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By *ampshirehotwife OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Look I am not complaining about the fact guy's want to meet, I'm flattered.

Buy why is it always down to me to either accommodate or arrange the hotel and pay for it?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Married men find it a bit difficult to accommodate or have hotel cost's coming off their bank statement

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

they can fuck off as soon as they cum and don't have the hassle of kicking you out of their place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not.

I don't accommodate, arrange or pay for hotels, and I've had lots of sex from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a guy asks to meet us or me, I'll often say something like 'sounds good, what did you have in mind?' That question tends to out the non-proactive guys who were hoping to turn up and get sex handed to them on a plate.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh so harsh ??????

I always book a hotel

There are some genuine guys here ??????

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Look I am not complaining about the fact guy's want to meet, I'm flattered.

Buy why is it always down to me to either accommodate or arrange the hotel and pay for it? "

What ? No way ! Hotels should be halved at least

That's only fair ! Xx

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Why oh why did we leave Hampshire ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never expect anyone to pay for the hotel for me. The meet is for all to have fun and so all should chip in with the cost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel sex, where the room is only booked for the act, always seems a little sad to me.

Bit like the 1 hour motels....

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

One hour? How many times do you want to do it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It should be halved. As it's not a date both of us should pay I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It should be halved. As it's not a date both of us should pay I think "

Gosh, whenever I've met a man on my own I've regarded it a date - just a date followed by sex!

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look I am not complaining about the fact guy's want to meet, I'm flattered.

Buy why is it always down to me to either accommodate or arrange the hotel and pay for it? "

Surely you get enough offers to find the men who accommodate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It should be halved. As it's not a date both of us should pay I think

Gosh, whenever I've met a man on my own I've regarded it a date - just a date followed by sex!

Mrs"

I'd call date when 2 people are meeting in a hope to establish a long term relationship...

Meeting up to have a sexual fun wouldn't be a date I'd think.

But I'm not saying I'm right

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By *ournemouthbusinessguyMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth


"Look I am not complaining about the fact guy's want to meet, I'm flattered.

Buy why is it always down to me to either accommodate or arrange the hotel and pay for it? "

i would pay for a hotel, but i would only meet social first as less likely you would not turn up. i think most people are wary the other party wont show. By the way, you arent kidding about being a hot wife!

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"One hour? How many times do you want to do it??

"

Haha

Suits me a hotel as I don't want strangers at my house and loads of room in a hotel and none of the cleaning up !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look I am not complaining about the fact guy's want to meet, I'm flattered.

Buy why is it always down to me to either accommodate or arrange the hotel and pay for it? "

I'd get the hotel out for you :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I don't live on my own so for me a hotel is a great place to meet. And I'm also under no illusion that most people are meeting me for anything more then to play with me. It's not pof lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet at clubs instead. Loads of different rooms to play in and loads cheaper.

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex


"Hotel sex, where the room is only booked for the act, always seems a little sad to me.

Bit like the 1 hour motels.... "

This is why I like the forum as people can say what they like even if it's not the opinion of all everyone is different. some like it some don't some do things others wouldn't but everyone is entitled to there own opinion no matter what that is(opinions are like arseholes everyone has one)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look I am not complaining about the fact guy's want to meet, I'm flattered.

Buy why is it always down to me to either accommodate or arrange the hotel and pay for it? "

Well it says on you're profile that you don't accommodate and you'd be happy to share the cost of a hotel. I don't think you can be much clearer than that. If a guy asks you to either accommodate or pay for a hotel then tell them to do one, they obviously havnt read your profile, the beauty of this site for you girls is that you can pick and choose from a sea of plenty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look I am not complaining about the fact guy's want to meet, I'm flattered.

Buy why is it always down to me to either accommodate or arrange the hotel and pay for it?

Well it says on you're profile that you don't accommodate and you'd be happy to share the cost of a hotel. I don't think you can be much clearer than that. If a guy asks you to either accommodate or pay for a hotel then tell them to do one, they obviously havnt read your profile, the beauty of this site for you girls is that you can pick and choose from a sea of plenty. "

Eloquent and to the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I don't live on my own so for me a hotel is a great place to meet. And I'm also under no illusion that most people are meeting me for anything more then to play with me. It's not pof lol"

M

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

I always pay for everything maybe you need to attract better class of person maybe stipulate a suit meet at restaurant first etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most guys I have chatted to with a view to meeting or have met, havent been able to accommodate. I find I end up accommodating at my place. I can count on one hand how many hotel meets I have had and they were with fuckbuddies.

