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Why do some on here think its ok.....

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By *wFunGuy4You OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

......to meet or chat without a face pic. This isnt blind date as i dont just meet anybody, still need to have an attraction.

Or am i being too fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not fussy! I'm the same.

I've asked for face pics if the guy doesn't have any on show & then either been blocked or told he can't share due to work reasons etc

I just say OK & block them for the latter.

I risk showing face pics due to my work but I think we're all adults & surely can be trusted. But yes, you have to have an attraction somewhere!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why concern yourself with how someone else chooses to arrange their meets?

You do it your way, they do it theirs.

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By *wFunGuy4You OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

I even had the guy in the cpl say....she wont disappoint you as she is amazing.....well guess ill disappoint you as im not meeting without seeing you. Surely its not that difficult unless they gonna have a bag over there head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"......to meet or chat without a face pic. This isnt blind date as i dont just meet anybody, still need to have an attraction.

Or am i being too fussy"

It makes no sense and is usually someone hiding something or being a complete fake. Plenty more people to chat to, move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who met anyone without seeing what they look like first must be desperate or just a lunatic in the first place.

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By *wFunGuy4You OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Anyone who met anyone without seeing what they look like first must be desperate or just a lunatic in the first place."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not fussy! I'm the same.

I've asked for face pics if the guy doesn't have any on show & then either been blocked or told he can't share due to work reasons etc

I just say OK & block them for the latter.

I risk showing face pics due to my work but I think we're all adults & surely can be trusted. But yes, you have to have an attraction somewhere! "

...can be trusted???

How can you trust complete strangers with your passport photo? And trust online sites too?

See my profile for a good explanation as to why I will never share a face photo.

Blind date? Why not? If there's no attraction, both go their own way. Just because you met it doesn't mean you have to shag.

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By *woofuslondonCouple
over a year ago

london

We don't do face pics straight away as we're ugly fuckers I mean shy lol in seriousness we wouldn't expect anyone to meet us without mutually being attracted and attraction starts with the face for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone who met anyone without seeing what they look like first must be desperate or just a lunatic in the first place."

Fucking wrong of course .

I've met several people from this site. Many more via other connections. Never sent them my photo, never requested theirs, although some volunteer

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

No clearface pic then no chance of meeting as far as I'm concerned. Currently chatting to someone who refuses to send one as he has à pic where he is wearing a cap and glasses and says that should be acceptable. So he's got a very long wait ahead lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soooooo many people say it's shallow to just go for looks.

Yet so many people demand a pic and won't just go by personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No clearface pic then no chance of meeting as far as I'm concerned. Currently chatting to someone who refuses to send one as he has à pic where he is wearing a cap and glasses and says that should be acceptable. So he's got a very long wait ahead lol."

Hell yeah! I had a range of stupid 'joke' photos from a guy. Pulling faces or him stood on a mountain 20 miles away so he can't be seen. I didn't bother asking for another pic.

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

No your not being fussy we both agree with you

_inkycouplespain

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By *wFunGuy4You OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Anyone who met anyone without seeing what they look like first must be desperate or just a lunatic in the first place.

Fucking wrong of course .

I've met several people from this site. Many more via other connections. Never sent them my photo, never requested theirs, although some volunteer "

So your saying you will meet anyone without seeing what they look like

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By *wFunGuy4You OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire


"No clearface pic then no chance of meeting as far as I'm concerned. Currently chatting to someone who refuses to send one as he has à pic where he is wearing a cap and glasses and says that should be acceptable. So he's got a very long wait ahead lol."

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By *wFunGuy4You OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire


"No your not being fussy we both agree with you

_inkycouplespain"

Thanks guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet anyone without seeing face, body and cock pics...why would I waste my time?

I have met a couple of guys who've joined me for socials without seeing a face pic - I told them they were daft for doing it - but nobody has been disappointed so far

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I always ask for a face pic early on in the chat, if they refuse that's it really, end of. I'm obv happy to send mine to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will never meet anyone without seeing a clear face pic and a social. To me, no face pic = hiding something. LIkewise, couples profiles that only have pics of half the couple are pretty pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why concern yourself with how someone else chooses to arrange their meets?

You do it your way, they do it theirs. "

Because people are asking to meet him without showing their face. So it does concern him. He's asked a perfectly reasonable question, I believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No face pic = no meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a couple it could be that there is no woman and he only has body pics lifted off the internet.

Or.

They could be very protective of their face photos because they don't trust anyone enough; especially if they have explicit photos on display.

Or.

They are ugly and get rejected once they send face pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because for some it is ok? Not everyone does things the same way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete massages unread if I don't see a face pic...is the only important bit for me tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I delete massages unread if I don't see a face pic...is the only important bit for me tbh "

Well...that and a decent personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always social first as pics could be old or edited .Alot of pics are not clear enough to really see what persons face is like .Alot wear sunglasses and cap .

If not clear I wouldn't bother with a social .I'd block and move on .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why concern yourself with how someone else chooses to arrange their meets?

You do it your way, they do it theirs.

Because people are asking to meet him without showing their face. So it does concern him. He's asked a perfectly reasonable question, I believe. "

You're right. My mistake in not reading the OP correctly. I'll stand corrected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got face photos but I can completely understand not wanting to have them. I met my last girlfriend online without having seen a photo first...

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

We meet people all the time without seeing photos first, never had a bad meet from it

Can understand fully if you want to see a face pic before arranging anything first.

Everyone is different

Our way is right for us, your way is right for you

Either way isn't wrong

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

One-off my best meets on fab as been witha guy who's face I never even saw until I met him. Not intentionally, we connected via forums and became friends first, I even had access to his face pics as they were in friends only but I never thought to look it was only when he turned up at my door did I have the realisation of "oh so that's what you look like" didn't bother me I was meeting him the person.

I do think it's polite though to show a pic to the Person you're conversing with especially if like myself they are publicly on show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I don't have face pics on my profile for privacy. However if i got talking with someone and wanted to arrange a meet I wouldn't dare not send a face pic. Like you said, this isn't blind date

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Because it is ok to meet without seeing a face pic which people including myself do.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Or without any pics at all shock horror

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Atm I'm only looking for friends to chat with so for me I'm not arsed. You could look like atila the hut for all I care. But when/if I meet again for sex yes a face pic and attraction is vital.

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get to go out about once every couple of months, therefore when we meet we meet to play. We cannot risk meeting someone I am not physically attracted to, because we probably won't get another chance to go out for ages. Would love to have the luxury of time that can afford a blind date, but sadly not.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way will I meet without a face pic. There has to be a physical attraction as I'm only interested in sex.

Some say it's shallow but I say it's avoiding disappointment.

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