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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ever had a stalker from on here or from a club, what did you do?

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Block and try your best to ignore.

Didn't work i left the site it happened on, but admin here are much better, i am sure if you report they will listen.

Once in a club,a couple i was with had a guy who followed us around all night. The male of the couple had a word with the bloke,and the staff. He was asked to leave.Clubs tend to be very proactive at protecting women from unwanted advances.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We don't have a stalker, but something we think could happen..

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

Had a text stalker a few weeks back, that I picked up from another site.

I only asked for a different pic, as his one on the site wasnt clear!! Big mistake!!!! I did ignore him, but he didnt give in, so told him not to text me again, he didnt get the hint. So I ignored all the texts, after a week or so he did give up!

One morning I woke to about 10 texts from him!!! But there was never much to them, maybe a "X" or 2 or sometimes a few words!!! Guess he was lonely or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a stalker.

Everywhere I go, she's always there, 10 paces ahead of me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't have a stalker as such, just someone who wasn't really taking no for an answer- luckily, my best friend knows I'm on here, so I told her, she told her hubby- who's a copper- and he called the guy from my phone and warned him off. He did however say that I shouldn't ever not report it to my local station- they may have a private giggle about the site, but will always take your concerns seriously

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I had the guy from a couple hassle me on and off for about a year, after we had met them at a friends party.

He kept texting, ringing, sending emails and bombarding me with private messages when in the chat room.

It wasn't nice but all you can do is ignore, block / report and hope they eventually get fed up.

Should point out it wasn't on this site.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

perish the thought folks would keep a tab on other peoples verifications...

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Yes unfortunately i have had one.

Mine turned up on the doorstep quoting my car reg to me from a mobile phone

Hes still on the site now and as nothing was written via fab i felt there was nothing i could do.

Mercedesx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever had a stalker from on here or from a club, what did you do?"

depends how you would describe a stalker.

if you are in a small swingers club and someone just happens to be in the same part of the club as you, trying to do exactly what you are doing, ie meet other swingers, then i would not call him/her a stalker, just maybe someone who is interested in joining you but maybe a little shy. on the other hand if they are lurking about in your garden or have their nose pressed against your bedroom window every night then maybe you or they have a problem.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"on the other hand if they are lurking about in your garden or have their nose pressed against your bedroom window every night then maybe you or they have a problem."

He told me he was checking the window frames for rot!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ever had a stalker from on here or from a club, what did you do?

depends how you would describe a stalker.

if you are in a small swingers club and someone just happens to be in the same part of the club as you, trying to do exactly what you are doing, ie meet other swingers, then i would not call him/her a stalker, just maybe someone who is interested in joining you but maybe a little shy. on the other hand if they are lurking about in your garden or have their nose pressed against your bedroom window every night then maybe you or they have a problem."

So IF you had a Stalker - what did/would you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever had a stalker from on here or from a club, what did you do?

depends how you would describe a stalker.

if you are in a small swingers club and someone just happens to be in the same part of the club as you, trying to do exactly what you are doing, ie meet other swingers, then i would not call him/her a stalker, just maybe someone who is interested in joining you but maybe a little shy. on the other hand if they are lurking about in your garden or have their nose pressed against your bedroom window every night then maybe you or they have a problem.

So IF you had a Stalker - what did/would you do?

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how are you defining a stalker?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think most who had experience - To whom the question was aimed - know that there are too many variables that might define Stalker behaviour. Those that have had themm, have offered the senario - each different. But the unique factor is - they knew they had a stalker.

So not defining stalker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a persuer who harrassed me for about two months a few years back, luckily it fizzled out after a while. She used to turn up at my work, so had to inform my boss which was quite embarassing........

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By *rumalexMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

an ex of mine had a stalker while we were still together, it took extreme measures to stop him in the end

its not a nice experience being stalked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most who had experience - To whom the question was aimed - know that there are too many variables that might define Stalker behaviour. Those that have had themm, have offered the senario - each different. But the unique factor is - they knew they had a stalker.

So not defining stalker."

I suppose if they were hot they'd be an admirer

not so hot? a stalker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most who had experience - To whom the question was aimed - know that there are too many variables that might define Stalker behaviour. Those that have had themm, have offered the senario - each different. But the unique factor is - they knew they had a stalker.

So not defining stalker."

My point is that until you define a stalker then we could all be talking about completely different things.

