FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Throw back to before being dirty

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you started off in the swingers world and to how you are now, have you changed?? More confident ?? More open minded ?? More dirty ??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am so much more confident! more willing to try more things twice as you may have done it wrong first time lol.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am like a different person - I used to hate my body but now find that lots of people find curves attractive....I love the getting dressed up for a meet....and it's so different to my every day life...it's like a very sexy play. I can be whoever I want to be.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am like a different person - I used to hate my body but now find that lots of people find curves attractive....I love the getting dressed up for a meet....and it's so different to my every day life...it's like a very sexy play. I can be whoever I want to be. "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

More adventurous x

More open minded x

More tolerant x

More bi ! X

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Why is it " dirty"?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ateshead dudeMan
over a year ago

durham


"Why is it " dirty"?

"
i think its just the context of the word , dirty is not used in a negative way..

Like if someone is dirty-minded .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah a we have changed in so many ways, both physical and mental

When we first started i was quite closed off, where I grew up and the upbringing i had i was very anti gay and bi (sorry) but now I have a very live and let live attitude and i know not all bi and gay guys are going to try bum me

We have lost 14 stone between us which only really started once we started swinging so we both looked ok in Mrs underwear in clubs

When we first started we only meet single women and now we meet guys and couples and have progressed from 3some's in to more some's and larger group fun, we are unrecognisable from the people who started on this journey 10 years ago

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago

not far from you..


"I am like a different person - I used to hate my body but now find that lots of people find curves attractive....I love the getting dressed up for a meet....and it's so different to my every day life...it's like a very sexy play. I can be whoever I want to be. "

This is true for me too

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I'm definately more confident both in & social & bedroom scenarios. Fab did open my eyes, realised what i knew before was just the tip of a kinky iceberg haha & overtime have learnt a thing or 2 on here to sharpen my skills.

Now I'm a proper Swordsman lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *BOY-L.F.C.Man
over a year ago

dublin

My eyes are definitely opened to new experiences most good I may say!!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you started off in the swingers world and to how you are now, have you changed?? More confident ?? More open minded ?? More dirty ??

"

I feel I have always had a higher than normal erotic side, swinging has brought out what has always been within me. I'm pleased to say swinging is one of my best decisions

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More cynical

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

In the six years that we have been swinging we have become way more open minded , more dirty ( sometimes ) , more confident , and certainly more aware of how shallow the lifestyle can be .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you started off in the swingers world and to how you are now, have you changed?? More confident ?? More open minded ?? More dirty ??

"

All of the above, I was already filth. Being here just made me realise that it's ok

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you started off in the swingers world and to how you are now, have you changed?? More confident ?? More open minded ?? More dirty ??

All of the above, I was already filth. Being here just made me realise that it's ok "

It's okay to want to do dirty things.

I am not a freak. Just because others don't frown upon them.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More cynical "

This, and less trusting. Possibly less tolerant too, although I'm not a swinger per se, as I don't attend clubs, which some feel is paramount to swinging.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm liberated... don't trust people... don't take shit and alot my confident in my body and my abilities

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Don't think that my attitude and tastes when it comes to sex and sexuality have changed - but do think my view of myself has though. Never particularly thought of myself as attractive before stepping into *this* world, but have discovered since doing so that others find me attractive, which has in itself given me a little boost to my self-confidence, even if I do sometimes struggle to see the attraction.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being alone in finding two cocks awesome.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you started off in the swingers world and to how you are now, have you changed?? More confident ?? More open minded ?? More dirty ??

All of the above, I was already filth. Being here just made me realise that it's ok

It's okay to want to do dirty things.

I am not a freak. Just because others don't frown upon them. "

I wasn't frowning upon anyone

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I haven't changed as such but I have learned that I detach casual sex from love and intimacy.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you started off in the swingers world and to how you are now, have you changed?? More confident ?? More open minded ?? More dirty ??

All of the above, I was already filth. Being here just made me realise that it's ok

It's okay to want to do dirty things.

I am not a freak. Just because others don't frown upon them.

