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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Where are you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I thought as much!

It appears that most women aren't into letting their men play alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love it! When should I send Marc over?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You gave them eight minutes to respond, and on a working day too

But yeah it seems like hotwifing is more popular than hothusbanding

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

We are both got - neither of us play alone though!

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

"We are both got - neither of us play alone though!"

Hot

We're both hot! !

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"But yeah it seems like hotwifing is more popular than hothusbanding

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It is. Well on here at least.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'm always telling mine to do this but he prefers to hear about my exploits it seems

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Neither of us have played alone yet, not sure whether it will be something we try soon or not. Practically it would be fine with childcare no longer being an issue, but we like the idea of equal play

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"You gave them eight minutes to respond, and on a working day too

But yeah it seems like hotwifing is more popular than hothusbanding

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Yeah I've noticed this!

Is it because 'hot husbands ' are traditionally just guys who play away (on work conferences etc?)

Perhaps less women are turned on by the thought of their husband fucking another woman alone than vice versa?

Tbh though I haven't a clue - didn't know anything about swinging/hot wife's etc until I joined fab!

Peachy xx

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By *wingcityMan
over a year ago

perth

I am not a husband but I am available for any special occasions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's less common than hotwifing, but it isn't as uncommon as this thread is making it out to be.

I did a thread a long while ago asking about this very thing and I got plenty of replies saying people did this (I can't remember the name of it). I think one problem is the way profiles are organized on fab - hot wife couples have a couple's profile because they aren't single women and very often the man likes to be at a meet to watch his wife play, whereas husbands who play alone very often have single male profiles, not couples profiles, because a couple trying to get a meet for only the single guy to play at is inherently suspicious. Plenty of single guys profiles here are men who play with their wife's consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peach thinks I'm hot

and wouldn't mind me playing alone, but only if she's got someone to play with too. Come back, compare notes, then hot sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only experienced it once, with a couple I knew who were on here but I knew them before joining fab. She got off on the thought of us together, so one night she invited me round, I turned up wearing a chemise, lacy crotchless thong and stockings under my clothes, stripped off to my underwear in front of them, then fucked him on their bed while she listened in the next room. That sort of thing should happen more on here.

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By *layboi69Man
over a year ago

alfreton

Im a ex husband does that count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have said hubby could meet alone if he wanted to xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what tray loves quite often at a club she'll wait in the bar area or may even come and watch and very often she has arranged meets for when she is at work and loves hearing about it all after and we both have single profiles for meeting women

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I'm here.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I think it's less common than hotwifing, but it isn't as uncommon as this thread is making it out to be.

Plenty of single guys profiles here are men who play with their wife's consent. "

It's not really making out it's uncommon though, is it? Just not as popular as hotwifing which is true.

I don't know if there are more playing with consent in Yorkshire but there aren't that many profiles here and in London/Home Counties. I've looked at a few profiles here and there.

Anyways, if there are any I'd love to hear (well not hear but read) from you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" But yeah it seems like hotwifing is more popular than hothusbanding

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Correction. Hotwifing is easier to achieve. We market ourselves as a Hotwife couple because we can. I hardly think we'd get very far if we started looking for a lady who was willing to fuck my husband whilst I sat in the corner and watched. And everybody knows how difficult is is for a married man to get an FB, so we don't bother looking. My husband does have one lover, but she's not from the swing scene or Fab. Finding men though is easy.

Mrs

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I am not a husband but I am available for any special occasions

Its my birthday. Honest

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By *wingcityMan
over a year ago

perth

"I am not a husband but I am available for any special occasions

Its my birthday. Honest

Haha happy birthday, when do you want me?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

" But yeah it seems like hotwifing is more popular than hothusbanding

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Mrs"

Its a similar situation trying to find black couples to swap with. We've given up trying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a Husbsnd but wouid love my FWB to do this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its good for goose its good for the gander

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

Do ex-husbands count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right here - but seriously, whilst I have full permission to play, it's almost impossible to find a willing partner in crime. That's fine though...maybe one day x

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

husband yes hot well thats for someone else to decide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my husband is free to do as he want sexually as I find it a massive turn on as he does me meeting others ... we play all ways as a couple as singles both bi and both extremely happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If its good for goose its good for the gander "

Very true.. as long as trust and both get turned on. Always share folks... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to share my husband

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I enjoy watching him fuck.

