FabSwingers.com forum: Single bi females

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has another else felt a change in the above group on this site?

We have had loads of contact with bi woman, but not one has turned out to be genuine since we came back to the site.

A large number have fallen once agreeing to meet up, we have heard every excuse in the book. A number have turned out to be a couple hiding behind a single profile.

We can see it from a woman's prospective as well, it's a bold move to meet up with a couple.

May be we were just very lucky here last year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single female i find that so many couples are led purely by the male half if not single men full stop. Makes it unlikely that i will even reply to a message now.

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Oswestry

I've heard a lot of couples say a woman states she is bi on profile then when it comes to the meet they're only interested in the male Don't see the point if you're straight just meet single guys?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

While we fully understand both of the above contributors, we are very genuine, we have had some very positive comments from the few we have met relating to this.

We are convinced that many can't take this beyond the fantasy and are quite happy to waste others time while they make up their minds.

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Oswestry

"While we fully understand both of the above contributors, we are very genuine, we have had some very positive comments from the few we have met relating to this.

We are convinced that many can't take this beyond the fantasy and are quite happy to waste others time while they make up their minds."

I don't doubt you're genuine I think the problem is women saying they're bi when really they're not

It happens with couples too the woman saying she'a bi to please her partner and with single females

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us are really bi!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Many be its a regional thing lol, never mind we have spent a few nice evenings in a pub, that is just the two of us when we wouldn't have otherwise gone out lol.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Bloody fakes.

Sorry youve been let down.

Dont lose heart x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bloody fakes.

Sorry youve been let down.

Dont lose heart x"

We will probably take another break rather than get bitter and twisted lol

Not short of things to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know about a change but we have always struggled to find bi-women to play with.

k is very much bi and it is her we are looking for. She isn't interested in any other males besides A so couples wouldn't work for us but it is hard to prove she is bi and I can understand bi woman thinking this is just the bloke pushing the woman so he can fuck someone else. We have seen this happen in clubs so with the ease of the web I would expect it is a lot more prevalent.

No real answer to the problem, sadly all the fakes just tar everyone with the same brush so we have decided to try to socialise a bit more and hopefully meet ladies that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the above poster, I've found alot of the time the messages are very much led by the male half. ...

I now state I'm straight on this profile to try and cut that out....

The one couple meet I've had has been led solely by the woman which is why I was happy to meet....

Again at a get together I will only play if the female leads to playing.....

I just find as a single female you have to

be careful that you don't spark off the females jealousy :-/

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I can empathise with single bi women. Too many couples see them as a fantasy add-on, rather than arranging meets as a three-way sharing where the single woman has equal say and a right equal enjoyment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can empathise with single bi women. Too many couples see them as a fantasy add-on, rather than arranging meets as a three-way sharing where the single woman has equal say and a right equal enjoyment."

This

We've met single women and my wife has met couples on her own so we can certainly empathise as well.

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