I wasn't frowning upon anyone "

Oh no I wasn't saying you said that.

Not at all.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you started off in the swingers world and to how you are now, have you changed?? More confident ?? More open minded ?? More dirty ??

"

I Dont think i have changed, if i have i mught be a tad more confident.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

More confident. More open minded. My morals still stand. Willing to try things push boundaries.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *urvylover2791Man
over a year ago

carlisle

Well i am more confident in myself and my abilities. Naughtier than i was.

Discovered i might have a bi side.

But in my normal world no one would believe i am on here.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london


"When you started off in the swingers world and to how you are now, have you changed?? More confident ?? More open minded ?? More dirty ??

"
id never licked an asshole before lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

Massive differance from when we started. I guess a lot more fussy now, back then it was a case of lets try everything!! now we we know what we like and that is what we look for.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"When you started off in the swingers world and to how you are now, have you changed?? More confident ?? More open minded ?? More dirty ??

"

Yes, yes and yes!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Yes definitely more confident and open minded. More body confident too as well which is good.

Had great advice on here and hopefully I've given some too.

Great discussions on the forums as well which help to see different points of views.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"When you started off in the swingers world and to how you are now, have you changed?? More confident ?? More open minded ?? More dirty ??

id never licked an asshole before lol"

Well it's something to pad out a cv

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

When we first started we were out every night on socials probably going abit wild

We've clamed down abit now so not as much action so it's quality over quantity now

And I've changed my preference from the boys to just girls now

I thought I'd maybe change my mind about this but nope I'm more than happy with what we choose to do

It probably limits the meets we have but hey ho I've got my sexy man and he's all I need

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I've changed much - admittedly considerably more people have seen my norks, but as a person I'm still the same geek I was before this.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you started off in the swingers world and to how you are now, have you changed?? More confident ?? More open minded ?? More dirty ??

All of the above, I was already filth. Being here just made me realise that it's ok "

Ditto this..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"I am like a different person - I used to hate my body but now find that lots of people find curves attractive....I love the getting dressed up for a meet....and it's so different to my every day life...it's like a very sexy play. I can be whoever I want to be. "

I could have written this!! Not 100% totally confident but getting there xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

i'm less confident now. and not as open to being as 'dirty' and 'fun' i used to be.

it's not too bad though, i have changed how i use this site now and that is helping. some guys get to see my fun side coz they make it fun for me to be so.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Definitely more dirty than before. I've realised fantasies I never really knew I had. Thankfully my hubby has been my rock, has never judged and has actively encourage at times. It's been a fun ride. Literally

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So overall it's a positive

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes definitely more confident, more open minded. Have discovered an exhibitionist side I didn't know I had (first time being watched fucking was amazing!).

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes definitely more confident, more open minded. Have discovered an exhibitionist side I didn't know I had (first time being watched fucking was amazing!). "

Oh yes that was a kick of adrenalin alright....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still a slut

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am Definately pushing my limits

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Yes definitely more confident, more open minded. Have discovered an exhibitionist side I didn't know I had (first time being watched fucking was amazing!).

Oh yes that was a kick of adrenalin alright.... "

Such a rush

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes definitely more confident, more open minded. Have discovered an exhibitionist side I didn't know I had (first time being watched fucking was amazing!).

Oh yes that was a kick of adrenalin alright....

Such a rush "

When you have people right next to you going at it and you are too

Yeah it's a rush

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're slowly but surely expanding our horizons finding new turn ons as we get suggestions from people we meet

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

.


"Yes definitely more confident, more open minded. Have discovered an exhibitionist side I didn't know I had (first time being watched fucking was amazing!).

Oh yes that was a kick of adrenalin alright....

Such a rush

When you have people right next to you going at it and you are too

Yeah it's a rush "

I have only had sex with another couple doing it in the next bed on one occasion, It was very exciting but I did find it hard not to try and keep in the same rhythm as him, Well I only did it for a bit as the Man was a machine

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing it's just sex the sex is no different then the sex i had before with people who don't use this site ect.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More open minded that's about it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top