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By *aughtySx OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Wigan Bolton North West

Been stud up by a gorgeous guy tonight which has obviously happened before. But this guy and I spoke for a while and had a real connection.

I feel so ugly and worthless

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

What was his excuse or did he not bother with one?

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By *aughtySx OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Wigan Bolton North West

Just blocked me on everything ... strange

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Why punish yourself OP.

It's very clear that they're just fantasist.

It happened a lot of times.

I think they're pleasuring themselves while they're chatting with you - never ever seriously wants to meet.

With time I'm sure you can differentiate between those who want real meet and those who just want to have virtual pleasure.

Chin up OP.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Bloody annoying and upsetting I'm sure! At least report it and stick two fingers up to him,he's not worth any more of your time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please don't feel like that. If he did that then he's definitely not worth your time.

It's a kick in the teeth but better to find out now rather than investing time in someone who didn't care enough to let you know beforehand.

Unless there's a good reason and then I'd forgive.

Chin up hun, no one should make you feel like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Argh i hate hearing people talk so negatively about themselves. You have nothing to complain about. Its his loss. You look awesome! Things can only get better! :-*

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

You're not ugly

You're not worthless

He is a dick

Pick yourself up honey you're better than him

Sending you a big hug honey

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Been stud up by a gorgeous guy tonight which has obviously happened before. But this guy and I spoke for a while and had a real connection.

I feel so ugly and worthless "

Well you're clearly not ugly and you shouldn't base your worth on the actions of someone you've never met.

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By *rowleyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Screw him.

He's probably insecure and doesn't know what he wants.

Yeah it sucks, and it's hard not to dwell on it but there are better guys out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But why do they spoil it for us that really wana meet tvts like this sexy chix xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't feel down or disheartened, you are far from worthless or ugly, Unfortunatly it sounds like the guy turned out to be a dick so don't take it to heart

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I've had three, yes three people bail on me this week.

It's frustrating and tough not to take it personally but you'll forget them when you get your next successful meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He may not have actually been gorgeous and had no other get out than to block you. He had his wank and had to back out, when meeting was imminent.

Don't give them anything to wank over.

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By *aughtySx OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Wigan Bolton North West

I'm just gonna go to bed and forget about it and then rise and shine early and suck plenty of dick tomorrow

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I feel so ugly and worthless

Well you're clearly not ugly and you shouldn't base your worth on the actions of someone you've never met.

"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sucks. Clearly you are too good for him (((( hugs)))) better you find out early that he is a timewaster

Jx

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"He may not have actually been gorgeous and had no other get out than to block you. He had his wank and had to back out, when meeting was imminent.

Don't give them anything to wank over. "

This too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're not ugly

You're not worthless

He is a dick

Pick yourself up honey you're better than him

Sending you a big hug honey

"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm just gonna go to bed and forget about it and then rise and shine early and suck plenty of dick tomorrow "

that's the spirit.

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Dublin


"I'm just gonna go to bed and forget about it and then rise and shine early and suck plenty of dick tomorrow "

He simply didn't have the balls to go through with a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been stood up 5 times this week. I've had it. Time for a break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its very unfair how people treat others. Better to be open & honest than give people false hopes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm experiencing very similar feelings over someone special that I thought i had a fantastic connection with. It's a very complicated situation, but the feelings of being let down hurts like hell and make you feel crap.

I should take my own advice, but it's not your fault OP - it's very much his loss.

He obviously doesn't have the balls to meet a good, beautiful woman and chickened out cos he felt inadequate... his insecuriities.

I am confident that you will have a successful meet with someone that actually deserves you and won't let you down OP. Take care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He may not have actually been gorgeous and had no other get out than to block you. He had his wank and had to back out, when meeting was imminent.

Don't give them anything to wank over.

This too "

It didn't take me long (and being a cynical bitch) of being online, talking to people years ago, to realise there are a lot of wankers and bollocks talkers.

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By *lli_sissyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Been stud up by a gorgeous guy tonight which has obviously happened before. But this guy and I spoke for a while and had a real connection. "

Hun, you look awesome... his loss. Bounce back strong when you are ready but don't take it to heart.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I've been stood up 5 times this week. I've had it. Time for a break. "

5 times?! Bloody hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been stood up 5 times this week. I've had it. Time for a break.

5 times?! Bloody hell "

I hope it's not the same guy.... but then again I hope it's not 5 different ones as I don't know what would be worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm experiencing very similar feelings over someone special that I thought i had a fantastic connection with. It's a very complicated situation, but the feelings of being let down hurts like hell and make you feel crap.

I should take my own advice, but it's not your fault OP - it's very much his loss.

He obviously doesn't have the balls to meet a good, beautiful woman and chickened out cos he felt inadequate... his insecuriities.

I am confident that you will have a successful meet with someone that actually deserves you and won't let you down OP. Take care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read this. I'm pretty new on here but this touched me. Don't ever feel like that about yourself , your a beautiful person and that's his problem and he's obviously not a nice person to go radio silent. I've been in the same boat and I understand it's not nice but don't ever think it's your fault! It's him that has issues and has not been honest initially!! Big hugs x

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By *oistknickersCouple
over a year ago

London

Don't let the bastards grind you down!

It's all for the best he doesn't have the character or dignity to match his looks and now look at him with this knowledge and he won't look so hot.

It's for the best it may not seem like it now but very soon you'll see it's his loss.

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By *aughtySx OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Wigan Bolton North West

Thanks everyone I love this site sometimes xxx

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