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By *ed wine OP   Man
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

A girl friend of mine told me once that when she opened her account here, she received more than 300 messages in two days...

I guess that for women and couples, the inbox can be overwhelming, specially in populated areas. So, how many messages do you receive daily?

Ps. Maybe this gives an answer to those men asking in the forums why they don't get meets...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't get many at all due to not really meeting off of here anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get on average about 0. Lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get 0 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh a good day maybe 3-4! We always pop a bottle of bubbly to celebrate on those days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some (not all) use that message amount as an excuse n really it's bullshit. I've got a few filters on n yet even when I was on pg1 I only got 50odd more then usual. My usual is approx 20ish a day.

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im having a "fab day in the life" conversation with a friend where im showing him the amount of views and messages I have. He can't actually believe it. I posted a new pic just so he can see how it is. So far over 1100 views and although im deleting messagescas I go id say theres been about 250 today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im having a "fab day in the life" conversation with a friend where im showing him the amount of views and messages I have. He can't actually believe it. I posted a new pic just so he can see how it is. So far over 1100 views and although im deleting messagescas I go id say theres been about 250 today. "

This is why I now post a picture in private and then move it over to public within a few days. It stops those new picture messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 50 - 100 messages a day and when I post a new pic it is usually a lot more

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By *rryTMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Im having a "fab day in the life" conversation with a friend where im showing him the amount of views and messages I have. He can't actually believe it. I posted a new pic just so he can see how it is. So far over 1100 views and although im deleting messagescas I go id say theres been about 250 today. "

In fairness you're stunning, so no real surprise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im having a "fab day in the life" conversation with a friend where im showing him the amount of views and messages I have. He can't actually believe it. I posted a new pic just so he can see how it is. So far over 1100 views and although im deleting messagescas I go id say theres been about 250 today. "

Your new pic made me hope it gets on pg1 (if you want it to) for you. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as many as I would like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 8 a week, all from the wrong sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I converse with a few people so if we are just talking absolute numbers I can get upwards of 50 in a good day. If I'm not about then there will be a lot less.

New conversations or people I've not spoken to before. 1 a week maybe

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By *aycee88Couple
over a year ago

essex

Usually around 80-150 a day, if we post a new pic then it's 100's & 100's .... far too many to be able to reply to every one of them, Some people take offence to not getting a reply but it's just impossible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About half a dozen a week.

Mrs

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 20 roughly.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

80 or more....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first week was over 900 and I tried to be polite and respond - filters were tight however they are very restrictive now and with no new pics it's 30 to 50 a day and new pic makes it to about 80 a day with a couple of hundred viewings.... and it's so sweet when a gentleman has been selective and read my profile and cared to pen something interesting - of course I want to chat with him x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None from women unfortunately but a lot from gay men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13 messages yesterday, 0 today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three or four a week.

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By *wo-GoodCouple
over a year ago

South London

We got around 20-30 a day initially after signing up. Now we tend to get around 10 or so. We get lots more when we've updated our status obviously as more people see us.

What has started to happen is guys that initially messaged us but were not suitable have started messaging us again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I've had 6 new conversations today, so quite a lot for me!

Although a friend who used this place had 1200 in a few hours after posting some pics. Honestly wish I kept the screen shot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how much I'm online and my profile is quite honest and blunt which can be off putting to some....roughly about 10 a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None from women unfortunately but a lot from gay men "

Not surprised very camp profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From new people 1 a day pushes to 3 (rare). Not really surprising though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages thin out once you've been on a while, plus been quite specific tends to filter those "want a fuck love" out. Lots of filters, quality rather than quantity every time xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not loads, perhaps a handful a week, disappointingly though most just say hi, or how are u, thoughtless generic stuff like that so we tend to delete those usually

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

South London

About 20-30 a week these day. Filters are on so it's more manageable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 20-30 a week these day. Filters are on so it's more manageable. "

Captioned hot wife pics, one of Mr's faves

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE


"About half a dozen a week.

Mrs"

mostly from single (marred men) on a family holiday, must be so frustrating being unable to sneak away .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100 or so on my first day, I wasn't expecting it. Now it's just occasional, not counting people I chat with anyway.

Suits me, I'm not an energetic girl : )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None... my filters are my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"0 "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Between 0-2 but I do my best work in reality

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By *layboi69Man
over a year ago

alfreton

I only ever get a message when telling me not interested and even then i rarely get a reply.

I think in the 5 years ive been on here in various accounts ive recieved in all prob 5 or 6

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10-15 daily. If I put a new pic up, a few more but nothing mad. When I first joined on my old profile I had around 600 in 24 hours, never seen that amount since!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did not realise, you could receive messages on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero if I'm not proactive or have a conversation going. However, some days can be a veritable single man message fest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's quietened down lately but I am have been here a while now and am not particularly active on here that much.

The first time I joined I left within a day due to the amount of messages new women get.

I would probably say about 10-20 a day if I am online a fair bit, but if I update my status or add a new photo it goes up for a while, then quietens down again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got 650 unopened messages in 1 week, that's minus the ones I've opened (I've opened maybe 20-30 per day)

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

20 or 30 fresh conversations a day depending how active I am.

When i'm not active at all I usually get about 10 or so.

Lots more when I add a photo but not done that for a while as lots of flaky people message me then.

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By *atinocouple80Couple
over a year ago

London

Slow day 10-20

On a busy day like weekend we can get up to 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1-5 a week

If am lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None from women unfortunately but a lot from gay men "

Can't you change your settings, or are you secretly liking the attention?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Barely any. I've had 2 today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None from women unfortunately but a lot from gay men

Not surprised very camp profile. "

From the man wearing a facepack.

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