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Just when you thought you had it sussed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just when you think you have this place all figured out.. This place chews you up and spits you back out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yup doesnt it just

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By *ustthe2ofusXXXCouple
over a year ago

coventry


"Just when you think you have this place all figured out.. This place chews you up and spits you back out! "

What's up OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just when you think you have this place all figured out.. This place chews you up and spits you back out!

What's up OP? "

In the interests of having it sussed.. I'm not going into too much detail.

I've got it sussed enough to get chatting to most people.. I've met a few, but my own standards hold me back a fair bit, both on here and online dating.

I've got an enormous drive to have sex.. but finding the right women for sex or relationships - seems nigh on impossible!

It's not even as if my standards are impeccable.. about average I'd say...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats my problem to a tee - finding someone who meets all my needs is impossible.

It gets soul destroying at times

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Thats my problem to a tee - finding someone who meets all my needs is impossible.

It gets soul destroying at times"

Are you looking for a relationship though or here for NSA?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thats my problem to a tee - finding someone who meets all my needs is impossible.

It gets soul destroying at times

Are you looking for a relationship though or here for NSA?"

Either for me.. I'd prefer a relationship.. but nsa will do till I find someone I can't bare not being with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never compromise, all will come to those who wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats my problem to a tee - finding someone who meets all my needs is impossible.

It gets soul destroying at times

Are you looking for a relationship though or here for NSA?

Either for me.. I'd prefer a relationship.. but nsa will do till I find someone I can't bare not being with"

I know where you're coming from.

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Thats my problem to a tee - finding someone who meets all my needs is impossible.

It gets soul destroying at times

Are you looking for a relationship though or here for NSA?

Either for me.. I'd prefer a relationship.. but nsa will do till I find someone I can't bare not being with

I know where you're coming from."

Me too - and to compound the matter every now and then someone comes along and they're great. Except all they want are ones offs....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats my problem to a tee - finding someone who meets all my needs is impossible.

It gets soul destroying at times

Are you looking for a relationship though or here for NSA?

Either for me.. I'd prefer a relationship.. but nsa will do till I find someone I can't bare not being with

I know where you're coming from.

Me too - and to compound the matter every now and then someone comes along and they're great. Except all they want are ones offs.... "

Move southwards

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Thats my problem to a tee - finding someone who meets all my needs is impossible.

It gets soul destroying at times

Are you looking for a relationship though or here for NSA?

Either for me.. I'd prefer a relationship.. but nsa will do till I find someone I can't bare not being with

I know where you're coming from.

Me too - and to compound the matter every now and then someone comes along and they're great. Except all they want are ones offs....

Move southwards "

I spent 10 years in the south - you should come north x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm still kind of hung up on someone else non-fab.. but I need to bump into someone else special to help me move along a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that OP, I approach Fab with a view to bring an escape from everyday life, a little 'bonus' so try not to take it too seriously or let it affect me too adversely. I makes those little bumps and rejections easier to bear if you are able to think 'ah well, I'm no worse off than I was before!'

I know that's easier to say than do in practice but it makes the Fab experience so much better if you can not take things too much to heart on here!

Good luck fella and I hope things look up again soon!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Oh yes I know that feeling well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry to hear that OP, I approach Fab with a view to bring an escape from everyday life, a little 'bonus' so try not to take it too seriously or let it affect me too adversely. I makes those little bumps and rejections easier to bear if you are able to think 'ah well, I'm no worse off than I was before!'

I know that's easier to say than do in practice but it makes the Fab experience so much better if you can not take things too much to heart on here!

Good luck fella and I hope things look up again soon! "

Thanks for the advice, no need to worry about me though

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby


"Just when you think you have this place all figured out.. This place chews you up and spits you back out!

What's up OP?

In the interests of having it sussed.. I'm not going into too much detail.

I've got it sussed enough to get chatting to most people.. I've met a few, but my own standards hold me back a fair bit, both on here and online dating.

I've got an enormous drive to have sex.. but finding the right women for sex or relationships - seems nigh on impossible!

It's not even as if my standards are impeccable.. about average I'd say... "

Patience is a virtue. I have been accused of being fussy, but if I'm going to spend my valuable time with someone I want it to be both pleasurable and satisfying. I have found some can talk the talk but when you meet them it's not as expected which can be quite disheartening, which is why I like to chat first to see if we're on a similar wavelength.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to hear that OP, I approach Fab with a view to bring an escape from everyday life, a little 'bonus' so try not to take it too seriously or let it affect me too adversely. I makes those little bumps and rejections easier to bear if you are able to think 'ah well, I'm no worse off than I was before!'

I know that's easier to say than do in practice but it makes the Fab experience so much better if you can not take things too much to heart on here!

Good luck fella and I hope things look up again soon! "

Well said

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"Just when you think you have this place all figured out.. This place chews you up and spits you back out! "

Is it not the place rather than some of the people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats my problem to a tee - finding someone who meets all my needs is impossible.

It gets soul destroying at times

Are you looking for a relationship though or here for NSA?

Either for me.. I'd prefer a relationship.. but nsa will do till I find someone I can't bare not being with

I know where you're coming from.

Me too - and to compound the matter every now and then someone comes along and they're great. Except all they want are ones offs.... "

And thats sore. Been there done that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think I have ever had it sussed...

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