is lost. "

This is exactly as I see a wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never check them to be honest

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By *inkykouple1985Couple
over a year ago

Spalding-ish

We always check ours then if anyone takes our fancy we wink back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just checked mine and there's cowing hundreds on there! Quite a few fitties aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to, not anymore.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just checked mine and there's cowing hundreds on there! Quite a few fitties aswell "

I know, I sent most of them.

No wink back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just checked mine and there's cowing hundreds on there! Quite a few fitties aswell

I know, I sent most of them.

No wink back? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been sending winks I thought they meant something

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just checked mine and there's cowing hundreds on there! Quite a few fitties aswell

I know, I sent most of them.

No wink back?

"

Great!

Let's move to messages then. Ladies first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look at them some times, it's got to be a very good profile that's winking to get a response though.

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By *layful Couple For YouCouple
over a year ago

Lust

Always look at them, as we see them as an initial sign of interest

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"A wink is like an eye contact in a bar. If it's mutual, I can move to a conversation.

Way less intrusive that starting a chat straight away.

Obviously, when people don't check winks or deem them as lazy, the opportunity to utilise winks is lost. "

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Yeah I check them and wink back at people that interest me, it's an easier method in telling who, if you were to message them, would respond."

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London


"A wink is like an eye contact in a bar. If it's mutual, I can move to a conversation.

Way less intrusive that starting a chat straight away.

Obviously, when people don't check winks or deem them as lazy, the opportunity to utilise winks is lost.

This is exactly as I see a wink. "

Me too. A bit like asking whether there's any point messaging, to my mind.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Nope, never do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It would be nice if there was a report that the wink has been viewed. Just as it is with a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we check winks and count them as a none invasive form of interest

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By *orksbiguyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

always if someone has been kind enough to wink its only manners. i do send winks as i feel it is a non invasive /pushy method of letting others know im interested /admire there pics and profile

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By *aturisteve69Man
over a year ago

Frodsham

I check mine and quite often wink back, I see it as an initial sign of interest, none invasive

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I tend not to look. I guess it's a sign of interest but I prefer a message even if it's just 'would you like sex with my wife?' or something.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont bother looking anymore; when i did look, they were nearly all from people who had clearly not read my profile, so a complete waste of time to me...

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By *hil39Man
over a year ago

Dagenham

I would if I got any, lol

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

I look but never reply to them

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

We look at winks.

We'll respond to them if we like the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh i completely forget about them most of the time

Maybe i should check them more

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Yes I do, all the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I do, all the time "

Did you see mine? I sent to you a special one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course we'd love everyone to think we get so much attention and are so popular we don't look at winks, the fact is we do and if we like the profile we wink back and at times we send winks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get them that infrequently that I tend to forget which resulted in missing one for nearly a week. Yes, what a prat!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Of course we'd love everyone to think we get so much attention and are so popular we don't look at winks, the fact is we do and if we like the profile we wink back and at times we send winks x"

No one has more verifications than you . You surely are popular... Clubs or socials..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really .....I prefer emails

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