In the past we(myself and a partner) have been followed around (stalked??) a club by other couples and several singles. everywhere we went they went soon afterwards.. it was quite comical and we played it down... feeling quite flattered.

now completely differently, we(me and the same woman) were followed/texted/phoned called on (stalked) by her ex husband. This was extremely unnerving and quite worrying for her. we ended up having to seek the help of the boys in blue

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just asked for your experiences, not definitions....think that was made reasonably clear - lets not split hairs Les.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few points on my stalking prowess:

a) dont have a car so its hard for me to keep track of ya

b)Im on payasugo mobile, so I cant really txt n call much

c)I'm a slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just asked for your experiences, not definitions....think that was made reasonably clear - lets not split hairs Les."

im not trying to split hairs... the thing is one of your earlier respondees mentioned being "stalked" in a club by someone who seemed to be going everywhere she and her companions were. some might think he was a stalker, some might not. My thoughts are that the club incident was not sinister so not stalking. another used a different scenario which I would definitely say was sinister and therefore stalking

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds


"I think most who had experience - To whom the question was aimed - know that there are too many variables that might define Stalker behaviour. Those that have had themm, have offered the senario - each different. But the unique factor is - they knew they had a stalker.

So not defining stalker."

If you would like one at tease i can stalk ya lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

More than welcome Janet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"perish the thought folks would keep a tab on other peoples verifications..."

lmaooooooo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think most who had experience - To whom the question was aimed - know that there are too many variables that might define Stalker behaviour. Those that have had themm, have offered the senario - each different. But the unique factor is - they knew they had a stalker.

So not defining stalker.

My point is that until you define a stalker then we could all be talking about completely different things.

In the past we(myself and a partner) have been followed around (stalked??) a club by other couples and several singles. everywhere we went they went soon afterwards.. it was quite comical and we played it down... feeling quite flattered.

now completely differently, we(me and the same woman) were followed/texted/phoned called on (stalked) by her ex husband. This was extremely unnerving and quite worrying for her. we ended up having to seek the help of the boys in blue

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"Ever had a stalker from on here or from a club, what did you do?"

So you have not had a Stalker from on here, or from a Club..... (see we can all be pedantic)

Or -; you had somebody(ies) who exhibited "Stalkerish" behaviour in a club - which you played down and found flattering. So not tramatic or worrying for yourself. Benefit of Clubs for meets, is without doubt security.

The ex Husband issue - not really to do wth the scene - which is what we were mainly concerned with... However thank you for your most enlightening contributions.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"

I have a stalker.

Everywhere I go, she's always there, 10 paces ahead of me..."

That's not a stalker....she's your boss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had a guy turn up at the door,(met and played with previously)totally un announced, texting me from the front door,i wouldnt open.hubby was out,very scary!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most who had experience - To whom the question was aimed - know that there are too many variables that might define Stalker behaviour. Those that have had themm, have offered the senario - each different. But the unique factor is - they knew they had a stalker.

So not defining stalker.

My point is that until you define a stalker then we could all be talking about completely different things.

In the past we(myself and a partner) have been followed around (stalked??) a club by other couples and several singles. everywhere we went they went soon afterwards.. it was quite comical and we played it down... feeling quite flattered.

now completely differently, we(me and the same woman) were followed/texted/phoned called on (stalked) by her ex husband. This was extremely unnerving and quite worrying for her. we ended up having to seek the help of the boys in blue

"Ever had a stalker from on here or from a club, what did you do?"

So you have not had a Stalker from on here, or from a Club..... (see we can all be pedantic)

Or -; you had somebody(ies) who exhibited "Stalkerish" behaviour in a club - which you played down and found flattering. So not tramatic or worrying for yourself. Benefit of Clubs for meets, is without doubt security.

The ex Husband issue - not really to do wth the scene - which is what we were mainly concerned with... However thank you for your most enlightening contributions."

you are most welcome. always willing to help the afflicted

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

The pair of you that have been nit picking at each other all afternoon need to take it to pm or just ignore each other on the forums

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

Thursday ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Noo, not thursday. We have not yet had a stalker (feeling left out )...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Noo, not thursday. We have not yet had a stalker (feeling left out )...

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Going to try and get to Tease in November so let me know when you're there and I'll jump out from behind a pillar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

now that i would call stalking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i have had one ...... he would see my swing-dates and look in the pubs ner where we keep the boat for me to meet people then send letter saying how i was dressed and how he was wanking over it in the loo , Not from this site other one i was on .

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By *rs WhiteCouple
over a year ago

South

We used to go out dogging, and quite enjoyed it, but the twats who try and follow you home after really put us off and so we dont do it any more.

The real honest guys should have a word with these guys, as they ruin it for all,

why cant they just enjoy the moment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had 2. One was the husband of a couple i was friends with everytime i went shopping or did something he was there. It got very scary especialy when he told me he was going to leave his wife for me!. The only way i stopped him was to tell a friend that was a policeman to speak to him . The other was a few weeks ago in a club... single bloke wouldnt stop following us and had to grab a bouncer

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