I can only assume there are not alot of guys who have their own place or rent alone.

Its not a problem but I would prefer if a guy can also accommodate. Seems fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always pay for everything maybe you need to attract better class of person maybe stipulate a suit meet at restaurant first etc "

Agreed. I will normally always pay. I think it should be half and half if I'm honest but if I want to see someone then I will pay for the hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be happy to pay half. Unless someone was booking it for their own needs like a business trip then Id at least certainly offer.

If we were planning a fun escape time together ( for more than an hour lol ) then defo 50/50.

But then again I only meet at Eureka so Im probably talking out my arse !! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always paid for the hotel, the lady has never offered to contribute; but I'd probably have refused anyway (even though I'd want to say yes.) I can and have accommodated at home but I don't always want first meets in my house, I can always leave if I'm not at mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50/50 is fair. Why should one party have to foot the entire bill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm meeting in a hotel I always make a point of offering to pay my half, it's only fair.

I've often had the bed to myself overnight as they've had to leave to go back to their 'fab single' lives though so wouldn't feel right not paying my share.

On the other hand, most of my hotel meets have included dinner etc too so is that a date or just a great excuse to flirt & build the tension for dessert

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By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth


"Look I am not complaining about the fact guy's want to meet, I'm flattered.

Buy why is it always down to me to either accommodate or arrange the hotel and pay for it? "

because, simply put, your talking to the wrong guys. I wouldnt dream of having you pay or arrange anything.

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

As a single fem I always paid half unless they really wanted to wine and dine me but I would still offer

Now in a couple and only meeting at hotels if not at clubs then I would say out of 10 meets only 2 have even offered to pay ... normally we are booking for us for the night and like them to leave after play so we can enjoy the night together but I think the offer should still be there

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By *drenaline rushMan
over a year ago

Burnley

The only time I'd want to play at a lady's house is if I thought she would be more comfortable in her own surroundings and of course if that's what she wanted. Sorry I know that's 2 reasons

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By *ampshirehotwife OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Look I am not complaining about the fact guy's want to meet, I'm flattered.

Buy why is it always down to me to either accommodate or arrange the hotel and pay for it?

i would pay for a hotel, but i would only meet social first as less likely you would not turn up. i think most people are wary the other party wont show. By the way, you arent kidding about being a hot wife! "

Thank you

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By *ampshirehotwife OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Look I am not complaining about the fact guy's want to meet, I'm flattered.

Buy why is it always down to me to either accommodate or arrange the hotel and pay for it?

because, simply put, your talking to the wrong guys. I wouldnt dream of having you pay or arrange anything."

Clearly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bloody wouldn't let them do it

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By *ampshirehotwife OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"If I'm meeting in a hotel I always make a point of offering to pay my half, it's only fair.

I've often had the bed to myself overnight as they've had to leave to go back to their 'fab single' lives though so wouldn't feel right not paying my share.

On the other hand, most of my hotel meets have included dinner etc too so is that a date or just a great excuse to flirt & build the tension for dessert "

I like your thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look I am not complaining about the fact guy's want to meet, I'm flattered.

Buy why is it always down to me to either accommodate or arrange the hotel and pay for it? "

married men cant accommodate, unless the wife is out shopping...

and maybe they think your husband will be doing the paying?

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By *ampshirehotwife OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Look I am not complaining about the fact guy's want to meet, I'm flattered.

Buy why is it always down to me to either accommodate or arrange the hotel and pay for it?

Well it says on you're profile that you don't accommodate and you'd be happy to share the cost of a hotel. I don't think you can be much clearer than that. If a guy asks you to either accommodate or pay for a hotel then tell them to do one, they obviously havnt read your profile, the beauty of this site for you girls is that you can pick and choose from a sea of plenty. "

I need to H.T.F.U (harden the fuck up) I'm pretty sure that not everyone reads my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men should think about it xx a woman is God's creation and they have the power to give life .they were formed beautifully. I am old fashioned I think I pay I seduce and I enjoy xx say hi ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my own place in Worcester and do my own thing if any couples needs a place to play, I just rattle around in my castle

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