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By *elshcouple91Couple
over a year ago

Llandudno

"I thought as much!

It appears that most women aren't into letting their men play alone

Ohhhh yes I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're both looking for equal play. Unfortunately doing so may prove difficult. Mrs could meet separately at the drop of the hat. Hotwifing, cuckolding, there's just a wide acceptance by men that fucking a married woman is ok if the partner is cool with it or there watching. I'm likely to have major problems finding the same however, despite being super hot ahem

When women communicate with us as a couple it appears to be critical to them that they meet and engage with us as a couple. There just isn't the openness to separate play. As others on this thread have suggested, this is leading us to think about setting up a single male account. Our sense is that women see single male accounts, where it's stated he's one half of a swinging couple, as much more of a clear sign that separate play really is ok. Sure there'll be lots of women who aren't into it but those who are seem to respond better to single male profiles.

Indeed, considering how easy it is for Mrs to meet men, we may move over entirely to a single male account. Why? Just in the search for some semblance of equality. So we can both enjoy extra curricular activities and not just the one of us. Weird I know but true

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Can this be a "Where are you ex husbands" thread.

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By *rbrandonMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Wow first time i perfectly fit the topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why cant it be a thread "i want you to be my husband and we play and woman can use you" thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are slowly exploring hubby playing without me there but I wouldn't say it'll be the reverse of our current Hotwife scenario because the idea of him with other women doesn't do anything for me. He enjoys me seeing other men and loves when I come home and tell him about it (whilst usually sat on his face!)

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

What an interesting topic. In some ways I wonder if (despite being open minded swingers) it is symptomatic of the different approach of men and women to sex generally.

For many men sex is mostly a purely physical act whereas for many women it is more complex than that (not saying this is always the case, clearly there are exceptions). Maybe men are naturally more voyeuristic?

As a man (and husband) I really enjoy seeing my wife with other men. Why? Not really sure other than it is really dirty and taboo (for vanilla people) and therefore v exciting.

However, I have absolutely no desire to be alone with another woman even if my wife wanted me to do it.

We love playing with couples with all involved. Parties/orgies with all involved (and again I am happy to sit back some of the time and be a voyeur). When we play with a single girl I again am very happy to sit back and watch but ultimately nice to join in...but no real desire to be one on one with the other girl.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"We are slowly exploring hubby playing without me there but I wouldn't say it'll be the reverse of our current Hotwife scenario because the idea of him with other women doesn't do anything for me. He enjoys me seeing other men and loves when I come home and tell him about it (whilst usually sat on his face!)"

Same with us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What an interesting topic. In some ways I wonder if (despite being open minded swingers) it is symptomatic of the different approach of men and women to sex generally."

I'd say so. I think women want a lot more from men than just their bodies. They want a connection. So when it comes to playing with husbands I think they feel nervous about how much they're asking for and suspect any woman in her right mind wouldn't allow that for her husband, let alone enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some interesting replies xx

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By *woofuslondonCouple
over a year ago

london

Well my hubby is hot, but that's cos I just made him mow the lawn lol

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Both me and Wifey have played separately, but where as it excites me when she has fun, she is fine for me to play but it doesn't turn her on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You gave them eight minutes to respond, and on a working day too

But yeah it seems like hotwifing is more popular than hothusbanding

...

Yeah I've noticed this!

Is it because 'hot husbands ' are traditionally just guys who play away (on work conferences etc?)

Perhaps less women are turned on by the thought of their husband fucking another woman alone than vice versa?

Tbh though I haven't a clue - didn't know anything about swinging/hot wife's etc until I joined fab!

Peachy xx "
we have tried it and I was okay till i saw the video... since then even thinking about it makes me feel sick inside.

I dont play separate either though now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm divorced it that counts?

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By *erts NNCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Great thread x

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